I'm dying to talk to my girlfriend but her mother has taken her phone away!
Q. its been like a week since i talked to my girlfriend and i'm already dieing to talk to her, her mother took away her phone from her and "i have no idea when she would get it back or if she would get it back" so what should i do ??...
A. 27 July 2009: What did your gf do that was so bad?... (read in full...)
How can I convince him that I'm telling the truth?
Q. I have been talking to this guy on and off for 6 months now. Recently, he called me from another number, and when I asked who it was, he told me to guess. Not realizing it was him, I called him by someone elses name and now he won't drop it. He ...
A. 27 July 2009: I agree with the first poster. He needs to trust you, and if he can't do that, and would rather argue with you and treat you this way, let him go. Let the jerk be right. ... (read in full...)
I lost feelings for him after he kissed someone else... help?!
Q. hiya, ok well i've just left high school this summer but about a month before i left i went to my best mates birthday party and met this really cute lad called *tom* whos in my year but i'd never talked to him before, anyway we got on really well ...
A. 27 July 2009: The fact that he said it was a mistake means that he did it, not her. I think you should let him go, since he also wasn't honest with you. I think that Ben is interested in you and has his own motives in mind, but yeah, I think that you should let ... (read in full...)
I'm dying to talk to my girlfriend but her mother has taken her phone away!
Q. its been like a week since i talked to my girlfriend and i'm already dieing to talk to her, her mother took away her phone from her and "i have no idea when she would get it back or if she would get it back" so what should i do ??...
A. 27 July 2009: Do you have your own computer? Get a mic, and connect it to the computer, and talk to her on yahoo im, or some other im. ... (read in full...)
Heartbroken, confused and needs help!
Q. My girl of 2 and a half years broke up with me for another guy who's closer to home and more affectionate. She was 18 just turned 19 and he's 24. Still I love and miss her and i dont know why. Its been 2 months and she told a mutual friend that she...
A. 27 July 2009: Maybe she realizes that she made a mistake and she wants you to prove to her that she did. She wants you to prove to her that her family is wrong and that you love her.
I think that because she made the mistake she needs to mend things, though. ... (read in full...)
Can urine pregnant tests be wrong?
Q. im currently doing my grade 12 this year and i have a problem which is unabling me to study, i had a one night stand 3 months ago .after that i been getting my periods which only lasts for two or a day im now having this stomach cramps after ...
A. 27 July 2009: Urine pregnancy tests can be wrong. If you drink too much water before taking the test, it can become diluted. As far as blood tests go, that would have had to be a mistake on the hospital's part.
Go to the doctor as you might have an infectio... (read in full...)
She knew she had genital warts and didn't tell me. Forgive her? Or boot her?
Q. I am in an hard spot, i have been with my girlfriend for 10 months and we are in love. We have sex on a daily basis, usually once or twice a day. For the most part i pull out instead of wearing a condom so its unproteted. We agree it feels better so ...
A. 27 July 2009: I agree with Satindesire. Always ask for their papers before sleeping with them. Some people automatically get tested a lot because they are either in the army or employed in the medical community. I think that it is okay to get mad on this one,... (read in full...)
Why do I bleed heavily during sex?
Q. I am a 39 year old female. I love sex, but sometimes I start to bleed heavily during sex, Why does this happen. It is so embarrassing and I need to know if there is something I can do to stop it from happening? Any advise is appreciated. ...
A. 27 July 2009: Go to a doctor. Don't sit and wonder what it could be or fall into the trap of going online and looking up information and advice and then wondering what it could be. This could be serious. You need to go to a doctor. If you don't like gynological ... (read in full...)
He's going to try again with his ex, but still wants to talk to me! Should I wait?
Q. I was seeing this man for 7 months who is divorced and younger than me..His ex has decided she wants to try to work things out..he has decided to go back to try. How can he say he loves me and want to try to work it out with her..Our age is 20 years ...
A. 27 July 2009: In short, find someone else. Stop talking to him. ... (read in full...)
I really feel that it is love! But the age difference....
Q. Basically, i really love this guy, he tells me he likes me to, sometime i feel like hes leading me on, but hes afraid to let his feelings out because of the age gap between us, im 15 and hes 21, our birthdays are on the same month, mines before his, ...
A. 27 July 2009: Listen I had a friend who dated someone who was in high school and he was in college. They have been together now for some years. Tell him how you feel. It's not against the law for you to admit your feelings, is it? Maybe yall could have a signal ... (read in full...)
He's too thoughtful and considerate to his family! But it's not mutual!
Q. i don't know where to start... I am married with kids. my husband is like a little puppet or puppy whenever things concern his family. he loves them too much he is too thoughtful and considerate when it comes to them. the thing is it is not ...
A. 27 July 2009: Stay out of it. If you say bad things about them, you might hurt him. Maybe you think you understand the situation fully, but you really don't. And even if you do, it's up to him to realize what is going on. ... (read in full...)
He has left me, but still wants to control what I do!
Q. Dear Agony Aunt, I am having relationship difficulties with my boyfriend at the moment. I felt as though I wanted to be more committed to him and spoke about moving in together. This immediately caused arguments as my boyfriend does not want to...
A. 27 July 2009: I agree with Satin. Ignore this guy. If he wanted you back he would've said so to begin with. ... (read in full...)
We both said we liked each other, now it's like he stopped the coach and threw me off!
Q. I have had this friend for say over a year now and we used to talk often i always had a soft spot for him because he was sweet and caring although i never met him in RL. but this last month we have been talking more often i mean like sometimes we ...
A. 27 July 2009: Let him go. Thank your lucky stars that he was honest with you and didn't pretend anymore, if he had been pretending before. Sorry this happened to you. ... (read in full...)
I don't know who to choose, I like them both very much!
Q. Okay so there's two guys who like me and I like them both very much. Guy #1 I started seeing a month beforehand and we started hooking up. It's not clear it he wants to be boyfriend girlfriend with me because he introduces me as a friend to his ...
A. 27 July 2009: Guy #2. Sounds like Guy #1 may be trying to play you. ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend told me he fantasizes about other girls all the time!
Q. my bf told me he thinks about having sex with other girls all them time. He said he would never go with them or leave me. He said he loves me very much and wants to be with me forever. He said he sees girls everywhere and thinks about having sex ...
A. 27 July 2009: I don't think that it was normal for him to tell you these things. ... (read in full...)
Does he like me? Where do I go from here?
Q. We don't really talk a ton, but he tags along with my friends and I sometimes If I ask for a hug, he will give me one (I like hugs) At a dance, he just refused to dance so I grabbed his hands and started dancing around. He started dancing as we...
A. 27 July 2009: Ask him if he likes you, if he doesn't you still have a really good friend.... (read in full...)
What does he mean by saying "you know you owe me"? I'm freaked out!
Q. Me and this guy had a huge crush on each other. He is very popular and handsome. All the women wants him and he has slept around so many times. We met at work. Anyway, things didn't work out especially since I found out he is married. We didn't ...
A. 27 July 2009: Record your conversations and go to the police.... (read in full...)
I don't know which guy to be with!
Q. ok well let me see here,....im 19 with 2 kids. they both have different fathers and im not with either of them im with my boyfreind of 11 months now..but it doesnt seem the same anymore it really seems different to me since i came back from visiting ...
A. 27 July 2009: There is a reason that you are no longer with this man. Think about it. Even if the feelings aren't there for your bf, they might come there soon. ... (read in full...)
I found my 40 year old husband in bed with a blonde 20 year old!
Q. What would you do if you found your husband who's 40 in bed with a girl between the ages of 18-21? The girl being young, blonde everything he would like, he gets paid about 4K a month and his credit card bill was higher than usual so i dont kno...
A. 27 July 2009: Divorce him. ... (read in full...)
Met up with ex-fiance again how do I tell her of my feelings?
Q. My ex and i broke up about a year ago and didnt speak to eachother. Recently she contacted me on Facebook and said she was sorry about the way things were left. I still have feelings for her so i accepted her apology. She then asked me for my number ...
A. 27 July 2009: Tell her what you are feeling. If she doesn't feel the same way, then just be her friend if she will let you and stay friends.... (read in full...)
What do you think this dream means?
Q. What does it mean when someone tells you in a dream they love you?...
A. 27 July 2009: Maybe it means you love them, but don't know it or you do know it. ... (read in full...)
She wants to carry on living as "friends" but act as a couple in all but name!
Q. My relationship with my ex was not without problems, mainly caused by her having OCD and depression while I was struggling with the pressure of having to fight my ex-wife to get to see my kids. It wasn't working out and we decided to split. Howeve...
A. 27 July 2009: In short, you deserve the title of her man! You deserve the name of couple.... (read in full...)
She wants to carry on living as "friends" but act as a couple in all but name!
Q. My relationship with my ex was not without problems, mainly caused by her having OCD and depression while I was struggling with the pressure of having to fight my ex-wife to get to see my kids. It wasn't working out and we decided to split. Howeve...
A. 27 July 2009: She wants emotional support from you, but she is not giving you emotional support it sounds like. This sounds like a codependent relationship to me. I'm sure she can cope without you, she just doesn't want to face it. She basically betray... (read in full...)
Is he my boyfriend?
Q. so i was at a party and i was talking to this one guy who i have a mutual friend with and we have hung out together a couple of times but never alone. so he texted me while i was there and said we should hang out with out all these people around and ...
A. 27 July 2009: Get him out of your house, that is what you should do! Who told him he could bring all of his sh*t to your house anyways? Show him the door!... (read in full...)
Husband wants to stay in the family home while continuing his affair
Q. Hi there I would really appreciate people's perspective on my situation. I'm dealing with a lot of emotional pain having learnt that my husband of nearly 21 years has been seeing another woman. Admittedly our marriage was a struggle wi...
A. 27 July 2009: I agree with satin. Seems like he wants both of you. He needs to make up his mind. The only problem with her suggest though, was that he might fake choosing you to stay where he is at now. Be watchful of potential games. ... (read in full...)
What do you use for your allergies?
Q. Not a relationship question, but just wondering something out of curiosity. Does anyone here have allergies? and if so, what do you use for them? Mine have seemed to be getting stronger lately, and because of this I can't get sleep! I take some ...
A. 25 July 2009: Thanks. ... (read in full...)
What do you use for your allergies?
Q. Not a relationship question, but just wondering something out of curiosity. Does anyone here have allergies? and if so, what do you use for them? Mine have seemed to be getting stronger lately, and because of this I can't get sleep! I take some ...
A. 21 July 2009: Thanks. Do you need a prescription for it, or is it OTC?... (read in full...)
Am I wrong? Is he? Is my relationship over??
Q. Last night I came home to my man and told him that I was considering taking a pole dancing fitness class with a workmate who asked me to join her. It has always looked like a bit of cheeky fun and I really wanted to do it. He didn't like the idea, ...
A. 21 July 2009: You are better off without this jerk. If he does come crawling back (as someone else said he might) tell him, "No I deserve much better. I deserve to be treated as an adult and an equal." Then walk away, and ignore anything else he has to say. ... (read in full...)
He's planned to get his wisdom teeth out just before our holiday
Q. It seems like my boyfriend of three years just doesn't care when things are planned out. He and I are planning to take a romantic weekend trip to a nearby city. Today he went to the dentist to make an appointment to have his wisdom teeth taken out. ...
A. 21 July 2009: I think he cares when things are planned out, but he likes making his own decisions. He has a right to plan things when he wants to plan them, but his choice of the day to do it does make me wonder as well. Why would he deliberately schedule that ... (read in full...)
Would it be proper to ask a guy to hang out at your house on a first get together?
Q. i am thinking of asking the guy i like out and i think he will say yes as i know he likes me as well. i was thinking that we could hang out at my house as i know neither of us has a lot of money. is this okay to do for a first date or would it be ...
A. 21 July 2009: Sounds fine to me. ... (read in full...)
Why won't he let this girl go and be with me?
Q. I am 20 years old and just recently, four months ago met a guy at school who is 30 years old. I have never been able to cope with guys my own age cause of maturity. but anyway I met the guy in college and I guess I talked first kinda flirting asking ...
A. 21 July 2009: Let him go. I'm Christian, so I don't really believe in Indian concepts such as "karma," but think about it. Would you like it if the same thing happened to you? If someone started going out with your man? ... (read in full...)
I've changed since me and my ex broke up, and now I want her back!
Q. I was in a relationship for almost 2 years with this girl.. We broke up because of my jealousy issues. About 2 months after breaking up i met this other girl and now we're dating. She is awesome but a HUGE flirt. She flirts with other guys left and ...
A. 21 July 2009: First find out if she's going out with anyone. If she is, she is off limits. ... (read in full...)
Do I have OCD? What to do?
Q. Hi, so i have a comfort issue. For the last 5 years ive been obsessively wearing coats. No matter how hot it gets. When im not wearing one I panic and feel naked and ugly and exposed. My parents wont leave me alone about it. We r going to Cali soon ...
A. 21 July 2009: My mom always accuses me of that. "You hate me, and I don't know why." I'm not saying you do hate her, but I'd hate someone if they forced me to do something that was painful for me, and they didn't try to understand all that I was going through. ... (read in full...)
THe only reason I got with her is because I thought she was easy
Q. My girlfriend has kind of a sluty past, and I know shes a freak. Infact the only reason i got with her was becuz i heard she was easy, which she was extremely and also REALLY REALY FREAKY, but then while we were sitting in bed she told me a bunch of ...
A. 19 July 2009: "She told me a bunch of bad stuff that happened to her and I didn't have the heart to end it." Do you want to be with her because you love her, or because you feel sorry for her? I kind of sensed that she had a bad past, as in bad things happened ... (read in full...)
I called my Girlfriend a slut and a whore and she won't forgive me
Q. Ok, so I get a call form this guy I used to go to school with, claiming that he had sex with her about 2 months ago. So I called her a whore, slut, just about every mean thing u can fit in a 5 minute conversation, while she just kinda took it, then ...
A. 19 July 2009: Exactly, and if you don't trust her, why are you even with her? ... (read in full...)
Should we just have sex to get it over with?
Q. Should we just have sex to get it over? I am married and he is in a relationship. We are long for each other for almost a year now. He is going crazy because I try to avoid him and I am suffer from trying to do the right thing....
A. 19 July 2009: No. You should not do it to "get it over with." If you want to do the right thing so bad, do it to the fullest and avoid him altogether. ... (read in full...)
B/f of 5 years stopped sleeping in bed with me
Q. my boy freind of 5 years stoped sleeping in bed with me he is always makeing excuses of why he wont then i tell him stop making excuses and am told the he just dosnt want to he wont tell me why and i cant sleep with out him it realy hurts i know im ...
A. 19 July 2009: Let him go. It's up to him to be honest with you. And at this time he seems like he can't. ... (read in full...)
I've given up so much for him but he lies to me!
Q. hi guys. i thought this would be a good way to get things of my chest seeing as i dont really tell people my problems. im 16 and im going out with a boy whos 21. i know you are probaly all thinking about the age differrence. i dont know what you...
A. 19 July 2009: Let him go. Rebuild the bridges with your family and friends, if possible. Or make new friends and do what we did on campus, create a "pretend family." I am sure that your regular family and friends will be happy to have you back though, hopefully. ... (read in full...)
We've been arguing non stop and I don't know what to do!
Q. Hi everyone! I've been with my fiance for 6 1/2 years and we have a 4 1/2 month old baby. As of late we've been arguing non stop and I just don't know what to do anymore. We are both stressed since we barely get enough sleep. Any little thing will ...
A. 19 July 2009: I think that you both need a break or a vacation.... (read in full...)
Should I keep having phone sex with him?
Q. Hey its mi again well I got another problem my“friend” says he will wait but we had to keep haveing phone sex...... idk if we should cause im kinda getting boerd.... so I told him meybe.....wat do u guys think should I at least keep haveing phone ...
A. 19 July 2009: Say no.... (read in full...)
Do I ride out this break and hope my boyfriend will stop being so smothering?
Q. I've been with my boyfriend 6 months. I do really care for him, yet we've had problems in the relationship because he's too smothering. I'm very independant and don't want to be "mothered" by a boyfriend, which is what he tries to do. We've had...
A. 19 July 2009: Ride out this break, but if the behavior gets accessive again, let him go. Time to move on. ... (read in full...)
He was interested when I was with someone, now we're together and it feels like he's gone cold
Q. when j and i first got to know each other, i was still with my ex. then, i was having problems with my ex, so i kind of confided in j and talked to him about my unhappiness. j was furious when he learned how badly my ex treated me and tried to get m...
A. 19 July 2009: Some men can be this way sometimes. He already has you, so now he is no longer working so hard to get you. Maybe you could act like you are going after him now, by doing little, selfless things for him. I am sure that he will appreciate your ... (read in full...)
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