Doesn't my boyfriend care that I don't have an orgasm?
Q. I've never had orgasm during intercourse, but previous boyfriends were always bothered, and tried harder to make me come, but my current boyfriend seems doesn't really care. We've been together for a month, and we've never really talked about sex ...
A. 17 September 2008: It means he's selfish. And yes, he cares more about himself than he does about you.
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I've told myself over and over again it's over, time to move on, but obviously nothing seems to work! Please help.
Q. Hiya, I'm in need of a tad bit of advice. I'm fourteen, freshmen in high school, and I just cannot get over my ex. We dated from March of 2006 to October of 2007, a little over a year and a half. I was the one who broke up with him in October ...
A. 17 September 2008: If you don't want to date him again, what do you want?... (read in full...)
I don't want to go out with him anymore, but I'm afraid he'll do something bad to himslef.
Q. I dont know what to do about my boyfriend. He is 14 and smokes about 15 cigarettes a day. His dad is an alcholic and beats him reguarly. Every time I see him he has more bruises. He has also tried to commit suicide by taking overdoses. But him an...
A. 17 September 2008: You are not his caretaker. You are his gf. If you are scared about him getting aggressive, break-up over the phone. I know, pretty shoddy thing to do, but why risk getting hurt? He will be fine, but you could call him sometimes to make sure that he ... (read in full...)
I'm stuck! I'm in love with two guys and I don't know what to do. Please help.
Q. Ok. i have been with my bf for 3 yrs and we have a one yr old daughter together. at the beginning things were great but the last yr and half hasnt been good. we argue, we have little scraps and we just dont seem to be how we were. the romance has ...
A. 17 September 2008: If you want to make this relationship work, get counseling. If counseling doesn't work, go.
I kind of know how you feel. There is that one person that you always seem to love.... (read in full...)
My ex is confusing me, is she with my friend just to bother me?
Q. The problem i have is my gf left me practically 3 years ago, she has dated other guys, but i still feel that heavy look on my back when she is around, the one where you feel someone is watching you. This isnt just lately, but even when she was in h...
A. 17 September 2008: Just ignore her. She sounds snobby. You can do so much better.... (read in full...)
I used to really love him and feel attracted to him, but now I feel that all I want to concentrate on is to study and get good grades -Why
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for about 5 months now. I’ve always had minor doubts about the relationship, thinking in general that it could only last till I go off to university, and I’ve heard much advice that long distance doesn’t work. Plus my ...
A. 17 September 2008: Remember the story about the grasshopper and the ants? The ants kept storing and storing food for winter, and the grasshoppers just played and played around? Then winter came and the ants had all that they needed, while the grasshoppers starved?
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I just don't know if I could be happy forever without ever experiencing being alone.
Q. I'm in college right now, and in a long distance relationship. ive pretty much been in a relationship since i was very young (different long term relationships, one after another) my boyfriend just finished school and is getting really serious about ...
A. 17 September 2008: Please talk to him about it, and don't play games. If he gives you some alone time, don't call him up, oh baby i miss you so much, blah blah balh. Take the time, and use it to decide what you want. ... (read in full...)
I'm having his baby but my ex doesn't care and insults me after hearing lies about me, he also said I have an STD (untrue) and that our baby isn't his! What do I do?
Q. hi i just just lookin for some advice as im really lost right now ,my ex and i broke up after a big argument wer he punched the wall and broke his hand i never heard frm him again he changed his number! then a few weeks ago i found out i was ...
A. 17 September 2008: First of all, stop talking to the asshole.
Second of all, get support from family, friends, and prenatal support groups.
And since he likes playing games so much, call his ass, and tell him that you're going to abort the baby (even though you... (read in full...)
Are all Turkish men this jealous? He said he's the only guy I should look at. Should I talk to him?
Q. I have been in a long distance relationship for around 2 months now with a turkish guy 4 years older. I really like him, but when we talk on the phone and he knows i have been out, he asks if i went out with boys. and when he says love you at the ...
A. 17 September 2008: Why see what he feels. You already know what he feels. I agree with Emilyanswers. ... (read in full...)
I am afraid I will marry this guy and divorce to be with a woman!
Q. so, i am in a relationship with a man. and i always knew i was attracted to girls, but the more serious our relationship gets the more i really feel the lesbian inside of me coming out....Im afraid i am going to marry this guy just to divorce him ...
A. 17 September 2008: Be true to thine ownself.... (read in full...)
Should I apologise for yelling to get his attention? Should he have apologised for the huge bruise on my leg? Should I find better ways to deal with him when he is moody?
Q. Last weekend I went to a club and met my boyfriend there. He went out with his guy friends first and I went out with my girlfriends first. When I walked in he was super sweet and flirty and we were all having a great time. We were sitting at a booth ...
A. 17 September 2008: Oh HIS feelings are important, but YOURS aren't. Find a grown man, sweetheart.... (read in full...)
We can sleep with other people although we are married... to each other! What does this mean? Are we over?
Q. why would my husband be okay with me sleeping with other men? We have talked about an open marriage, but i can not wrap my head around this one? i am not emotionally stable to say the least. Why would i be okay with him having sex with others ...
A. 17 September 2008: Some people just get tired of having sex with the same person all the time. It's not that the sex is bad, they just like to try new things.
If this isn't for you though, it's time to find someone else.... (read in full...)
How important is beauty/cuteness? What do you think about love at first sight? The girl I like fancies another boy because of his appearance!
Q. What do you think about love at first sight? Is it just like to be in love with somebody we think it's pretty, just because of the appearance? I'd like to believe so... I like a girl who likes another boy, just because she thinks he's cute... I ...
A. 17 September 2008: Take heart. He might not be "pretty" forever, but you will always be you. My husband isn't a pretty boy, and I still think that some guys look cute, but I would never cheat on him.
Tell her that you like her. If she starts acting quiet around y... (read in full...)
What can we do about our friend who is harming herself? Should we tell?
Q. Hi, my ex - best friend has been cutting herself for about a year now, and me and my other friends don't know what to do. I've been reading stuff about telling, but were too afraid. So, please tell me anything i can do to get her the help she need...
A. 17 September 2008: If she's your ex-bf anyways, you should tell. I would suggest talking to her about why she cuts, but I assume that you don't talk to people who aren't your friends ne more. ... (read in full...)
I'm worried about my girlfriend's health, she's just not eating properly. Please help.
Q. I have been in a relationship with a girl i met at university for 8 months now. I feel that she does not look after herself properly and is very lazy in her approach to life. Eg. she wont eat three meals a day and wont cook for herself. Instead she ...
A. 17 September 2008: Smokers are able to eat less than non-smokers. Heck, their cigarrette can be a meal to them! My husband's ex-best friend ate one big meal a day usually. He was so skinny! Maybe she's just concerned about her grades more. Think about this, when one ... (read in full...)
I'm 20, and I only feel happiest when I'm in a relationship. When I'm not a big part of me is missing. Is this normal?
Q. Hi, I'm 20, and I only feel happiest when I'm in a relationship. It seems like every time I come out of a relationship for whatever reason, I feel like something's missing in my life. I have only been in three relationships, and only one of thos...
A. 17 September 2008: No, it's not a good way to feel. I would suggest getting a hobby, maybe building models or something, something that makes you feel proud in yourself, something that you are good at, because when you do get into a relationship you don't want it to ... (read in full...)
Is it true you can get pregnant if a guy gets too close to you?
Q. I've missed my period, but i've missed it before i don't know why, but i wasnt pregnant cause i didnt have sex. But now im worried because i've heard that u can get pregnant if a guys gets close 2 u, if he touches u, and thats what happened, and now ...
A. 17 September 2008: Do you live with very religious parents? You know this reminds me of the time, this woman I knew who was close to my age, but a year younger, believed that you can get pregnant from giving head to a guy. Needless to say her dad was a preacher, and ... (read in full...)
I know this can escalate to something else...something terrible, but I like it, I mean I really like it. What would you do in this predicament?
Q. I met this guy and now I'm staying with him. He's a bit older than me and he's very nice. I've known him for a year or two now, we only knew each other for about two weeks before I moved in with him. I thought he was the nicest guy. He showered me ...
A. 17 September 2008: It already escalated into something terrible. I would leave. ... (read in full...)
She has a boyfriend but says she would rather be with me. Why doesn't she break up with him and should I wait?
Q. I have known this girl for about 5 years. and we are really good friends. She has had boyfriends on and off in the time that i've known her but i've never thought to ask her out. I have been spending alot of time with her lately and we've been ...
A. 17 September 2008: In fact, I gotta better idea. Decide how long you want to wait, and give her an ultimatum. For example, if you are going to wait a month tell her, well I am going to wait a month for you, but then I am moving on, k?
If she starts spewing stuff li... (read in full...)
I hurt my soulmate because of talking to my ex. How do I get him to trust me again?
Q. I'm having a problem with my boyfriend whom i really love and at one time we felt like soul mates we would finish each others sentences, he made my heart skip a beat every time he called me or came around my heart would race. but like a dickhead i ...
A. 12 September 2008: Now you've got problems. Things were equal and now they are not cos you've got someone on the higher field who didn't do ne thing, and someone on the lower who did something, and is continually trying to make things right and make it up to him. You ... (read in full...)
I am the other girl and I want him to get caught cheating because I hate his girlfriend! How do I get caught on purpose?
Q. I am the other girl. Slowly i'm realizing that he's a complete jerk and this all might not be worth it. I do enjoy being the other girl because I hate his girlfriend. How can i GET caught on purpose?? I want her to know, I want him to get caught. I ...
A. 12 September 2008: Hahahahaha. Yeah, get caught, so he can get mad at you, leave you, and try so hard to make-up to his gf. Great plan!... (read in full...)
I do enjoy sex! But I can't explain the tears during it?
Q. Hi. Well, here it is. I've been together for with my bf for almost a year, the sex is good and i'm now pretty comfortable with everything we do together and we love each other dearly. Now i wanna know, is it normal to have tears dripping out when ...
A. 12 September 2008: Maybe it's tears of happiness. Idk. You know some people get nose-bleeds during sex, but that is usually a sign of high-blood pressure or something.... (read in full...)
This is really making me sad because he told me that "I don't satisfy him".
Q. I have this problem, my significant other always want blow jobs, or anal sex. I've done both before, but anal hurts me, and i dont like the taste when i give him a blow job. This is really making me sad because he told me that "I dont satisfy him"...
A. 12 September 2008: Guy sounds like an ass. I would leave him. ... (read in full...)
I'm going crazy! I can't help but think that my boyfriend is going to cheat on me!
Q. Okay, so I can't help but think my boyfriend is going to cheat on me! And in all reality, there is absolutly NO reason for me to be feeling that way. He has never done it before, and he always tells me how much he loves me and how I am the best ...
A. 12 September 2008: Checking his phone is not being a "weird possessive gf." It's being smart! Now, let me tell you I have a husband who used to be friends with some guy who seemed to move too fast with women. After two weeks of going out he would want sex. His friend ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend got naked at a pool party and I'm not okay with this. Don't you think she needs to respect my feelings?
Q. Hey there. Here is my problem. My girlfriend of roughly three years went to a birthday pool party at one of her friend's houses. I heard from a friend who also went to the party that later in the evening my girlfriend got quite drunk and ended ...
A. 12 September 2008: It's her body and she has a right to do what she wants with it(not that I believe she should cheat). You do not own her body. But the guys being naked at the same time kind of concerns me.
If she embarrassed you by doing what she did, I don't be... (read in full...)
How do I get the feelings back after my wife had an affair?
Q. My wife confessed to having an affair before we got married. This is 7 years in to our marriage. 20 years after being married she has a couple of affairs. I had no clue. Didn't ask to be told. Over 12 years have past since than and it still effects ...
A. 12 September 2008: First you've got to get past the shock. ... (read in full...)
He had a problem with my past and dumped me! I have lost my first love... help me!
Q. I lost my first love. He dumped me like that. It was an on/off relationship. It would've been perfect hadn't it been because of his problem. He had a problem with my past. He verbally and emotionally abused me. He called me too many names and t...
A. 12 September 2008: I had a similar problem. Dated a guy who later claimed that he wouldn't have wanted me anyways, because I had already "been with" another guy. Actually it wasn't consentual, that other guy raped me, but because some other guy had been inside me, he ... (read in full...)
Am I the bad guy or is she manipulating me?
Q. I am not sure if I am the bad guy or it is just her manipulating me. She has bad past experiences. Knowing that, I always assure her and do things her way. Is it wrong that I fulfill her need before mine? Sometimes, she is nice to me a...
A. 12 September 2008: She is giving you mixed signals. There is this thing called borderline personality disorder that some people experience after years of abuse, where they create this "push pull" effect with people. She pulls you close, but then she pushes you away. ... (read in full...)
I'm pregnant and my husband doesn't want sex with me. I feel so unwanted!
Q. i was wondering if anyone could help me out. i am 3 months pregnant and my husband wont have sex with me. he has never had a problem with it with my other pregnancies. but 8 months ago i had a miscarriage and i dont know if that would be the reason ...
A. 12 September 2008: You have a little person in you. ... (read in full...)
She has a boyfriend but says she would rather be with me. Why doesn't she break up with him and should I wait?
Q. I have known this girl for about 5 years. and we are really good friends. She has had boyfriends on and off in the time that i've known her but i've never thought to ask her out. I have been spending alot of time with her lately and we've been ...
A. 12 September 2008: Both. Wait for a certain time period, then let it go. You decide how long you want to wait. ... (read in full...)
How can I gain her trust again when I haven't done anything wrong?
Q. we broken up a 1 month today and all i have done is think about her, we worked at the same place but i left 3 weeks ago now. i broke up with her thing she was see a friend of hers it seemed she had more time for him than me. i didnt know what i was ...
A. 24 August 2008: Sounds like you were both too jealous and that there were trust issues going on. ... (read in full...)
I feel like I did something wrong, because he is contacting his ex and won't admit it.
Q. My boyfriend won't admit to trying to contact his ex girlfriend. I have been with him for 3 years, and we just got a house together about 2 weeks ago. I found out about a month and a half ago that he has been trying to contact his ex girlfriend. I...
A. 24 August 2008: Talk to his ex, but do so in a non-threatening way. "Hi. How are you doing? Are you still interested in my bf? Is he still interested in you? Because I don't fight over people who lie to me, so if you are both still interested in each other, you can ... (read in full...)
Too much too fast! Anything else we can do instead of having sex?
Q. Hi everyone. I dont no what to do. I'm 18 [virgin and proud!] But my boyfriend who I love keeps giving me sighns that he wants me to have sex and we'v only been going out for 3 mounths! We were bestsfriends for 2 years but we fell in love. I dont ...
A. 22 August 2008: My bf waited for eight months before we did it. He should respect your wishes. ... (read in full...)
Should I stay with my (online) boyfriend or be with my friend who lives by me?
Q. Alright, well I am in a relationship right now with this guy I met online a while ago... There's this one guy who I am friends with, and I just found out today that he likes me, and I like him as well... I don't know what to do. I can't decide if...
A. 22 August 2008: If you want a real relationship, go for the real life guy.
But if you like your space, dreaming and fantasizing about someone, and the idea of waiting to meet someone excites you etc. go for the internet guy.... (read in full...)
I forgot taking my pills, could I be pregnant?
Q. Im a bit worried. I am on Marvelon contraceptive pill and i started my new packet on Saturday. Had unprotected sex on Saturday night (because im on the pill, and im seeing this guy), and forgot to take any more pills until this morning. They were ...
A. 22 August 2008: Then go to a doctor, and get tested. But chances are that you probably don't have access to a doctor, because you are too young to go to the doctor without a parent(you posted this as anonymous, and the way you type says your age as well), and you ... (read in full...)
Is it normal to be friends with an ex, to send her messages, etc?
Q. Should I be worried or is it nothing, but is it normal to be friends with your ex and when I say friends I don't mean when you see them in the street you just say hi I mean like emailing via msn or texting each other? My boyfriend said he was frie...
A. 22 August 2008: My bf had a lot of ex's. We're married now. You are his gf. Try not to worry about it, and if you do worry about it, it is okay to ask him questions like, "Do you still have feelings for her? etc." He should answer your questions willingly, but if ... (read in full...)
I masturbate too fast and it's taking a toll on my sex life, what can I do?
Q. im 24 yrs old, i masturbate too fast and its taking a toll on my sex life what can i do to correct this?...
A. 22 August 2008: Dare I say it-Stop masturbating!... (read in full...)
Is it wrong for a 15 year old to like a 18 year old guy who likes her back?
Q. sorry its really long..but this has been going on for about 3 years now.. so help me please! hi i'm a 15 year old girl and I go to a christian school, my best friend is a guy and is 18 i've liked him basically for 3 years and we jut now cam...
A. 22 August 2008: No. Just try to take things very slowly. lol... (read in full...)
If my boyfriend has female friends, why when he talks to them and I ask him what's up with them does he tell me it's none of my business?
Q. If my boyfriend has female friends and I have male ones, why when he talks to them (either phone or email) if I ask what's up with them, how are they, that his conversations and who he talks to are none of my business?...
A. 8 April 2008: B/c he's an arse.
Or he doesn't like you checking up on him. ... (read in full...)
Why do we always come back to each other?
Q. After 22 years why do myself and my ex (first love) always come back to each other? We have both been married and have children (not with each other) and in between each relationship we have always found our way in to one anothers lives. Is it meant ...
A. 8 April 2008: If yall have been deliberately searching for one another again, it might be a security blanket. If it is "meant to be" these "finding each other again" events happened by coincidence.... (read in full...)
What is a high maintenance woman?
Q. What really describes a high maintenance woman? I have heard this a lot lately and was wondering, is it just about spending money? ...
A. 8 April 2008: A woman that is hard/difficult to please.... (read in full...)
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