She's infatuated with this married man...so I am thinking I may never have a chance again! Advice needed!!
Q. My girlfriend of 3 years broke up with me about a month ago. We have a 2 1/2 year old son. We are sharing custody. Our relationship had been declining for months as the pressures of school, work, raising a child, and living with my parents chipp...
A. 1 October 2008: Sounds like she is going to get hurt badly. Sorry you got tangled up in this as well.... (read in full...)
I'm almost certain he doesn't like me. But now,.he's showing an interest...what is going on?
Q. Well, there's this guy I've known for a very long time. For about a month or two recently, there were many rumours that he liked me. I thought they were true cos he got all concern over the littlelest things that happen to me. But currently, he ...
A. 1 October 2008: You're welcome. I kind of understand what you mean. Flirting is one thing, but I don't like it when guys stare at me, either. lol ... (read in full...)
Caught between my family and my forbidden lover! What should I do?
Q. I met this guy ( lets call him Mr.A) nearly a year ago, he's a tough guy with piercings and tattoos but as i got to know him i realised he is quite sensitive and sweet. When i told my family about him they had their doubts but were happy that i was ...
A. 1 October 2008: Sweetie, pedophilia means being attracted to way younger people sexually, so you don't even have to be having sex. Look it up in a medical dictionary, but it will have certain age limits as to who is too young to be sexually attracted to that way ... (read in full...)
Should I leave so that he can find someone new and experience love like everybody else?
Q. Lately, my husband has benn acting very distant, absent, and uninterested. When I confronted him, he told me that he wants to leave me and that he has no feelings for me. He accused me of marrying him out of convenience. I told him that I loved him ...
A. 1 October 2008: Why don't you ask him that? If he pauses, or hesitates, you know your answer.... (read in full...)
I let him go because things didn't get any better, but I miss him so much!
Q. I had to break up with him. Although he said he does love me. He never shows it. Never says it...only through a text. Never kisses or cuddles me anymore. Even a non existent sex life. So i said all this to him. and he said he'd try. Just that he ...
A. 30 September 2008: Sometimes making the right decision is the hardest thing to do....... (read in full...)
He's hot but I think he may be gay! What should I do?
Q. hi i met a guy how is hot and i think he is half gay. i really like him and we make each other laugh. i tried calling him but he wont answer or even txt. he is on to drugs and were the same age 13. the other day 9/27/08 i was asleep at a sleep over ...
A. 30 September 2008: I agree with the reader below. I would've pushed him off! lol and then rolled onto him, and not on top of in a sexual way, but like in a smushing way. lol
Regardless of whether he is straight or gay, he needs to respect your boundaries. I think ... (read in full...)
Caught between my family and my forbidden lover! What should I do?
Q. I met this guy ( lets call him Mr.A) nearly a year ago, he's a tough guy with piercings and tattoos but as i got to know him i realised he is quite sensitive and sweet. When i told my family about him they had their doubts but were happy that i was ...
A. 30 September 2008: Ah. Young love. Maybe you can use this time to love from a distance. Text, email, etc. If he trully loves you, he will wait for you.... (read in full...)
We broke up and for a change..I was the one that got really hurt! How do I cope?
Q. i just don't know how to deal with this.. usually when i go out with someone i'm in control and i break up with them and they get sad. it's pretty much always been like that. but now i just got broken up with.. and it hurts so much. i've never felt ...
A. 30 September 2008: Time heals all wounds. Write in your diary. Sing sad songs. Talk on the phone to friends. Go to church (if rel. is your thing). Make new friends.... (read in full...)
Dating a year and I want to meet his family...but when I suggest it...he gets so defensive! What is happening?
Q. I have been dating my boyfriend for over a year and still have not met his family. Everytime I bring it up he has one excuse or another. He also shuts his phone off everytime we are together and will not talk to people over the phone in front of ...
A. 30 September 2008: Tell him that if he doesn't want you to meet his family to just say so, instead of getting defensive, calling you paranoid, and playing these stupid games.... (read in full...)
Am I over-reacting when I think...she may have lost interest in me?
Q. There is a girl Im really interested in who is in one of my college classes. She seems to be interested in me also. Recently she told me that we should hang out soon. A week passed and she didn't say anything about hanging out. This weekend I ...
A. 30 September 2008: Yes. Give this more time. Maybe a week or two. ... (read in full...)
Are there any good old guys still out there? Where do I go to find him?
Q. After I got divorced I started to date. Seems that I am horrible at choosing a good,honest guy to date. So far the few Ive dated want only a casual thing and they are way selfish in bed and two minutes and they are done and thats it no ...
A. 30 September 2008: Check out the internet, church, etc.... (read in full...)
She's infatuated with this married man...so I am thinking I may never have a chance again! Advice needed!!
Q. My girlfriend of 3 years broke up with me about a month ago. We have a 2 1/2 year old son. We are sharing custody. Our relationship had been declining for months as the pressures of school, work, raising a child, and living with my parents chipp...
A. 30 September 2008: If she's with a married man, I think that you deserve better. Find a woman that your child can look up to!... (read in full...)
I'm almost certain he doesn't like me. But now,.he's showing an interest...what is going on?
Q. Well, there's this guy I've known for a very long time. For about a month or two recently, there were many rumours that he liked me. I thought they were true cos he got all concern over the littlelest things that happen to me. But currently, he ...
A. 30 September 2008: I'd avoid him, flirting with you, then with your friend, unless he was trying to make you jealous. Ask him what's going on.... (read in full...)
Is my husband cheating on me?
Q. My husband has gone away once every month with a lady he works with. I found out and confronted him about 7 months ago and he told me he was truly sorry but since then he has continued to do so. He tells me he is going one place and then ends up ...
A. 30 September 2008: I don't think sleeping in the same bed with someone is cheating, but it is likely that he is not sleeping. I think that you should hire a detective, and then I think that you should confront him, and then leave him. Him getting angry just proves ... (read in full...)
Should I leave so that he can find someone new and experience love like everybody else?
Q. Lately, my husband has benn acting very distant, absent, and uninterested. When I confronted him, he told me that he wants to leave me and that he has no feelings for me. He accused me of marrying him out of convenience. I told him that I loved him ...
A. 30 September 2008: Your husband is living in a fantasy world. Does he read romantic novels, too? What a coward move-claiming you didn't love him, just because he felt he didn't love you!
Get marital counseling, because his view of love seems warped to me.... (read in full...)
How do you tell people "we met on the internet" or do you?
Q. Hi guys. I'm 22 and i'm a virgin - and had minimal experience with girls. I've decided I want to have sex whenever it feels right for me (i.e. not wait until I find 'the one', but a one night stand is a possibility if the opportunity pres...
A. 30 September 2008: I met my husband on the internet. We went out for about a year, and have been married for two months.... (read in full...)
No place to tell her my feelings or even make a small move!? What should I do?
Q. How can i get a girl i like into a situation where i can tell her how i feel and maybe even make a small move? it's hard to do the at her door thing because she lives with her parents and i think it would be too awkward and off putting for her......
A. 30 September 2008: Take a walk outside with her, but don't go into too a secluded place with her, because some girls freaked out and think the guy is trying to find a place to rape them.... (read in full...)
Scared my bf will find someone else while he's away working! How do I get over this?
Q. my boyfriend just left for two months to work i miss him sooo much.i dont know how to get over this im soo scared he will find someone new or realize he is happy without me. im tired of crying about it i mean i realize he is working and cant be ...
A. 30 September 2008: Chill. You are probably a very beautiful girl. If you love him this much, how could he possibly want someone else?... (read in full...)
Why doesn't he ever want to discuss our future anymore?
Q. Ok story is like this... I been in a online relationship for 15 months.. We been online close friends for around 3 years, and very very good friends at that. Well when we first became a couple, the romance and way he behaved towards m...
A. 30 September 2008: Well if he doesn't want to meet you, I suggest you stop trying to put a cylinder in a square hole and move on.... (read in full...)
Why doesn't he ever want to discuss our future anymore?
Q. Ok story is like this... I been in a online relationship for 15 months.. We been online close friends for around 3 years, and very very good friends at that. Well when we first became a couple, the romance and way he behaved towards m...
A. 29 September 2008: He controls his own behavior. The only one making him change is himself. Find someone nearby you.... (read in full...)
Am I too fussy or am I just worthless?
Q. The man who left me for his baby mama got married this weekend. i hurt like hell but i guess for me this was closure.however i am left feeling worthless and not good enough and am consequently feeling sorry for myself. i am in another relationship ...
A. 29 September 2008: I feel bad for you. You know people are going to tell you that you need to get to know yourself more first, but you are thirty to thirty-five years old! That's a long time to wait to get to know yourself. But that is how the world works-school, ... (read in full...)
Do we leave him in the dust and say life goes on?
Q. Hello! Recently i've seemingly lost a bestfriend to his new girlfriend. He has never had a real relationship before (he is now 21) and recently found a 17yr highschool girl that he fancies attractive and fun. A year ago, she was fun and all...
A. 29 September 2008: Let him go. If he has any brains, he'll be back. ... (read in full...)
How do you 'make out'?
Q. i am a 15 year old girl and have never made out although i have had the chance but got scared of his experience to my inexperience. i want to do it for all the right reasons and i am sure about it though i dont know how. anyone who will guide me th...
A. 29 September 2008: You can kiss, cuddle, etc. There are different types of making out. Some involve sexual touching, some don't. Go with what is most comfortable for you, and make sure beforehand that he knows exactly what you want so that his hand won't reach for a ... (read in full...)
What's the best way to split up when you live together?
Q. I have been with my girlfriend for over 4 years and we are currently living together. I know that I want to get married and have a family however I know that I do not want these things with her. She is my best friend and has been so since long ...
A. 29 September 2008: Take out all your stuff first. ... (read in full...)
Is this picture really that big of a deal? My girlfriend is freaking out over it...
Q. I ask this because I want to make sure that I'm being reasonable, because I don't want to be that guy who only thinks of himself. My girlfriend took a picture of me sleeping in my underwear with my hand down my pants (hilarious!). She sent it to s...
A. 29 September 2008: No. Sometimes people get mad about stuff that was their fault or partially their own doing. Let her cool off. I like your statement "I don't really think it needs to be blamed," because blaming her (even though she started it) might make her ... (read in full...)
My best friend likes girls and now she's attracted to me! How do I respond to this?
Q. I have a best friend and she likes girls. She told me she had a crush on a girl and I advised her to tell her and see where it went from there. A couple of days later she told me that she was sexually attracted to me. I'm not sure how to react to ...
A. 29 September 2008: Well if you are straight, tell her that you are flattered, but that you just want to remain friends. Introduce her to someone you think is sexier than you. Hang out as a group. Maybe she will fall for her.... (read in full...)
Has he been emotionally abusing me for years?
Q. I have two children, 6 and 8- my 6 year old has autism. My husband has been battling alcoholism for years. He just informed me he has been seeing another woman and left. He has treated me especially poorly over the years and very much so now. I ...
A. 29 September 2008: I'm sure that (hopefully) there are resources out there. You just have to find them. Look online. Get a special babysitter. Get a job, etc. I know it's not going to be easy, and I probably come off like it is going to be easy, but I'm not in your ... (read in full...)
My married man doesn't make me climax like he can with his wife! Any suggestions?
Q. Hi. I'm 20 years old and have been seeing this guy for about 4 months. He is married but we have this amazing attraction. However he is a little frustrated because he hasn't been able to make me come yet. I don't know why as he is so gentle and ...
A. 29 September 2008: Oh-and look up the statistics-lots of women don't come through sexual intercourse alone! ... (read in full...)
Should I include my child in meeting my boyfriend's parents for the first time?
Q. I have been divorced for 3 years, I have a 5 year old daughter, and i have been dating this guy fr 4 months. We were talking about meeting his parents. He has met my daughter and spent time with us. She adores him! I know his parents are al...
A. 29 September 2008: No.... (read in full...)
Please explain to me why I feel this way whenever I see my ex?
Q. Hi everyone, I have been in a relationship for 7 months now and Im very much in like with my boyfriend... I love him. This is bassically the story, before my current boyfriend there was this boy that I was TOTTALLY CRAZYABOUT, I was with him for...
A. 29 September 2008: Maybe it's just obsession.... (read in full...)
My husband says if I change things will get better, but he isn't giving me a chance to change, he gets mad when I talk to him and all of a sudden nothing I do is good enough! I can't stop crying!
Q. i dont get it, just all of a sudden its like im not good enough, out of nowhere im lazy,dead weight,i dont dress good enough,i dont have high self esteem and basically it seems as if im not the person he wants to be with at all!!, but he is my ...
A. 22 September 2008: Please leave the asshole. Even if you get into a custody battle and he ends up with the kids, your mental health is at stake. ... (read in full...)
I'm in love with my cousin- how do I deal with this?
Q. This has been bugging me for a while... I'm quite certain I'm in love with my cousin, but I've never known how to deal with this. To be accurate, she's not my first cousin, I think. She's the granddaughter of my grandfather's sister (if that made ...
A. 22 September 2008: Maybe this is just a passing crush, you are young, you know. Wait and see if these feelings persist.... (read in full...)
My boyfriend isn't very ambitious and uses his mother's credit card to pay for our dates. What do I do?
Q. Ok. Here's my situation. I have been with my boyfriend for a year and a half. I'm 27 and he's 29. We both live at home. I work full time while saving money to purchase a condo. I have worked ever since I was 16 years old. My boyfriend on the other ...
A. 22 September 2008: Find someone else, k? My mom used to date bums too.... (read in full...)
Please explain to me why I feel this way whenever I see my ex?
Q. Hi everyone, I have been in a relationship for 7 months now and Im very much in like with my boyfriend... I love him. This is bassically the story, before my current boyfriend there was this boy that I was TOTTALLY CRAZYABOUT, I was with him for...
A. 22 September 2008: You are supressing your love for him, and when you see him, it comes out. ... (read in full...)
Am I just causing myself a headache to believe in the stars?
Q. Oh, this is kinda like an astrology question. I'm a Virgo and my boyfriend is Libra. I've had a lot of readings everywhere and people saying that the two are not a match made in heaven. But what me and my boyfriend have seems to be totally real and ...
A. 22 September 2008: Be careful. If he isn't emotionally involved you might run across someone who is there for you, and that might cause problems in the relationship that yall share.
As for astrology, I wouldn't worry about it. ... (read in full...)
Do guys also get a yeast infection? I noticed only once that his ejaculatory fluid was yellowish...
Q. I just want to find out from you uncles and aunts, do guys also get a yeast infection? One time my bf had yellow ejaculation. Was it an infection or it has to do with his smoking. I've seen it once, never again. What was it?...
A. 22 September 2008: Guys can have yeast infections of the butt, but as far as I know, not of the penis.... (read in full...)
Should I have sex with him just to keep the relationship going?
Q. hi .. my boyfriend and i have known eachother for over 6 months now .. and we havnt had sex yet. He has been asking me to have sex with, but im just nervous. i realy love him and he said he feels the same way, and just the other day he said to me i ...
A. 22 September 2008: No. Find someone who appreciates you.... (read in full...)
We argued frequently and would often end up screaming and shouting at each other, so I broke up. Why do I feel so guilty now?
Q. Sick of falling in and out of love. Hey all, I've just ended an 18 month relationship with my girlfriend and I feel incredibly guilty. I've had some serious health problems in this time and she stuck by me without complaining or moaning. I didn'...
A. 22 September 2008: I think that you should leave things completely. Talking with her might spawn on another argument.... (read in full...)
My wife wants to have an erotic massage done by a woman, but we are worried how this will affect our marriage and if it is worth the risk!
Q. Hi My wife and I have a great relationship we love each other very much and have a great sex life. we enjoy watching porn together and we like the girl on girl and my wife has a fantasy about being with another girl so we thought that maybe goin...
A. 22 September 2008: Don't do anything that you are not ready to do!... (read in full...)
Should I accept his invitation knowing he will break up with me or not?
Q. My boyfriend has gone to new york for business for a month, he has asked me if i would like to go over there to see him and has said he would pay for everything, as he knows i earn nothing like whats he does, the problem is that i think he wants to ...
A. 22 September 2008: Go, because this is his way of trying to break up with you face to face, instead of over the phone.
But if you would prefer phone, just don't go and tell him that you know what's up. ... (read in full...)
Should I tell my children I was abused by my dad?
Q. I was abused by my dad as a child. I have had counselling and I am now a mother. All the family know about it except the children. My daughter is now 9 and I think its time she knew. My husband disagrees and said she will become frightened of him. ...
A. 17 September 2008: Tell her everything. I don't know why men spend their lives trying to protect other men. Ugh.... (read in full...)
Doesn't my boyfriend care that I don't have an orgasm?
Q. I've never had orgasm during intercourse, but previous boyfriends were always bothered, and tried harder to make me come, but my current boyfriend seems doesn't really care. We've been together for a month, and we've never really talked about sex ...
A. 17 September 2008: It means he's selfish. And yes, he cares more about himself than he does about you.
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