Does she have a disease?
Q. hello, I'm 13 years old; I think this girls likes me.At school she acts funny and cute. But on aim she like goes all crazy when she talks to me like if i dont talk she keeps saying my name over and over and if i answer shes like i gotta pee im like ...
A. 11 December 2007: No, she just likes annoying you.... (read in full...)
After 7 months, he suddenly has decided he can't continue our relationship. How can I change that?
Q. I've been in a relationship for 7 months everything was going great until one day he woke up and said no more. He's been divorced and has a child and now he's afraid to go any further with the relationship! How will I change that ...
A. 11 December 2007: You won't. He has to be ready to.... (read in full...)
My husband of 7 years asked me to put my finger in his butt during sex... Does that make him gay?
Q. My husband of 7 years ask for me to put a finger in his butt when i go down on him and his favorite position is doggy style does this make him gay?????...
A. 11 December 2007: A lot of men like it. Causes them to cum harder.... (read in full...)
How long after coming off the pill does it generally take before getting pregnant?
Q. Hi everyone... My boyf and I are trying for a baby and I came off the pill in July of this year. How long after coming off the pill does it generally take before getting pregnant? ...
A. 11 December 2007: Get a fertility monitor and use it.... (read in full...)
40, married 20 years, and I'm not enjoying the life I have now. What can I do?
Q. I have been married for 20 years. I have 2 children -19 and 17. At the beginning of our relationship we had a lot of money problems and had 2 houses repossessed and he was abusive towards me - he has the stitches from where I ducked and his fist ...
A. 11 December 2007: Leave him now or you are going to LOSE IT. I mean, really, you are. As in regards to it being your fault, I highly doubt the affair was YOUR fault. If you don't enjoy sex with him, you don't enjoy sex with him; and I mean, who would enjoy sex with ... (read in full...)
What causes me to suffer delusions?
Q. When I get drunk I suffer from hallucinations. I imagine I spoke to someone when I didn't, imagine I phoned someone when I didn't, remember breaking a window when I check the next day the window is fine...I can't figure it out. I end up apologising ...
A. 11 December 2007: Stop drinking, and realize that if you are having these delusions and having trouble realizing whether they were real or not, something really bad can actually happen to you, and you not know if it happened or not. Are you on any medication?... (read in full...)
How do I change from a friendship to a romance?
Q. i am head over heels in love with someone. i can tell because whenever i am with her, i am happy. i love talking with her, sitting around watching a movie or juct about doing anything with her...yes even going shopping. The problem is that we are ...
A. 11 December 2007: I wouldn't do the second one, but you should tell her. ... (read in full...)
Why do I get called a bitch?
Q. me and my freind has an argument today and she was mean towards me. she said that all i do is bitch about everyone for the fun of it. this is not true and i only say things to people that have bitched about me or have done somthing bad.i try to be ...
A. 11 December 2007: This is what I think is happening: certain people are being mean to you. Then you go and complain about these people, which is looked upon as talking bad about people, which is why they call you a bitch. I'm not saying what you're doing is wrong, ... (read in full...)
I cannot phone or message him - what can I do to get him back?
Q. We dated at the end of 2006 and then again in June 2007. But we broke up because I didn't greet him when he saw me at the mall. He smsed me and told me to "Get Lost". I still love him and would do anything to be with him again. But when I see him I ...
A. 11 December 2007: Let him go, he sounds stupid to me.... (read in full...)
What to do over my drunken text messaging?
Q. I'm getting divorced, and felt low at the weekend. I drank too much at home alone so texted a guy that I fancy, and asked him to come over for a drink.... I didn't hear back, and am now very embarrassed about it. What should I do now? I bu...
A. 11 December 2007: I would act like it never happened, unless he brought it up.... (read in full...)
Should I go back to him or not?
Q. hi all ok so hears the thing about 2 years ago I was with my ex but I left him cause he was abusive to me and would end up hitting me, although I did fight back, I would get the bumps and cuts . I was living with him then and so I moved out...
A. 11 December 2007: Don't risk it. Don't fall for it. ... (read in full...)
He makes me feel so insecure...
Q. hey :) To put it bluntly my boyfriend will tell me that he thinks other girls are hot, and I LIKE that he's honest with me and obviously I realise he will find other girls attractive. But a few weeks ago he told me that as a joke, he got anothe...
A. 11 December 2007: Tell him to stop telling you that crap. Also, about this insecurity issue, if the former females he dated were hot and sexy, why would he break the mold with you? Obviously, you have to have some good looks, if all his former ones were good-looking. ... (read in full...)
I'd just like some tips on ways to get him to notice me...
Q. Hi, This message is probably going to sound stupid, but I'd just like some advice on how I can get this guy to notice me! There's a guy I like in the year above me! I really feel for him and can't stop thinking about him but I realise it's onl...
A. 11 December 2007: No guts no glory.... (read in full...)
He wants to leave me for his male friend!!! How do I deal with this?
Q. On Saturday a good friend of mine told me she'd seen my husband in a restaurant with my best friend's husband - and that what she saw was disgusting. She said she'd seen the two of them in a restaurant having a romantic meal and overheard them s...
A. 11 December 2007: Get tested for STD's. Try and let him go. I know it sucks, but at least he finally admitted to it/was finally caught. Many wives don't know about it until it's too late and they get STD's, etc. ... (read in full...)
I'm soooooo in love!!!
Q. What can I do to get him back?? I met this man, and fell head of heels in love, I am so in love with him it's unreal!! I thought he was too and am not sure whether he still is since he has met someone straight from work and she is 5 years older ...
A. 11 December 2007: He's playing games with you. Let this loser go.... (read in full...)
Heartbroken...
Q. I was engaged 2 years ago and the wedding was all planned but I got freaked out cos I was only 20 and his family caused loads of trouble, so I called it all off and split with the my fiance. He recently got back in touch and I've fell for him all ...
A. 11 December 2007: You need to learn about yourself more. Why did you rush to get married?... (read in full...)
Why does he always go "limp" when I go on top?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been having sex for over a year and we have never had any problems. Until now, he will get hard but as soon as I want to be on top he goes limp. Any advice as to what's wrong?...
A. 11 December 2007: He doesn't like you being on top. It stimulates him less, because he's not doing the pushing in and out.... (read in full...)
I still talk with my ex teacher of a few years ago, now he's declared his undying love for me...
Q. a few years ago I was madly in love with my teacher- we become good friends. At the time I was 15. Now I am in my twenties and we still talk on the net etc.. Recently he declared his love for me... now I don't know what this means....xx...
A. 11 December 2007: Do you still love him?... (read in full...)
How do I get over hating my best friend's boyfriend?
Q. My best friend and I have been friends for 16 years. We grew up together. We never needed guys because we had each other. Now she has a boyfriend that i hate. I honestly don't know exactly what I hate about him, but I can't stand hearing his name ...
A. 11 December 2007: I wouldn't call you a bitch, but you do sound jealous. However, with the making out thing, that's not right. They shouldn't be doing that in front of you. I think that is just plain-out disrespectful right there. Jealousy is normal. She needs to ... (read in full...)
Where to go for sex tips now that porn's out of the picture?
Q. Hey, I used to be addicted to porn so I have eliminated it from my lifestyle and now that I'm starting to become sexually active I feel more inexperienced. When I watched porn I felt (among other things) like I knew what was going on and now when...
A. 11 December 2007: I'm proud of you for quitting it, and I think that you should still stay away from it. However, there are certain books out there, I think, that might give you the tips without the pics. Get what I'm saying?... (read in full...)
I feel he's on the other side of the computer laughing at me...
Q. I am 13 years old 14 in June. I've met this guy who lives like five states away online. He's 18 and I told him I was 14. But that's not really the issue because in my heart I know we'll never meet. He's so great I almost get confused sometimes. He ...
A. 11 December 2007: Sweetie he's too old for you. He probably is playing games. ... (read in full...)
Am I in with a chance here or not? Does he fancy me?
Q. I have a best friend who I am starting to develop feelings for. We do everything together, even live together at college, cook together, go for lunch, lie on couch together, tease each other and laugh all the time in each others company. One night ...
A. 11 December 2007: I know that this must be very difficult for you. I think he likes you. Otherwise, why would he spend so much time around you? ... (read in full...)
My dreams end with strange deaths, of animals. Is this bad or dangerous?
Q. Dear All, I seem to be reading an awful lot these days and I keep reading til really late but I find it difficault to sleep even then - I've never fallen asleep with a book in my hand- but never really know when I fall asleep, because my clock is...
A. 2 December 2007: Type "dream interpretation" in google, and look up specific words regarding your dream, like death, and rabbit. Rabbit Dreaming about a rabbit means you are about to succeed in a challenging venture. This dream also symbolizes general good luc... (read in full...)
I am too young to feel depressed, aren't I? What can I do?
Q. please help recently i have been going through mental break down and been becoming very depressed i am only 14 and i really am too young for the depression, i am feeling the reasons why i have been depressed is i had a dream on mond...
A. 2 December 2007: Cater to your inner-child. Do the things you used to to as a kid. This has helped me when I was feeling really bad. I rode my bike, blew bubbles, played with clay, and got out my art kit and played with that. I also played with an instrument of mine ... (read in full...)
He complains I snoop on his phone but I have caught him cheating with two other women.
Q. Dear Cupids, Well this has not happened once but three times. I have been dating this guy for 7 months now, he seemed to be so much into me and the relationship has been great except for one thing that I snooped in his phone while we were 3 months d...
A. 2 December 2007: Yeah, I think that you should leave him. In response to the sex comment- we all make mistakes and you didn't know, so....just try to wait until marriage next time, or if you are not like that, just try to wait until you have been going out with ... (read in full...)
Should I forgive him for his jealous outbursts??
Q. Well I asked a question about my boyfriend not being jealous. Well that all of a sudden has changed and now he's really jealous. Seriously, I can't stand him anymore and like just a minute ago he called me yelling because I hugged my friend w...
A. 2 December 2007: A little jealousy is natural and healthy, but this is not a little. It sounds like you are on a roller coaster, which relationships usually are, but you know what I mean, one of those really big roller coasters. He's calling you names and saying ... (read in full...)
How can I confirm to his wife he is having an affair with me without anybody knowing it came from me?
Q. I am having an affair with a married man who doesn't love his wife any more but loves his children. He thinks he needs to stay in the marraiage just 4 the kids. His wife thinks he is having an affair and asks if he his having an affair but he won't...
A. 2 December 2007: Maybe get a messenger? Or call her on someone else's phone? ... (read in full...)
Why do I feel so old??
Q. I am 14 and i feel really old. I don't know why but i just do. I am the youngest in my house as well. Why do i feel old, i havent even finished school yet?...
A. 2 December 2007: Well, if you are on of these teenagers that has to take care of many brothers and sisters (as you sound since you said you are the youngest) then I could see why you would feel old. ... (read in full...)
I love her but I am getting tierd of waiting for her to leave her bf...should I wait for as long as it takes or move on??
Q. Ok, so i really need some advice on what to do. I've been friends with this girl for a little over a year know and we became the best of friends ever, but when i met her she just got a boyfriend and they have been goin out for just about as long ...
A. 2 December 2007: I will tell you what I tell everyone in this situation. Let her go. Please, don't make it easier for her to break your heart anymore.... (read in full...)
My parents keep putting me down and saying I am insane...what should I do??
Q. My parents keep telling me i am insane, i have problems, keep putting me down, i am scared because i know if they keep saying it then it will drive me to insanity... What shall i do? thanks chris...
A. 2 December 2007: Talk to a counselor at your school, and tell them how your parents are behaving.... (read in full...)
This guy is lieing to me and my bf and it is tearing us apart.
Q. Ok, there is this guy who is a lil obbsessed with me but i have a boyfriend who i love verry much. This guy will do anything to break us up like lieing to me; saying he smokes and cheats on me and he says the same to my boyfriend but i really n...
A. 2 December 2007: I've been in the same situation. The guy that I'm with now, his supposed to be best friend kept trying to break us up. I told my bf that there was nothing going on between me and his best friend, and now we avoid his ex best friend altogether. ... (read in full...)
Do you divorce someone you 'will always love'?
Q. I'm a 28 year old single guy, who has been seeing a married woman for the better part of a year. She first admitted having a romantic interest in me, and made it clear at that time, that her marriage had failed, and was on the way out the door. ...
A. 2 December 2007: I've seen this far too often. Get out before she hurts you worse. She is NOT going to leave her husband for you. You are more nicer than me. I would not do something like this to begin with, but if I did, and someone kept making excuses with ME, I ... (read in full...)
I am sick of being second best...what should I do??
Q. I have been going it with a man 10 years my senior (I am early 30's) He has terrible money problems that he refuses to address. He has moved away to get the great job he wanted but still makes no attempt to repay his debt. When he comes to visit...
A. 2 December 2007: You sound like you are unhappy and you are trying to console yourself with "well at least such and such isn't happening.." I am guilty of doing something like this as well, ie reading other people's problems lol (the irony of it) or when some people ... (read in full...)
Should I ask her out even though I am very complicated??
Q. Hi aunts, like everybody else on this site i need help, this is a situation ive never experienced before and ill do my best to explain. Im 24 years old and a lesbian. I work as a personal trainer/gymnastics instructor i also dance in a club,if ...
A. 2 December 2007: Why do you think that you would end up hurting her?... (read in full...)
Do you ever forget your first love??
Q. Hi, i want to ask everyone who has been in love two questions: Do you ever forget your first love? Would you get back with them if you had the chance?...
A. 2 December 2007: I remember my first love, but we were children, so I don't know if I'd get back together with him or not.... (read in full...)
I've liked him for 9 months and I was ready to tell him but it went wrong.
Q. Okay, so i've liked this guy for 9 months now, yesterday was the first day I was completely ready to tell him, but I knew it was going to be difficult because there were so many people around us, as it was a day out I planned for my birthday. I was ...
A. 2 December 2007: The truth is, when you tell him, you risk things becoming awkward. It is almost as if they are bound to become awkward. Just tell him, already!... (read in full...)
My depressed gf dumped me but I have fallen for her.
Q. My girlfriend came round this week and told me that she cannot be in a relationship and that we are over. We have only been together 2 1/2 months but have clicked from day one, haave perhaps gone too fast but generally things have been great. The ...
A. 2 December 2007: Consider post-traumatic stress disorder. Maybe something terrible happened in her past, and she is afraid of it happening again, so she is running away from you, even though you had nothing to do with it.... (read in full...)
I proposed, she accepted me - but now she suddenly wants to break up thinking I have cheated. How do I convince her of the truth?
Q. I'v been in a long distance realtionship with this really wonderful gurl since 7months...we've been liking each other since 2 years now but then it took me time to propose her and then she accepted me.now 7months down the line she wants to break up ...
A. 30 November 2007: Ask her why she thinks that you're cheating on her, and ask her what proof does she have. Okay, yeah this will make her angry, but since when is accusing someone of doing something with no proof and just insecurities right?
maybe you need someone ... (read in full...)
Should I go out with him... ? Because *I'm* not that much of a freak!
Q. im popular and so is this boy that likes me. but he likes to do freaky things with his girlfriends. i would kiss him and dub him but i might not do the things his other girlfriends have. should i go out with him and stay shy? dont go out with him? ...
A. 30 November 2007: Whatever you do, be yourself, stay yourself, don't lose yourself. Be true to yourself. Say if yall do go out and he can't accept you for who you are, then it's best to move on.... (read in full...)
Where are the best places to meet women 18-24 (and is it best to go solo?)
Q. Where is the best places to meet new woman aged 18 to 24? and is it better to be in a crowd or on your own to attracted them? need to know as many as i can. thanks...
A. 30 November 2007: I met my bf online. Then we met in person. We were friends for about two weeks. Now we've been going out for four months. You can find people on the net sometimes. There are singles sites that truly are free where it's free to send messages, etc. Or ... (read in full...)
I'm 21, she's 17... Is this too much of a difference?
Q. im 21 and thinking of asking a girl out thats 17. is that too young? opinions please....
A. 30 November 2007: Wait for her to turn eighteen. Don't go to jail. LOL I don't know what the rules are governing where you live, I'm in America, but I'd still wait till she was eighteen. ... (read in full...)
My depressed gf dumped me but I have fallen for her.
Q. My girlfriend came round this week and told me that she cannot be in a relationship and that we are over. We have only been together 2 1/2 months but have clicked from day one, haave perhaps gone too fast but generally things have been great. The ...
A. 30 November 2007: Both. Tell her you are there for her, but that it is up to her to come to you, so that she doesn't feel bothered. In short, tell her you are there for her, but then leave her alone until she contacts you.... (read in full...)
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