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Me and my ex are still in love, but she has a boyfriend and "doesn't know" about getting back with me!

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Question - (26 November 2007) 2 Answers - (Newest, 27 November 2007)
A male United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Hey,

I've split up with my gf after being with her for 3 months...I felt the relationship was not going anywhere and we now remain friends, my ex I was with nearly 2 years, me and her have been chatting and ive been going round there and talking and going for walks and that...She told me that she wouldnt ever get the chance to get back with me and she still loves me...I still love her and now that I'm single and she still has her bf I have asked her back..She tells me she doesn't know.....?

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A female reader, Myspacestacex3 United States +, writes (27 November 2007):

Wow. Your in the same boat as my ex. Me and him dated and he broke up with me and told me to find someone else. So i did just that and 2 weeks after we broke up he wanted to get back together but i couldnt handle it anymore. How he treated me and he did drugs and stuff. And plus i was talking to my current boyfriend at the time. And i kept telling him at the begining we would get back together cuz i didnt want to hurt my current boyfriend. Like if things were to go sour with my current boyfriend n i i told him i would go back to him. Sorta like rebound but not like it at all cuz i loved him. And even to this day he keeps trying to get me back and its been 4 months. I feel so bad because i love him so much and miss him tons but i also have strong feelings for my current boyfriend and my ex is still doing the same shit he was. So idk dont wait around. Because if she is really happy then just leave her be. You will find someone new and you will know how to make that relationship last by lookin at all the bad things that happened in the last relationship.

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A female reader, thatgothgirl20 United States +, writes (27 November 2007):

thatgothgirl20 agony auntDon't fall into this trap. Don't be the person who keeps waiting and waiting for the other person to break up with so and so, and then gets emotionally and sexually involved with them and ends up getting their heart broken.

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