Would it be in bad taste for me to mail these tickets to her?
Q. My female friend and I have known each other 18 months. We were as close as dating without actually dating and were the best of friends. Three months back we "broke up" after I started an argument at a party with her. She never stopped talking to ...
A. 7 August 2009: Congrats.... (read in full...)
I did everything for him but now I'm all alone
Q. Hi guys, I wanna start telling you guys that I'm gay, last week my bf and I broke up after a very ugly argument, that day ii texted him, he answered me in this way, what do you want? so I asked him why did he reply like that so he said, "omfg i dont ...
A. 8 July 2009: You can do better. ... (read in full...)
Does a cheat and a liar ever change?
Q. i have been with my boyfriend now for three years, in that time he has cheated once what i know of, and lied on many occasions. i have stayed around i suppose in the hope of him changing, and i really thought he had, until i found out he lied to m...
A. 8 July 2009: This is a dangerous man. I mean, come on, someone who can look you dead in the face and lie to you?... (read in full...)
I'm going to have our baby soon and he's texting another girl and calling her sexy!
Q. So due to some recent money issues me and my boyfriend have been living seperately, me staying with my mother, him with his sister some of the time...the other part of the time with his guy friend down the street. Well I kinda have some slight trust ...
A. 8 July 2009: Call him out on it. He's acting very immature, and obviously he thinks that other guys are like
him, which is why he is trying to keep you away from them. ... (read in full...)
I have feelings for my friend's boyfriend!
Q. Okay, so me and my friend met this guy at a party. He's really funny, and has a great personality, but is not much of a looker. After the party, he asked me out and I panicked and said no. Then my friend told me that he had asked her to pursuade me ...
A. 8 July 2009: I think you did the right thing. This guy is an ass and he's going to get what he deserves soon. Instead of dating your friend to get closer to you, he should've been true to himself and told her, "No." ... (read in full...)
Something is bothering him but he insists that everything is ok!
Q. I feel so confused at the moment. My partner and I have been in a LDR for 2 years. He is 36 years old. 8 months after we started seeing each other he was very keen for us to move in together, however I felt it was too soon and the subject was ...
A. 8 July 2009: I think that he is either cheating on you, or you are going out with a very busy person. Give it three months. ... (read in full...)
Emotionless, affectionless and sexless marriage!
Q. I am having this issues with my wife that is destroying my marriage. We have been married 17 years with 2 kids. When we first were married our sex life was fantastic. After our kids and time went on, it went to nothing. I have talked to my wife ...
A. 8 July 2009: This is a weird question. It's weird, because she probably says, "Oh now he does nice things for me, because he wants something from me, not just to be nice and loving to me."
I don't really see sex as a need. But I do wonder what you mean by ... (read in full...)
I've become the back up friend
Q. sorry for the length but need advice plse. My best friend, who I have become close to and who I have been there for,this past year especially, is always talking about this other woman ( who is married with a child,) she has become friends (...
A. 8 July 2009: Do the exact same thing that she is doing to you. Get a new best friend. She doesn't want to listen to reason, so get a new best friend. ... (read in full...)
My brother is in love with my girlfriend!
Q. Ok Aunts, My brother says hes in love with my girlfriend and hes constantly touching her,staring at her and hes tried to kiss her until she hit him and i was inthe room when this happened and i went mad.Once before we were watching a movie ...
A. 8 July 2009: Don't take her over to your house anymore, then. If he can't be mature then you need to meet at her house, or other places.... (read in full...)
I have a boyfriend and the chef at work is hitting on me!
Q. Hi all. Im 16, and have just got a part-time job at a restaurant to earn some extra money as a waitress. My mum knows the owners, and sometimes helps out there herself, and one of my mates works there and so does my cousin. My boyfriend has also ...
A. 8 July 2009: I don't trust this guy. He may act shy and stuff, but older men fake things like this to make younger females feel sorry for them and bring them closer to them.
Instead of trying to show how "unfazed" you are (which is exactly what this loser wa... (read in full...)
Advice about asking an ex out?
Q. my girlfriend and i broke up about a month ago. we have been going out for a little over a year. she said that she loved me but wasnt in love with me anymore. when we were together i had trust issues with her so she didnt go out much and she slept ...
A. 8 July 2009: I think you should take her out to eat, and sit in a far corner of the restaurant so that you can discuss things.
But remember this: ex's are ex's for a reason. "I love you, but I'm not 'in love' with you anymore" is a cop out. There had to be mo... (read in full...)
He said he couldn't let me in right now. What does that mean?
Q. My ex and I have been exes since early winter, but we were still seeing each other when I got pregnant in January. Our baby was stillborn 2 weeks ago, and I think that brought us a little closer because we were having some really ROUGH times at the ...
A. 8 July 2009: I think that he cares for you A LOT, but instead of telling you his deep feelings, he chooses not to, because he is afraid that you will hurt him all over again. ... (read in full...)
He said I love you and I didn't say it back!
Q. My boyfriend told me he loves me for the first time! But I didn't say it back. We had a rough couple of days where we weren't really getting along and I was feeling terrible about it and it was making me cry. And he said he was sorry and that he ...
A. 8 July 2009: He sounds clingy. It's easy to say I love you, just say it. Say, remember the other day when you said, etc etc. well....I feel such and such way.
Be careful with this guy. I dated someone like him before, and things did not go smoothly. ... (read in full...)
WHY do I stay with this guy?
Q. I hate myself for loving my boyfriend, but I can't be without him. We've been together for 3 years, and he's been my first boyfriend and love. Generally he's great towards me, but sometimes he hurts me so much and doesn't seem to care. He always...
A. 8 July 2009: I hate to say this, since you are in so much pain right now, but you did exactly what he wanted you to do: you cried. You've got to look deep inside yourself and figure out what it is that keeps you feeling like you need him.
Is it acceptan... (read in full...)
Advice needed? Is he using me for sex?
Q. hiya :) I'm 15. There's this boy I've liked for a while. we'll call him connor. I've been on a date with him but that was months ago. He knows i still like him and he says he likes me too. we're quite close friends and have been for about a ...
A. 2 July 2009: How does saying no make you look like an idiot? Are you actually a 15 year old girl posting this or someone else?... (read in full...)
Why won't she return my call?
Q. I met this girl about a month and a half ago, and we started talking, and hanging out all the time. She would stay the night multiple times, sometimes days at a time. She would also leave her things over at my place. Ive met her parents and she has ...
A. 1 July 2009: Sometimes I take my time calling back my husband when I'm doing something.
But there is a limit to certain things. Is she dangling you? Seems like she is doing the same thing to her friends, if she is. ... (read in full...)
I feel as if they just view me as a big joke...
Q. I've been with my boyfriend a while now... and today, i was seen with him by some people from my old school (not a big deal is it?) but they just burst out laughing as they walked past us... looking directly at us! At school i was one of the unpo...
A. 24 June 2009: People are gonna talk regardless.
Saying "Oh they are just jealous" is a defense mechanism a lot of people use to make themselves feel better (either that or they really believe the person or people are jealous), but my concern is, why do you c... (read in full...)
I think I love him but I can't read his feelings!
Q. I have known this boy well for four years now. Over these years, we have built a close friendship - or at least, I perceive it that way. I consider him one of my best friends, and I know he considers me at least a good friend, but this is part of ...
A. 24 June 2009: I don't think that you should try to start a relationship with him, but I think that before yall go to opposite ends of the country you should tell him how you feel.
This may cause an awkwardness, but at least you would have gotten it off of y... (read in full...)
He broke up with me because he loves me too much and is afraid I'm going to hurt him?
Q. I need some advice. My boyfriend of 2 months broke up with me the other day because he was scared that I would hurt him and that he was too in love with me. He races motocross so we hardly ever get to see one another. Anyways, he told me that he ...
A. 24 June 2009: This doesn't make sense. He had plenty of time to get to know you during those two months. Do you think that he could be seeing someone else? ... (read in full...)
Has he been using me for sex all this time?
Q. I've known this guy since middle school. I'm sixteen and so is he. We've had sex eight times without protection, which I now realize was very stupid. I've been stupid and so has he. A couple of days ago I had a pregnancy scare. Luckily, I ended up ...
A. 24 June 2009: Stop having sex with him and see how long he stays. That's my solution with everything every time someone is feeling used for something. If he was using you for money, I would've told you to stop giving him money and see how long he stayed. If h... (read in full...)
I like her, she has a boyfriend that she never mentions..do I tell her I like her?
Q. Lately, I think I've fallen for this girl in my class at college. We talk all the time, and we even go to the gym after class together sometimes...so we get a bit of alone time to talk each week. The thing is she has a boyfriend who I've only see...
A. 24 June 2009: I think that you should move on. She probably likes the attention that you give her, but quickly mentioned her bf to let you know that she is taken and will remain faithful to him. Otherwise, why would she mention him at all? You can stay friends ... (read in full...)
Why won't she return my call?
Q. I met this girl about a month and a half ago, and we started talking, and hanging out all the time. She would stay the night multiple times, sometimes days at a time. She would also leave her things over at my place. Ive met her parents and she has ...
A. 24 June 2009: I wouldn't invest too much time in this. If things don't feel right when she is gone this means one of a number of things: 1)She's just not that into you and is with someone else at the time. 2) She's not getting close to you, because she is a... (read in full...)
Will I ever be happy again?
Q. I have been divorced, have 2 kids, broken heart from a one year relationship with married man, suffering from sleep disorder and depression lately,and I've got no one to talk to about and no crying shoulder. Am I ever going to be happy again an...
A. 24 June 2009: You will in good time. Just don't give up. I am here if you want to talk. ... (read in full...)
He masturbates to my cousin's naked pics! I'm so angry about this..am I over reacting?
Q. I have a 20 year old cousin who works as a model. Recently I found my husband keeps naked pictures of her in his sock drawer. We see her at family gatherings and I'm scared he will want to have an affair with her. She flirts a lot with him but ...
A. 24 June 2009: No. I think that you are not overreacting. He has dismissed your concerns. Now what are you going to do about this?
You have two routes-Counseling, or divorced, depending on how much this has repulsed you....... (read in full...)
Should we get a divorce?
Q. My husband and I have been together for 6 years, since I was 14. For the first three we were completely crazy about each other. We spent everyday together. Towards the end of the 3rd year I broke up with him to date other guys before we took a step ...
A. 23 June 2009: Get marital counseling if you have the time for it. If you don't, just wait. Don't do anything too rash. ... (read in full...)
I wonder if he was a pedophile, or was it my fault...
Q. I was 17 when it happened, I was lonely and a male teacher in his late 40s (who gave out many hugs to me and other students) started touching me a little too much. I felt a little uncomfortable at first, as his hands lingered on my waist each tim...
A. 23 June 2009: It was entirely your teacher's fault. If he felt tempted he should've spoken to someone, and if your bf holds this against you, he's a jerk.
Hope this helps. ... (read in full...)
I feel so stupid, alone and unwanted.! Help me!
Q. I just found out today that a man I have been in love with for the past 3 years was dating another woman while he was flirting and playing around with me. He never promised me anything and we never spoke about monogamy but it was implied that he ...
A. 23 June 2009: You had been with him for three years. It was normal for you to trust him.
I hope you can get past this pain that you are going through, but if you do, your pain might soon turn into rage. And when it does, tell on him. Tell her what he was also... (read in full...)
Her violence is escalating -- I'm afraid for her if I leave
Q. Hello all, I've been dating a girl for about 18 months now and need some advice. She is a really amazing person and I love her very much but recently things with her have gone out of control. She is a very emotional person and is prone to...
A. 22 June 2009: Go to therapy with her. If she refuses to go to therapy, dump her. You deserve better.
... (read in full...)
Does he have feelings after losing his virginity to me?
Q. So,this other guy from my group- he's a total computer geek,but him and i are pretty much best friends,and we slept together a few months ago,and basically he lost his virginity to me.. My question is,for all you guys especially,and g...
A. 22 June 2009: I think that he feels really guilty and depressed. I had a friend who lost his virginity when he wanted to wait towards marriage. He might even feel some resentment towards you.... (read in full...)
I am 19 I have been seeing my boss since I was 17
Q. i am 19 i have been seeing my boss since i was 17..the first time he kissed me i stopped it and said you have a fiance he said sorry but done it again and it led to something else i told him i love him he said it straight he wont leave his wife but ...
A. 22 June 2009: He's not worth it. Find your own man, not someone else's. ... (read in full...)
How do I accept that my girlfriend had a child with a man twice her age
Q. How do I accept that my girlfriend had a child with a man twice her age, a senior citizen and now the judge has given a very equal custody - entailing weekly visitation and weekend rights, severly disrupting our ability to have continuity in our ...
A. 22 June 2009: I think that you should move on. You need someone who has more time for you and more time to work on this relationship. Sounds like she has a very stressful schedule and that even though she loves you, possibly sometimes you are just another person ... (read in full...)
Does my older brothers friend like me?
Q. ok, so my brother has the 2 friends that are absolutly like my brothers. but one of them is really hot. so yesterday we were hanging out and my bro had to leave so my bro's friend and i were hanging out for a little. and we talked about "how not to ...
A. 22 June 2009: Maybe he's trying to act protective of you. I'd be on my guard though, if it was me. ... (read in full...)
My ex is pushing me to have sex...What should I do?
Q. so my ex boyfriend who lives down the street seems like he's looking for a more friends with benefits approach with us. and i've never done anything with a guy because i want everything to be special and he tries really hard even when i say no. but ...
A. 22 June 2009: Just don't. You'll probably only get hurt in the end. ... (read in full...)
I feel like she doesn't love me and I can't trust her!
Q. I have a jelousy problem with my GF, she apparently lost her virginity with some asshole in another town, but she isnt sure, she said she was drunk and she didnt feel like she did when she woke up. Now i feel protective of her, when ever she talks ...
A. 21 June 2009: I've heard/read somewhere that the human brain is not fully developed until the age of 25 or older, maybe 26 or older, Idk. Maybe older still, BUT here is my point...she did something very irrational, and now you feel worried about her, almost as if ... (read in full...)
Should I put up with her denial ?
Q. My g/f And i have gone out or 7 months. She has Now told me that she loves another guy and Always has throughout our relationship. I had asked her before but she said she didnt, which is lying. The boy dislikes me and is trying to get my g/f to b...
A. 21 June 2009: Let her go. She's treating you like you are stupid or something. You saw what she was doing "with your own eyes," and she still denies it, as if you didn't see it.
... (read in full...)
Should I ask him out now, or wait awhile?
Q. me and this guy have been talking everyday, all day we kiss, hold hands, hes told me he really likes me, plus weve been making long term plans, and like 3 days ago he told me that he had gotten drunk[he never drinks and neither do i] and he kept tel...
A. 21 June 2009: Yes, ask him out. ... (read in full...)
I like him but he's the ex of a good friend of mine. Will I get hurt?
Q. I like this boy who likes me. We play on the same sand volleyball league and have hung out with each other outside of volleyball. We've kissed, but that's the extent of what we've done. He seems to be a good guy, he's funny, and we get along great. ...
A. 21 June 2009: I was reading an article today about men. He probably told her that he doesn't believe in marriage, because he doesn't want to marry HER. If there relationship got really bad, he probably told her a bunch of things just to repel her to get her to ... (read in full...)
They cheated at my house! How do I stay out of the middle?
Q. Where do I start? My best friend just revealed to me tonight that she cheated on her husband, at my house, with my husband's best friend. My husband is now worried because his best friend is engaged and the girl he is engaged to has a family with ...
A. 21 June 2009: Avoidance and saying that you don't want to get involved, and that they chose to do it, you didn't know about it, and (depending on how angry you are) that neither of them is to ever be allowed in your house again.... (read in full...)
I didn't even get to ask him to be my boyfriend, and now he has disappeared!
Q. Okay I'm dating a guy He's amazing, always sticking up for me we've liked each other for about a year now, no like commitment though, just kissing and dating here and there. He's scared of commitment i guess. he always says he's not ready for ...
A. 21 June 2009: There could be lots of reasons. Maybe he's not trying to be distant. It has only been one day. ... (read in full...)
I've been promiscious in the past, and now karma has hit me with guilt
Q. I'm 25. I've been in a relationship since 15 with the same person. We live together for 4 years now. Overall... I have to say the passion and love is there. We're both very confident about that. However, being we started so young (he was 18 now 28) ...
A. 21 June 2009: Ask him. If you still don't believe him maybe talk to a reputable relationship counselor. ... (read in full...)
Would it be in bad taste for me to mail these tickets to her?
Q. My female friend and I have known each other 18 months. We were as close as dating without actually dating and were the best of friends. Three months back we "broke up" after I started an argument at a party with her. She never stopped talking to ...
A. 21 June 2009: No it wouldn't. Maybe send her a note with them that says, "Not expecting anything in return. No strings attached, just thought that you'd enjoy these much more than I would."... (read in full...)
I want a girl to be a best friend before I fall in love
Q. Okay, well I'm a 17 year old male, going into my senior year next year. I've completely fallen for my best friend, who's an 18 year old girl who will be going off to college next fall. I've come to terms with the fact she doesn't love me the same...
A. 19 June 2009: I think that you could post up something like "I want friends first, and we will see where that leads," or if you are not doing this online, tell them in person. If they don't like this move on.
Also yall both can decide how long yall want to ... (read in full...)
I want a girl to be a best friend before I fall in love
Q. Okay, well I'm a 17 year old male, going into my senior year next year. I've completely fallen for my best friend, who's an 18 year old girl who will be going off to college next fall. I've come to terms with the fact she doesn't love me the same...
A. 17 June 2009: People in the dating scene often put their "best foot forward." When you met your best friend it was genuine and authentic. In order to meet someone who could be like a best friend you must be in a genuine and authentic situation.
I put up an ad... (read in full...)
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