Help,should I forgive him?
Q. help! my ex boyfriend stole from me 2 times and they where very valuble things to me.the first time i gave him another chance,thn he did it again,so i ended are 8mth relationship changed my number and reported it to the police.its been 2mth now and ...
A. 24 October 2008: Oh the story of wah wah wah I had a drink and drug problem I'm so sorry I want to kill myself, I had a bad childhood, blah blah blah. He is playing mind games with you. He knows that you are a sympathetic person, and is preying on that, hoping you ... (read in full...)
Why did he suddenly change? He seemed to be really in to me!
Q. Im currently 19 and 38 weeks pregnant. Me and the babys father are not together, he doesnt want anything to do with the baby. About a month ago, me and a boy (also 19) i have known for about 3 years and met twice before started SMS texting each...
A. 24 October 2008: I agree with Emily.
Of course it's not scary to u, you're the pregnant one! lol Imagine being with a guy who had a kid and he had baby momma drama. That'd be scary for you, wouldn't it?
Anyways, I think that you are afraid to go out and do st... (read in full...)
Live separate sexual lives and get married or leave now?
Q. I have been dating my current boyfriend for almost 7 months. I am very pleased with the intimacy in our relationship but he says that it is missing something for him. He (28 years old) has been with five times as many women as I (24 years old) ...
A. 24 October 2008: You deserve sooooo much better. Just let him go and find someone new. ... (read in full...)
Should I Break Up With Her Before Or After The Holidays??
Q. Sadly, I think I need to break up with my girlfriend. We have been dating over a year and have been close friends for three years prior to that. I love her to death, and she thinks I am the one. Even though I still love her, I feel a break up is ...
A. 24 October 2008: Usually I say go on ahead, but I think you should wait. And if she tries to say you're an asshole for not breaking up sooner, tell her that you didn't want her to spend the holidays alone.... (read in full...)
How can I find a boyfriend?
Q. Ok i am a girl and i have not had a real relationship ever. My sister try to help me find a guy but he liked her so he used me. My things is i feel like i my never find a guy because when i try it ends up blowing up in my face i cry at night now so ...
A. 24 October 2008: I agree with Emily. First try to find some new friends, and don't really look for a guy. There is a saying, when you are looking hard u will not find one, but when you are not looking at all a relationship might find you. That's how me and my ... (read in full...)
How can I get my wife to discipline her kid more so I don't have to deal with is snotty attitude?
Q. My step-son is spoiled as hell and my patience is wearing thin. My wife is freakin bitch and wont discipline him and gets so defensive when I lose my patience with him because he throws stuff around and tells us to pick up after him like he owns our ...
A. 24 October 2008: Some people just don't believe in hitting kids. I don't, but there are certainly better ways of disciplining a kid than letting him watch tv! ... (read in full...)
Why doesn't he understand that I don't desire sex?
Q. How do I make my husband understand that my desire in sex just isn't what it used to be? When we met quite a few years ago the sex was absolutely great! We practically had sex every day and I even looked forward to it. I must mention here that I am ...
A. 24 October 2008: He doesn't want to face it, because he doesn't want to stop having sex. You ever talk to someone online and they pretend to not understand cos their brain is not working cos all their blood went to their penis? This might be kind of like that. When ... (read in full...)
What can I do to hurry / postpone my period?
Q. Hi..I have my year 12 formal coming up and im due to have my period that night... is there anything I can do to move my period forward or later? Thanx ...
A. 24 October 2008: Just use a tampon, or buy a black dress. I wear black pants all the time.... (read in full...)
Should I date him to find out if I like him?
Q. I am 19 and a thirty year old graduate student at my school went with me to the movies. I wasn't sure it was a date but he paid and kissed me on the cheek afterwards. He acted like a perfect gentleman and suggested another movie we could see and ...
A. 22 October 2008: Idk if they do or not, but even if they do, who cares?... (read in full...)
I feel turned on by my uncle!
Q. Okay, this is so gonna sound weird and a little sick, but if anyone has some advice I would appreciate you send me a message back. Me and my uncle have been close since I was a baby. I'm turning 17 and he is turning 40 this year. Since I was 14 h...
A. 22 October 2008: No it's not right. He shouldn't be putting his hands on you. And as far as your feelings go for him, it is just a crush.... (read in full...)
I don't understand why he broke up with me but still wants the emotional connection? What's up with this guy?
Q. My BF broke up with me two months ago, and we didn't talk for five week, but now he is calling me two or three times a week and if I didn't cut off the conversation after 30 or 40 minutes, he would just keep on talking. I'm confused. He said he ...
A. 22 October 2008: Maybe he was just afraid of getting to close to you.... (read in full...)
I have an unusual vagina opening..what can I do about this?
Q. well, i'll start here, i love my boyfriend. i'm almost 17, and he wants to get engaged, i know, sounds soon, but we really love each other and we've known each other since the beginning of january, fallen in love. me and him, we can read each ...
A. 22 October 2008: See a doctor. Voice your concerns with them. ... (read in full...)
I'm not allowed hugs from my friends yet my boyfriend is???
Q. This is just about my boyfriend. He flirts and slaps other girls bum's, and hugs them and expects me to be fine with it, but then when it comes to me always hugging other people he gets really jealous and comes up and pulls me away and starts ...
A. 22 October 2008: Childish shit. I think that he's trying to make you jealous so you'll do the same. ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend acts like my friend, but that's it
Q. I really need help! I have been going out with my boyfriend for just over a month, and I thought it was going really well. He always texts me, telling me that he loves me, and when he texts me he says the sweetest things. But then I suddenly ...
A. 22 October 2008: He's inexperienced, yall are both young. Yes he's embarrassed. The boy don't know what the hell to say. Stop worrying about it. He doensn't know, just like you don't know.... (read in full...)
Why is it, that middle age men lose their sex drives?
Q. Why is that ,that middle age man loses their sex drive? Are they losing it only with their wifes? Why is that, when they get a new relationship they get it back? So is this their hormones,or just boredom ? Why is that that this is more likely t...
A. 22 October 2008: How many middle-aged men have you been with? Cos you seem confused. He may be physically just exhausted and not able to do so.... (read in full...)
My boss says he loves me, but its more of a sick infatuation.
Q. I have a boss that frequently hits on me and claimed that he loved me. It's very uncomfortable and I tried to make it clear i was not into dating him. he write messages with strange "i love you's" or things like "When we are married in vermont,...
A. 22 October 2008: Tell him that if he doesn't quit, and leave you the f*** alone, or you're going to sue his ass. And your friend's threats can get him jail time, and he's just as much involved in it, therefore he is not your friend. ... (read in full...)
Now he won't go out with her and wants to date me!
Q. Something happened today which is totally going to ruin my last year at school! My best friend swept me away from everyone else to ask me advice about he and this girl. I'm very protective of him but have decided, despite feeling a little jealous...
A. 22 October 2008: First of all, if you really care about him you wouldn't care about what your friends think. You need to be alittle bit more honest with yourself too.... (read in full...)
I recently found out my cheated on my 10 years ago. My love for her has now completely gone.
Q. I found out recently that 10 years ago, my now wife had a drunken one night fling with a co-worker. She was drinking a lot and for some crazy reason thought that I wasn't in love with her any more. She did the classic 'after it happened, I realized ...
A. 22 October 2008: You can cheat on someone you love. Cheating is about sex not love, and as far as feelings go, it's up to you.... (read in full...)
Why is my boyfriend's mate saying he loves me???
Q. Hey, I need help. I have been dating my recent boyfriend for 11 months and am very happy with him, however recently we had a stupid argument and split up for a couple of days. During those couple of days one of his best mates started texting ...
A. 22 October 2008: You should tell your bf. I had a problem like this once. ... (read in full...)
I can't stop phoning and texting him!! Help!
Q. i'm seeing someone new now. i've just come out of a 2 year relationship.............i can't stop ringing him, texting him all the time. how do i get a handle on the crazy????...
A. 22 October 2008: Are you calling your ex or him?... (read in full...)
Angry because he won't have sex but he still masturbates daily! Help!
Q. I'm angry at my boyfriend, he masturbates daily and lies about it. We don't have sex anymore and when I ask him about it he comes up with a different answer every time. I don't know if he's lying or not. We are always talking about breaking up and ...
A. 22 October 2008: He's no longer interested ne more. Typical male behavior.... (read in full...)
Should I date him to find out if I like him?
Q. I am 19 and a thirty year old graduate student at my school went with me to the movies. I wasn't sure it was a date but he paid and kissed me on the cheek afterwards. He acted like a perfect gentleman and suggested another movie we could see and ...
A. 22 October 2008: Yes that was a date, and you should date him to find out if you like him.... (read in full...)
We got involved and she went to break it off with her bf! Haven't heard from her..should I be worried?
Q. I started to see a girl 3 months ago thing escalated pretty quickly she practically lives at my place over 5 or 6 nights a week its great we started as friends and i knew she had a boyfriend oversees after on month of friendship it turned into t...
A. 22 October 2008: I hope you didn't pay for the plane trip, and yes you should be very worried.... (read in full...)
I want my husband to compromise more with me.
Q. I am 32 years old and my husband is 45. I find that one he acts like he doesn't remember important conversations unless it has something to do with something he likes. He only satisfies me 50% of the time when we're in bed. He always says things ...
A. 22 October 2008: He sounds like he's a selfish man. Get used to it or leave, because he's not going to change. He sounds very immature. All about himself.... (read in full...)
He's not fulfilling his promises to me...should I still date him or not?
Q. Ok so I work in the nightclub industry as a dancer for three years, and have begun to really hate it. Then about a month ago, I met a guy in there whom i liked, and he promised to take care of my bills and whatever i needed, so long as i didn't ...
A. 22 October 2008: No. He only wants to keep you as his dirty little secret. He's only dating you because he finds you attractive. He is one of those "you owe me" guys. Buy a chick something, didn't get what he wanted, so now you're a gold-digger.... (read in full...)
I'm 2 days late! Should I worry?
Q. I'm 14 my boyfriend and I had protected sex almost a month ago now I'm supposed to be on my period but I'm 2 days late and really worried I know it sounds bad and yes my parents are very religious...I have been with him for more then a year and it ...
A. 22 October 2008: Continue using condoms. Test monthly and don't worry about two days. You are too young to have a regular period.... (read in full...)
Do I have cause to think he might be cheating on me or am I being paranoid?
Q. I made arrangements with my boyfriend and some of our friends to go out for my birthday last weekend (Sat eve/all day Sun). Up until the Wednesday of last week he seemed very enthusiastic, but then he text me saying 'shall we see what the weather ...
A. 22 October 2008: He probably just didn't want to go, but didn't want to hurt her feelings. You should stop being so clingy, that's probably what aggravates him.... (read in full...)
Should I tell my mum before she finds out herself?
Q. Hi, well my question/problem is this- I am 15 and recently had sex with my boyfriend of 11 month. We both love each other and don't regret anything but recently one of my friends slept with a boy from school and her mum and dad found out via her ...
A. 8 October 2008: Keep private things private.... (read in full...)
My aunt tells me that I should wait a year or so to have sex because she said the older you wait to have sex the better it will be for you.
Q. hi, I'm a virgin and I'm 18. I really do want to have sex but I take my virginity a lot serious. My aunt tells me that I should wait a year or so to have sex because she said the older you wait to have sex the better it will be for you. Do you ...
A. 8 October 2008: Maybe so, maybe not.
Maybe so, because 18 is a young age.
Maybe not, cos I heard that the longer you wait, the more it hurts your first time. Don't know if that's true or not.... (read in full...)
Boyfriend in control....
Q. Dear cupid, I love my boyfriend very much. But when ever I go to visit him or if I go to his house he only wants to play computer games unless were out. Also he likes to control me whenever he doesn't get something when I don't want him to have it ...
A. 2 October 2008: I agree with the rest. Tell him how you feel. If he doesn't change, leave.... (read in full...)
Annoyed with boyfriend needing space....
Q. Annoyed by IM with boyfriend...He's a boyfriend of six years. He wanted more space the last few months. So now we see each other one day during the week and on weekends. I am sticking to the days we agreed to. I had plans for the night on our ...
A. 2 October 2008: I would say "Have fun." and hang up the phone, but that's me, and I don't think that's the response you were looking for.
Just tell him that he was the one who wanted space, and that you were sticking to his plan, so ask him what his problem ... (read in full...)
Our marriage is devoid of physical intimacy. Any suggestions?
Q. My wife and I are having problems in our marriage; I have been great difficulty living in a marital relationship that is almost entirely devoid of physical intimacy. This is with the kiss, touch, embrace and sex. For the past ten years we have had ...
A. 2 October 2008: Sex is not a need, it is a want, but God Bless you for being physically faithful to her.
When you told her that story it was like you were saying, "See what you could've caused by not sleeping with me?" It's not her fault that you were tempted ... (read in full...)
I need help! She's driving me insane....
Q. Im 16 years old, and ive just started seein this girl since sunday, the thing is we have always had a soft spot for each other but nothing really came of it, until sunday when i went to see her. So anyway sunday went great got along with her b...
A. 1 October 2008: Go back to how you used to be. Stop texting so much, etc. Maybe she will start to miss you again. If not, maybe say the same things she used to say to you, "You take too long to text back, etc."... (read in full...)
I miss my baby with all my heart. I shaped up and changed for her. Please - does anyone know how I can win her back?
Q. On the last day of high school in may of 05, some random girl i didnt know came up to me and told me her friend liked me. That night i got to meet the girl in person - and boy was i scared. Since then we have been together until the 23rd of ...
A. 1 October 2008: Sorry for your loss. Maybe just send her one last email saying, "Okay, if you want me to leave you alone, I will, but I will miss you." After that just try to move on. Your problem makes me want to cry, seriously. ... (read in full...)
I'm dating a wonderful man, but he is dependent on medication, which makes it hard to connect. Do I walk away?
Q. I am a 48yo female dating a wonderful 50yo man, the thing is that I realized he was dependant on oxycodone for a shoulder injury and I confronted him. He is on suboxine, however he seems to be in a deep depression, one day he would seem great, then ...
A. 1 October 2008: Sounds like either depression or bipolar. Have him see a therapist. She will ask him questions to determine which it is he has.... (read in full...)
I get really jealous when other girls flirt with my best guy friend. Surely I can't like him?
Q. I'm really sorry this is so long but it requires a fair bit of explanation :D So a few years ago I was stranded in this class, in which I was the only girl. That sucked. Then this guy (then kinda funny/nerdy looking XD) sat next to me and was ju...
A. 1 October 2008: Talk to him about this. lol He is your best friend, after all. Ask him how he can tell if he like likes someone. I know that this might cos him to think that you like him, but you just might, and if you find that you don't, just say something like, ... (read in full...)
I found naughty pics on her phone, but she says they were for a job at a strip club. Is she hiding something?
Q. i think my girlfriend is cheating i found some naughty pics of her on her phone and asked her who she sent them too. she said it was a strip club for a job. i dont think strip clubs do job interviews over text messaging. then she sais the lady she ...
A. 1 October 2008: Yes, she is. If you have suspicions, she should be open and honest with you, because if she were worried about you cheating on her, she would want you to speak to her the same way.... (read in full...)
I'm not a sex addict, am I?
Q. I'm not a sex addict am I? My wife just tells me I may be but i'm not that convinced I am. She is 6 years older than me and has already been around the block. Im in the military and I have to leave for certain things. Recently I went to another ...
A. 1 October 2008: She has no right to call you that, with all of those toys she has. If she wants you to stop masturbating, I say she give it up too.... (read in full...)
Boundaries with my boyfriend?
Q. I am (was) dating a guy that I knew had a "past" (prison "stuff") and I still went out with him. I have a habit of saying "I'm Sorry" and he told me to leave and respect his boundaries. Then the other day I tried to surprise him with a home made ...
A. 1 October 2008: Boundaries are fine, but since when did coming to his house mean you were violating his boundaries? Did he tell you not to come to his house? You were trying to be nice to him, and he was mean to you. I suggest that you find someone else, who ... (read in full...)
She's infatuated with this married man...so I am thinking I may never have a chance again! Advice needed!!
Q. My girlfriend of 3 years broke up with me about a month ago. We have a 2 1/2 year old son. We are sharing custody. Our relationship had been declining for months as the pressures of school, work, raising a child, and living with my parents chipp...
A. 1 October 2008: Sounds like she is going to get hurt badly. Sorry you got tangled up in this as well.... (read in full...)
I'm almost certain he doesn't like me. But now,.he's showing an interest...what is going on?
Q. Well, there's this guy I've known for a very long time. For about a month or two recently, there were many rumours that he liked me. I thought they were true cos he got all concern over the littlelest things that happen to me. But currently, he ...
A. 1 October 2008: You're welcome. I kind of understand what you mean. Flirting is one thing, but I don't like it when guys stare at me, either. lol ... (read in full...)
She's infatuated with this married man...so I am thinking I may never have a chance again! Advice needed!!
Q. My girlfriend of 3 years broke up with me about a month ago. We have a 2 1/2 year old son. We are sharing custody. Our relationship had been declining for months as the pressures of school, work, raising a child, and living with my parents chipp...
A. 30 September 2008: If she's with a married man, I think that you deserve better. Find a woman that your child can look up to!... (read in full...)
I'm almost certain he doesn't like me. But now,.he's showing an interest...what is going on?
Q. Well, there's this guy I've known for a very long time. For about a month or two recently, there were many rumours that he liked me. I thought they were true cos he got all concern over the littlelest things that happen to me. But currently, he ...
A. 30 September 2008: I'd avoid him, flirting with you, then with your friend, unless he was trying to make you jealous. Ask him what's going on.... (read in full...)
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