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*ilifoxy
writes:Loads of my mates talk about masturbation and I tried it but it is really painful and uncomfortable when I fingered myself, is this odd and does this mean that when I have sex (with a man!) will I not enjoy it? Reply to this Question
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reader, chlez83  +, writes (26 November 2007):
Sweet one don't ever feel pressured by friends.When you are hooked up on musturbation,you think of sex ALOT.You'll even want to musturbate in class so please get your mind off it and make more friends who don't always talk about sex and musturbation.If you would really like to know why it hurts is because you are not as gentle as your future boyfriend would do it to you.You were not as wet because you are still learning how to arouse yourself.You'll be surprised at how many other ways you can be turned on.In short you are inexperienced and don't rush to gain that experience.You are still young.Enjoy your youth.All the best.
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reader, muffy  +, writes (26 November 2007):
 well maybe you did something wrong.maybe you werent turned on so you werent ready so it hurt.but you probably will enjoy it cuz a lot of people do.i hope i helpedlove and kisses
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reader, thatgothgirl20 +, writes (26 November 2007):
 Just enjoy your childhood. It will be many years before you even have sex with a man.
Or if you are really set on this, ask your girl friends how they do it, since they obviously act like it's so awesome. Tell them that it hurts you, so they don't think that you are being weird when you ask this.
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reader, O Connor  +, writes (25 November 2007):
 hey hun, you were obviously not in the mood should we say!! the other thing is were you very dry? the thing about masturbation is that you really just need to practice and explore, finding out wat you like etc. but if you are not fully comfortable doing it yet then hold back from it. if you need any more help id be happy to give you more advice, good luck hun xxx
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reader, Fairy_Lu +, writes (25 November 2007):
 You probably werent in the mood to masterbate and so your body wasnt prepared, it doesnt mean you wont enjoy sex it just means your not ready to explore yourself and sexuality
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reader, xxbaybeegal +, writes (25 November 2007):
 maybe your not ready hunni, like the reader love-him sed u have 2 be well lubricated or the skin goes dry and can be quite painful wen u masturbate. if your not ready dont force yourself to do just cuz every1 else is doing it. do it wen ur comfortable. and that has nuthin to do with when you have sex with a man later on in life
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reader, lilifoxy +, writes (25 November 2007):
lilifoxy is verified as being by the original poster of the question i have masturbated with my clit but not with my actuall vagina
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reader, love-him +, writes (25 November 2007):
 Hey hon, the reason it was uncomfortable, means you were probably not lubricated enough, which happens when you are 'turned on' when the time comes for you to have sex, you will need to be fully relaxed and lubricated. I hope i helped, Feel free to mail me aout anything x
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 November 2007): You'll enjoy it when your body is ready for it - which obviously is not yet!
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