He's got no secrets from me but it still feels wrong to spy and check up on him.
Q. I have been with my man for about 4 and a half years. about 2 months ago his ex fience found him on facebook, then started calling my house. She stopped for a while but the other day she stared messaging him and everytime I entered the room he would ...
A. 4 December 2008: I hope all goes well for you. He might've told her to leave him alone on the phone or something, but then continued talking to her on messenger. He may be giving her mixed signals, because he feels sorry for her or something.
Take care.
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I feel awful for cheating - but feel tempted to do it again!
Q. i cheated on my husband about two weeks ago with an old fling that i had previuosly been intimate with, (way prior to meeting my husband). i have been married for 3 1/2 years, and we have 2 children under the age of three. our relationship has...
A. 2 December 2008: Tell him. This will help prevent you from doing it again.... (read in full...)
He's got no secrets from me but it still feels wrong to spy and check up on him.
Q. I have been with my man for about 4 and a half years. about 2 months ago his ex fience found him on facebook, then started calling my house. She stopped for a while but the other day she stared messaging him and everytime I entered the room he would ...
A. 2 December 2008: Regardless of whether it was "morally" wrong or not, knowledge is power. I'm sorry this happened. My husband has had ex's trying to contact him before as well, and he has told them to go away. One wouldn't even believe that he was married, so I told ... (read in full...)
We've been going out but he says he doesn't want a relationship!
Q. Hi, I have dated my friend now for 4 months. We talk everyday and go out very frequently even though we both have very demanding careers. The problem is that he has refused to define what the relationship is. He keeps saying he isnt ready for...
A. 2 December 2008: Wait two more months, then move on.
Best Wishes,
Amanda... (read in full...)
Is it cheating if he feels her breasts?
Q. hey is it considered cheating on your girlfriend if your boyfriend feels another girls breasts? x thanks x...
A. 2 December 2008: If he's not a booby doctor, yes it is.... (read in full...)
I liked him first but she didn't know and now they are going out - what do I do?
Q. Hi to who ever answers this. My problem is my best-friend likes this guy,and weeks before i had been hinting that i like him as more than a friend. But she was completely navie to what i was telling her. Then last week she tells me that she likes ...
A. 2 December 2008: I say let him go. At this age boys come and boys go.
If he really wants you, he will come to you. Also this way, you will not be at fault.
Maybe if you two started dating you could keep it a secret from her.... (read in full...)
How do I get rid of this "shadow" from shaving?
Q. I recently have started shaving 'down there' but noticed that there is always a sort of shadow left, even if I do a really good job when shaving. I just wondered if this is normal and if not how I can get rid of it. Thanks....
A. 2 December 2008: It's normal.
Maybe try a bikini wax instead of shaving? Caution though, this will hurt really badly. They also have those sprays that spray away hair, but I am not sure if these could irritate down there or what.
Best wishes,
Amanda... (read in full...)
Haven't heard from him, what do you think is wrong?
Q. Can someone give me their views please! I've been seeing this guy since July, we knew each other before but started talking through mutual friends this year, I been going to his house almost every week sometimes more, longest I haven't seen him was ...
A. 2 December 2008: Maybe he is waiting for you to make the next move.
You know a relationship is about both parties contacting each other from time to time. If one is always pursuing, it begins to feel weird to that one.
I'm sure he wants to feel wanted too.
B... (read in full...)
Did I break my hymen? Am I still a virgin?
Q. i was in my room and experimetin with a ----- as my partents were not home, to start with it wouldni go in to my vigina and then i added a little water to it and it then when in really easy, but it went in really fast to andd i felt a small pain and ...
A. 2 December 2008: If it was a little blood, and it went in pretty deep, it could be blood from your cervix, not your hymen. ... (read in full...)
Why is his semen clear??
Q. Hello. Okay so let me start by saying i'm 17. (my age is wrong on this) anyway. So i just started giving my boyfriend handjobs, and his cum is clear. (Hes hit puberty and all) (hes 18) Why is it clear and not a whiteish color? I'm worried. Is ...
A. 2 December 2008: Maybe he eats a lot of fatty foods, and that's why it is oily.... (read in full...)
How long does a penis have to be to break a hymen?
Q. Can a three inch penis break a girls hymen? i wanted to know how much it takes, i know you can pop it fingering yourself or with tampons but how long does a dick have to be to pop it?...
A. 2 December 2008: Sometimes not even a long one can break it, depending on what type of hymen you have. The hymen is in front of the vaginal opening. There are different types of hymens. If you have a crescent moon hymen that is at the bottom, his penis could go ... (read in full...)
Great guy! No sexual activity, to speak of between us, what can I do?
Q. I've been dating my boyfriend for almost three years now. When i met him he was a virgin, I was also his first girlfriend. He is the greatest guy i ever dated. Except when it comes into the bedroom. He hardly ever wants to have sex or fool around, ...
A. 1 December 2008: He needs to stop being selfish in the way of trying things. You are willing to get into the positions he likes, why isn't he willing to get into the positions that you like?
To be honest, he sounds gay to me....not saying that someone has to like ... (read in full...)
My little sister is flat chested, and embarrassed, is there anything that can help?
Q. hi i'm a lil worried about my young sister, she's 16 and got her period last year but she's still flat chested, i mean really flat! i was nothing like her when i was her age, but i was chubby while she's sooo skinny! she's always embarrasse...
A. 1 December 2008: I would suggest that you help her have fake breasts, but this can backfire, in that she could hook up with a guy, and be worried that he'd find out she has nothing.
Point to her the benefits of not having big breasts (you know females seem to ... (read in full...)
He has feelings for me one minute and none the next!
Q. im 14 and ive really liked this guy (15) for about 3 years and ive known him since early primary school. Well i fell for him during my first year of high school and that whole year he acted like he had feelings for me and at the end of the year ...
A. 1 December 2008: Ask him what he is talking about. "We weren't really friends anyways," could mean two things, either one you were never friends as in you were just acquaintences, or two he thinks there was something more going on.
Ask him why he acts so weird, s... (read in full...)
How do I confront my GF about a sketchy e-mail to her ex I discovered?
Q. How do I confront my girlfriend about an sketchy email she sent to her ex that I discovered? I had a feeling my girlfriend was talking to her ex so I checked her email on her phone and sure enough there was a email sent to him. It really struck h...
A. 1 December 2008: Just tell her that she can't be playing games with your heart ne more and leave it at that. You deserve better. ... (read in full...)
I'm so confused about my two guys...
Q. A while ago I met this guy and we got together and I fell very very deeply in love with him. So deeply that I knew I wanted to spend my life with him. But I am young and I didn't want to be held down yet so I broke up with him in the intention of ...
A. 1 December 2008: Get back with guy number one and stop playing with guy number two's heart.
Question: Are you sure that you are really in love with guy number one? I ask this because, why would u feel tied down to someone you love?... (read in full...)
Do I have a reason to be upset that he contacts his ex when I'm not around?
Q. Not sure if I'm just being jealous or if I have a reason to be upset. My BF who is recently divorced, no kids, shares a dog with his ex. She had him over Thanksgiving and on Thanksgiving Day he waited until I was in the shower to text her to ...
A. 1 December 2008: You have every reason and right to be upset, because he is not being honest with you. It's not even about his ex, it's about him not being honest with you.... (read in full...)
I''ve started to feel I'm not ready for a serious relationship at 17, any advice?
Q. I've been with my girlfriend for over a year now and we've had some great times but i've started to feel as if i'm not ready for a serious relationship and my feeling towards her have changed. Everything feels the same now and nothing changes....
A. 1 December 2008: These are called fickle feelings.
Weigh out the pros and cons of staying with her.
She shouldn't be relying on you too heavily emotionally as this could lead to codependency. Look up codependency online and learn to set boundaries with ... (read in full...)
We've never had unprotected sex but I'm 4 weeks late, what could be wrong?
Q. Hi there, so me and my boyfriend have done everything, but weve never atually had sex without protection. And now I'm over 4 weeks late on my period. I'm never exactly regular but I've only ever been late or early by a week at the most. What could ...
A. 1 December 2008: Get a pregnancy test with your allowance (if you get one.) If it is not enough, save up for one.
My husband's sister didn't have her period for four or five months once, and nothing was wrong with her, and she wasn't pregnant.
But yeah, go ... (read in full...)
I climax too fast, even in case of a slow intercourse, what can I do to change this?
Q. Hi. Me and my husband have been married for four months. I've always/usually have came faster than him, but I was on Lexapro for a time, and it took me longer times to cum, compared to what it used to take me. Now when we have sex, I cum really f...
A. 26 November 2008: Sorry people. I'm just a little frustrated. It's really not about conceiving, but that is a factor. My husband has a low sperm count, and I was reading in this pregnancy book that I have that if the woman cums at the same time as the husband, it can ... (read in full...)
I climax too fast, even in case of a slow intercourse, what can I do to change this?
Q. Hi. Me and my husband have been married for four months. I've always/usually have came faster than him, but I was on Lexapro for a time, and it took me longer times to cum, compared to what it used to take me. Now when we have sex, I cum really f...
A. 26 November 2008: Yes, Sandman, that is what I want to do, build up. As far as intense goes, they are quick also, they don't last a while like they used to. And I am not like the average woman, when I'm done, I'm done, unless there were multiples, which like... (read in full...)
How can he say I'm his girlfriend then turn around and say he's single?
Q. I'm 43, dating a 53 year old guy for 3 months now, he refers to me as his girl-friend. (but he says he's not ready for a commitment...) Also, I've found him on 3 online dating sites, where he lists himself as single seeking a women/activity partner. ...
A. 13 November 2008: Ask him what he means by the term "girlfriend." Does he mean a friend that is a girl?... (read in full...)
She doesn't appreciate anything I do, should I keep her?
Q. ok so i have been with my girlfriend for about 1yr and 6 mon. she has been living with me for 6 mon. this whole time i have been the only one working and i pay for everything food, if we go out, cigs, everything. i mean she does housework like ...
A. 13 November 2008: Sounds like a spoiled brat.
You need to examine her childhood. How did her parents raise her? You know, parents bring their kids to the preschool having fed them and done everything for them, and the teachers are left with the hard work of getti... (read in full...)
Husband open with me about having sex with other men !!
Q. Hello Again, I have posted before and you guys gave me very valuable and insightful information.... but I am still wondering if I am doing the right thing. I have been married for 25 years, have 3 children + 2 foster boys that are all freshmen...
A. 13 November 2008: I say get marital conseling.
How long were u with him before this started happening?... (read in full...)
His libido is nonexistent and he says he doesn't know why.
Q. What is usually the right thing to think, when your husband loses his sex drive? Do men usually know, why they don't have sex drive ,or they are not? Is it possible not to know? My husband lost his sex drive years ago, and he says, he has no i...
A. 12 November 2008: Geez there is nothing to save! A marriage without sex is just as intact as a marriage with sex. Men his age, if he is in your age range, they get tired. Stop worrying so much about it. Sex isn't love. Focus on the other ways he shows his love to ... (read in full...)
What should I do about this guy??? Help!
Q. Okay so i really like this guy, and i think he likes me too. see we met in this teen leadership class, which is a class where you pretty much spend time with new people and make new friends, and he sat by me all midterm. we are really close now, and ...
A. 29 October 2008: If you want to go out with this guy, you've got to accept him fully for who he is, otherwise you will fall deeper and deeper for someone who has certain qualities that they most likely aren't going to change for you.
He might like you, but if i... (read in full...)
Is it fair to stay with someone you aren't in love with?
Q. I am in a relationship and have been for almost a year. Im 25 and he's 28. We don't call eachother boyfriend/girlfriend. We don't say I love you. We don't talk about a future together. He is the nicest guy and treats me bettter than any guys ...
A. 27 October 2008: Talk to him about these feelings and see if he feels the same. ... (read in full...)
I had sex saturday night and the condom split.
Q. I had sex saturday night and the condom split. I took the morning after pill on the sunday morning then sunday night had sex and the condom split again! what should i do ?...
A. 27 October 2008: I agree with what someone said earlier. The condom might be too small for him. Get a bigger one. ... (read in full...)
I need reassurance - people are saying I am not really in love with him.
Q. Someone has said that because I am not shouting out my love for my boyfriend to the world that I am not really in love with him. I don't know if I should believe this or not because they haven't taken into fact that I am an extremely shy person a...
A. 27 October 2008: You shouldn't care what your family thinks if you truly love him. So what if they ridicule you?
It's not about what other people think-it's about what YOU think. ... (read in full...)
My roomates talk behind my back! How can I deal with this?
Q. I live with 5 girls and 4 of them talk shit behind my back. We all know each other through a mutual friend who used to be my best friend until she really betrayed mw. She moved away and we had a falling out but the other girls worship the ground she ...
A. 27 October 2008: My roomates are about the same way (except for the excessively talking about me.) My best advice is just to ignore them. And if they think that you are mean for asking them to keep it down, it's their loss. This just shows that you are assertive. ... (read in full...)
Is my boyfriend gay???
Q. I know this is stereotypical, but the only time he gets off is when he has sex from behind. And he always want to have anal. Just recently we watched an immoral video, i believe, about some horse f*****g a guy. I was disgusted. He was amused, ...
A. 26 October 2008: If he was gay, why would he be with you? I know some guys act like they got something to hide, but does he act this way?... (read in full...)
Her parents have grounded her and taken her phone away...
Q. Ok so I'm sure you all have heard this story a billion times, but I never thought it would happen to me. Last night I ordered some pizza to this girl's house that I don't like as a joke, and now my girlfriend tells me her parents said she is ...
A. 24 October 2008: Her parents sound really unfair. Let me get this straight, they are punishing HER for something YOU did?
It's not like you are their child as well.
They probably did this because they are worried about you influencing her. Regardless of wh... (read in full...)
How can I tell my teacher that I admire him?
Q. i admire my teacher and i want it to express or say it to him. when i was reading some of the questions, i noticed that the people who are responsing says that the student-teacher relationship is forbidden. i want to tell him that i admire him. wh...
A. 24 October 2008: My advice is just wait for him to make a move or say something first. If you are in college, visit him during his office hours, and see if he says ne thing to you there that he wouldn't say in class. ... (read in full...)
Why is sex so important to men?
Q. Why do men love sex so much? And dont try to tell me that women love it just as much. I mean sure if feels great to have that connection with someone is amazing but we dont think about it 24 hours a day and dont lie or say anything just to get laid. ...
A. 24 October 2008: I'm going to say to you what some weird man said to my mom, "You've been hurt, haven't you?"
You really need to get out more, because it sounds like you are meeting the wrong kind of men. ... (read in full...)
I am married but get crushes on other men so easily.
Q. Dear aunts and uncles. I am a married woman and I love my husband so much. He is very nice and so sweet but I have one problem with me. I get a crush on other men so easily but I have never cheated on my husband physically. Please help me, how do I ...
A. 24 October 2008: Of course you get crushes on other men so easily, because you don't know them! You can't get rid of a feeling, so I would just advise trying to avoid these men, and not mentioning this to your husband. ... (read in full...)
How do I stop being a push-over ?
Q. I am such a pushover for everyone in my life! It's been this way since I was a really little girl and I don't know how to get out of that! Please help! It's really starting to annoy the crap out of me!...
A. 24 October 2008: Do some research. There are certain herbs or blossoms that can help you to say, "No." You just haven't broken the no line yet. After you say that first no, it will probably become addicting or more easier to say. Try counseling. Explain to your ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend finds me unattractive because of my small boobs and thin body structure...
Q. My boyfriend(for 3 yrs) feels that i am too thin for him and he is not that attracted to me since i have small boobs. It really hurts me when he comments harsh things about my body. He says that i need to become a little fat to carry on with the ...
A. 24 October 2008: You need to leave this guy. This is step one of cheating on you probably. First make you feel bad about yourself, and then when he cheats on you you end up feeling like well, I can't blame him, after all, I am so ugly. Plzzzz. Sounds like a shallow ... (read in full...)
I'm beginning to resent him, as he doesn't see himself settling for marriage and a family.
Q. Hi all, I have a concern that maybe some of you can help me with. I've been with my boyfriend for four years, but it's weird because he tells me he doesn't see himself getting married or raising a family. the problem is I do, and I had been hopi...
A. 24 October 2008: I agree, move on. Otherwise you will just keep resenting him more and more and things will not get any better. ... (read in full...)
He says that it's not cheating because it is his ex-wife!?
Q. I recently found out that my boyfriend of seven years has been sleeping with his ex-wife. He says that it was the only way to get her to act right, meaning seeing his children and lowering child support. He actually wants me to accept her and the ...
A. 24 October 2008: Drop this loser. If he wants her so much, he should remarry her. Cheating is cheating. ... (read in full...)
Forbidden feelings...
Q. Hello! Good day readers! I just wanted to ask if why are the teachers forbidden to have a relationship with their students. I admire my previous mathematics teacher. He not only taught me how to solve mathemetical problems but also he taught m...
A. 24 October 2008: I've read a story where this woman slept with her teacher and she regretted it.
One of the problems is the teacher is above you if you are still in his class. This creates power issues and favoritism.
Another is that, even if you are not in t... (read in full...)
How do I send out the right signals to members of the opposite sex?
Q. I'm 23 years old and I've never been on a first date and thus no first kiss either. People have told me I'm pretty and model-like cuz I'm tall (about 5'8"ish). I try to go out and meet guys. But I've never had a guy approach me. They usually ...
A. 24 October 2008: Of course they approach your friends. They are trying to get to know your friends so they can get up with you!
Go on an online site, such as www.pof.com. It's where me and my now husband met. I'm thinking guys aren't approaching you, because ... (read in full...)
Help,should I forgive him?
Q. help! my ex boyfriend stole from me 2 times and they where very valuble things to me.the first time i gave him another chance,thn he did it again,so i ended are 8mth relationship changed my number and reported it to the police.its been 2mth now and ...
A. 24 October 2008: Oh the story of wah wah wah I had a drink and drug problem I'm so sorry I want to kill myself, I had a bad childhood, blah blah blah. He is playing mind games with you. He knows that you are a sympathetic person, and is preying on that, hoping you ... (read in full...)
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