Is it ok to ask a senior to my prom?
Q. OK, I have a few questions... 1. I'm a junior. Is it OK to ask a senior to a prom? 2. What if the girl has already attended a prom last year, is it still OK if I ask her for this year? Thanks lots....
A. 21 November 2007: I see nothing wrong with it.... (read in full...)
How do I shave my pubic hair?
Q. how do i shave my pubic hairs? ive tried multiple times before, but i cant get all of it and when i shave its all stubbly, is there a technique i need to use? thanks....
A. 21 November 2007: If you want to go the shaving route, start at the bottom of your stomach, and shave DOWN, but not too far down (you get what I'm saying?)... (read in full...)
When do you take a relationship to the "next" level?
Q. well i have been with this guy for 2 years and i love him i know i do, but we wanna take it to the next level like sex....i'm a virgin i wanna do it but dont know if i should. so should i?...
A. 20 November 2007: Don't do it if you have some doubts. Think, will I regret this tomorrow? If you don't know, don't do it. But I'm a Christian girl, so I'd wait for marriage ne ways. It's up to you. ... (read in full...)
Is this cheating and should I tell my fiance?
Q. Should i tell my fiance that i pecked a close male friend on the lips (this happened once when i had been going out with my boy for approx 2 months)? i have no feelings for this person i pecked - in fact, hes like a brother from another mother - ...
A. 20 November 2007: If it's eating you alive, just tell him. Also, there has to be a reason why your drunken close friend acted that way drunk. He may have had feelings for you back then and was finally expressing them. I know that you have no feelings for him, but I'd ... (read in full...)
Should I embark on a sex-free marriage?
Q. I'm engaged to be married and have been with my fiancee over 5 years. The first 2 years we had lots of sex. After 2 years sex got less and less now we don't have sex at all and I havent had sex for about 2 years. Dispite this I still proposed a...
A. 20 November 2007: Love is all that matters. Sex is not love.
I hate when people act like someone is starving a dog when a woman doesn't give a man sex. (ie what are you doing to that poor man, omg blah blah blah more bullcrap the bullcrap continues.) Sex is not a... (read in full...)
Am I more than a friend to him?
Q. i kissed my guy friend a few weeks ago, what should i do. after the kiss we got up from the floor and went back just hanging out like it never happened. he never talked to me after 2 weeks, he kept avoiding me, but now we do talk, and for some ...
A. 20 November 2007: Ask him:
1) Are we going out?
2) Why do you want to buy me a birthday present?
3) What's going on?
And tell him everything that you are feeling. How you feel guilty for kissing him, etc.
People can keep saying you go out with him. Only yo... (read in full...)
Will he treat me the same as my ex?
Q. my ex bestfriend is after my love he wants me to wait 4 him say 4 two years after which we get married do l accept his offer ?people are telling me he will treat me the same way my ex did what do l do?...
A. 20 November 2007: Sounds like people in your life are very skeptical of men. Don't listen to them. Just put your hands over your ears like I did and go "lallalalala" lmao... (read in full...)
Am I right or is he wrong?
Q. I met this man during my divorce. I am 47 and been together for 6 months. I have Christmas at work but not allowed to take partners. He said we will be over if I go because he doesnt like it. He always emphazise he is a one on one person. He ...
A. 20 November 2007: I agree with that everyone else said. He is too insecure, has trust issues, or is a control freak, one of those, or all of those. He should trust you. If he doesn't trust you why the hell is he going out with you? ... (read in full...)
He lied to me. How do I get over it?
Q. My husband had an 18-month secret relationship with a recently bereaved woman in another country: emails, texts, calls, lunches and an expensive birthday present. I don't think it got as far as sex, but was heading that way. Whilst I was u...
A. 20 November 2007: Haha. I'm not laughing at you. I'm laughing at you're question. "How do I get over it?" You never do. There is always that suspicion of, "Is he doing it again?" I would dump him. He treated you like you were a dumba**. None of this was your fault. ... (read in full...)
We are stuck in a rut, any ideas on how to get out of it?
Q. i only get to see my boyfriend a few times a week We have been going out 2years and all we seem to do is watch tv and go to the pub Most nights we only see each other a few hours and i need some ideas as i feel we are stuck in a rut Any one got any ...
A. 20 November 2007: Go bowling. Do something to get out of that house. ... (read in full...)
Why do I yearn to be pregnant with my bloke so much?
Q. my boyfriend and i have been together for a little over 2 years now. I'm 19 he's 22. We're extremely happy, and often talk about the future we plan to have, except lately I've been having thoughts of getting engaged, married and pregnant quite ...
A. 20 November 2007: Natural instinct? ... (read in full...)
After 3 months space, that she requested I must ask.....have I given her enough time to herself?
Q. A couple of months ago, my best mate told me that his girlfriend's best mate fancied me. His girlfriend then set me up with her best friend and we started chatting and getting to know each other through MSN and Myspace, and both realised we liked ...
A. 20 November 2007: Awwwwwwwwww....This is what I think is going on....things were probably moving way too fast for her when yall kissed on the second date. I think three months is a long enough time. You can't wait for her forever, but tell her that if yall do go out, ... (read in full...)
My husband doesn't want kids because ..he fears he might be abusive and/or violent with his kids.
Q. Me and my husband have been married 3 years now. We love each other to bits and I want to have a child with him. However the last couple of months my husband has been luke warm of the idea. When I eventually got him to open up about it he told me he ...
A. 20 November 2007: Counseling.
Counseling. Counseling. Counseling.
Listen to what he said. If he is afraid he is going to do something like that, don't have kids. ... (read in full...)
My bf and I have conflicting views on what we want in regards to sex! Help!
Q. my boyfriend and i have been together for a little over 2 years now, he's a few years(3) older than i am, and we are perfectly happy..however we seem to have conflicting views on what sexual fun is...i prefer romantic sex or "making love" if you ...
A. 20 November 2007: All I have to say is, don't do anything you don't want to do. Which is why your question confused me. You said you enjoy oral, but you prefer sex. Is it because sex feels more intimate? ... (read in full...)
His ex gf is using their child to get him back! What should I do?
Q. the person i am in love has a child with his ex girlfriend. i guess that the child will always connect him with his ex girlfriend. i am not jealous, but i think that now she is using the child to get back with him, but he says that he loves me, and ...
A. 20 November 2007: Don't deal with baby-mama drama. Leave. He needs to make a decision and not put you in the middle of this. ... (read in full...)
He says I am spoiled and immature and I don't feel good enough for him! Are we on the verge of breaking up? Advice?
Q. What shall I do? My bf and I have been dating for a few months and I thought that everything's perfect until we had a fight recently. Over some stuff I say that I completely do not mean it and I really do not see a bit deal of, and he takes off...
A. 20 November 2007: If this happened to me, I would find myself someone else. He goes out with you, yet he says you're immature. Why would anyone want to go out with someone that they thought was immature? Sounds like a head game to me, or maybe he is saying all those ... (read in full...)
I love my bf but I can't stop thinking about the boy I kissed while drunk.
Q. i'm a 16 year old girl from the uk and last week i went out with some mates and we got really drunk and i snogged with these two lads, one was my mate's bf ad the other was just a mate. we had a kiss and a cuddle and both touched my boobs, when my ...
A. 17 November 2007: If drinking makes you do such things, stop drinking.... (read in full...)
3 years apart - can we get back together?
Q. Hi Myself and my ex split up nearly 3 years ago. I think she had post natal depression but not sure. We have a little boy of 3. I have never stopped loving my ex and miss her and my son dearly. I also have a little girl of 12 who I have cus...
A. 17 November 2007: I don't know what kind of man you are, or were to her, but that is so sweet. If she says she has no feelings for you then that is pretty straightforward. Sorry. ... (read in full...)
We still love each other but there's nothing there
Q. Me and my girlfriend have been together just over a year bt the last few weeks havent been the same i mean we both still love each other and want to be with each other but thes nothing there if that makes sense basically it feels like were best ...
A. 17 November 2007: There's a difference between loving someone, and being "in love." Being "in love" is that wonderful feeling that you get......I don't know how to describe it. Yes it feels good to love someone also, but there's a difference between being "in love" ... (read in full...)
I'm torn - do I break up with him or not?
Q. Im 18 and my boyfriend (24) who i have been with for a year have hit a bump in our relationship. Clearly you can see there is an age gap between us, and that is part of the problem. He's wanting more out of our relationship, more of a commitment. ...
A. 17 November 2007: Compromise. I'm not saying break up, but I am saying he should respect the fact that you have school. School is more important than a guy. He's had time to progress and go to school (if he has). Now, he needs to be understanding and give you that. ... (read in full...)
Should I have stuck around and fought for him
Q. Okay so basically I am best friends with my ex. And I am in love with him too. He told me he loves me and I believe him because we have so much history with eachother but now hes got a new girlfriend and has done for last 6 months. He says he loves ...
A. 17 November 2007: You did the right thing. Trust me, you don't need the guilt. ... (read in full...)
Everytime she goes out with friends, she's there because she's part of the group
Q. Hello, I've got this problem. My girlfriend stopped seeing her former "best" friend. The reason is long time ago, when she was a kid, she was telling mean things about her. Everytime she forgave her. I don't understand why, because everytim...
A. 17 November 2007: Let her handle this. Hopefully she will eventually become fed up and stand up for herself. ... (read in full...)
What should I do about different sex views.
Q. My girlfriend that I have been steady with for 5 months doesn't view sex the same way I do. She is very religious while I am not. However, we don't fight about religious views yet she won't do many sexual things because of it. She is very in...
A. 17 November 2007: If you really love her, you will stop pressuring her into doing things that she does not want to do. You will wait for her. ... (read in full...)
Just met a guy in a club, he wants me to go to his house this Saturday. What should I do?
Q. ive been out with a guy that i met in a club, our date was good. now he wants me to go to his house on saturday. what should i do?...
A. 1 November 2007: I agree. Tell him it's too soon. ... (read in full...)
White discharge from my nipple. Is this normal?
Q. So this is really embarresing, but some white discharge from the nipple, that normal? I'm kinda scared, and totally embaressed. ...
A. 24 October 2007: quite common. dont worry. ... (read in full...)
Should I make a move on halloween?
Q. Theres this girl my best friend since like 2006.... we always hang out together talk on msn. We both have boyfriends (we go threw them very fast) She's very pretty, I've grown so close to her. We always call each other sisters. The point is i ...
A. 24 October 2007: Ask. Be direct. She could be one of those people who when she is joking around, others take her seriously. Let her know your intentions.
Also how would this affect your relationship with your bf? How would this affect her relationship with her... (read in full...)
He says he cares about me, then says he doesn't, it's a repeated and confusing situation.
Q. my name is jen i am 16 years old me and this boy(the love of my life) started goin out april 2006 he broke up with me a couple weeks ago we went out a year and a half... he told me he just wants to be friends he never wants to be with me agai...
A. 17 September 2007: You shouldn't have these problems at sixteen. If he can't make up his mind, bye bye. You deserve better. ... (read in full...)
Two months after marriage and we already have problems. Is this marriage already over?
Q. I am wondering what to do about my marriage. I am in my early 20's and I just got married 2 months ago. I am in Germany with my husband because he is in the army. So he works for the army here and I left everything from the States to come be with ...
A. 31 August 2007: He shouldn't be blowing you off like that. Communication is the key, and apparently he doesn't want to communicate. He's treating you condescendingly, and if I were you I'd give him an ultimatum. ie "If you don't start finding time for me/to ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend dumped me but she's still upset and down; doesn't that mean she loves me, despite what she says?
Q. just split up with my girl of 2 years and i worship the ground she walks on we split up coz she sed she didnt love me anymore ,but theres a guy at her work who she talks about she said she doesnt fancy him justs likes his pesonality im realy torn up ...
A. 8 August 2007: maybe shes upset and down cos she was so used to being around someone for awhile. im not trying to squash ur hopes and dreams, but maybe her feelings are not always about u. ... (read in full...)
I'm married and have been seeing a married woman; we know it's wrong but we're not happy in our marriages
Q. I am a 32 year old male and i have been married for seven years and have a son. Like all marriages we have had our ups and downs but i feel that my feelings for my wife are not as strong as they should be. Over the past two years i have developed ...
A. 8 August 2007: Get divorces. Get married. It's better than hiding all the time. ... (read in full...)
We're getting married but I'm no longer sure how I feel
Q. ive been with my partner for 3 years we have 2 kids and are getting married next year.he is 39 and im 22. he only wants to sleep with me when he wants. one minute he will be all over me then next minute he will be distanced.i love him but i dont how ...
A. 8 August 2007: Ask him what his deal is. Maybe you need a break from each other some how to see how you do feel about him. ... (read in full...)
Should I tell my bff that I like her ex? She already said that she would never forgive me.
Q. My bff went out with this guy! They broke up about 3 weeks later! After they did, her ex and I became really good friends! So good that people think that we're a couple and I think I might like him! So one day I ask my friend what she would do if I ...
A. 8 August 2007: If you and your friend are a lot alike, and her bf broke up with her, what makes you think yall will stay together longer? ... (read in full...)
We're both dating other people but still want each other; should we cheat on our partners?
Q. I have been knowing a boy for about 5 years. We used to like each other but then went different ways. He now has a girlfriend and I have a boyfriend. We still like each other so he asked me to cheat on my boyfriend with him. I don't know what to ...
A. 8 August 2007: Cheating is wrong. ... (read in full...)
Why would the guy I like want to see me so suddenly?
Q. Well yesterday the guy I like called me for the first time in like a month and a half..So we were talking and we were both bored becuz it wuz around 11pm..So then he asked me to go to Mcdonalds so I could see him and I told him my parents are not ...
A. 8 August 2007: I agree. Definetly a booty call. He knows that you like him probably, so he's using that to his advantage. ... (read in full...)
I wanted my best friend but he said it wasn't an option, so I started dating a great guy; my friend got jealous and now I'm dating him but I have regrets
Q. So my best friend and I have been dancing around a relationship for over a 1 year. We both felt the same way about each other, but he repeatedly told me that nothing more would ever come about. So, after many conversation and agonizing nights I ...
A. 8 August 2007: I don't know. Sounds like he wanted you just because someone else had you. ... (read in full...)
My friends are being really bitchy and it's driving me mad
Q. Im a teen and im really upset because recantly my friends are being bitches. One keeps snapping at me and saying horrible things. The other slags me off behind my back. Another makes arguments when theres no need to. IM FED UP! what should I do?...
A. 8 August 2007: Get new friends. ... (read in full...)
When he asks why we're together or why I love him, I never know what to say
Q. i want to know how to communicate with your lover, when ever he talks about why you love him or why we are in to relationship. i cant answer and he looks like am not serious. i want to know how to alway talk with him. thanks...
A. 8 August 2007: well it depends on how long you have been together. You can say general things if you've been together a short time, but if a longer time, than you know details about his personality about why you like him so much. Maybe tell him how he makes you ... (read in full...)
He said that he couldn't go out, but I think he's making up excuses!
Q. Yesterday, i texted my crush (he likes me, too, he told me) that i wanted him to come to a movie with my friends and i. well two hours later (yeah ik!!) he finally texted back what time. So i told him then he said i have football. And i know he ...
A. 7 August 2007: Tell him how you are feeling. Otherwise you're just going to drive yourself crazy thinking about it. ... (read in full...)
Our first week together we talked about marriage and kids. Now it's been 7 months and he still hasn't said he loves me!
Q. hi, im madly in love with my boyfriend of 7 months, when we got together i told him i was looking for a husband not just abit of fun, he was fine with this, our first weeks together we talked about our future, our wedding, our house, our children, ...
A. 7 August 2007: My bf's best friend didn't tell someone he went out with that he loved her until they were engaged. Some people fall in love quickly, others don't. It just depends on the person. I agree with the first answer. Be patient. Take things slow. It hasn't ... (read in full...)
I'm not sure what feelings I have for my husband but I don't think its love! I'm walking on eggshells, here, and feel trapped...
Q. I am going round in circles with my feelings. Some days I am millimetres from leaving my husband (of 13 years - no children) he knows what buttons to press but then I stay - security, familiarity, finances etc etc. I'm not sure what feelings I ...
A. 7 August 2007: Sounds like borderline personality disorder. There is a book called Walking on Eggshells. you should check it out. i bet he has all of the symptoms. If you want to leave him, I say go for it. ... (read in full...)
Couldn't we be just good friends..I miss that! Would that be foolish of me?
Q. My boyfriend dumped me 7 months ago after 5 years together. I think I've coped with it well and have finally come to terms that it's over. In fact I'm enjoying the time to myself and doing all the things I want to without having to worry about ...
A. 6 August 2007: the problem is u wrote him a letter. call him and ask him. something more direct than a letter. ... (read in full...)
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