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writes:I have been hanging out with my ex. And we keep hanging out more and more. She flirts with me and gets jealous when I am hanging out with other chicks. It seams like she wants to date me again, because she is really flirts and likes to put her legs or some part of her body over mine, and always wants to sleep in the same bead as me. But she talks to his other guy on the phone a lot and flirts with him. This guy is the reason why we broke up. Is she just confused about her feelings that she has for me and him? Dose she want me back? How can I get her back?
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reader, TomWilkinson  +, writes (21 November 2007):
 You shouldn't get back with this girl. This sounds very much like she is using you emotionally. She likes the attention she is getting from you but doesn't want it to be a relationship, she wants to be able to do what (and who) she wants, and know that you're still there when she wants you.
I've had this done to me and from what you've said it sounds very very similar. My advice would be to not persue a relationship with her again, and try to avoid spending as much time with her.
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reader, redshoes83 +, writes (21 November 2007):
 I know girls like this and i'm afraid to say they just play men. My boyfriend has this ex (who actually i do like as a person and we do talk as friends) but she was playing him and saying she loved him and flirting and stuff a while ago even though she has a boyfriend, it turned out that she was just missing some attention from her relationship and was seeking comfort from someone she had already been close to as an easy option. Obviously this may not be the case, but I think you should be honest an upfront and ask her why she is acting this way with you and what is going on with the other guy. She might really have feelings for you and be using him as a way to make you jealous and want her more. Who knows its a tricky situation and unless one of you is outwardly honest about how you feel you will never properly find out how she is feeling and she will not know about how you are feeling and these games will continue to go on and confuse you.....
RING HER talk it out tell her how you feel and go from there,
hope it goes okay xxxxxxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 November 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questioni don't, i am just hoping i guess. i don't know if i should even try to get back together with her for that reason but i want to
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reader, thatgothgirl20 +, writes (21 November 2007):
 How do you know that if you get back together she is not going to go back to the other guy again?
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