How do I create an e-mail that sounds flirty?
Q. Other than in person, this guy I am kinda seeing and I mainly communicate via e-mail because he doesn't like talking on the phone. Our e-mails used to be a lot more flirty but the last 2 or so were short and not flirty at all. I'd like to get it ...
A. 4 June 2008: Hi again,
yeah sure, some people just arent phone people , I guess it is not that uncommon. Sorry if I put some thoughts into your head...oopsie.
Anyway, I'd just cut and paste Ms Strict's little email if I were you - but try and come up with... (read in full...)
Can a relationship work without the physical spark?
Q. I have been through a marriage break up about 1.5yrs ago,I have met somebody else we get on great but sometimes I really do not want the physical side of things..can a relationship work without a spark..? We have been together 6mths....
A. 3 June 2008: Hi there,
Yes I think it certainly can. But I believe this type of relationship to be more like a close friendship.
You are still young, so I think at some stage you will miss the physical intimacy a relationship offers. I'm sure he will too... (read in full...)
Why do they ejaculate on my belly? Is this normal?
Q. I am on the pill and recently started having sex. Even though I am supposed to be safe, the boys I've been with still pull out and ejaculate on my belly. My friend tells me all guys like to do this. Is this normal? Is it necessary at all?...
A. 3 June 2008: Hi,
We guys do this just in case there is a slightest risk of you getting pregnant.
the only thing that concerns me is that you seem to be referring to more than one guy ejaculating inside you. You should be very careful you may pick up an STD , ... (read in full...)
I dream of my ex every night
Q. Can anyone help me with every night i go to sleep i dream of my ex. These dreams feel so real. They can vary to me kissing her, cuddling her to her with another man. We broke up 2 months ago, and we are expecting our first child, she says she no ...
A. 3 June 2008: Hi again,
I understand how you must be feeling. But by the same token a few aunts offered you advice last time, did you read it?
You sound like you need professional help, if you merely write in with the same question over and over again I can'... (read in full...)
I was happy sleeping with other men to please my husband, but he doesn't want me to anymore.
Q. after we had been married about five years, my husband told me he wanted me to have sex with other men and he wanted to watch. i told him i didn't want to, but he begged and begged me to do this and i finally told him i would. he brought home a ...
A. 2 June 2008: Oh good grief....fake fake fake!!... (read in full...)
How do I create an e-mail that sounds flirty?
Q. Other than in person, this guy I am kinda seeing and I mainly communicate via e-mail because he doesn't like talking on the phone. Our e-mails used to be a lot more flirty but the last 2 or so were short and not flirty at all. I'd like to get it ...
A. 2 June 2008: Hi,
innuendo, innuendo and more innuendo. Lots of sexual innuendo is the way to go. The cornier the better.
i.e. if he says " I need to fill the tank before coming round" you can say "you can fill my tank any day baby"
Look for a word i... (read in full...)
In my case, I hope curiosity doesn't kill my pussy......cat.
Q. Just out of curiosity, please tell me if what I'm feeling is normal. I'm 51, by the way. This past year I've been feeling so very horny, I mean, I want sex all the time!! The slightest thing seems to turn me on. It could be triggered by som...
A. 2 June 2008: Hi again,
my word, and here I was thinking Big Sis was a good girl.
But I agree with her statement, after all if she has trouble accomodating him then the more practice she gets the better :) . In fact if he has the right equipment to sol... (read in full...)
I'm not as experienced with sex as he is and wondered if theres ways I could practise ?
Q. im currently having a bit of a summer fling with a guy. neither of us has the time for a serious relationship, but the sex is incredible, so have decided just to have a fun summer together. we have bot said if something develops then we will cross ...
A. 2 June 2008: Hi there,
forget the vibs and dildo's they are for when your boyfriend is NOT there ( at least at your stage of the relationship it may not be a good idea to bring out the oversized lady plearurer)
If you want to turn a young guy on make lots... (read in full...)
We are expecting our first child but she did not want to stay together for the sake of the baby as she no longer loves me, I cannot imagine being intimate with another woman...
Q. I split with my girlfriend 2 months ago, we are expecting our first child, she did not want to stay together for the sake of the baby as she no loger loves me. I feel very lonley very isolated, every night i dream of my ex and i wake up upset beca...
A. 30 May 2008: Hi mate,
I'm really sorry to see you going through this it must be painful.
After two months if you are still feeling like this I think you should get some counselling. While it would be expected to still be hurt after this period of time y... (read in full...)
He has a very high sex drive whereas my libido decreased after giving birth - it does not help that there is no foreplay before the actual sex! How to get my sex life back on track?
Q. ive been with my boyfriend two years and our sex life is non existant due to me. It was fine before i got pregnant with my son over a year ago but now im never in the mood and i only do it to stop him bothering me. I love him and prefer cuddles and ...
A. 30 May 2008: Hi there,
I think communication is the key here, you need to let him know that being a mother is a life changing thing and you need some tlc . If he's a real man he should be doing all he can to help you anyway .
It will be hard to regain your ... (read in full...)
In my case, I hope curiosity doesn't kill my pussy......cat.
Q. Just out of curiosity, please tell me if what I'm feeling is normal. I'm 51, by the way. This past year I've been feeling so very horny, I mean, I want sex all the time!! The slightest thing seems to turn me on. It could be triggered by som...
A. 30 May 2008: Hi anon,
If we all lived in ancient Babylon you'd be worshipped as a sexgoddess...you'd have a harem full of willing nubile young bucks to take care of your every desire.
But alas, in the present day:
I think you have to find a way to up... (read in full...)
Had sex with the ex and current boyfriend, both unprotected, now I'm pregnant, I don't know what to do?
Q. Hello! I'm a 23 year old college student. My boyfriend broke up with me to go back to his ex, and by my own nature of not wanting to be alone I returned to my ex boyfriend as well. I was on my period for the first week that my ex and I started...
A. 30 May 2008: Hi,
I would advise you to seek professional advice on this. They may be able to pinpoint the pregnancy, but I would think it would be still a guess especially as you had sex with one man on the 17th and then another on the 18th.
The one thing... (read in full...)
Can anyone tell me why he wants me to move in with him? What ever happened to marriage?
Q. I am 43 yrs old and my boyfriend 42. I have been going with him for over 2 yrs. We get along well and have share the same interests. We both have been married and divorced under good terms with the ex'es and both own our own homes. We have no ...
A. 30 May 2008: Hi,
from a guys perspective I can understand where he is coming from - not that I'm justifying it , but I certainly can understand.
For one, he is probably extremely worried that he will end up a divorcee again. Nobody wants that twice divorc... (read in full...)
I really regret what I did to him, how can I make it right?
Q. Dear Cupid, I have met this guy and we have been together for about a year, and through half the year I sexually cheated on him with my ex and lied. I'm not in love with my ex but i am defintely in love with my guy right now. I was stupid and r...
A. 30 May 2008: Hi again,
oh dear this is a very sad situation both of you have got into. He may very think that things have evened out between you two by having sex with another girl, and to some extent he probably feels better about himself now. But what rea... (read in full...)
What do women prefer in intercourse?
Q. do women prefer slow intercourse,fast hard intercourse or deep penetration? ...
A. 29 May 2008: If its your first time always go slow let her up the tempo if she wants. You can simply ask of course while you are having sex. Faster? It can be as simple as that.
But I have never had sex with a girl who at some stage ( and more often than not... (read in full...)
I've chased men away before, now I'm interested in a new guy and need some advice!
Q. I really need some advice on my problem. Well, Im 24 and Ive got good job and lots of friends and Im pretty. But Im single. Now, when I meet boys I like, inside my head Im telling myself to play it cool, but my actions and words do exactly the o...
A. 29 May 2008: Oh boy Tisha you are a big tease arent ya!!! :)
I have to say my wife chased me down, and I had no problems with it at all (saved me doing all the work!)But I'm a bit of a freak so I wouldnt consider my experience the norm :)
The key thing I thin... (read in full...)
Confused and clueless about sex! Need advice quick!
Q. okay so me and my boyfriend have been dating off/on for 5 yrs! and we've been talking about sex alot and he has condoms but me and him are prolly ganna have sex this weekend. he wants me to give him a BJ but ive never done it b4, my brothers gf said ...
A. 29 May 2008: O.K. first off, if you boyfriend is inexperienced as you are then you have nothing to worry about.
The best thing to do is buy some lubricant ( KY Jelly or whatever) have this ready when you are making out.
When you get his pants down gently ... (read in full...)
Are there condoms for wider in girth men?
Q. where do i get condoms which are wider in girth than normal ones but are hust average size because when i wear them i fill them up with my girth...
A. 29 May 2008: Good grief man, just how much girth does thoust haveth?... (read in full...)
A student is in love with me, how can I as a teacher discourage this behaviour?
Q. Ok so I have a problem, I am a male teacher in the UK I am 25. I teach 16 -17 year olds. Having seen all the young ladies on this site who are in love with their teachers it terrifies me! I have a student in my class who has a bit of a crush. N...
A. 28 May 2008: Hi,
wow, its good to see someone else having the same problem I did years ago. Well, its not good but I can certainly empathise.
I used to teach History at Hornsey Girls School in London in the 1990's ,1300 girls years 7-13.
In my first year ... (read in full...)
Married and confused, I'm falling out of love with my husband and in love with my ex!
Q. Please Help... I am 29 years old and have been married for 6 years. I have recently had 2 children and my marriage is totally boring. My husband and I do not see eye to eye on almost every issue. We were raised and grew up completely opposite of one ...
A. 28 May 2008: Hi,
It seems like both of you have got into a rut. But be very careful as you have gravitated towards each other because of your problems not necessarily because you are meant to be with each other.
As it stands you offer each other a sounding b... (read in full...)
How do you respond to someone who likes to play the perpetual victim?
Q. I finally told my boyfriend that I no longer wanted to be exclusive with him. I gave a few reasons but really didn't want to bust his chops so just wrote some of the main things that were bothering me. I have always been the one who calls, t...
A. 28 May 2008: hi,
it looks like you are making all the effort, which is what he wants. He's obviously got some issues to solve , but after 7 years if these havent come to the surface then they never will.
So the way I see it , you are his fallback pos... (read in full...)
Is my girlfriend cheating?
Q. I have been with my girl friend almost 2yrs. This has been my best relationship no arguing no fights. So far the only beef we have had has been about her going with a male friend to the mall, which I felt was bullshit, seemed like a date to me. So ...
A. 28 May 2008: Hi,
You definitely have something to worry about here. Generally there is a reason any change of habit in a persons lifestyle, if your girlfriend is vague or uncommunicative about this it will mean she is hiding something.
If she is as young as ... (read in full...)
My husbands parents hate me and I'm pregnant, what should I do?
Q. My husbands parents hate me. His mother accused me of being a witch because I did Tarot for fun.They even offered him money not to marry me. Well we were married on June 23rd of last year, and it was wonderful. except for his parents, who even at ...
A. 27 May 2008: Hi,
well the best thing about this is that your husband said not to invite her. Which shows where his main priorities lie : with you.
So often we see posts here where the husband is too gutless to confront the overbearing parent/s.
No ... (read in full...)
Do people who get engaged young have lasting relationships?
Q. Ok. i just got engaged to my bf of 3 years and many people have criticised this. so i want to ask you ppl do you think a relationship wer u fall in love in a young age and then get married wen they are older will last??? like we started goin...
A. 27 May 2008: Hi,
you've got access to the net, so do some of your own research.
I don't think you will like the results.
As a person you change dramatically from when you are a teenager to when you hit adulthood.
You do meet people who have been togeth... (read in full...)
He is my ideal man but I really want to experiment with other men as I was a virgin before I'd met him!
Q. Hello, I am really confused at the momment, since I do not know if I want to be in a relationship, even though I am quite happy with my boyfriend. He is my ideal husband, but I want to experiement with other men before settling down, since my b...
A. 27 May 2008: Hi,
some sound advice from the other posters.
I would add that only you truly know what is best. If in your heart you know that at some stage in the future you will be ruing missed opportunities then you may just have to let your boyfriend go... (read in full...)
I can't help but think that I don't satisfy him. Please, it's ruining our relationship, what should I do?
Q. My boyfriend and i have been dating for almost 9 months now. I love him very much but every time he's alone he feels the need to watch porn and masturbate. 5 times a week at least. When he doesn't have his computer at his house, he even goes as f...
A. 27 May 2008: Hi there,
I would like to think that you two could find some middle ground here.
Your partner needs to stop this obsessive behaviour for a start. But maybe the best way to do it is not by simply banning him from using it ( lets face it he will s... (read in full...)
We have great sex, however I would like a bit of attention. Is it bad that I feel like this?
Q. Hey everyone, just found the site and it looks interesting. I have a question about my girlfriend. We have been together for just over 6 months now and we have had sex. Thing is she hasn't done anything to me. It doesn't bother me much, however so...
A. 26 May 2008: Hi,
The only way to solve this issue mate is to talk to her.
She may be quite reserved and worried that you will think she is a slut/whore/tramp(take your pick) if she opens up . A lot of people are brought up in households where sex is tab... (read in full...)
Why do you all have to bow down to the oppressors-why cant you do what you really want?
Q. i have spent the last two hours reading various responses to the questions on this site and i noticed that in general there is a trend toward condemnation of people who dare to have a different take on sex than what the morality police deem ...
A. 26 May 2008: Hi there,
well I think you may be jumping the gun a little. It is true people can moralise on this site but that is true in all walks of life. You take the good advice with the bad.
In your case you and your husband have found a common ground ... (read in full...)
Is my wife attracted to her best friend who is male?
Q. I want to know if my wife is attracted to her best friend who is male? They have been friends for awhile know and I didn't really think anything of there relationship till we got drunk one night. All her attention was on him all night and they even ...
A. 26 May 2008: Hi,
I was wondering if this was for real. It almost reads like a cuckolding fantasy part 1. Part 2 is where they hook up while you are out chopping wood.
but seriously dude, if this is real I would imagine your concerns are legitimate. Time... (read in full...)
Can a gynacologist tell if you are a virgin?
Q. Hi, I was wondering if a GYN could guess whether or not you are a virgin by looking at your hymen ? I'm 22 and a virgin BTW....
A. 24 May 2008: I would imagine so,if they couldnt they would be a pretty lousy Gyno..?... (read in full...)
I feel like I'm being used, whenever I'm around my ex he wants sex!
Q. hey me and my bf are split up now but we are still friends which i like but theres a prob... whenever we are around each other he always wants sex and i dont want to because i feel like im being use,am i?? i always so no for a while but th...
A. 24 May 2008: Hi,
he's getting all the benefits of the old relationship without any commitment or for that matter any respect towards your feelings.
You have to realise now that this guy is not even friendship material, he is a user.
... (read in full...)
First love feelings came back with his email... is this normal?
Q. Well i have a little problem. You know that first love you have when your younger and never forget well mine was when i was 15-16 we finished because he moved somewhere else with his parents and decided it wouldnt work... after we split...
A. 23 May 2008: Hi,
normally I would say be loyal to your partner.
But hell, not in this case. You are in stage 1 of being the battered housewife. Stage 1 is just a few slaps or a bit of bruising followed by lots of apologies. Stage 2 he really starts at... (read in full...)
She went to her ex after hanging out with me... is there anything I can do?
Q. ok. i met a girl last month we met up a few times on the weekends and text, emailed and talked on the phone all the time. we both really liked eachother a lot. the problem was though that she had come out of a relationship that she was in for 4...
A. 23 May 2008: Hi,
sorry mate, but some girls just keep going back to the men who treat them like shit.
If it makes you feel any better you should know that this is destined to end in tears. If he cheated on her before he will most likely cheat on her aga... (read in full...)
Is it normal being turned on by incest?
Q. i am easily turned on by incest!! watching it, not doing it!! is normal or weird?...
A. 23 May 2008: Hi,
this is most worrisome. I pray that you don't actually witness incest in your household .
I'm hoping big time that this is just a fantasy you want to explore, but I fear that at your age you are actually witnessing this.
Please tell u... (read in full...)
Any ideas for asking her without making it obvious?
Q. I think I like my friend. She used to be in my lessons 2yrs ago than we went different schools. We meet often randomly walking past. Recently. Think I like her. I don't know if she does. She smiles alot, laughs n likes my personality but she is a ...
A. 23 May 2008: Dude,
this is you again with the previous question about the girl in the photo isnt it?
Dont worry,take my advice from the other post. Ask her for crying out loud.
This is the way the world goes around, everyone on this planet has at some stag... (read in full...)
How can I tell her she's pretty without leting her know I like her?
Q. If a girl says she looks bad in her picture what can I say positive to make her feel good without being corny or giving signs that I like her???...
A. 23 May 2008: Do you like her? I think you do. So why not be brave and say what is in your heart. Girls like that, they don't like boys who bottle stuff up and never say what they mean.
So just tell : "you are a knockout", or "you look sexy" or if you are real... (read in full...)
I think I'm being used.. how do I handle this?
Q. I'm so confused. I have a friend that I was once intimately involved with, however that aspect of our realtionship ended months ago and we still continue to be online friends. We see each other on Messenger everyday but he rarely speaks to me. He ...
A. 23 May 2008: Hi there,
I think you are just going to have to put this one in the "oh well never mind" basket.
Men can be very uncommunicative with girls they have been intimate with and are no longer seeing.
Personally if I was in his situation I wouldnt ... (read in full...)
I want to ask her out but... is it the right thing to do?
Q. I started a new job about 3 months ago, the first couple months she hated me, wouldn't make direct eye contact, would never talk to me, always give me a yes or no answer. About 3 weeks ago she started walking up and talking to me before I was about ...
A. 23 May 2008: Dude,
red flag here mate!.. Stop whatever you are thinking and don't even think about asking this girl out.
She is dangerous mate. I have met a few girls like this in my time and boy do they mess with your head. They never know what they want a... (read in full...)
How can I get over a guy who doesn't love me?
Q. How can I get over a guy who doesn't love me? He broke up with me a week ago. Last wednesday we were so fine, he said he loved me, he said I was the love of his life. He wanted to marry me. But we had issues. He disliked my past, I for thw s...
A. 23 May 2008: Hi,
nothing is really going to heal the hurt you are feeling in the short term. But in the long term you will see this for what it is - an escape.
Just look at all the other posts like yours on this site. They could all be written by the s... (read in full...)
Do all guys get grossed out by kissing their partner after she gives you head?
Q. okay i have a question for all of you guys out there (girls feel free to answer if youve been in this situation). okay do all guys get grossed out by kissing thier partner after she gives you head? my boy friend doesnt want to kiss me after ive ...
A. 23 May 2008: Wow,
I cant believe all the guys who are saying they feel the same way! What's the matter with y'all!
Maybe its a generational thing, I would be interested to see how many people who think it is disgusting are under 25?
... (read in full...)
I get really 'wet' even if I'm just talking to someone I like, it's embarassing and uncomfortable! Anything to do?
Q. It is probably a silly thing to most people but when i get even slightly sexually aroused, even if I am not going to have intercourse I get really "wet" even if I am just talking to someone that I like, this is realy embarrassing and uncomfortable ...
A. 22 May 2008: Hi there,
unless it results in unsightly spots or patches or whatever , then its not something I would worry about.
In a dating situation I think most guys would think they have hit the jackpot with you!... (read in full...)
My teacher is amazing I like him.. HELP!
Q. help! I am a 17 year old female and my teacher is in his mid-30s and I like him. I can't stop thinking about him. I want to know if he likes me, he used to be really cool with me and treat me normally (sometimes kinda weird.. but I guess he's jus...
A. 22 May 2008: Hi,
sorry mate but be prepared for some harsh advice.
it might just have be because he is a tinsy winsy bit worried about losing his job and going to jail. Nothing serious, but you know what men are like.
I'm being rude I know, but how man... (read in full...)
I really regret what I did to him, how can I make it right?
Q. Dear Cupid, I have met this guy and we have been together for about a year, and through half the year I sexually cheated on him with my ex and lied. I'm not in love with my ex but i am defintely in love with my guy right now. I was stupid and r...
A. 16 April 2008: Hi,
sorry to say, but after this time if he is still not healing then you most likely have lost him.
See it as a lesson in life, be faithful to the ones you love. He probably loved you so much it was too much to forgive. Remember that in futu... (read in full...)
I really regret what I did to him, how can I make it right?
Q. Dear Cupid, I have met this guy and we have been together for about a year, and through half the year I sexually cheated on him with my ex and lied. I'm not in love with my ex but i am defintely in love with my guy right now. I was stupid and r...
A. 7 April 2008: Hi,
He is still with you because he still loves you.
But like a lot of people he can't deal with the betrayal.
So you guys may not have much of a future together. Have you discussed what lead you to cheating on him?
If all avenues have bee... (read in full...)
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