What is a normal vaginal depth?
Q. My question is about vaginal depth. You see. I met this guy last week and well, yesterday I asked him to my place. We were getting down to but when he . . .inserted his phallus it wouldn't go in all the way. [I wish I could articulate this better.] ...
A. 14 May 2008: Hi,
There is a first for everything. I cant recall ever hearing a guy saying they quit sex half way through because the girl was a bit tight.
My word, what is the world coming too!
You should be able to fit 7 inches in easy enough even if y... (read in full...)
Could it be his baby? He never went back after his vasectomy to have his semen checked!
Q. I'm 16 weeks pregnant but boyfriend had a vasectomy, but says he never went back to have his semen checked, can it be his baby? help me, please!...
A. 14 May 2008: Hi,
Assuming that you havent had sexual relations with anyone else: it can only be one of two things.
1. Your partner's vasectomy didnt work and he got you preggy.
2. It's an immaculate conception.
I would discount option 2 .
Good luck ... (read in full...)
How can you tell the difference between pre-cum stains and semen stains?
Q. How can you tell the difference between pre-cum stains and semen stains?...
A. 14 May 2008: Oh my god.... why???... (read in full...)
How do you think he'll react if I called him?
Q. I know a guy from a business meeting a year and a half ago, and we´ve being in touch since by email. He lives in another state so it´s like long distance. How would you think he´ll react if I give him a call? I do know he´s with someone else, bu...
A. 14 May 2008: Hi,
this is a disater waiting to happen. For a start you are being dishonest. I dont think anybody is going to believe that you don't harbour feelings for him. Especially his partner.
do yourself a favour, find someone who isnt attached. Li... (read in full...)
He's leaving for Afghanistan, I'm terrified something will happen to him, and he wont know how I feel.
Q. I'm married to a serving British soldier. After moving to Germany with him, i ended up sleeping with a work collegue. I felt awful, disgusted and ashamed, and so i told him what had happened. About a month later he came home drunk and assaulted me f...
A. 14 May 2008: Hi,
sorry mate, but you really have to accept that you have no future with this man.
Firstly I am sure that your infidelity was a key factor in him assaulting you. But let me make this clear, nothing ever excuses assault on a woman by a man. Sec... (read in full...)
I fell for him, he's married - she's pregnant, now I'm heart broken
Q. Hi.....iam 21 years and iam in a heartbreaking dilema...i started seing this guy ( @ the time 32) when i was 19.... The thing is that it all started so sudden @ work...you know the passing by the office..the eye contact...then one day he took me ...
A. 14 May 2008: Hi,
you were his bit on the side, a piece of fluff he could bonk when you took his fancy.
I'm sorry but when you play adult games with grown up people you get hurt. I would be more sympathetic to you if you weren't so selfish in your attitud... (read in full...)
I don't have kids yet, but I'm considering quitting my job to be a stay-at-home mom.
Q. I'm considering quitting my job to be a stay-at-home mom. I've been working all my life. I don't have kids yet, but planning to soon. I heard it gets lonely. Should i do it?...
A. 14 May 2008: you may not get pregnant for months even years. You'd be bored silly.
Why don't you make this decision when you get pregnant ?... (read in full...)
The prom is in a few days and I can't dance! Can anyone help?
Q. prom is in few days. I cannot dance and dunno wot to as Im going with a girl who expects me to dance. Any websites or anything that might help? ...
A. 14 May 2008: Hi,
I had the exact same problem. But I didnt let it bother me as I knew I would be tanked by the time it came to dance!
But seriously, I couldnt dance but just went with the flow...you've left it way too late to learn now so just make sure yo... (read in full...)
What are your thoughts or experiences about relationships between people of different nationalities?
Q. My question is about relationships with people of differing nationalities. I am Australian of english/irish heritage and my boyfriend is Greek but was born/raised in Australia. his brother is married to a women who is half greek and half anglo. ...
A. 13 May 2008: Hi,
I would only say that you might have a problem if his parents wanted him to marry a Greek girl or won't easily accept you into the family.
Greeks in Australia tend to be one of two varieties. Very traditonal conservative or totally integrat... (read in full...)
Is it normal for a girl to like getting spanked?
Q. i like to be spanked during sex. whats wrong with me?...
A. 13 May 2008: "what's wrong with me?"
answer: absolutely nothing :)... (read in full...)
Is it a bad thing to ingest ones own sperm?
Q. Is it a bad thing to ingest ones own "product"? My fiance has expressed interest in wanting to share a kiss with me after giving me a blow job. Just curious as to if there are any negative side effects....
A. 13 May 2008: It's all good protein mate.
yum yum.... i envy you... NOT!... (read in full...)
Are there any men who can settle for hugs instead of sex?
Q. Okay this seems like a REALLY weird question, but...here goes. So I am really not into like, kissing or any of that stuff. I have thought about sex and come to the conclusion that I would like to remain a virgin and not ever have sex, for personal...
A. 13 May 2008: Hi,
At your age hugs and kisses are what it's all about, though I do remember the hand would wander ( so you may have to slap their hands away on occasion )
You dont have to worry about sex for a long time - you will most likely change yo... (read in full...)
What can I do for my boyfriend to really turn him on?
Q. Hi This one's for the guys (or maybe girls, you can tell me about positive/successful experience?) Now, if I wanted to spend an evening/day showing my man a good time what would you recommend? I'm up for anything, but penetration is not...
A. 13 May 2008: Hi,
sounds like you want to build this guy up for a huge disappointment.
sorry cant help you there.
any reason why penetration is such a taboo? ( at your age I mean)... (read in full...)
Why did he give himself a handjob when he has me?
Q. i sleep with my defacto and thought i satisfied him sexually but the other morning very early he i think handjobed himself twice and now i feel i dont make him happy what does it mean when a guy gives himself a handjob when he has a live in ...
A. 13 May 2008: Hi,
you are 30-35 and you didnt realise men masturbate even in a relationship? Do you honestly think that men stop masturbating when they are in a relationship?
I find it hard to believe you have never realised men masturbate before.
I hate ... (read in full...)
Is he too young to want the sort of commitment I'm looking for?
Q. Okay, I need your advice to keep from feaking out the b/f anymore than I already have... So I'm a 24 year old woman dating a 20 year old who appears quite serious about me. We've been dating for 2 years and we've had our ups and downs, but we're...
A. 12 May 2008: Hi there,
Well are you a betting lady you has a lot of luck? I would suggest you would need it. If you are going to put this proposal to a 20 year old boy, I would figure maybe 5% of males would be positive in their reactions - about 70% will tur... (read in full...)
Why do guys prefer girls shaved 'down there'?
Q. I have now shaved my vagina but one thing i still dont understand...why do boys prefer it shaved?...
A. 12 May 2008: O.K. Am I the only red blooded male on this site? Huh?? :)
But seriously, I prefer to be safe in knowing that the person I am making love to is an adult. So please no shaving.....trimming is nice, but don't shave it all off!!... (read in full...)
Where is the Moral Outrage?
Q. This question is directed to the Bible thumpers out there and you know who you are. About the so totally holy and super sacred institution of marriage. When two dudes get married the marriage is between one man and one woman brigades crap their ...
A. 12 May 2008: That's wierd, cause i just got it.
It doesnt matter for you anyway, as you are going to be smited (sic) on the morrow. ... (read in full...)
Do guys prefer curves?
Q. Hey everyone I was wondering if some guy could please explain to me why do they prefer curves over thin girls?? I have got curves and sometimes worride that guys wont find me attractive...What kinda chicks do guys really like? ...
A. 12 May 2008: Hi,
there's a different girl for every guy so there are no absolutes here.
But personally I prefer curvy girls over skinny any day - as would most guys. ... (read in full...)
I'm too scared to tell him about my past in case he doesn't want to see me anymore.
Q. Hi, I married when i was 22 (i'm now 27). I was with the guy for 5 years and we have been separated 3 years now. It was an amicable separation, we just grew apart and were too young I guess and rushed into it. I've started seeing this guy who I r...
A. 12 May 2008: Hi there,
I feel sorry for you. You lucked out in the first date post marriage breakup. You dated one of these pathetic souls we see on here all the time - they are obsessed with their partners past.
So first thing to do is forget that rubbish... (read in full...)
My boyfriend says he doesn't like kids but I have a 4 year od son. Can you advise?
Q. I need some advice. I have been in a relationship for about a year and half. I love being with him, he is amazing. Although he has met my 4 year old son a few times, I don't like to bring him around because I'm afraid that my son may get attached ...
A. 12 May 2008: Hi,
why dont you point out this fact the next time he brings this up?
It doesnt look good though. But having said that, at age 18-21 if your boyfriend is around the same age it is natural to not want to get involved in playing happy families. Th... (read in full...)
Where is the Moral Outrage?
Q. This question is directed to the Bible thumpers out there and you know who you are. About the so totally holy and super sacred institution of marriage. When two dudes get married the marriage is between one man and one woman brigades crap their ...
A. 12 May 2008: Well George is busy, so we got to blame someone, and voter registration or no, you are it pal!
Say your prayers, we will smite you at dawn!... (read in full...)
Unbearable truth....do I move on or wait for a cheater to reform?
Q. I am 38 and my ex gf is 23 going on 24. We had been together for over a year and a half. Chance meeting at a bar and I wasn't looking for someone this young. Firstly, she's geniunely naive, stupid and weak. I slept with her the first night. I had ...
A. 12 May 2008: O.K. so she's wrong for cheating on you.
But ask yourself this. Why on earth did you pick her in the first place? The way you describe yourself it seems like you are pillar of society who is just waiting for Miss Right to be the subservi... (read in full...)
Can someone help me understand his behaviour?
Q. I dated a guy (Ulises) July of 2007 to Nov. 2007. We had a really ugly break-up and did not talk to eachother. Until the middle of Feb, 2008. He apologized many times for all the things that he did and the way that we broke up. I had decided to give ...
A. 12 May 2008: Hi,
the best way to understand it is to not understand it.
If you see what I mean.
Some people are just absolute relationship train wrecks. They appear normal in all other matters but when it comes to getting involved romantically they ar... (read in full...)
Where is the Moral Outrage?
Q. This question is directed to the Bible thumpers out there and you know who you are. About the so totally holy and super sacred institution of marriage. When two dudes get married the marriage is between one man and one woman brigades crap their ...
A. 12 May 2008: Hey, you guys voted for Bush and his little moral crusade! You get what you pay for I say!!! And George W is certainly well paid for.
... (read in full...)
I suggested that my boyfriend pick up other girls for sex but now we are both confused as to why I said this!
Q. I'm currently in a healthy relationship with a guy that does not live nearby. He has visited me numerous times and we spent every minute we can talking (whether it be on the phone or online). I'm in love, and he is too. He's very into sex. He com...
A. 12 May 2008: Hi,
It almost is like he has convinced you that you are bad at sex. Why do you think you are so bad? Is it that you don't enjoy it and therefore put up with it to please him?
Or is it technique? i.e. you don't do much in bed.
If it is the latte... (read in full...)
I had a sex-only relationship but now I want more. I'm lost. What should I do?
Q. I have a sex only relationship wit this guy. I got the idea he didn't wanna be all serious so I told him we can just call each other for those reasons. Before I didn't wanna go to the movies or dinner wit him cause I just go out an relationship now ...
A. 5 May 2008: Hi ,
Just tell him. Or better, next time you are about to meet up tell him to meet you somewhere , a coffee shop or whatever where you have to spend some time together. If he doesnt want to then chances are you know where you will stand.
... (read in full...)
He's jealous of my past, is it because of trusted childhood?
Q. My boyfriend gets upset everyime he is reminded of my past. Not just the physical things I did with other guys, but if I was flirty with someone, even if we didn't kiss... all of that bothers him. I think it's a bit extreme, I mean, all I did was ...
A. 5 May 2008: Firstly, as moderator,let me apologise for the confusing heading ( don't know what I was thinking of! )
Anyhoo, as for your problem.
You have to ask yourself this question: Do I want to be happy?
It is very important for you to ask yourself thi... (read in full...)
My husband wants our marriage to work after both of us cheated but I feel numb due to the many problems!...
Q. Maybe you can help me out. My husband was involved in many affairs in the past that I never knew about and was abusive. When he did tell me during a emotional breakdown I was already having, it threw me into a very messed up state of mind that I a...
A. 5 May 2008: Hi,
I'm sorry but I don't see how getting back with your husband will make things better for you.
Judging from your post, where it was hard to tell who was doing what to whom, you are very upset and confused.
I think you should have major doubts... (read in full...)
When did everyone stop masturbating? Or do you still do it?
Q. Hi, just for curiosity, when did everyone stop masturbating? Or do you still do it? I am 36 but stopped when i was about 20ish. Also, when did everyone start. Males and females should answer...
A. 5 May 2008: Just curious, why on earth did you stop?
As Woody Allen says: "Don't knock masturbation, it's sex with someone I love"
I think this is a joke post everyone. ... (read in full...)
Will anyone want to date this 20 year old virgin?, I'm beginning to think not
Q. I'm nearly 21 years old and I've never been in a relationship with a guy. I've never even been kissed and it's getting thoroughly embarrassing. I feel like I'm missing out on key life experiences. I know 20 is still young, but the thing is I have no ...
A. 2 May 2008: Hi there,
I really wouldnt worry if I were you. But keep positive. Only the most shallow of individuals will be put off by a limp and a little extra weight ( and a lot of us guys prefer our girls to have some meat on their bones )
The worst... (read in full...)
Why won't my boyfriend introduce me to people?
Q. My b/f frequently fails to introduce me to women we bump into, that he knows personally. This makes me feel like he's embarrassed to be with me or he's trying to play down the fact that we're involved. He says it's because some people aren't ...
A. 2 May 2008: Hi there,
wow, what a jerk.
He is showing you no respect at all. I'm amazed you have put up with it for so long.
You need to address this issue immediately and don't take any of his bullshit excuses. You have been with him for 3 years you deserve ... (read in full...)
It's really bothered me that he didn't send me even a card on my birthday.
Q. I have been in a long distance relationship for about 4 years now. My question is: Should I expect a B-day gift or something from my b/f? My b-day was on sunday and I was hoping my b/f will send me flowers or a b-day card, but he didn't. This is my ...
A. 1 May 2008: Hi,
On the surface it looks like he is a bit of an insensitive jerk. But in his defence, calling you up and singing happy birthday to you means you are in his thoughts and more importantly he felt that a verbal Happy Birthday would mean more than... (read in full...)
I was shocked when my friend told me she was no longer a virgin.
Q. Yesterday my best friend told me a secret. She told me that she wasn't a virgin anymore. I was in total shock. I thought she knew better than to do something like that. I don't know how to explain it, but ever since she told me that she wasn't a ...
A. 1 May 2008: Hi,
start with learning not to judge people. It is not a trait that will stand you in good steed when you grow up. People do not appreciate others judging them.
If you were a true friend you would be reassuring her and confirming she used protecti... (read in full...)
Trust me I love pain and pleasure, but with him it hurts so much, I cry!!
Q. My boyfriend and I are having sex, and I've had sex plenty of times with my ex's with no problems, but with him it hurts, like so badly I've cried. Trust me I love pain and pleasure, the two were made for each other, but I can't take that, it's so p...
A. 1 May 2008: Hi,
my wife advises plenty of lube and tons of foreplay and to tell him to go very slowly at first! Her ex was very well endowed and she said she managed fine , it hurt for the first few times but then she was able to accomodate him easily.
But... (read in full...)
Trust me I love pain and pleasure, but with him it hurts so much, I cry!!
Q. My boyfriend and I are having sex, and I've had sex plenty of times with my ex's with no problems, but with him it hurts, like so badly I've cried. Trust me I love pain and pleasure, the two were made for each other, but I can't take that, it's so p...
A. 1 May 2008: Hi,
is it his size? If not go see a doctor straight away, you could have a medical condition.... (read in full...)
He has lots of casual sex buddies, will I be different?
Q. Dear cupid Am stuck in a rut and really confused as to what is going on and what do i do now. I have this male pal whom we've been chatting and talking via phone for the last 6 months, at first we started out just being pals, talking about an...
A. 1 May 2008: Hi,
It sounds to me like he has very low self confidence. Most players do, they put out a front to make it look like they are in control but the sleeping around with multiple partners is a sign on needing to be appreciated.
This doesnt solve yo... (read in full...)
Why can't my ex-boyfriend be my friend at least?
Q. I am 31 years old and many of you may be wondering what is she doing here? But believe me it gets worse with age....I fell in love with someone who dumped me 2 months ago. I didnt see him for long, only 4 months but found him to be just the kind of ...
A. 1 May 2008: Hi,
sorry to say but no matter what you do he isnt going to come around.
the fact his mother was involved says a lot. She may want her son to find someone who is childless and has talked him around to her way of thinking.
You have to be ho... (read in full...)
What does he really mean when he tells me I'm a good girl?
Q. What's implied when a guy says good girl? He treats me well, we get along and talk alot, but sometimes i get a hint of chauvinism from him. Sometimes he calls me a ''good girl''(eg after or during sex, the 1st time i made a comment that the anal se...
A. 1 May 2008: It is a little condescending, but it can also be a term of affection. If it worries you tell him you dont like it.
Next time you have sex call him a good boy and pat him on the head for a job well done.... (read in full...)
Are all guys put off by their girlfriend's sexual past?
Q. I'm a 19 year old who has been harshly judged by her past. Let's see... I'm now single, I guess. My (ex) B/F left me yesterday, over an issue from my past. Not the first time he's done it. However, yesterday he broke up with me, and today he wen...
A. 1 May 2008: Hi there,
sorry but your boyfriend is a control freak who is wallowing in self pity - hardly the ingredients for a healthy relationship.
Look at all the similar posts on this site and you will view them as a cautionary tale. Most are from men who ... (read in full...)
Why do we girls go for the bad boys?
Q. this is just a curious question here. Why do most girls fall for the "bad boy" lol so far i have liked 3 guys and two of them are bad. I wont get into it because i hate when folks judge, but anyways most girls who i know and are friends with much ...
A. 30 April 2008: Three cheers for LIERIN !
HIP HIP HOORAY!!!
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HIP HIP HOORAY!!!... (read in full...)
He's obsessed with my past, now he's broken up with me again! Do you think he'll come back to me?
Q. He broke up with me again! He always comes back after a while, do you think he'll come back to me again? Ok, I posted about something like this a few days ago. the thing is he has issues with my past. I really love him, and apparently he do...
A. 30 April 2008: Hi,
oh dear, I only hope that your theory about whether he will be like this with other girls comes true.
You may have found your soul mate, but he is a damaged soul mate. He will only make your life miserable when he comes back .
You ask u... (read in full...)
Why do we girls go for the bad boys?
Q. this is just a curious question here. Why do most girls fall for the "bad boy" lol so far i have liked 3 guys and two of them are bad. I wont get into it because i hate when folks judge, but anyways most girls who i know and are friends with much ...
A. 30 April 2008: I believe anybody who has any idea about pyschology can answer this. It is as old as bread this behaviour.
The answer is simple, some woman ( damn it a lot of woman ) are attracted to personalities who will dominate and treat them poorly. It's bec... (read in full...)
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