I like my teacher, he found out and now he's constantly watching me!
Q. Well theres this teacher in my school who a I Started to like nearly a year ago and well when a told one of my friends she told him at first I thought it was the worst thing ever but now am glad she did tell him cause ever since then hes been lookin ...
A. 15 June 2008: May I ask who he has been asking about you with? I find that a little puzzling because a predatory teacher I imagine would not want a bunch of girls to know that he plans on committing a crime. And as someone who has taught in an all girls school I ... (read in full...)
Is it possible to live alone for the rest of my life and be happy?
Q. Hello, I broke up with my first boyfriend yesterday, and now I never wanna fall in love again. He was my first love. But he hurt me because he was so judgemental of my past. I posted earlier about how he thinks I'm a slut. For the record, I was a ...
A. 11 June 2008: Hi,
and I think we all told you what a jerkoff he is. So listen to your Aunts not to the messed up self absorbed dickhead you had the misfortune to date.
What's that I hear? Is that the sound of someone picking themselves up and dusting them... (read in full...)
I'm pregnant and my boyfriend is trying to cut me out of his life!
Q. (I NEED MENS ADVICE mostly) i am 3 months pregnant. abortion is not a option and my bf is at uni he hasnt spoken to me since i told him which was 2 weeks ago he has deleted me of myspace, facebook and wont talk to me he puts his phone voicemail wont ...
A. 11 June 2008: Hi there,
sorry to see you end up like this.
I dare say in the interim you cannot expect this man to help you get through your pregnancy. So you are going to have to get used to making your own future plans without him.
The first thing y... (read in full...)
I my love only worth 11 thousand euros?
Q. hi cupid, me and my husband just got married and he said he love me, he wanted to buy a house and lot for me, cost 11thousand euro" is that all he can give to me? is that all how much he love me? shall i not complain and accept what he can give, ev...
A. 10 June 2008: Hi,
I'm sure this is a cultural problem which we are all finding a bit hard to relate to. But you have to realise if you ask people with western values a question like this they are going to react rather negatively to a woman seeing herself ... (read in full...)
Does anyone here have any experience dating law enforcement officers?
Q. Does anyone here have any experience dating law enforcement officers? I have met and become attracted to one, but my female friends tell me to stay away. They say all cops are "problem dates" no matter how wonderful as individuals. They say it's ...
A. 10 June 2008: Hi,
I would hate to think someone turns a date down purely because the man is a police officer. The poor buggers would never get a date if this was the case.
But I've always found the girls I have worked with who date Cops are of a type. They a... (read in full...)
Should I put the baby my last name or his?
Q. well im in love with this guy who lives in a different state and he loves me we started going back out yesterday and hes coming to see me in two weeks hes gonna get me pregnant so i can have his baby when he is in iraq but i dont know if i put his ...
A. 10 June 2008: Hi,
Why don't you put it too your parents. I am sure they would love to know about your future plans considering that will be working very hard to support a single mother.
good luck. ... (read in full...)
What do 23 yr old guys want? Just sex or a relationship?
Q. At 23 years old do guys just want sex or are they ready for a relationship?...
A. 9 June 2008: Hi,
It can be a bit of both. But not all 23 year olds just want sex. A lot of guys this age are looking for a long term partner.
It looks like you have picked a player mate. If you are looking for a relationship and are meeting guys this age, d... (read in full...)
Is it possible to have sex with a semi erect penis?
Q. Is it possible to have sex with a semi erect penis?...
A. 9 June 2008: It's best not to try buddy. She's only going to get half of what's on offer, hardly a good way to impress a girl mate.
Try and determine why you cant get hard in the first place, its most likely because you arent relaxed. Try lots of close co... (read in full...)
How can I get over the co-worker I had an affair with?
Q. I am married and had an affair with a co-worker who is single. Commitment was out of the question for both of us. It was suppose to be fun and easy, however he abruptly ended it. I see him just about every day so it's difficult not to think about ...
A. 9 June 2008: Hi,
It was certainly fun and easy for this guy. He had no strings sex on tap with a married lady. No need to put in any effort realtionship wise just sex to enjoy
The fact that you are upset to me indicates that you got more out of this relatio... (read in full...)
Is he just using me to experiment with things he's always wanted to do?
Q. I've been seeing this guy and things are beginning to get serious. The other night he told me that his ultimate fantasy is "dp" which I just recently learned means double penetration. Where there's 2 guys on one girl. I would neverrr do that.. like ...
A. 6 June 2008: Hi,
I gather you are either inexperienced or quite conservative when it comes to sex. Now that is not a problem, it is your choice.
Firstly, the DP situation. It is a fantasy and quite common, but I doubt he really has one in mind, it's just som... (read in full...)
My parents like him, but I'm worried in case they press charges against him when they find out I'm pregnant!
Q. A month or so ago me and my bf had sex for the first time, we used a condom, but it broke, and now i am pregnant. I am 17 and he is 26 and I have talked to him about it and he is very supportive. We were planning to get pregnant after i turned 18 ...
A. 6 June 2008: Hi,
the age here in Australia is 16 as it is in the U.K ( I'm pretty sure ) so I have some sympathy for your boyfriend. And 17 is mature enough I believe for a girl to make a decision without it being abuse.
But you live in a state where the la... (read in full...)
Why are woman attracted to players?
Q. Why is it guys that cheat and womanise, become even more attractive to women, ain't it kind of encourage other guys to cheat? are women reaping what they sow?...
A. 6 June 2008: Only some women find cheaters worthwhile. They believe they can change them - it really is as simple as that.
But then we see them almost every day on this site complaining about why they got mixed up with this womanizing creep - though they alw... (read in full...)
My parents will never accept my boyfriend, its a cultural thing, how can I solve this?
Q. i dont know where to begin. i know im tired and exhausted and on the verge of a nervous breakdown. my parents are from india. very traditional. my boyfriend is american which to them is bad and he has a child from a previous marrige which is the ...
A. 6 June 2008: Hi there,
well let me say I have seen problems like this many a time.
I used to teach girls from Greek,Turkish and Bangladeshi backgrounds and their fathers had huge problems with a male caucasian teaching their children. But as we were in Lond... (read in full...)
Is it normal for a girl to not like oral sex on her?
Q. My girlfriend doesn't like me giving her oral sex and is really squeamish about it. I feel as if its because she has a problem with me. I've only gone down town once and that was for about a minute. I've never heard of a girl who didn't like oral...
A. 6 June 2008: Hi,
I actually had this same problem with an ex. She hated it because she was so self conscious she couldnt stand it when she was brought to ..( well you know - the point of no return shall we say)
so for her, giving herself entirely to her lover... (read in full...)
Will I ever find that special girl, who's never had sex with anyone before me??
Q. Why does it seem like the whole world is having sex, when I've lived for 19 years and am still a virgin? My friends that I've known for many years are all in these serious relationships with girls that they liked for so long, and are now constantly ...
A. 6 June 2008: It must be hard to live in the 21st century when you have such high morals and no one can live up to your lofty expectations.
I almost had some sympathy for you before you said "sloppy seconds". That got right up my goat mate. No wonder no girl ... (read in full...)
My husband is making me have too many children!
Q. I need some advice. I am 8 months pregnant with my 5th child. my other children are 7, 5, 4 and 18 months old. My husband works extremely long hours and spends every second week working in another state. I was done having children after our t...
A. 6 June 2008: Hi,
It is your body and your decision entirely over what to do with it.
Your husband is using you as a broadmare, this is not a partnership of equals, it is you doing what he tells you.
Now I'm not going to say leave him or anything ( thoug... (read in full...)
I want to try anal with my girlfriend!
Q. Hi, My problem is that I want to try anal sex with my girlfriend. But she doesn't want to do it. I said i wanted to try it because I haven't ever done it before. She has done it a 'few times' before with her ex boyfriend but she didn't like it. ...
A. 6 June 2008: Hi,
I'm sure she doesnt want to try it again because it felt horrible. Some girls do like anal just like some guys do.
So put yourself in her position, if she got out a 6 inch dildo and said she would like to insert it into your bottom what ... (read in full...)
My ex has a narcissistic personality disorder and no one in her life will help her but me!
Q. I'm positive my ex-girlfriend has a Narcissistic Personality disorder. I once told her of my suspicions that she may have a mild bi-polar disorder called hypomania on the phone after we broke up and she flipped out. So, then I sent her a letter with ...
A. 6 June 2008: I'm sorry but a 3 litre bottle of Jack Daniels? I just looked on their site, they dont produce them - the largest is 1.75 litre , maybe she drank two of these.
And I would think that inducing a gallon (in your terms) of whiskey would probably kill... (read in full...)
How can I know for sure if my boyfriend is just testing me?
Q. How can I know for sure if my boyfriend is just testing me? We have been together 3 1/2 years and have a pretty good realationship. We've discussed having a threesome, swapping or even allowing eachother a weekend to ourselves to do what we wa...
A. 6 June 2008: Hi,
If he is not normally someone who tests you on your loyalty , and judging by what you have said about his history, I doubt he would be doing it as some sort of fidelity test. Seems like he is as keen as you.
However, I would advise that ... (read in full...)
Once we were inseparable, how did it turn out to be this bad in the end?
Q. Oke.. I broke up with my boyfriend a couple of weeks ago.. We have decided to stay friends.. but he just isn't being a good friend.. Whenever he calls me.. He normally talks about sex.. and sometimes even wants me to "talk dirty" with him, ...
A. 6 June 2008: Hi,
sure you still love him, but at some stage you have to let go. At the moment you have gone from girlfriend to sex object. You are nothing more than a free sex line to him at the moment and the relationship is one way.
Friendship is a two way ... (read in full...)
Went on a date,we were intimate, its been two days and no word, is he interested?
Q. I met a guy, weve been on a kinda date. talking lots , drinking wine and end the end of it we got intimate. The night was amazing, we got on with lots of things in common. He would make references to the future like when u see my flat... and il ...
A. 5 June 2008: Hi,
I understand what you are saying and there may be a cultural element here, in that I found the Dutch to be very liberal in their sexual values (yeehaa!) whenever I spent time there.
Now I would never assume a girl was unworthy if she slept wi... (read in full...)
Went on a date,we were intimate, its been two days and no word, is he interested?
Q. I met a guy, weve been on a kinda date. talking lots , drinking wine and end the end of it we got intimate. The night was amazing, we got on with lots of things in common. He would make references to the future like when u see my flat... and il ...
A. 5 June 2008: Hi,
I think you need to chill out just a little bit mate. You are over analysing everything, picking apart every word said for hidden meanings.
It's only been two days, guys can take longer to put their shoes on.
Seriously though, he sound... (read in full...)
Is it true that what you say drunk is actually what you think sober?
Q. Is it true what you say drunk is what you have been thinking when sober?...
A. 5 June 2008: I think some people come out of their shell when they are on the turps and let fly a few cold hard truths in the direction of loved ones/friends/colleagues. People who ordinarily wouldnt say boo to a ghost.
But for the most part its not a pret... (read in full...)
Should I ask her to be more affectionate?
Q. Hi, I wanted to know if anyone has any advice for me. I'm a 21 year old male involved with a 20 year old girl. This is the first relationship for both of us, and we're 2+ months into the relationship, although we were good friends for years b...
A. 5 June 2008: Hi again,
sorry got things mixed up there. but I guess the principle is the same, you are still trying to figure out why she has changed.
If it is at all possible try and see her personally, it is a big thing you are going to say to her you need... (read in full...)
We're getting married this year, but I'm getting cold feet as he is not very affectionate, should I marry him?
Q. hi, i've been with my fella for 7 yrs and we are getting married this year. I've started having second thoughts though.. can you fall out of love with someone and become just friends???? Because that's how we are, we don't do anything couple ...
A. 5 June 2008: Hi,
It looks like over the years you two have grown apart. This happens quite a lot with couples who get together in their teenage years as we change so much as individuals throughout these formative years.
The lack of affection is a s... (read in full...)
Some men put work before their women, how is a proper ordering of priorities?
Q. What ranking is a woman meant to come in their partners life?? What should be coming before them and after?? Some men put work before them, is this right?? Or should a women come before work?? Just a general question really. Something me and...
A. 5 June 2008: I live by the philosophy of you work to live. In order to function in society you need to work to provide the basic requirements to keep you off the streets, so you work.
So if a job interfers in my everyday life , and that includes the time my wife... (read in full...)
Should I ask her to be more affectionate?
Q. Hi, I wanted to know if anyone has any advice for me. I'm a 21 year old male involved with a 20 year old girl. This is the first relationship for both of us, and we're 2+ months into the relationship, although we were good friends for years b...
A. 5 June 2008: Hi mate,
I hate to say this but it looks like one of two things.
1. While away at college she has grown apart from you and probably sees you as more of a friend than a boyfriend.
2. She has found someone else.
I'm afraid she is giving ... (read in full...)
Are open relationships better?
Q. Are open relationships better? When do you know you're ready for one? Do you think you could handle it? For me personally, i don't think I could do it; I can't stand the thought of my partner being with someone else. At the same time, it goes bo...
A. 4 June 2008: Hi,
people come in all shapes and sizes and all kinds of tastes and peculiarities.
Your conservative housewife with the perfect model family may just be a suburban dominatrix who likes dishing out pain to the local high school principa... (read in full...)
I feel like I never will be thin enough, even when I know that those are my ribs I am seeing in the mirror. Please Help!!
Q. I think I need help. I'm 21 years old, 5' 4", and 118 pounds. I can't eat. Every time I look in the mirror, all I see is a disgusting mess and I hate myself more and more every time I feel a hunger pang. Two months ago I was 135 pounds, and I should ...
A. 4 June 2008: Hi there,
Please please go and see someone face to face. Pick up the phone and talk to your Doctor or look up the yello pages to see what services are provided in your local area.
The aunts here can offer you all the words of wisdom they can ... (read in full...)
Whilst I have been able to ignore the problem and hope it goes away or changesi now realized it cannot go away now. Does anyone understand this problem and have any advice?
Q. My husband and I have been married for 15 years (no children) and have not had sex for 7 years. Before that the sex was unemotional. When we first got married it was ok for a couple of years but then became difficult - although I would say there ...
A. 4 June 2008: Hi there,
I'm really sorry to see you going through this. Personally whenever I hear about a lady being hit by a man all consideration for his feelings go out the window. It is unforgiveable and cowardly - and if you were someone I knew I would co... (read in full...)
He says I cheated, but I never did!
Q. He is convinced I've cheated on him. But let me be totally honest here: I HAVEN'T! I can understand why he doesn't trust me. I lied, I admit that. I lied about my past because it didn't make me proud and because I knew he'd react awfully to it. J...
A. 4 June 2008: Hi ,
One thing you know is for certain - he will come back. You know why? Who on earth would have him apart from you. Who wants a guy who expects to be dating the Virgin Mary to be constantly on their back about their so called loose values. ... (read in full...)
Good erection during oral, but loses it during sex!
Q. Why could my boyfriend keep an erection during oral sex, but lose the erection when he penetrated me??...
A. 4 June 2008: Hi,
oh dear, that sounds positively awful for you.
My best bet is that he has gotten used to masturbation to keep him hard and make him cum. So the tighter pressure on the shaft is ( excuse me while I cough - ahemm ahemm... )not quite there... (read in full...)
I feel weird that my boyfriend wants a threesome!
Q. My boyfriend of almost two years really, and I mean really wants to have a threesome with me and another female. He swears that he doesn't have anyone particular in mind but wants us to find a girl willing to do this. I have never done this bef...
A. 4 June 2008: Hi,
the mere fact that you are thinking like this suggests you are not ready or even excited by this idea.
Some people are, and I believe if it's your cup of tea then by all means go for it.
But I suspect your boyfriends actions here, for cr... (read in full...)
How do I create an e-mail that sounds flirty?
Q. Other than in person, this guy I am kinda seeing and I mainly communicate via e-mail because he doesn't like talking on the phone. Our e-mails used to be a lot more flirty but the last 2 or so were short and not flirty at all. I'd like to get it ...
A. 4 June 2008: Hi again,
yeah sure, some people just arent phone people , I guess it is not that uncommon. Sorry if I put some thoughts into your head...oopsie.
Anyway, I'd just cut and paste Ms Strict's little email if I were you - but try and come up with... (read in full...)
How best to have a threesome!
Q. Is it better to have a threesome with two girls and a guy or two guys and a girl with your husband?...
A. 3 June 2008: Umm.. not all guys will answer two girls Jen86... :)
From your perspective I would imagine it would be better with two guys .
But I imagine this is your husbands idea, so I dare say he already has another girl in mind.
You may want to think wh... (read in full...)
Sexual Harrassment at work - how can I make it stop?
Q. i recently started a new job which i love the man who was head of my department was selected to train me, after only a month he started to put his arm around me, and make sexuall remarks, this has now delveloped into him groping my bottom, and also ...
A. 3 June 2008: Hi,
if it is a big company go straight to HR department. He will be lucky to survive the day as 99.99% of companies do not want to be on the receiving end of a harrasment claim.
Alternatively, you can do what my wife did at work. When a man... (read in full...)
Will she ever want a three-some again?
Q. me and my wife have been maried for almost 10 years now. Our relationship is great and the sex is wonderful. About 5 years ago we had a threesome with a close friend of ours. It happened twice and was great for all three of us. The problem is I ...
A. 3 June 2008: Hi,
If she is into it then fine i guess, consenting adults and all that.
But there sounds a little more to it than that. I think you run the risk of your partner thinking that maybe you are missing something from her.
Have you thought about in... (read in full...)
Cunnilingus blues... this discharge is ruining my sex life!
Q. I've had thick white-ish discharge when I get wet for as long as I can remember. All my friends told me they got it too sometimes, but when my boyfriend found out, he stopped going down on me. I try to clean it off whenever I can find it, but it's ...
A. 3 June 2008: Hi,
from this male's perspective I can see nothing wrong.
My partner gets very wet and has a milky discharge, and I love it!
But don't fake it .
good luck.... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is having trouble letting go of the fact I wasn't a virgin!
Q. My boyfriend of six months is having troubles letting go the fact that I wasn't a virgin before we started dating. I was totally honest with him when we first started dating that i wasn't a virgin coming out of a year relationship with someone else. ...
A. 3 June 2008: Hi,
oh dear, another sad insecure boy who cannot handle the fact that his property has had another tenant.
I'm sorry to say, but I don't hold much hope for you and this boy. His type simply are unable to cope with their partner's having... (read in full...)
I have total proof he is going out with someone else, but he still won't admit it to me! What do I do?
Q. Hey, I was going out with this boy for about a month but ended it because I didnt see him enough. I really miss him and he told me he misses me too, so we've decided to try again. However he is a player, and I know he is. I've seen mes...
A. 3 June 2008: Hi,
the most worrying thing about your post is you want to get back with him despite knowing he is a player.
You need to take a good hard look at yourself and ask the question: "why am I attracted to a man I know will cheat on me."
These men ... (read in full...)
Can a relationship work without the physical spark?
Q. I have been through a marriage break up about 1.5yrs ago,I have met somebody else we get on great but sometimes I really do not want the physical side of things..can a relationship work without a spark..? We have been together 6mths....
A. 3 June 2008: Hi there,
Yes I think it certainly can. But I believe this type of relationship to be more like a close friendship.
You are still young, so I think at some stage you will miss the physical intimacy a relationship offers. I'm sure he will too... (read in full...)
How do I create an e-mail that sounds flirty?
Q. Other than in person, this guy I am kinda seeing and I mainly communicate via e-mail because he doesn't like talking on the phone. Our e-mails used to be a lot more flirty but the last 2 or so were short and not flirty at all. I'd like to get it ...
A. 2 June 2008: Hi,
innuendo, innuendo and more innuendo. Lots of sexual innuendo is the way to go. The cornier the better.
i.e. if he says " I need to fill the tank before coming round" you can say "you can fill my tank any day baby"
Look for a word i... (read in full...)
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