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My teacher is amazing I like him.. HELP!

Q.   help! I am a 17 year old female and my teacher is in his mid-30s and I like him. I can't stop thinking about him. I want to know if he likes me, he used to be really cool with me and treat me normally (sometimes kinda weird.. but I guess he's jus...

A.   22 May 2008: Hi, sorry mate but be prepared for some harsh advice. it might just have be because he is a tinsy winsy bit worried about losing his job and going to jail. Nothing serious, but you know what men are like. I'm being rude I know, but how man... (read in full...)

How did you proposed or were proposed to?

Q.   I kno there's a lot of married people on dear cupid. So I want to know how did your husband propose to u or guys did your wife ask u. Just curious...

A.   22 May 2008: Hi there, my wife proposed to me !! doh! but come on be honest, why are you asking this question? you are 18-21 , if you are even contemplating asking your boyfriend make sure you hide his jogging shoes,cause he will be needing them when he ... (read in full...)

She is amazing but her past puts me off...

Q.   Im in a relationship with someone. I love her. She is amazing. She is, ultimately, what I have ever desired about in a woman. Except, I fear she is a slut... Slept with about 20 people, one a couple weeks before me... A couple months before that ...

A.   22 May 2008: Hey Duskyrowe, you just repeated a conversation I had years ago with my now wife. the only difference was she was able to double that number and I wanted to know all the gory details. Lets just say it helped to open up our sex life - yeahh bab... (read in full...)

How can I give him the touching green light?

Q.   I'm 15 and my boyfriend is 17 and has quite the sexual history, as in he's fingered 2 other girlfriends before. We've been dating for awhile and he just l o v e s feeling up my boobs. I don't have a problem with it, in fact I love it. Last time he ...

A.   22 May 2008: Hi, what is a "movie in choir"?? I assume other people were around? If this is the case them he should know better. It is a simple case of showing you respect by not groping you in a public place. this is just poor form and you should tell ... (read in full...)

He says he still loves me, and thinks I'm amazing, but he just can't be with me. Could you please translate this?!

Q.   Guys, can you help me out here....... He broke up with me - suddenly - after 3 years, hasn't given a reason (I'm sure he's seeing someone else) but he says he still loves me, and thinks I'm amazing, but he just can't be with me. Translation ple...

A.   22 May 2008: Sorry mate, it's hard to really tell given you havent given us much information. It really could be anything. Look at the things you have discussed lately maybe there is a clue there. Have you perhaps discussed the prospect of having child... (read in full...)

Do we confront her about our uncomfortableness and leave my wife alone?

Q.   My wife and I have been married for quite a few years. We have a great marriage, great house, great kids, great dog and cat..... Anyway, her friend of a few years (I think they are friends about 5 years, it's way after we were married) is gett...

A.   22 May 2008: Hi, I would leave well enough alone. You two sound rather prudish, so just put it down to experience and pick more conservative friends. In any event, you have no business interferring in her wedding plans whatever she does in her private life... (read in full...)

Should I feel guilty for wanting to sleep with him before marriage?

Q.   Hi, i would like some advice.Im a 25 year old catholic virgin and have been with my boyfriend for 4 years now-we are both in love and plan to marry.I have always wanted to wait i was married before having sex and my boyfriend is so loving and unde...

A.   21 May 2008: Hi, as a fellow Catholic I can only imagine what you are going through. Personally I am a lapsed Catholic so I don't follow the archaic morality of the church. And you are a good reason why. It's all about guilt , that is the word. Any time you... (read in full...)

She is amazing but her past puts me off...

Q.   Im in a relationship with someone. I love her. She is amazing. She is, ultimately, what I have ever desired about in a woman. Except, I fear she is a slut... Slept with about 20 people, one a couple weeks before me... A couple months before that ...

A.   21 May 2008: Female anon, dont you see the irony in your post? Here is this guy talking about screwing his girlfriend anally and you are agreeing with him that society is going down the tubes because people are too promiscuous. Good grief. Abstinence progr... (read in full...)

She is amazing but her past puts me off...

Q.   Im in a relationship with someone. I love her. She is amazing. She is, ultimately, what I have ever desired about in a woman. Except, I fear she is a slut... Slept with about 20 people, one a couple weeks before me... A couple months before that ...

A.   20 May 2008: Here we go, another sad poor little mummys boy who cant handle the thought of his girlfriend having sex with someone other than him. Do her a favour mate, break up. I bet she has no idea you are judging her like this, boy did she luck out with you. ... (read in full...)

Id like to date someone but the guys I meet only seem after one thing!

Q.   hi,im 23yrs old i have been single for about four years and have been happy going out with my single mates but lately ive missed being with someone but i have found it very hard to meet genuine men the men i meet down town come up to me and talk to ...

A.   20 May 2008: Hi there, you are meeting these guys because this is what happens on a night out. Guys and girls are on the pull. It's great to see you are more interested in a meaningful commitment but you also need to change your social habits a little. Don'... (read in full...)

My ex said she had a one night stand, why is this cutting me up?

Q.   Okay, here's the situation... My Ex-Girlfriend I broke up with in November was my first love and real relationship, I broke up with for treating me horribly and because I suspected she had Hypomania calls me everyday. She gets drunk then calls...

A.   20 May 2008: It hurts because by keeping in constant contact with her you have not allowed the emotional bond to dissipate. You need to stop talking and messaging this girl if she is a bit loopy. find some new friends . ... (read in full...)

She's got cold feet after I proposed, should I wait?

Q.   My g/f and i are on a break for a reason, i need help with this please.. I asked her to marry me, she said yes to me, Then i talked to her parents and they might have talked her out of it or not i do not know. She had told me it wasnt her parents ...

A.   20 May 2008: Hi mate, when I looked at your age 18-21 I felt like cheering your girlfriend for having the good sense not to jump into marriage. Somebody has given her some sound advice, and she has taken it. You both will change dramatically over the coming y... (read in full...)

Please help! Should I tell this amazing man and teacher how I feel if/when I leave school, despite there being a chance that I may be coming back?

Q.   I appreciate that there are many posts on here about teacher/student relationships. Please do read this is may appear to be long but I would really appreciate the help! I also have a serious problem with my ex-teacher which has been escalating ...

A.   20 May 2008: Hi, as an ex teacher I cannot believe the number of people who are saying "go for it" in their advice. This girl is in 6th form that's 16 to you and I and she is being chatted up by a teacher. If I had a colleague who was doing this I would rep... (read in full...)

He pinched the brides butt at the wedding, am I overreacting?

Q.   My husband was groomsman at his best friends wedding. I attended as a guest and enjoyed meeting family and friends on both sides and was proud to say my husband is groomsman and looking stunning in his suit. We endured wedding speeches for 2 ...

A.   19 May 2008: Hi, if they know each other well and are friends then you most definitely are overreacting and moreover you made a complete arse of yourself at the wedding. If you apologise for your behaviour and tell them that you were having a bad day and you ... (read in full...)

I felt bad for not indulging his anal fantasies and that he also has erection problems

Q.   Okay, here's the thing...he has NO problems getting it up the first time. Actually, it's great sex. The second time, a while later...it's really hard to get him...well, hard. The only things that seem to turn him on is 69 or the idea of him doin...

A.   19 May 2008: Hi, to me it is simple. You don't want to have anal sex so that is the end of the story. But I wonder what most of my brethern's obsession with anal is all about. Sure it is a tighter hole, but there is none of that wonderful warm/hot fee... (read in full...)

Good memories of one night stands?

Q.   There are topics on regretting, or feeling hurt after a one night stand. This topic is about the opposite. They say having a one night stand changes you, or it stays with you. So does it stay with you in a good way? I was wondering if any of ...

A.   19 May 2008: It's funny the difference between men and womens experience. I can remember all of my one night stands and they were all pretty much the same: drinks/flirting back to my/her house and rampant shagging - no real emotion either way and some bare... (read in full...)

I lied about my past, now he's dumped me, I cant get over him, help me

Q.   Help me please, I'm feeling awful here...! I had a great first relationship. We lasted a year and 8 months. We had everything in common. but he disliked my past, and i lied repeatedly about it (like 4 times) I was always scared to be honest becaus...

A.   19 May 2008: Hi there, Geez, we see so many of these posts on this site. I would love to meet one of these men and bang his head into a wall several hundred times. Look , understand this, there are a lot of guys out there who are emotionally stunted. The... (read in full...)

I think I'm properly in love with myself!

Q.   I have a problem....it's serious. Don't laugh when I say this cos it might sound a little wierd. I think I'm properly in love with myself. I just can't stop thinking about me. Nobody seems to be anywhere near as good as me and even when I tell mys...

A.   19 May 2008: Hi, Hitler,Stalin,Mussolini all loved themselves. You are in dangerous company mate. Maybe tone it down, but if you are happy with loving yourself then what the heck. But don't expect too much in the relationship front, I couldnt ever imagine... (read in full...)

We just started having sex, but he cums to quick!, what can we do?

Q.   Is it normal for guy to cum in like the first few minuets of sex? M boyfreind was a virgin and now we do it all the time but he seems to not take long to cum, what do i do to help this situation? ...

A.   19 May 2008: Hi, it's quite normal for a guy to cum a bit quickly when you first start having sex. There are a few ways to get round this. One, get him to use extra thick condoms and use a lot of lube. The condoms will decrease the sensitivity and ... (read in full...)

Sex with 67 men in the past, is that high or low in your opinion?

Q.   My wife had sex with 67 men before me...is that number too high or low for a woman?...

A.   19 May 2008: Hi again, does a threesome count as one or two? What about orgies? I asked my wife and she said 69 (phwoaarr!!!)- but that's because she is a dirty little minx ..dirty dirty. And she cheated in her count! She included the halloween orgy a... (read in full...)

I kissed a man other than my fiance while I was drinking!

Q.   I am engaged to my best friend. I feel so blessed to have him in my life and I have always been so content being an old married couple with him. However lately I feel like I missed something. I have been with him since I was 19. I really haven't had ...

A.   19 May 2008: Hi, when I read these stories ( and there are many on this site ) they all have the same thing in common - age. Some people still tend to think they should get married when they are very young as if it is the thing to do rather than what they act... (read in full...)

Sex with 67 men in the past, is that high or low in your opinion?

Q.   My wife had sex with 67 men before me...is that number too high or low for a woman?...

A.   19 May 2008: It's quite low. Are you sure its not 66 or 68? ... (read in full...)

In a long distance relation but starting to develop feelings for a man at the gym, who is committed!

Q.   I have been in a long distance relationship for over 12 months now and he is loving, attentive, caring etc...all the things women crave. BUT i have started to fancy/think a lot about a man i have recently come into contact with on a regular basis at ...

A.   19 May 2008: Hi, first thing, join another gym. Secondly, think long and hard about your relationship, I don't believe people who are truly committed to each other stray, so I think you should re-evaluate this relationship.\ If you are going to stray ( and c... (read in full...)

I need immediate help.. please! I'm being blackmailed!

Q.   I need immediate help, please. Before I explain my situation, I just want the people to know that I'm not really.. 'this' kind of a person. I don't know why I acted this way, and now I'm paying the price for my stupidity. I've always been independ...

A.   16 May 2008: Hi, firstly he is not confident about blackmailing you because he will be able to talk to your parents. Unless he is the biggest fool in the world, if he talked to your parents they will go to the police and he will be locked up in jail. Do you real... (read in full...)

I need immediate help.. please! I'm being blackmailed!

Q.   I need immediate help, please. Before I explain my situation, I just want the people to know that I'm not really.. 'this' kind of a person. I don't know why I acted this way, and now I'm paying the price for my stupidity. I've always been independ...

A.   16 May 2008: Hi, sorry to see this. It looks like you have two problems. Abusive parents and a control freak. Firstly, culture or not, there is not excuse for abusing your children, I really am sick of seeing people hiding behind religious or cultural beliefs ... (read in full...)

I need immediate help.. please! I'm being blackmailed!

Q.   I need immediate help, please. Before I explain my situation, I just want the people to know that I'm not really.. 'this' kind of a person. I don't know why I acted this way, and now I'm paying the price for my stupidity. I've always been independ...

A.   16 May 2008: Hi, sorry I have no idea what you are talking about. You do not say anything apart from that he is asking you to send him pictures. Why? you dont say. Please read your question before posting it, we can only help if we know what he is blackmaili... (read in full...)

I gave my virginity to him. How should I take revenge on him?

Q.   I'm single and fell in love with a married guy. He is 10 years older than me. His wife was pregnant and got a baby daughter on my b'day. I gave my virginity to him, but after he got his wife back in his bed. He started acting weird, like ignoring ...

A.   16 May 2008: Hi, I feel sorry for you that he treated you this way. But you should use this as a life lesson. You are 18 now and are living in a grown up world, its no longer the petty stuff at school its stuff you have to handle yourself. What did you ... (read in full...)

Is he serious about a relationship, or should I just enjoy the sex?

Q.   I had a fling with a cool guy about 6 years ago. We were never bf/gf but we really liked eachother and enjoyed hangin out. (Sex, Sex and more SEX) I returned home and we text the next few days. He hasn't called on the phone and has only left me...

A.   16 May 2008: Hi, I think you are not seeing the reality here. He has convinced you that it is just a sexual relationship and you almost bought it. But you really dont believe that, otherwise you wouldnt be writing in here. If you want a relationship you will... (read in full...)

How will I know if he's an abuser or not?

Q.   There are some things about this new guy I met which make me think maybe they are huge red warning signs for me to back off. I know he likes me alot, but the thing is, I feel like he's too forward and likes me too much, considering we only just met....

A.   16 May 2008: Hi there, normally I would say you are probably overreacting. But in your case I believe you are right to be concerned. I say this because you are a rarity - a person who is making a conscious effort to avoid the type of boyfriends who may abuse yo... (read in full...)

Should you lie about the best sex you've ever had?

Q.   What if your husband/wife/gf/bf asks about the best sex you've ever had and it wasnt with them? Should you lie? Tell the truth? Change the subject? Does gender or marital status matter in this situation?...

A.   16 May 2008: Hi, I think when a partner puts their S.O in this position it is unfair. There is only one answer but it should be followed up later on with a question over why she is so insecure about herself. These are the real issues here not whether she is good... (read in full...)

What do men feel when their penis enters a vagina?

Q.   what do men feel when their penis enters a vagina? and what do they feel as a woman has orgasms? can they feel the spasms of the vagina? and a friend of mine had 5 kids, shes worried her vagina is not that tight any more as she cant feel all the ...

A.   15 May 2008: Hi, It feels like heaven. But it is different when you are in a relationship I believe. The orgasm is also much more intense when you are having sex with someone you love - well I've found that anyway. My current partner takes no time to loosen up a... (read in full...)

I have a very very diverse complex mix, and I need a POLITE or even cheeky-tongue-in-cheek-non-offensive-funny answer to give to intrusive strangers!

Q.   I have a very very diverse complex mix, because of this it makes me stand out as I look extremely different from most people. My race is completely unspecific or impossible to guess. So every single time I leave my house I always have people ...

A.   15 May 2008: I agree with Birdy that a pithy response will often lead to further interrogation. So it is best to ask them why do they want to know? Alternatively you can simply say " I am English, I live in Britain". Or simply tell them where you are from as ... (read in full...)

I want to talk with my ex about these feelings I'm having!

Q.   Please help i really need some advice as don't know what to do. Me and my ex split up about year and a half ago, it was his choice and although he never really gave me a proper reason for it he decided to go travelling not long after, which i ...

A.   15 May 2008: Hi again, to answer your question. Yes. I probably would in his situation.If I dumped a girl then came back i would feel pretty lousy about it and would be very reluctant to push it too far as I might think she would tell me to go take a hike. N... (read in full...)

I found explicit text messages on my bf's phone, and it's eating away at me!

Q.   I recently went through my boyfriend's cell phone after an argument, and found some very detailed explicit sex messages indicating some oral sex acts he performed on her and how she wanted to do certain sexual things to him again. He does not know ...

A.   15 May 2008: Hi there, your boyfriend must believe he is the luckiest man alive. He can sleep with whoever he wants and not worry about your reaction because you are only concerned if he will leave you. Get yourself tested for STD's as he may be sleeping... (read in full...)

Just found out my boyfriend has kids, after he told me he didn't! Should I dump him?

Q.   I just found out after six months of dating my boyfriend that he has kids. He told me he didn't should I dump him ? I have not talked to him for 3 days and he keeps calling and leaving messages about how sorry he is. Thanks for any input someone can ...

A.   15 May 2008: Hi, he could have just been very nervous about admitting this, especially as you are still quite young. but it is still dishonest and he should have told you. Now the problem apart from his dishonesty is the fact that he has to support these ki... (read in full...)

If someone cheats on you when they are drunk, does that mean it's intentional?

Q.   If someone cheats on you when they are drunk does that mean its done intentionally? My boyfriend has cheated on me when he's drunk, but when he's sober he would never......what does this mean? Can people that have cheated change as well once they ...

A.   15 May 2008: Hi, oh dear, I cant believe you fell for that lame arse excuse. He must think he's got it made, i bet he brags to his mates that he can get any piece of arse he wants and still go home to the girl who will believe his bullshit. Guys like this are ... (read in full...)

I've been cheating. I need advice on how to move forward.

Q.   i have been cheating on my boyfriend of 8 years i have been unhappy for about a year .i have now finished with other man but despite this i am still in love with him .my boyfreind knows i cheated and left but i told him to come back and he did. i ...

A.   15 May 2008: Hi, Unfortunately for you , unless you have sorted out some major issues with your boyfriend, history is destined to repeat itself. If you cheated on him you did it for a reason, have these things changed? Or did you just want him back because of h... (read in full...)

My family disapproves of my husband because of his race, now they want to come see our new baby!

Q.   My family does not approve of my husband because he is another race. I married him anyways because I love him and he loves me. I just had a baby in April and now my family decides they want to talk to me and see the baby. I have said no because I am ...

A.   15 May 2008: Hi, racism is endemic in today's society. You only have to look at your election campagin with Republicans smearing Obama's so called hidden agenda against white people. They are preying on the average folks inherent racism because they know it is t... (read in full...)

My husband always drops me if he gets an offer to go out with his friends. Why wont he put me first?

Q.   i went away for a few days to my parents with the baby.My husband went out every night and behaved liked a bachelor-no problem with that .we talked each day and he said he missed us so much.I came back early and he said he was spending the night ...

A.   15 May 2008: Hi, i feel sorry for you. I always wonder why guys like this get married in the first place. The obviously prefer the company of thier mates to the company of the person they supposedly love. It is such a common problem and you are like million... (read in full...)

I want to talk with my ex about these feelings I'm having!

Q.   Please help i really need some advice as don't know what to do. Me and my ex split up about year and a half ago, it was his choice and although he never really gave me a proper reason for it he decided to go travelling not long after, which i ...

A.   15 May 2008: Hi, well you just got to do something about it dont you? Otherwise it will eat you up and drive you nutso. So why don't you arrange to meet up somewhere comfortable and intimate ( and obviously just the two of you ) A wine bar for a drink afte... (read in full...)

What is a normal vaginal depth?

Q.   My question is about vaginal depth. You see. I met this guy last week and well, yesterday I asked him to my place. We were getting down to but when he . . .inserted his phallus it wouldn't go in all the way. [I wish I could articulate this better.] ...

A.   14 May 2008: Hi, There is a first for everything. I cant recall ever hearing a guy saying they quit sex half way through because the girl was a bit tight. My word, what is the world coming too! You should be able to fit 7 inches in easy enough even if y... (read in full...)

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