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Is my wife attracted to her best friend who is male?

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Question - (26 May 2008) 3 Answers - (Newest, 26 May 2008)
A male Canada age 41-50, *weetypie69 writes:

I want to know if my wife is attracted to her best friend who is male? They have been friends for awhile know and I didn't really think anything of there relationship till we got drunk one night. All her attention was on him all night and they even went skinny dipping together by themselves while I waited in our cabin for them to return. When they came back he remained naked and my wife dressed in a slinky lingerie I bought her for us. It progressed till we went to bed and we started making love with her friend sleeping in living room with a open concept, while we were making love she said that she wanted to suck her friends penis and started to yell his name out during our sex session. She was very drunk but what do I think about this, its been bothering me ever since. What are your opinions?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (26 May 2008):

Oh dear. It does sound like she is attracted to him. Maybe you should talk to your wife about what happened the other night. You are right to be bothered by it. It would be very disturbing and upsetting to see your wife running around naked with another man and be even more so when she talks about what she wants to do with him when you are making love.

Talk to her, but think very carefully about what you want to happen if she admits that she does like him?

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A male reader, Collaroy Australia +, writes (26 May 2008):

Collaroy agony auntHi,

I was wondering if this was for real. It almost reads like a cuckolding fantasy part 1. Part 2 is where they hook up while you are out chopping wood.

but seriously dude, if this is real I would imagine your concerns are legitimate. Time for a heart to heart to find out where her loyalties lie.

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A female reader, :):):) United Kingdom +, writes (26 May 2008):

I think this would bother any married man!

It could be just a harmless frienship and your wife had just drank a bit too much, but then again maybe not.

Talk about that night, tell her what she said and ask her if she has any feelings for this man. If she does it will be written all over her face.

You have been very understanding so far, but you must talk about this and let your wife know that you arent happy with her behaviour. You deserve better. xxx

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