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Archived questions from: April, 2007 (see latest in Gay relationships category)

Gay relationships: Help and advice

I confessed my love to a good friend and her lesbian gf is making problems for me! What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 454 days ago

29 April 2007 (F) - help me please! im 16 and had a sexual relationship with my 18 yr old(female)best friend, who is recently in a gay relationship with a 23 yr old woman. I confessed my love to my friend one drunken night and her gf seen it! now everytime my friend ...

Why are homosexuals (male) do polygamy? And why do they resort to threesomes when they feel there is no love in their relationships? Why, huh?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 453 days ago

27 April 2007 (M) - Ok, just a quick question.... Why are homosexuals (male) do polygamy? And why do they resort to threesomes when they feel there is no love in their relationships... Why, huh? I'm gay and I just feel mad about this! All people that I meet are ...

Anyone have a stab at interpretting this dream, and should I tell this guy I love him ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 456 days ago

27 April 2007 (M) - Lately I've been having really bad dreams about this guy I am in love with. This guy is my closest friend and I would do anything for him. Usually in these dreams he is around me but he is having fun w/ other people usually this one specific guy me ...

I'd just like to know how i can get the truth out of John, I mean if he truly cares about me at all he wouldn't lie right?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 456 days ago

27 April 2007 (M) - Ive known this dude for 9 months now and we are really good friends. He and I met at work and I guess you could say we clicked. We were hanging out every weekend, at work, and I even went on his family vacation w/ him (he invited me). I have very ...

I am gay and my girlfriend wants to meet with this other girl who looks very much like me, what should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 457 days ago

26 April 2007 (F) - I have been dating my girlfriend for about two weeks now. But we've known each other for well over a year, just never got together until recently. Anyway, right before we got together, she informed me that she was meeting up with this girl she met ...

I want to feel good about myself around him but I really feel like a failure. Any advice?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 453 days ago

25 April 2007 (M) - I'm a gay man and I've been seeing a guy now since mid November last year. He's good looking, works as a fitness instructor and is very trustworthy. He's honest about his feelings and emotions and I initially found this difficult, but I'm getting ...

Im preffering sex with women at the moment, does this make me a lesbian ?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 458 days ago

24 April 2007 (F) - hi, i'm 18 years old. i've always gone out with guys and done sexual things with them. but at a party last weekend, i got really drunk and ended up doing lots of sexual things with another girl who i met at the party. she walked up towards me in ...

I find it weird with girls because in my head, I find it wrong and not normal. Do you think I'm gay?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 457 days ago

24 April 2007 (F) - hey im 16-17 im going out with a girl we havt done anythink yet but we said we would trouble is i find girls attractive and i dont with boys they turn me off but doing stuff with a girl freaks me out also we both say we ent gay but for me that is ...

There is no trust, no affections and he gets aroused by gay porn! What is going on with this guy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 458 days ago

24 April 2007 (F) - Hi I need your advice as my relationship has come to a crisis point and am on the verge of ending it. We have been together two years. We are both in our late 40's. He has been previously married for 18 years, which he says he hated and he did...

I think I'm attracted to girls but when I think about having sex with one it turns me right off!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 460 days ago

23 April 2007 (M) - Hi I feel I have a slight problem. I feel I am attracted to girls, and would like a relationship (i'm not currently in one), but when i think about having sex with a girl i find attractive/pretty, i don't feel anything, no desire or anything. I d...

We are the best of friends and I want to be more, (I'm male) but why does he shut me out sometimes?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 454 days ago

23 April 2007 (M) - I have a friend who I've known since last July, but we really started hanging out a lot since the end of October. I always found him cute but just that, and I didn't think he was gay because he is very sports oriented. But as we started to really ...

I don't know how to tell him not to expect monogamy from me. Any ideas?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 459 days ago

22 April 2007 (M) - I'm 27, gay/bi, in a relationship with a guy two years younger. We've been seeing each other nearly two years, it was long distance for most of the time, until I moved to be with him five months ago. We aren't living together, he says it would be ...

Been straight but have gotten close to a lesbian friend,,,should I or shouldn't I begin a relationship with her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 446 days ago

21 April 2007 (F) - im a 40 yr old female have 2 lesbian friends but in the last 10 wks have became sexually close to one of them i have always been striaght up til now,but have fallen for her deeply she feels same way many times we have tried to stop cause of other ...

Was he attracted to me, or what is just the alcohol ?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 437 days ago

20 April 2007 (M) - Heres my story. Only lately I have accepted that I might be gay. I have liked a guy younger than me for the past few years. He is 15, and I am 18. One night he stayed at my house and we got rather drunk. We sat together like old mates, ...

I'm a lesbian but I want a baby. What can I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 461 days ago

17 April 2007 (F) - Well, I'm a 19 year old female and I'm a lesbian. All my friends have settled down and 4 of my friends that I went to school with have gotten engaged and had babies. To be honest, I really feel jealous of them. I love going to see them and see their ...

We are both bisexual, I've just discovered how many women hes slept with and its bugging me, hes done way more than me, I want to commit to him but at the same time want to experience more!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 466 days ago

17 April 2007 (M) - Hi, Im a 21 year old guy who up until a year ago thought I was straight. I have since managed to become attracted to a 30 year old guy and we have fallen in love. Everything I lived and thought before this relationship was real, and i know that....

I've had relationships with men for years and now I am having strong feelings for my female friend! Should I tell her?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 318 days ago

14 April 2007 (F) - I have been friends with katy for 6yrs now and we tell each other everything and we are really close. We are both single and until she meet a guy afew wks ago neither of us was seeing anyone. Other the last 6months or so we have made jokes about not ...

After seeing his dating profile, I am wondering...is my bf gay? What should I do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 469 days ago

14 April 2007 (F) - I have been seeing my boyfriend for over a year and just after valentines day we had a big blow out and split up, it lasted for just over a month then we got back together, i was sittin in his computer chair one day when he was making me a cup of ...

I was going out with my friend for 4 yrs, now I fancy my other friend, but hes male! What should I do ?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 442 days ago

13 April 2007 (M) - Right, hi, i am a guy who is going out with a girl who was his best friend for 4 years. now i, like, fancy my only other best friend of 5 years (who is a guy) aswell. what should i do? should i tell him, her or what?...

Only together a year and the sex has gone downhill! I make the effort why cant he!?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 470 days ago

13 April 2007 (M) - I am having sex problems with my boyfriend of 1 year. The first month we were together, sex was good, but soon after that it went downhill. Now, we have sex about once a week, and he acts like he is in a rush to get the task done. I also discovered ...

My gay partner is wanting me to quit the job I love! What do I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 470 days ago

12 April 2007 (M) - My boyfriend wants me to quit my job to stay at home. I don't want to quit my job so please any advice? I'm a 20 year old man and I've been with a 33 year old man for almost 3 years now. I've known him for about 5 years though. He's a really ni...

Why do I seem to always find the players when it comes to men in my life ?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 472 days ago

11 April 2007 (M) - i have fallen for another guy, now im no prude, ive been out for 15 years, its just my last two boyfriends were secretly into cottaging and cruising and they kept it secret from me, it broke my heart, now 8 years later, over four years i think me ...

I dreamt I was holding a guy's hand and in bed with him! Am I gay??

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 460 days ago

10 April 2007 (M) - I am a 17 year old male, and i was in a great relationship with the one girl i ever loved and then she broke up with me and i felt so alone. then last night i had a dream about a guy that one of my best girlfriends was dating who i dont know much ...

Do I continue to have 3-somes to please HIM or say something to him about it.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 470 days ago

10 April 2007 (M) - Nothing is ever simple.. We are a male couple of 45 and 37, we have been together for 10 years. We are your non- scene couple who have little/few friends, ironically mostly straight. We both work long hard hours and find spare time a premium, h...

Does anal sex elicit an orgasm in a man?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 468 days ago

9 April 2007 (M) - is it possible for a man to cum simply by receiving anal?...

I sent him a letter to see if he felt the same way I did, but now I'm worried as I told him that if he didnt feel the same its best we break up but thats not what I want!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted today

9 April 2007 (M) - I met John on an online gay connection site in July, and since then we have been "hooking up" at least once or twice a week - despite the fact that we live an hour apart, and I have no car and 4 roommates. On top of it all, I am 18 and John is 39 ...

I'm a female, lately I've had mixed up feelings for a female friend

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 470 days ago

8 April 2007 (F) - I'm a female, lately I've had mixed up feelings for a female friend, but the thing is that I've always liked guys. I've known her for few months and we became good friends, but I'm not sure why I'm having this feelings for her. I really don't want ...

I was sexually abused and now I find my bf looking at child porn!!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 456 days ago

8 April 2007 (M) - Last year I found out on my bf's computer that he was looking at porn... but also he was looking at pictures of 11-15 year old boys.. It broke my heart when I found this. I confronted him about this and the fight ended up as me being the bad guy ...

Is there anything I can do to reassure him that I trust him and know that he truly loves me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 477 days ago

5 April 2007 (F) - I am a heterosexual female in a serious and loving relationship with a bisexual male. At the beginning of our relationship, he had told me that he's also capable of being attracted by men and has had two same-sex relationships in his life. The last ...

I Found semen on a paper towel, right after my bf has been there, Is he cheating on me!?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 456 days ago

5 April 2007 (M) - Ok, I think my boyfriend cheated on me. We are a gay couple, my first boyfriend for 3 years now, i'm 24 he is 29. My bf "Ben" has had a lot boyfriends before and cheated on 2 guys as far as I know. He has been nice to me and I still let him talk to ...

I'm bisexual, but should I wait until I've been with another girl before Im really open about it ?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 454 days ago

3 April 2007 (F) - Hi, I really need help. For the past 3 years or so, I've known I was bisexual. About a month ago I came out to my friends. At first they were a bit suprised but accepted me for it and they sort of joke about it but they mean well. But the problem is ...

I want to marry my lesbian lover, but how do I go about this when gays cant marry in America!!?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 480 days ago

3 April 2007 (F) - Me and my fiance we are a lesbian couple. We both have wedding rings. Everyone knows that in america Gays can't marry. And she is in the military. I want to have a serimony in my back yard and let one of my friends say our vows instead of a priest. ...

I prentended I was her ex and emailed her to see how she really feels, She loves her ex! How can I carry on knowing this ?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 459 days ago

3 April 2007 (F) - Me and my lesbian partner have been together for almost a year. We also live together. I pretended to be her ex and e-mailed her. Pretending to be her ex I told her that i miss her. And that's when I found out how she really feels. She was saying ...

I am a woman in my early 30's and am in love with a much younger woman...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 481 days ago

2 April 2007 (F) - My situation is draining me..I am an early 30s woman in love with a much younger woman. We met online, and well..we became very close friends and soon feelings started to develop and we fell in love. It was weird for both of us-I don't consider ...

Im a teenager. Is it normal for me to be attracted to both sexes?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 481 days ago

1 April 2007 (M) - Dear Agony Aunts. Im a teenager. Is it normal for me to be attracted to both sexes?Thanks for your help....

I feel trapped and bored...is it him or just me? I don't want to lose him so what should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 480 days ago

1 April 2007 (M) - Im a 20 year old male in my first gay relationship. Ive been with my boyfriend for over six months now. In the first couple of months everything was fine and easy. I didnt feel uncomfortable around him, never had to think about what I said and ...