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Archived questions from: May, 2005 (see latest in Gay relationships category)

Gay relationships: Help and advice

When my husband tells his gay friend about our marital problems, should I worry?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 969 days ago

26 May 2005 (?) - My husband has a real good friend for a while now. The friendship is even closer that we moved back to town. He confides with this person about our marital problems. My issue is his good friend is homosexual. It's a little uncomfortable for me to ...

I'm attracted to her and she is to me. But why does she need "a year" to get to know me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1199 days ago

25 May 2005 (?) - I am a 44 year old female. I just got a new job about 4 months ago. Through my job I have met a 31 year old female who has shared much her life story with me, things she said she hasn't even told her best friend. She told me she was bi-sexual but ...

I want my lover to be part of my and my baby's lives... but we haven't actually met.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1197 days ago

25 May 2005 (?) - I am in a lesbian relationship but I had got pregnant before I met her. We were friends for 5 months before we started dating. Now things are going really good. We're planning to live together after the baby is born. She is going to be a part of ...

I'm 17 years old, and I just don't get turned on by men. Am I a lesbian?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 427 days ago

24 May 2005 (?) - Ok I'm Not Sure How To Put This, But I'm Sure I Need Advice. I Feel I Cant Go To My Friends So Here Goes. I Think I'm A Lesbian For The Simple Reason Males Dont Seem To Turn Me On. I'm 17 Years Old. I'm Worried People Won't Accept Me For Who I Am...

My boyfriend's bi & that's OK, but what if he's actually gay?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 749 days ago

23 May 2005 (?) - I suspect my boyfriend may be gay....I know he's bisexual,bbut he tells me he sees men as sex objects and women to treat nicely and end up with. He tells me he wants a family with me one day. I'm scared he just wants me for my ability to one day ...

I'm married with 2 great kids, and I think I might be gay...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1203 days ago

20 May 2005 (?) - Hi, I'm married with two stunning children, however I have been feeling differetly, last couple of years, that something isn't right. I think I am gay - what the hell do I do????...

He keeps telling me that he'll break up with his boyfriend so we can be together... but I want to know where we stand!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1187 days ago

19 May 2005 (?) - I am 19, and a gay guy. I met a guy online, and we got on immediately. I knew he had a boyfriend, so we kept it friendly at first. After a while, he started coming over for drinks etc. And we grew to really like each other. After a few weeks, he ...

Sometimes she's nice, sometimes a bitch, sometimes she tries to flirt... It's so confusing!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1187 days ago

18 May 2005 (?) - I am a fifteen year old girl and very confused. I have a girlfriend who I feel has been coming on to me. Is she attracted to me? I don't what to do, but we are not talking to each other anymore after a row we had after sobering from a drunken ...

I like to fantasise about other women, but I'm still sure that I'm straight and my bf doesn't understand!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1187 days ago

18 May 2005 (?) - My fiance has found out that I have sexual fantasies about women and now he thinks I am gay. He doesn't believe me when I tell him that it is just a fantasy. I don't think I could ever be with a woman physically, but I do enjoy fantasising about ...

It's hard to choose romantically between my distant boyfriend and one of my close friends!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1209 days ago

15 May 2005 (?) - I've got a dilemma. I'm 18 and gay. I've been with my boyfriend for a while now but he lives a long way away so I don't get to see him much except at weekends. I love him very much, but the trouble is I'm in love with one of my best friends too. ...

Is my husband being "recruited" into the gay community?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1210 days ago

13 May 2005 (?) - My husband thinks he may be gay. The problem with this is that he has never had any thoughts about this before and has never fancied or even thought of being with a man before. The thought of this kind of sex disgusts him. I have found out the ...

I had a short gay romance, but now he's back with his partner and I can't get over him...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1192 days ago

12 May 2005 (?) - I'm a man and I have fallen in love with a man. Nearly a year ago I fell in love with a man. I don't know how or why it happened! I wish it didn't but it did. We shared some intimate moments but nothing really happened. They guy has 3 kids but w...

At age 50 my husband says he doesn't have feelings for women any more...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 102 days ago

9 May 2005 (?) - I have been happily married for 10 years - my husband turned round to me a couple of weeks ago and said our marriage is over! No particular reasons, he was just unhappy. He has now told me he has gay feelings for someone and doesn't know how to d...

I sometime fantasise about my best girlfriend. Does that make me a lesbian?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 572 days ago

8 May 2005 (?) - A while ago I told one of my best girlfriends that I fancied her and she was OK with it. She is a year above me but we are stil really good mates. I think about her all the time and don't know what to do. The other day I told her that I loved he...

My boyfriend would rather smoke weed than be with me... and it hurts.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1220 days ago

4 May 2005 (?) - I am a gay man, 21 years old, my boyfriend of nine months has an addiction to marujana. I have finally gave him an ultimatum of "me or weed" as over the time I repeatedly come second to his addiction both financially and time wise. It really hurt...

I'm wondering if my past experiences might mean I'm bisexual..?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 968 days ago

4 May 2005 (?) - When I was younger I had a close friend (a female) and we used to dry hump each other. I don't remember how we ended up even starting it, but we then started to do it every time we were together. Then, one of my other close friends (also a female) ...

If I ask him how he feels about me, he clams up, but he gives signals that he's interested. What do I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1223 days ago

3 May 2005 (?) - I'm very close to a friend from work. Over the past few months we have got closer and I know that I love him very much. Problem is, we're both men. Recently he split up with his girl friend and he told me that he did it for me and that he wants ...