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What are some good ways to break the ice with a stranger?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2002 days ago

31 May 2012 (M - Good evening (or morning) agony aunts/uncles. So, I want to cut to the chase. I have am a single gay man. And in my town on the opposite end--there's a gay man that works in a coffee shop who also happens to be single. Problem is we don't know each ...

My Gay crush .Want to move on and forget. How can I understand why I'm so affected?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1865 days ago

30 May 2012 (M - This has been a problem for too long now and I really need help with this issue concerning an ex friend. I’ve never really had many friends in my life but I’ve never let it bother me when I moved on from the few friends that I did have. But this...

My best friend is my ex, and to make matters more complicated I'm madly in love with her brother, who also has a girlfriend!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2004 days ago

29 May 2012 (F - I'm in a really complicated situation. I'm a 22 year old female who is madly in love with my best friend/ex-girlfriend's brother. Confused already? Me too.. I'm not a lesbian; I'm far from it. But when I was in high school, my best friend told...

Why do I feel guilty about moving on from my abusive ex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2001 days ago

29 May 2012 (F - I will give you guys a back drop story first. i was in a relationship for about 1.5 years. This was my first intense romantic relationship. i loved this girl (i am a lesbian) with everything. no inhibitions nothing to stop me. As time passed, we ...

Have seen this great guy a few times, but just don't know what to do next! Help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2005 days ago

28 May 2012 (M - okay so I need some input on this: I put an ad on craiglist looking for a long term relationship...yeah yeah I know craiglist isnt the best place for this, but I'm tired of being single. Anyway, so I decided to give it a try. I stated what I wa...

Do I start a long distance relationship with a woman I have only spent a few days with?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2006 days ago

27 May 2012 (F - Well. This has been an interesting month. Thanks in advance for the advice; here is the situation -- I'm a junior (in high school) studying abroad for the year in Spain, living with a host family. Been here for eight months so far. I'm a lesbi...

Best friend's girlfriend trying to get rid of me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 2006 days ago

27 May 2012 (M - This is going to be very long explanation so sorry in advance. This is about my best friend/crush (I'll call him C from here on to avoid confusion). C has told me he is bi and I have told him I'm gay. About a year ago C broke up with his girlfriend. ...

What should I do? I was too afraid to kiss her!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2010 days ago

23 May 2012 (F - Hey there! I'd like to ask for some advice against unforgivingly stupid cowardice. I am 18 years old and I don't have any problems sozializing or talking to people. In contrary, I call myself strong in character and self-confident. ...

I'm a lesbian, then what's with my feelings for this man?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2008 days ago

22 May 2012 (F - Hi aunts and uncles. I'm in a bit of a crazy dilemma here. First off, I'm a 29 year old lesbian woman, holder of a PhD in Electrical Engineering. So I'm not an idiot. I also don't want kids, so I'm not really worried about my age. Since I was a ...

Should I kiss her next time we're together?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2008 days ago

20 May 2012 (F - I am a 16 year old bi female. My ex and I have been friends on and off for the past 3 months. She recently left again a week in a half ago, but on Friday she texted me saying, "I miss you like crazy. I miss hanging out and coming over, but I'm not ...

I can't get rid of the feeling, I'm feeling gross and ashamed!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2002 days ago

20 May 2012 (M - i am a straight guy who is in a long distance relationshp with the prettiest girl in the world..but due to some reasn..my gf and i cant talk everyday..its been 3 weeks since i talkd to her.today on omegle..i came across a bisexual horny guy.and he ...

I think he's an awesome guy who's really friendly but I have absolutely no idea what he thinks of me, any ideas?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2011 days ago

20 May 2012 (M - Hi there, I'm an 18 year old, openly gay male. Last Friday I was out clubbing in a certain amazing area in a certain amazing city having a great time. I finish the evening and eventually got back home at 7 in the morning to casually check my grindr ...

Teen Angst: I Have no fantasy relationship, and haven't a boyfriend. So what should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2010 days ago

20 May 2012 (M - I recently found out that a guy that I had really strong feelings for was straight. First I went through the whole denial, then anger, then depression, and finally recovery. I am over him now and I can't even fantasize about him anymore, but that...

I feel attracted to girls and guys and I don't want to hurt my parents if I'm gay!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2015 days ago

17 May 2012 (F - please help im a female ive had two boyfriends.then in high school i had a crush on my friend sence high school but he said its good that were friends he has a gf but i still have a lil crush on him i see him in collaage. . but the thing is that for ...

One time with oral sex and now he says we shouldn't do it again

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2014 days ago

17 May 2012 (M - Hi, I have been having troubles with my relationship (if you can call it that). Lets call the person I dated Mark. Mark is 18, I am almost 17. Mark and I have known each other for about 3 years. We had become really good friends. About 4 months a...

What are the pro's and con's of having a fake relationship with my gay friend to trick his mom?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2016 days ago

17 May 2012 (F - So, I've been really close friends with this guy since 6th grade, we're both now in 9th, and he's gay. He recently told his mother about himself. She was very angry about it and yelled at him about how he's never even experienced with a girl and ...

How could you tell a girl is gay?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2012 days ago

17 May 2012 (F - Hi there, Okay, i've been working with a client and that girl is managing that campaign. We've had one meeting and one time speaking on the phone. She's so lovely. Well i'm a girl and i consider myself straight who has dated only guys. But i do f...

He had my first name and last name as a status on Facebook, did this mean anything?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2016 days ago

17 May 2012 (M - Ive been thinking about this for a long time now and maybe I'm over analyzing this but just wanted to get someones point of view. So a few months ago I was at school and I was with a group of people talking and laughing and I made some new friends. ...

Surely if he was interested he would at least text me once a week? Or is this just his way of taking things slow?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2014 days ago

17 May 2012 (M - I am really confused. I am gay and I have been seeing this guy off and on since February. We hung out every weekend in February and then he said he needed some time to concentrate with college work (which I definitely understand due to the ...

My boyfriend and I no longer have sex and when I asked him for suggestions to this problem, he said "do whatever makes you happy."

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 1975 days ago

17 May 2012 (M - I've been in a committed gay relationship for over 5 years now. My boyfriend and I no longer have sex, and it's been long past a year since we have done anything sexual with each other at all. We have discussed it several times, he even went to ...

Bi and I like a guy!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2014 days ago

15 May 2012 (M - I'm 16 and in high school.There is a guy in my english class that I have a crush on. I had helpped him make corrections on a Geometry Test and he told me "Thanks man, I could kiss you on he mouth." And when he did I got chills up my spine. But I ...

I think I made a mistake breaking up with my ex

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 2021 days ago

12 May 2012 (M - in love with my ex. i broke up with him because he wanted to take a break with no rules and there was this guy that likes him and i knew something was gonna happen with them. so instead of going with the break i broke up with him, and now i think i ...

We are very touchy-feely and this makes people think we are together!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2002 days ago

11 May 2012 (F - A friend of mine who is also a girl and I are EXTREMELY close because of some really emotional things that we have gone through together. we are also both very touchy-feely type people so this combination leads to us being veeerrryyy snuggly :) But ...

My girlfriend doesn't pay her bills!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2022 days ago

10 May 2012 (F - plz help with some advice as im in a lesbian relationship with a woman who i dont live with as im at parents but stay at girlfriends alot. shes not paying her bills and doesnt have a t.v licence and people knock the door alot. what will happen as ...

I think I'm in love with my brother's best friend's brother's very male best friend.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 2023 days ago

9 May 2012 (M - I think I'm in love with my brother's best friend's brother's very male best friend. I only really got to know him because I have to pick up my little brother (Freddie) from his best friend's (Leo) house. I've always disliked Leo's older brot...

I'm crushed and confused! She's hung up on her ex but in love with me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2018 days ago

8 May 2012 (F - Me and my ex started our relationship both extremely crushed by our ex's before. We were a support group for each other where we could express ourselves freely and get support from each other and advice. That grew into a relationship and I fell ...

I suspect my husband is gay or bisexual

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2025 days ago

8 May 2012 (F - hi dear cupid. i just got married last year november and I found a text that he send to his friend, guy friend. it says" hide behind the blanket and take a photo" and when I ask him he said he don't know and he forget what does mean? So from th...

Help me, he's been on gay dating sites and has been texting other guys.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1703 days ago

6 May 2012 (M - So I am in a relationship with a guy from my school.... I didnt want an official relationship but he basically begged, so a few months ago I said okay to it. A little backgroun -- we met last year, started dating, caught him using gay dating w...

Fascinated by lesbians but not sure if I'm gay

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 2027 days ago

6 May 2012 (F - Hi, I'm really confused about my sexuality at the minute, I am so fascinated by lesbians everytime I see one or lesbian a couple I cant stop looking, it sounds really weird I know but I cant help it. I also don't enjoy sex or anything with gu...

How do I tell her what I want to do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2029 days ago

4 May 2012 (F - I have friend. Very nice friend we both girls I love her so much iam 15 I want to kiss her on lips but I think she will not takee it easy .. How I can tell her that I want to kiss her on lips I do not want to lose her as a friend ,, please tell me ...

My ex boyfriend and his mixed signals

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2030 days ago

3 May 2012 (M - My ex best friend whom i love (and i assume is either gay or bi because we flirted with each other about love etc) has broken up with me. It's been a while and i'm past the miserable days of crying over him. I still emo over him sometimes but i'...

I need advice on how to stop this attraction.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 2030 days ago

3 May 2012 (F - I need help. I'm a gay woman in a long term relationship with my partner. I love her and we have a future together. We have our arguments like all couples but we cope. Recently she was diagnosed with depression. Its been coming for sometime as ...

My boyfriend has been accepted to University and that means moving away. How do I cope while he is away?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2030 days ago

3 May 2012 (M - My boyfriend is very, very clever. It's one of the main things that attracted to me to him. He's majoring in Mathematics and he got accepted to XYZ University yesterday. He is in his 3rd year. he knows a professor there apparently (put in a go...

I am confused about my sexuality, any advice?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2023 days ago

2 May 2012 (M - I am a male in my twenties and i am here because i am completely confused about my sexuality, i'm not even sure if i am gay or not. A couple of years ago i would not even think of asking this question since i was positive that i was 100% straight, i ...

Does my ex still like me? advice please

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2032 days ago

2 May 2012 (F - My ex girlfriend, who is dating my ex best friend at the time, has returned to my life off and on for the past 3 months. She claims she always comes back because she cares about me, and feels that she needs to talk to me. We talk everyday, all day ...

My live-in BF has never once in the whole 2+years touched me in a sexual manner!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2003 days ago

1 May 2012 (M - My boyfriend and I have been together for 2 years and 3 months, in the beginning it was good, he would hold me and kiss me and say loving things to me, he moved in with me after three months and then things started changing. He became less affe...

My co-worker who I was attracted to uses me for her own benefit and I've had enough! How do I deal with her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 2032 days ago

1 May 2012 (F - A bit distressed about a situation I got myself in. I'm lesbian and was attracted to this bisexual woman bc of her outward beauty....knowing her now she's spoiled, selfish, and irresponsible. I never intended to date her, just get to know her. I've ...

I'm gay and I like my best male friend. How should I address this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2032 days ago

1 May 2012 (M - I'm a gay man and I'm in love with my best friend (male.) He's a pretty masculine guy by the way. When I first got to know him, he seemed pretty anti-gay and homophobic, but as time went on, he gave me signals that made me think otherwise. Afte...

Would you say I'm bi? Confused? Gay?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2027 days ago

1 May 2012 (F - Hello, I am nealy 20 years old. For the last 2 years I haven't been very sexually active (3 partners, which I have only been with once). Anyway, my reason being is I find the thought of sleeping with men quite disgusting, it hurts me physical...

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