I can't do without her!
Q. Need you to Advice Me on what to do i Love this gurl so Much and she Love me too we have been for Long,we lost contact for 7 Years last Year i found her Back but before i came around Her she has been dating Somone she told me about it,and she said ...
A. 16 April 2010: Thank you! ... (read in full...)
What is your take on this love letter?
Q. XXX is to protect my ex's name, and mine. Please tell me of the tone of the letter, and the idea of the ballet tix. I am asking of as many people's feedback as possible. ----- Dear XXXX, I ask you to read these words with an open mind and he...
A. 14 April 2010: Great news, now go and fancy your gal! Good Luck!... (read in full...)
I'm afraid I'm going to lose the baby! The doctor said 'no sex' for one month, but my husband went ahead anyway...
Q. Last week(8th april) only I came to know that I'm pregnant. Since I didn't get my period on time(3rd april), I went to see doctor. Doctor did pregnancy test and confirmed that I'm pregnant. Doctor advised us not to have sex for next one month. But ...
A. 14 April 2010: Take your hubby to the doctors include him in the visits that way he will be inform on the what and what not to do while you are pregnant. Congratulations to you and your hubby on your pregnancy!!!!... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is a smoker, I'm an ex-smoker, and now I just can't stand it. Should I stop going over to his house?
Q. Well I am in a long distance relationship. we have been together for a year, and so far it's worked pretty well. My BF ussually comes to see mee, and after all this time i started going to his place more often, because I want to show him I want to ...
A. 14 April 2010: He is addicted to cigarettes and you should know since you were an ex-smoker how hard it is to kick a habit out to the curve. He has compromise with you already so he probably feels that he has already giving in. Instead of complaining and saying I ... (read in full...)
I can't do without her!
Q. Need you to Advice Me on what to do i Love this gurl so Much and she Love me too we have been for Long,we lost contact for 7 Years last Year i found her Back but before i came around Her she has been dating Somone she told me about it,and she said ...
A. 14 April 2010: I would advise you to let her go. Be free keep your doors open so when true loves walk in you will be able to welcome it in with open arms and without any attachments.... (read in full...)
I'm about to run away
Q. [Moderator note: this post has been edited for clarity] my mom promised me a phone for christmas. She said the place was too busy and she said we'd get one 'tomorrow'. That happened again and I still didnt get it. Today she got a phone (for herse...
A. 14 April 2010: First of all before you start throwing tantrums like a toddler you should take under consideration your mum sacrifice she has to makes to feed you, dress you, and to put a roof over your head. Raising a kid is not easy and the sad thing is that ... (read in full...)
Sex before marriage?
Q. do you believe in sex before marriage?...
A. 14 April 2010: Sex is such a taboo topic and depends on your religion, your culture, your country to give you an answer. If you were a Westerner than sex is mostly accepted before marriage and the percentage of marrying a virgin are slim. Now in other parts of the ... (read in full...)
Why did he betray me in front of the judge?
Q. Im going to clarify my question. me and the "Kid" went to court and yes he is my boyfriend still. and when they asked me if i had any contact with him since the previous court date, i told them no, then he told them that i was lying and that i wrote ...
A. 14 April 2010: He is being honest and if I'm understanding right he is older and is illegal for him to date you right? He probably got scare the DA did a hell of job. If you care for him than don't mess with him, don't get him in trouble. If he really cares he ... (read in full...)
Why can't my husband understand that I don't want any more children! We have 2!
Q. I have been married for 15 years and have 2 beautiful children with my husband. Unfortunately, my pregnancies were not easy, 4 pregnancies, cyst removal on one of my ovaries, 2 miscarriages between my 2 successful ones, no natural birth only ...
A. 14 April 2010: I feel you should get your tube tied. Why are you asking your husband for a vasectomy if he has express to you his feeling on this topic. He obviously wants more kids and you getting the abortion was probably a hit below the belt because as a couple ... (read in full...)
I love her but she slept with so many men
Q. I was dating someone a couple years ago that I cared very deeply for. We were having a great time together. During the time we were together she was sexually assaulted by someone she knew. She didn't go to the police or tell anyone for months. ...
A. 14 April 2010: I think you have no right to be angry or upset because she did not cheat, you turn your back on her when she most needed you. What she did when you guys were on a break does not concern you get over it. If you are too MACHO to handle a strong female ... (read in full...)
He's changed so much
Q. Why is my boyfriend doing this? my bf was really sweet.it took him 2months to kiss me. i asked he said hes got respect and didn't want to scare me off. whenever we made Iove it was beautiful, passionate and really tender. he was everything i could ...
A. 14 April 2010: In all relationship of course the person is going to be in their best behavior they want to fancy you. Soon after they feel secure with the relationship there true self comes out. I think this is normal behavior, because they hit a point when they ... (read in full...)
I can't do without her!
Q. Need you to Advice Me on what to do i Love this gurl so Much and she Love me too we have been for Long,we lost contact for 7 Years last Year i found her Back but before i came around Her she has been dating Somone she told me about it,and she said ...
A. 14 April 2010: If she loved you, she would be with only you, right. This situation sadden you but I think you should move on with you life there are plenty of young lady out there will be willing to make you happy. Just give yourself time to heal don't rekindle ... (read in full...)
She can't leave him because of money, but want's to marry me?
Q. iv'e been seeing this girl now for nearly two years and its fantastic, but there one slight problem she lives with another man. We are and were good friends and there was always a chemistry between us and on a night out it all came flooding out, how ...
A. 13 April 2010: Men have done this before they say what they want to make the lover happy, they manipulate the situation, and have there cake and eat it too. Why would you think that women are different she is playing you and her husband. If she really wanted you ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend said I gave her HIV, but my test came out negative
Q. I'm in a relationship that is 2years now,recently my girl friend is behaving strange.In february,she came crying to telling me she has gone for Hiv test and is positive,and that she visited a habalist who told her i infected her and that he can cure ...
A. 13 April 2010: Make sure you get retested because just because you tested negative doesn't mean you don't have the virus is just not enough to get detected. If you had sex with your girlfriend with out protection that increases the chances of you getting the ... (read in full...)
Are we destined to have bad relationships depending on how we were raised?
Q. Dear cupid, I've been wondering this for a while now and maybe it's true maybe it's not but I have watched it happen to alot of people, heard famous songs about it, even watched it in movies and those movie ideas had to of come from someone....
A. 13 April 2010: History does repeat itself over and over again. Each person should treat others as they want to be treated and find ways to break free from this cycle. Just like your statistics are true, there are also people who have broken off the chain and chose ... (read in full...)
Should I leave the man I don't think I can ever trust again?
Q. Husband and I are both 36. Been together 13 years, married 4.5 years. November 2008 I planned to take my husband on a long weekend trip. He was having a rough time of things and I felt that he deserved a treat. The morning we were to leave, I went t...
A. 13 April 2010: If you don't trust him and is ok with idea of leaving him than do it. Put yourself first and if letting him go is going to bring happiness back into your life than do set him free, and be happy. Good luck with any decision you make but I feel you ... (read in full...)
Mates will make fun of me if I ask this girl out
Q. theres this girl who likes me. i think she is nice but if i go out with her i will get stick off my mates. what should i do?...
A. 13 April 2010: If your mates ask you to jump off the bridge would you. You should ask her out and not worry so much what others think, it should only matter to you. If you want to go out with her than go for it.... (read in full...)
I can't do without her!
Q. Need you to Advice Me on what to do i Love this gurl so Much and she Love me too we have been for Long,we lost contact for 7 Years last Year i found her Back but before i came around Her she has been dating Somone she told me about it,and she said ...
A. 13 April 2010: She has moved on, maybe you should too.... (read in full...)
Cheating husband! How do make him understand what he will lose if he leaves me for her?
Q. I am currently married for 7years with 2 kids, a girl and a boy. Me and my husband were happy during our first 4 years of marriage … most of our friends admires our relationship as we are a dream couple…Until he tried to get a mistress (he got ...
A. 13 April 2010: You will not forget but will learn how to cope with it. Live each day, day to day and one day you will realize it no longer hurts. If you need counseling go to it, find support groups. Go out distract yourself and have a good time, when you least ... (read in full...)
We're both virgins, should he wear one?
Q. Dear Cupid, I am a 21 years old virgin, have a 22 years old boyfriend who is also a virgin. We have been dating for 2 years now. Right now, both of us are deciding to lose our virgin to each other as we love each other so much. But my problem i...
A. 13 April 2010: For your own safety you should wear a condom. Not to hate or say your boyfriend is lying but what if he wasn't a virgin and what if he had STD this is what you should think every single time you have sex with a person. Think on you, you are ... (read in full...)
I feel used and cheap
Q. So my boyfriend and I had an argument. And I'm extremely pissed right now. We have been dating for 3 months. Off and on. We have not had sex since wednesday night, well we had sex on sunday (but that doesnt count he says). We got into an argument ...
A. 13 April 2010: You are still young and should probably consider moving on. Why be in a relationship with a person who makes you feel cheap and worthless. You should make the changed and stop thinking if he would changed things would be so much different, they ... (read in full...)
Friend has an abusive boyfriend
Q. hi, my best friend has an abusive bf and i dont know what to do to help her. she has bruises up her arm, down her leg, on the stomch and boob because of him. though she says its not his fault, its his ADHD thats doing it and the fact that she 'winds ...
A. 13 April 2010: Help her please don't give up on her eventually she will see what a pain and a jerk he is. Take her to meeting where she can see for herself that she does not need to be with an abusive boyfriend. There are counselors that will help her, be a good ... (read in full...)
She keeps bringing up the past
Q. i am 30 years old married to my beautiful wife for the last 7 years and just wanted to know are all women the same my wife keeps bringing up the past about when we first met i can say this on here because i don't know anyone on here she keeps ...
A. 13 April 2010: it might be her own insecurities, she might have cheated and because she knows it can be done and she didn't get caught might think you did the same. Turn the tables on her.... (read in full...)
Prom transport for my wheelchair-bound date
Q. I need help! And fast if possible. A friend of mine asked me to prom and of course I said yes (I don't fancy him but we are good friends). I don't regret that I said yes, because I scare guys off anyway and we are very good friends! So yeah, I kind ...
A. 13 April 2010: have him ride with you in the nice rental and have the van with his wheelchair follow. I'm sure his parents won't mind driving and picking up the wheelchair.... (read in full...)
Do I leave him and try to cope on my own?
Q. I've met this much older man after my divorce. I was so desperated that in my mind any man will do. We have been together a few years. I am still young and he has aged a lot and health has gone downhill. I still like him but not sexually ...
A. 13 April 2010: So you used him and now that he is old and sick you are thinking on abandoning him. He was only good to you when you were the desperate one. Its seems to me you are selfish and is only thinking on yourself. Keep in mind that you too will be old one ... (read in full...)
I love two men. I don't want to make a bad choice, who should I choose?
Q. I'm in love with two men. I wish I could put both of them in one. I married my husband after a ruff two years. I should have waited. But I loved him. I left him after a month of being married.I just couldn't get over all the stuff he have done to ...
A. 13 April 2010: I think you should try and make your marriage work.
Give you marriage an opportunity, make it work. Be honest to yourself and play fair if you really want to make it work than let go of the lover, other that it will be hard to make a decision. ... (read in full...)
Can you be in love with someone if you're cheating on them?
Q. I am 26 and have been with my boyfriend almost 9 years. My problem is, I have been cheating on him with the same person for almost 7 years, on and off.. almost 3 years straight now. He has a girlfriend he has been with almost 9 years. I am very much ...
A. 13 April 2010: You have just answered your own question."I am very much in love with the boy I am seeing on the side. I love my boyfriend". So my answer is if you can love and cheat why can't you boy-on the side do the same love his girlfriend of 9 yrs and be with ... (read in full...)
She insisted she was straight but then she kissed me a lot and now, I haven't heard from her in 3 days, what to do?
Q. dear aunts and uncles. im completely head over heels in love with my friend. she is beautiful, kind, caring, funny, sexy....simply perfect!! i think about her 24/7. when im with her i want to kiss her, touch her, hold her. i told her how i fee...
A. 13 April 2010: She kissed you and kissed you again but could it be that she was just curious, nothing sexually happened. She tells you she is straight, she probably is and might feel embarrassed after you guys smooched. If you are pursuing her as a girlfriend than ... (read in full...)
Is it reasonable to want him to cut contact with the mother of his unborn child?
Q. my ex got another grl pregnant wile we were apart and now he wants me bck. crying to me all time trying everything to get me bck. but he still has contact with this grl every week. i feel if je really love me and have no feelings for her and dont ...
A. 12 April 2010: Sorry I can't tell you what you want to hear. Your boyfriend is going to be a daddy and if you guys like it or not for the sake of the child he needs to have contact and a good relationship with his baby momma. His role as a dad does not start once ... (read in full...)
I would not give him sex so he got it elsewhere.
Q. Dear Cupid Than you for welcoming me, you know what I was in love with a guy for 3 months and I didnt slept with him so he cheated on me for not being sleeping with him and when I said its over he accepted it and said he cant carry on with me , I w...
A. 12 April 2010: Be thankful you didn't have sex with him because it seems like he would have dumped you anyways. You will find Mr.Right and will stumble across a couple of frogs in your search, but eventually you will find the right one. You will heal even if right ... (read in full...)
Should I just keep it to myself until I know for sure?
Q. Hi everyone... I am just looking for some advice with my current situation. I recently started sleeping with my ex boyfriend who I still have strong feelings for and he is not in a place where he can he give me the commitment that i want.....
A. 12 April 2010: You should wait till you go to the doctor, good luck!... (read in full...)
Should I follow my heart or listen to my head?
Q. My boyrfriend and i have been off and on for the last year, we have had about 3 break ups. 4 months after we first got together he hit me at school and left a bruise on my face. my parents decided that i had to break up with him. so i did as my ...
A. 9 April 2010: Beat him to the punch and dump his a$$!!!!... (read in full...)
I'm male and like to give head but I'm NOT gay!
Q. How come girls think guys who suck another guy are gay? It happens. I'd much rather be sucking a girl but I like giving a guy head every once in a while. Is there something wrong with that?...
A. 9 April 2010: I personally don't think that if you give or receive head from someone from the same sex makes you straight, you might not be gay but straight your not. A straight person is only interested in getting it and receiving it from the opposite sex and I ... (read in full...)
Should I let my boyfriend go out for drinks with his clingy ex booty call?
Q. So here's my issue ... my boyfriend has this girl Wendy who still keeps in contact with him. The very first night we went out, she was blowing up his cell phone with phone calls and texts like "please come over" "make love to me" "i need you" "i ...
A. 9 April 2010: He is your boyfriend and you have every right to know whats going on. I would strongly discourage him, but if you can't than go with him. The benefits of having a booty call is no attachment involve and your boyfriend knows this very well because he ... (read in full...)
Agony aunts forever!
Q. I was wondering how I can get paid to become an agony aunt, I love helping others and answering questions, its one of my passions. thankyhuu x...
A. 8 April 2010: As of now I have not received a paycheck , but I would love to get paid! If you find something that pays please let me know.... (read in full...)
I can't be completely happy in the relationship I am in now because I feel like I can't let go of my ex.
Q. My ex boyfriend has a drug problem and he broke up with me because of it almost a year ago. I am still having a hard time moving on and still love him. I feel like if I move on I am abandoning him and everyone else in his life has given up on him. ...
A. 8 April 2010: I'm not sure how to go about it but there is this show named intervention and it deal with addicts and it makes them see how their addiction is ruining their life and the life of the people that loves them. In reality though you can't help him ... (read in full...)
Should I invite him to my party?
Q. I'm having a birthday party in the summer and I want to invite this guy that I have liked since the beginning of the school year. He has a girlfriend and they have been going out for a couple of months. I don't think they will be together though ...
A. 8 April 2010: How can you be to sure that this boy and his girlfriend are going to break up. Anyways give him the invite and hopefully he goes to your party with out his girlfriend. It seems like you want him in your life regardless if he is your boyfriend or ... (read in full...)
Should I call ex and wish her a happy birthday?
Q. Well this is my second attempt at this question. It was rejected because there wasn't enough detail. I didn't want it to have detail. It was a simple question should I or should I not call my ex and wish her a happy birthday. Now because of this I ...
A. 8 April 2010: I am way too late to answer this but I think you should have called, you maintained a friendship with her and it would have been very nice of you to wish her a happy b-day. People will give you advice but you should use you own judgment because ... (read in full...)
Am I mid-life crazy or is it truly time to make a break?
Q. I'm a 39 year old guy, married 18 years with 2 kids 15 and 10 boy and girl. My wife has had a lot of health problems over the years. About 6 or 7 years ago our sex life became virtually non-existant. Finally 3 years ago I had an affair for about 4 ...
A. 8 April 2010: I think you should try to make your marriage work, try counseling or buy yourself a red corvette if you feel the need to. You will be destroying your home to go after a 20 year old attachment because you did not say love. Have you thought this ... (read in full...)
Three years ago, she freaked when I told her I loved her. Should I tell her again, now?
Q. I've asked this question before but I never get many responses so I'm trying it again. I will have a very long detailed version of this and then at the bottom I will have shorter simplified version, if you want the short version scroll to the bott...
A. 8 April 2010: Trans Am Man I read the long version that was very nice of you to take the time to say thanks. I think you told her before but maybe than she did not want to complicate her life since she already had a boyfriend. Than you found yourself a new gal ... (read in full...)
Advice re au pair jobs abroad!
Q. Hi. I'd really appreciate some advice on these job offers. I'd like to go and work abroad as an Au Pair. I'll write about both families, and you can tell me what you think. One of the families is from Switzerland. They have three kids , a girl...
A. 8 April 2010: The second job sounds much better take that one, bonus point is that Italy is just so beautiful!... (read in full...)
He told me that getting physical with me doesn't make him feel good!!!
Q. I dunno I've been feeling guilty! I had this GUY in my life but he wasn't my boyfriend literally! But we were a lil intimate! He's given me an orgasm and kissed me! But today he happened to tell me this... That getting physical to me doesn't make ...
A. 8 April 2010: He was honest and deserve credit for that. He wants to be a spiritual adviser or leader am I right. He has a vocation and he probably has his heart set in this. This might be very important to him, and he wants to lead by example. His path is one ... (read in full...)
Three years ago, she freaked when I told her I loved her. Should I tell her again, now?
Q. I've asked this question before but I never get many responses so I'm trying it again. I will have a very long detailed version of this and then at the bottom I will have shorter simplified version, if you want the short version scroll to the bott...
A. 7 April 2010: You can give it a try hopefully she accepts you this time. I think you should give it a try and give it your all. I think if you bottle it up you will not get any results so I suggest that you talk to her and hopefully she can correspond to your ... (read in full...)
Should I follow my heart or listen to my head?
Q. My boyrfriend and i have been off and on for the last year, we have had about 3 break ups. 4 months after we first got together he hit me at school and left a bruise on my face. my parents decided that i had to break up with him. so i did as my ...
A. 7 April 2010: He hit you once, that should have been your wake up call. When a person is abusive the hitting will happen more often and more harder. Domestic violence is unacceptable so you should listen to your head and run. You are already getting physical and ... (read in full...)
What is your take on this love letter?
Q. XXX is to protect my ex's name, and mine. Please tell me of the tone of the letter, and the idea of the ballet tix. I am asking of as many people's feedback as possible. ----- Dear XXXX, I ask you to read these words with an open mind and he...
A. 30 March 2010: Sounds like he misses you and wants to work things out, Don't know the reason of your breakup but if you think you can fix things up than give him a chance and go to the ballet together. If not than return his ticket don't accept anymore letters ... (read in full...)
Cheating husband! How do make him understand what he will lose if he leaves me for her?
Q. I am currently married for 7years with 2 kids, a girl and a boy. Me and my husband were happy during our first 4 years of marriage … most of our friends admires our relationship as we are a dream couple…Until he tried to get a mistress (he got ...
A. 24 March 2010: Sweety why do you want to continue to have a relationship with this man. You are young and should have more confidence in yourself. Go to supports groups but do not let your pride as a women be step on constantly put your foot down dear. He has ... (read in full...)
Is it reasonable to want him to cut contact with the mother of his unborn child?
Q. my ex got another grl pregnant wile we were apart and now he wants me bck. crying to me all time trying everything to get me bck. but he still has contact with this grl every week. i feel if je really love me and have no feelings for her and dont ...
A. 24 March 2010: It is selfish to even consider asking your boyfriend to neglect his child, your boyfriend made a big mistake and is now having a baby it's not the baby's fault he did not ask to be born. A real man will be a father and its his job to help protect, ... (read in full...)
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