I think the kiss ruined our friendship!
Q. i was leaving for the day, when my guy friend says "hey, where's my g'bye kiss?" i smile, i kiss his cheek, then he offers the other cheek, then we kinda grin, and before i know it, i kiss his lips, really hard, because i don't know why!!! i just ...
A. 26 June 2010: You kissed him because you like him right? Why do you say your not his type did he tell you that? He is probably wondering why you kiss him because you caught him off guard, and he might like you. I think you two should talk and go from there. This ... (read in full...)
Don't want to push the friend zone, but don't want to be out of mind either
Q. Hey there... So I known this girl for couple of weeks now and we had a great time in the beginning but then she pull a "I just got out of a relationship and not ready to get into another one right now. I can only be a friend right now." I understa...
A. 26 June 2010: She might not be interested. You should move on and let it be her that make her decision. She already knows how you feel and she put a stop to it she might only like you as a friend.... (read in full...)
Boyfriend wants permission to have sex with another woman
Q. My fiance of 6 yrs now told me recently that he wants to have sex with another woman. he'd prefer it with me and 'her' but he'd take 'her' solo also. he explained that its not because i'm lousy in bed but because he's just bored. I know I'm not ...
A. 26 June 2010: You are really considering this....there are a lot of open marriage but is he willing to share you as well.... (read in full...)
Help! She's slept with more people than me!
Q. I am 31 years old and have been dating a 29 year old girl for about 2 months. We get on really well and have become quite serious and have discussed marriage etc. I formed the impression she has had quite a few sexual partners (we also slept t...
A. 26 June 2010: You should try to fix this issue before you commit to this relationship. Think would your life be better without her in it. Once you move forward be aware that you committed knowing of her past and shouldn't hold it against her. She has shown you ... (read in full...)
He doesn't want to commit this year, but wants to be with me
Q. a guy says he likes me but does not want a relationship. He still wants to be single, but he said he wants me and he wants me to wait about a year or two for him.... ...
A. 25 June 2010: girl if you are not good enough now why wait for later he is not worth it.... (read in full...)
We broke up but still wanted to be friends, but his sister is getting in the way!
Q. okay i broke up with my boyfriend a bout a week ago and we were fine and going to keep tlking to each other but his sister kept txting me saying he didnt want me so get over it and that he wanted nothing to do with me and to stop stalking him and ...
A. 25 June 2010: Don't worry about it and move on. When people break up the chances for them to continue being friends are slim, to many feelings, emotions involve. Just keep your distance from him and his sister.... (read in full...)
She broke up with me and I'm devastated
Q. My girlfriend broke up with me last night and I honestly don't know what to do...she was the only thing going right up untill now. I'm still in shock, we live pretty far away and she told me online that she didn't think it was working out but wanted ...
A. 25 June 2010: You shouldn't blame yourself, sometimes relationships don't work and feeling do fade out. This has nothing to do with you. You two were not in the same path. Sorry about the break up but you will get through this and find someone new just don't ... (read in full...)
My husband wants an open marriage, I don't
Q. my husband after 7 years of marriage wants and open marriage meening he wants to ahve sex with other women and i CAN HAVE SEX WITH OTHER MEN IM NOT OK WITH THAT WHAT DO i DO?...
A. 25 June 2010: Say No!!! Stand your ground and don't allow this to happen.... (read in full...)
Farewell from an aunt
Q. After being an aunt on this wonderful site for well over 5 years, I've decided to finally see the writing on the wall and call it quits. I truly gave it my best shot and spoke the truth as I know it to be. I will always treasure my time here and the ...
A. 23 June 2010: I hate to see you leave. I really hope you change your mind and come back!... (read in full...)
Are all cheaters the same?
Q. hi just after a few opinions pls 1.how do you tell the difference between a man who is in a relationship genuinely unhappy but confused and cheats. and a man who is using you because he can and cares nothing for you. because i dont believe all chea...
A. 18 June 2010: I think that a cheater is a cheater and something has to be missing in the relationship because if they were completely happy I don't think they would stray. You could be an honest, loving, nice, generous man but if you cheat you can than add liar, ... (read in full...)
He accuses me of having lost it with someone else
Q. dear cupid me and my boyfriend having been going out now for a couple of months he's my first boyfriend i never had one before he nice sweet and loving to me.well yesterday we decided to have sex like he knows it my first time he's my first ..so ...
A. 18 June 2010: He is being a jerk and since he already slept with you now he is acting like a fool. Let him know how his remarks are hurting you, and don't allow him and his accusations to make you feel bad. ... (read in full...)
I want to get past this infidelity but don't know where to start.
Q. hi i am a 25 year old male and been with my girlfriend for 1 year 6 months. we was going good until while i was away at work for 3 weeks, found out that she had a party at her mates house and met a guy and they talked all night. i found this out by ...
A. 18 June 2010: Unfortunately you do need to know details even if your girlfriend want to forget about it. In order for you to put closure on the infidelity topic you need to know why she cheated. If she tries to change the subject don't allow her to because ... (read in full...)
I'm falling in love, but shes married!
Q. Hi folks, I have known this woman online for 4 years, she is happily married with a 1yr old daughter. Over the last few months our reletionship has changed dramiticly, the normal talk of hows you and little un turned into full on flirty and v...
A. 17 June 2010: Leave it as a friendship, she is married. Don't cross any boundaries respect her, respect her marriage. Unfortunately for you all you can offer her is your friendship.
If its hard for you to be friends with her because of your feelings it might... (read in full...)
Is she lying about her "size" preferences?
Q. OK, I'm having a major issue with something that I know is terribly immature, but I can't help it. I am dealing with the "her ex is bigger" syndrome (his 9 to my 6), and I am OK with myself and my abilities, but I can't understand the mixed signals ...
A. 17 June 2010: I totaling agree with Mal......... (read in full...)
Why does he feel the need to tell me everything, like he found a 15 year old girl attractive?
Q. My partner came home from work and he seems to find the need to tell me everything. He is turning 35 next year. He had to tell me that he saw a very, very attractive fifteen year old girl crossing the road whilst he was driving home from work. I ...
A. 16 June 2010: I think your husband has no business looking at a 15 year old....yuck he 35 just not right.... (read in full...)
She's 14 and I am almost 20. How can I postpone sex until she's older, without hurting her feelings?
Q. I'm having a slight problem, and mainly just need some words of advice and support. I'm 19, turning 20 soon and I met a girl online sometime around 9 months ago, at first it was just friendly talk and me trying to cheer her up (she's had a very har...
A. 16 June 2010: There is this show To Catch a Predator with Chris Hasen, Its a show where a person pretends to be a minor and she chit chats with an adult male and they set up a date, the guy shows up and than he gets arrested..they never had sex but it was still ... (read in full...)
She's 14 and I am almost 20. How can I postpone sex until she's older, without hurting her feelings?
Q. I'm having a slight problem, and mainly just need some words of advice and support. I'm 19, turning 20 soon and I met a girl online sometime around 9 months ago, at first it was just friendly talk and me trying to cheer her up (she's had a very har...
A. 16 June 2010: I really think you should not be dating a 14 year old period. It does not matter if you live in African and she is in the states. She is not in the same maturity level as you, she is still a child and as a child she could easily be fooled and ... (read in full...)
Splitting the bill on a first date?
Q. I was on a first date with this guy and we went to see a movie, then had dinner at a Chinese restaurant. We're both students. He is a year older than me. So, he bought the movie tickets online, then announced the price out loud - "so it's 22.50 f...
A. 16 June 2010: To be honest if you hang out with cheap looser you will most likely be stuck with the bill. Remember when dating a guy if he keeps ditching the bill most likely he is not a good catch.
When you go out with friends you should cover your half and... (read in full...)
Did we over react in this situation?
Q. I (we) don't really need relationship advice, but our question does have to do with male/female situations I guess. My wife got a really great job, but it's about 3 hours away from our home. My company is opening a new branch very close to where m...
A. 16 June 2010: You did the right thing and did not overreacted. The landlord was the one wrong here. He can't sue you because he broke his agreement by renting a spare bed room to the naked man without your wife approval. He is renting a bachelor pad not a hostel.... (read in full...)
If he wants to settle down with me, why is he dating other people?
Q. About 5 months ago my high school sweetheart and I re-connected on a romantic level. We have stayed in touch over the 10 years since we graduated and were friends and other than the occasional date we had not dated in over 10 years. 5 months ago we ...
A. 16 June 2010: Since you live so far he might not want to be exclusive. Its not that he is planning on hooking up with anyone else but incase it did happened he wouldn't be considered a cheater. Well that is what I think. ... (read in full...)
Is he just scared of being hurt again,,,?
Q. First I need to give a little background information. I reunitied with an old male friend about 9 months ago. I have known him since I was twelve as he was friends with two of my old teenage boyfriends. He actually introduced me to my first husband ...
A. 16 June 2010: At some point he has to let his guard down in order to be able to truly love again. You are not these other ladies and at some point he going to have to either make a commitment to you or let you go. Do you really want to sit and wait for him to be ... (read in full...)
Is my husband lying about having affairs?
Q. Okay, straight forward, here it goes...Husband and I have been together for 5 years...Where he worked there was a woman who would come over to the house when we had barbeques and stuff...fine. She came over with her boyfriend at the time once, ...
A. 16 June 2010: See and you wanted to hire a PI....you should do the investigating yourself and save your money. ... (read in full...)
The married man I am having an affair with is cheating on me!
Q. im having an affair to a married man and we are now six years, the problem is he's having a fling relationship to another woman, how can i stop him on this kind of habit i feel so hurt and jealous..what will i do for him should i leave him but i ...
A. 16 June 2010: Your jealous because he has a new lover...now imagine what the wife must feel.
His wife the women he married and promised her to be faithful must now share her husband with not one but two women.
He made no promises to you why were you expecti... (read in full...)
Am I right not to trust my boyfriend?
Q. I've now been with my boyfriend for 9 months and over the last few months, I just don't trust him. He has this "good friend" who just so happens to be female. And I don't have a problem with that, but, he actually told me early on in the relati...
A. 16 June 2010: No your not being unreasonable and you need to stand up for yourself. There is no excuse for him to have all those pictures of her. If you feel uncomfortable about that relationship than he should take your feeling under consideration. Don't be his ... (read in full...)
I'm engaged but in love with another man!
Q. i am engagged to be married this year,but i have developed feelings for this married man that was just my friend at first, i never expected to like him but I do now i thinnk i am in love with him we have decided to stay clear of each other but ...
A. 16 June 2010: You can not marry your fiance if your in love with this other man. Be true to yourself and if you really love this other person than let your fiance go. It will be a sad and long life leaving with someone you don't love. ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend would rather drink than take care of his family!
Q. Thanks for taking the time to read this. im 18 years old, 5 months pregnant with my first child i never planned for it to happen this early on in my life but it just happend and once i saw my baby moving around on the screen i knew i couldn't...
A. 16 June 2010: Sometime it is better we let go of our past for the sake of the children. Just imagine what kind of role model he will be with to your child. Your child will think its ok to drink and mistreat the ladies. You can't help your boyfriend unless he is ... (read in full...)
Why is he talking "crap" about me after we've had sex?
Q. I slept with a boy I know on Saturday (we were both drunk). Everything was fine and we were talking afterwards. The next morning I was a quite off with him, but I was planning on apologising about this. Today at college however, his best friend came ...
A. 15 June 2010: I understood what you said and I think it was wrong of him to talk bad about you to his friends. You are young and I'm assuming he is too, remember guys don't really mature till I want to cross my fingers on this and say maybe 26.... (read in full...)
Why is he talking "crap" about me after we've had sex?
Q. I slept with a boy I know on Saturday (we were both drunk). Everything was fine and we were talking afterwards. The next morning I was a quite off with him, but I was planning on apologising about this. Today at college however, his best friend came ...
A. 15 June 2010: she was off with him....in return he goes around talking crap to his friends about her in my opinion he is very immature..... ... (read in full...)
I think my boyfriend isn't interested anymore!
Q. iam in a relation with my boyfriend for 3 month and we had a very good relation actually he loves me from last year in school and now he isnt calling me or saying nice words (he usually does) i think he doesnt love me anymore he dosent let me feel ...
A. 15 June 2010: Have you talked to him and asked him whats in his mind. He might be having problems at home, he might be dealing with something in his life. Don't jump into conclusions talk to him and get the answer. ... (read in full...)
Should I have sex with my ex-boyfriend?
Q. i want to sleep with my ex-boyfriend soooooo badly...its been 9yrs or 10yrs...he wants to also..we have been conversating for about 4 months now....should i go for it.....???? ...we were young and immature when we were together back in the ...
A. 15 June 2010: I agree 100% with BunnyTee's, Go for it........have fun and enjoy it! Unless any one of you is taken! ... (read in full...)
Is fourteen too young to lose your virginity?
Q. Im a 14 year old girl. I met my boyfriend a year ago and have been going out with him since but we have broken up 3 times but got back together. It may sound like a childish relationship but i no that its not. Iv had silly little boyfriends in my ...
A. 15 June 2010: You are to young to be thinking about having sex. I urge you to wait till your older and when You know what you want to do. There is nothing worst than giving your virginity away to someone and find yourself regret it in the future. ... (read in full...)
Is my husband lying about having affairs?
Q. Okay, straight forward, here it goes...Husband and I have been together for 5 years...Where he worked there was a woman who would come over to the house when we had barbeques and stuff...fine. She came over with her boyfriend at the time once, ...
A. 15 June 2010: If you were to get a PI what would the outcome be, are you willing to leave your husband if he is cheating. If you are not than save the money and continue to be in this relationship blind like a mouse. I think the signs are there that he might be ... (read in full...)
My husband wants a three-some. Is that normal?
Q. My husband of 15 yrs and I always had great sex. Two years ago he made a statement that upset me. He said he wanted to have another woman join us because he has been with the same girl for 13 years. He says he loves me and just wants to add ...
A. 15 June 2010: Many men fantasize about having a threesome but there is a difference between fantasy and real life. The way he told you was degrading and if he is tired of the sex life you guys have than I'm sure he will have no problem in it being MMF ask him and ... (read in full...)
Is this love? What can I do?
Q. Can you love someone even though you don't talk to them hardly ever anymore? I feel like im inlove with my first love, i can never seem to get over him as soon as i see him i go all jellyfied and i feel like im inlove once he told me to jump off t...
A. 15 June 2010: If he knows how you feel and does not reciprocate your feelings, maybe you should stay away and add distance between you two. The only one that will hurt will be you so take care of your self and not put yourself in harms way.
Now if he doesn't ... (read in full...)
Why is he talking "crap" about me after we've had sex?
Q. I slept with a boy I know on Saturday (we were both drunk). Everything was fine and we were talking afterwards. The next morning I was a quite off with him, but I was planning on apologising about this. Today at college however, his best friend came ...
A. 15 June 2010: Women mature way way way before men and this is why men which I prefer to call boys talk nonsense, after he has sex with a female. Sometimes it is to boost there images, there ego, and he obviously starting talking about you because by you not ... (read in full...)
He's cheated on me and I don't know what to do!
Q. Hi all I've been with my boyfriend for 2 years we moved in together after 3 months and everything was going well. He was posted to Afghanistan as he is in the forces so for the next 12 months I was on my own with no family or friends around to help ...
A. 15 June 2010: The mistakes you made was that you probably forgave him to easily and quickly. I don't believe in the once a cheater always a cheater but I I feel very strongly that if you make them beg and beg and play it super hard to go back after they have ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend had sex before we met!
Q. HEY. Me and my girlfriend is together for 2 years and got engaged some time ago [e-mail address removed]. My problem is that I cant deal with the fact that she slept with four guys before we started dating. When I think of this I get so angry th...
A. 15 June 2010: I suggest before you move forward go to counseling and deal with this jealousy. You don't want to get to serious in this relationship unless you know this something you can handle.
To be to worry about her sexual past must mean that your a virgin... (read in full...)
My brother's ex wife moved in with me and is expecting my baby, am I a bad person?
Q. My brother and his wife split up last october as he was being unfaithfull and they are currently going through a divorce. His wife didnt mind as they both decided that the relationship didnt work. However we all stayed friends and carried on seeing ...
A. 15 June 2010: I can see why your brother is mad at you because even if they were no longer an item you should have stayed away.
Well whats done is done and you now have to be there for her and this baby.
Even if the your family and friends get angry your r... (read in full...)
Is he just scared of being hurt again,,,?
Q. First I need to give a little background information. I reunitied with an old male friend about 9 months ago. I have known him since I was twelve as he was friends with two of my old teenage boyfriends. He actually introduced me to my first husband ...
A. 15 June 2010: He is confusing, but do you really want to give him time. You can't invest to many feeling or time on a person who is hurt because he has to heal before he can love again. ... (read in full...)
Do other girls rub there smell on the lips for there b/f?
Q. I been dating my g/f for 5 months and we been intimate. She said she is bi and I knew that when we met. She had a long time g/f then but just broke up. On Satuday my friend text me and said he saw my g/f with her ex going in her house. I met my ...
A. 14 June 2010: Nope I think your girl is lying to you. I've never heard of anyone during that ugh...sorry I think she is cheating. ... (read in full...)
I cheated on my boyfriend twice should I tell him?
Q. I had cheated on my bf twice but not really had to boyfriends at once it was just a kissing thing that happens with two different guys in February and March.I was wondering if I should tell him or not. He's the love of my life I'm sure and I think ...
A. 14 June 2010: If he was the love of your life I doubt you would have cheated, not only once but twice. I think you are to young to know what is true love but believe me when you do meet the one, cheating will be the last think in your mind. I recommend you talk ... (read in full...)
Splitting the bill on a first date?
Q. I was on a first date with this guy and we went to see a movie, then had dinner at a Chinese restaurant. We're both students. He is a year older than me. So, he bought the movie tickets online, then announced the price out loud - "so it's 22.50 f...
A. 14 June 2010: Your were out as friends and made it clear to him that it was not a date so I don't think he should have been stuck with the bill. If he is trying to date you well he started out in the wrong foot but in fairness this was not a date, so no I don't ... (read in full...)
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