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I know we're young, but I want a baby! Is this a good idea?

Q.   im 16 and i want to have a baby me and my partner been together some years now and im ready to have a bby i know a baby comes with alot of expenses but we both are working and he's a senior and im a junior. and we have a lot of money saved up ...

A.   7 July 2011: Girlll I'm 14 and I want a baby! But I am NOT going to ruin my future for something that can wait when I'm older and wiser. You have your future ahead of you! Dont you want to go to college?,marry someone? I dont know about you but I do! Just ... (read in full...)

He is cheating on his new girlfriend with me, I just want him to hurry up and dump her so we can be back together again!

Q.   Boyfriend and I just broke up about 2 months ago due to some just plain unfortunate stuff. Were living together over a year, dating quite a long time. Had to move out and to my mum's far away. Ended up leaving on good terms, and with mutual wants to ...

A.   4 July 2011: No! The girl isnt doing anything wrong, so let him grow the balls to tell her.... (read in full...)

He is cheating on his new girlfriend with me, I just want him to hurry up and dump her so we can be back together again!

Q.   Boyfriend and I just broke up about 2 months ago due to some just plain unfortunate stuff. Were living together over a year, dating quite a long time. Had to move out and to my mum's far away. Ended up leaving on good terms, and with mutual wants to ...

A.   29 June 2011: Hun, truth is he's not going to pick you. You really think this is the kind of man you want to be with? Who has a new girlfriend then goes and cheats on her?! I dont think so!... (read in full...)

Is Oral, sex ?

Q.   Here it goes.. I was saving myself until I got married for the right man. I was making out with my boyfriend and I ended up giving him oral sex. Does that make me a non virgin anymore?...

A.   28 June 2011: Thanks guys(: I went and got cleansed. I fully plan to set standards for myself and not lose my virginity till I am married, but thanks for all the advice!... (read in full...)

Why am I always asked for sex? I'm not gorgeous!

Q.   Ok I'm almost 19 and I don't need someone but something has been bugging me.First of all I'm not attractive especially compared to my friends. When I used to hang out with guys I was like one of them. Seriously, they seemed to think I was one of ...

A.   27 June 2011: I would tell the guys to grow some balls and learn how to treat a girl. Simple.... (read in full...)

Female Readers Only Please??--Irregular Periods??

Q.   Ehhrr.. My periods started about a year and a half ago, and they are still very very irregular:/ I'm not sure if that is because I don't eat enough or what really, but I'm just wandering if there is a way to know that it's on it's way or not, ...

A.   3 October 2010: Thats how myne were too. I wouldnt be worried. Haha I remember thinkin I was havin a jesus baby! I went to the doctor and she told me it was perfectly normal! The will get more and more regular for you. I get myne every month now and personally ... (read in full...)

Bored with the relationship and want to break up, but she'd be devestated

Q.   I've been with a girl 5 months and I'm beginning to get bored. We slept together after a week, have been on holiday together, and have also been on family meals with each others families. Our sex life is really good, but everything else is boring. ...

A.   28 September 2010: Personally, I wouldnt lead her on. I know it would suck if I found out the person i loved didnt love me back! I think she'll understand if she really loves you. She will realize it would be cruel just to have you go out with her just because you ... (read in full...)

I can never be alone with my girlfriend!

Q.   So I've been dating this girl for about 2 months and not once have I ever gotten to be alone with her! her friend is always with her! for example she will come to my house to see me and her friend is ALWAYS with her. I didn't mind at first but I'm ...

A.   15 September 2010: Ummm guys it says its a girl??... (read in full...)

Boyfriend has already been there, done that and it concerns me

Q.   I love my boyfriend and I know this because seeing him happy and smiling warms my heart. I respect him as a person, a man... His flaws are a part of him and I accept them as he accepts mine. I don't look for other men and just holding his hand ...

A.   10 September 2010: I truly think that if you guys really love each other and you have those feelings then you will stay together. If not, thats just a sign you guys know whats best. Long distance relationships are hard and confusing, but you have to learn to trust. ... (read in full...)

Help! No longer sexually attracted to my chubby wife...

Q.   So we all know that men are visual creatures. My problem is that I am just not that attracted to my wife anymore. We have been married 15 years. She is a pretty woman, but has slowly gained weight. She is maybe 40-50 lbs overweight, and weighs ...

A.   10 September 2010: Wow. Shallow much?? Really why dont you just sit down with her and have a chat?? But be nice!!!! Not you NEED to lose weight. Tell her your concerned about her health. If you really loved her you would except her for who she is and it wouldnt matter ... (read in full...)

I might be gay but I'm scared to tell my family! What do I do?

Q.   I think i might be gay but im terrified about what my family mainly my mother would say because she has guessed it but I told her i wasent because she gets a look of disappointment and disgust until I assure her im not. Whats nearly as bad is that ...

A.   9 September 2010: Dont be afraid!!! If your family really loves you they will be ok! Sure they will be a little shocked!! But its not their choice! Just do what you think is best. Hope everything works out! XoXo... (read in full...)

Her dad hates me, and I can't figure out his reason!

Q.   I am 19 yrs old and have been dating my girlfriend Jillian,who is 18 for a little over 8 months now. From the very beginning her family really liked me, I get along great with her brother and sister, and her parents loved me. We have a great ...

A.   9 September 2010: Hm. Have you and her had any sexual contact? Maybe he has found out about it and is upset. Or maybe he is just getting used to the fact that his daughter is grown up. Maybe you should try to talk to him? Or just see how things go if your afraid. ... (read in full...)

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