We were both tipsy and we ended up having sex!
Q. Hi! I'm in love with this beautiful lady and she loves me too but she is scared I might hurt her. I've been pursuing her for the past 4 months but she has been playing hard to get. She invited me to a concert on the weekend with her friends...
A. 4 June 2010: I think you are trying to find excuses to be with her, you have attached your self to her. I hope you can catch cause I have a feeling she will throw more things your way. You already know how she is, she puts all this guilt on you, and than she ... (read in full...)
We were both tipsy and we ended up having sex!
Q. Hi! I'm in love with this beautiful lady and she loves me too but she is scared I might hurt her. I've been pursuing her for the past 4 months but she has been playing hard to get. She invited me to a concert on the weekend with her friends...
A. 4 June 2010: Dude she has been playing you the whole time. Let her go she is not worth the headache. First she blames you for something she took part in. Now you find out she has a boyfriend. Now I can see why she was trying to find someone to blame. Since she ... (read in full...)
We were both tipsy and we ended up having sex!
Q. Hi! I'm in love with this beautiful lady and she loves me too but she is scared I might hurt her. I've been pursuing her for the past 4 months but she has been playing hard to get. She invited me to a concert on the weekend with her friends...
A. 3 June 2010: Respect her and act as if in nothing changed, good luck!... (read in full...)
Should I date an army guy?
Q. I just met a guy from the army...we met in ny we had a good time for four days then he had to go back to iraq. We been talking everyday he seems like a nice guy but of course I still got to get to know him. He invited me to the ball when he don't ...
A. 3 June 2010: It is hard to be an army wife or girlfriend, but if the love is there you will make it work. Now in your case you have met and probably found him very attractive and you fantasize about a relationship with him. Truth be told it is a lonely life and ... (read in full...)
How do I open his mind and heart so I can be more confident in our relationship?
Q. hello, I have a problem with my boyfriend, he is not clear with me, if I ask him about something he never answers with a clear and obvious way, so everything is confusing to me, even when he says that he loves me, I can't help but thinking that he ...
A. 3 June 2010: He doesn't open up to you, so you two don't have conversations, sorry to hear that. In a relationship the communication is the key and it has to go both ways that is the only way the relationship can move forward and survive. You should tell him ... (read in full...)
He cheated and then almost killed himself! Do I give him another chance?
Q. hello. i need help.... MY boyfriend of 8 months has been cheating on me with his ex.. on day i was hanging out at home when his ex girlfriend came to my house and told meh everything. ill tell u the convorsation " Yeah. hes been h...
A. 2 June 2010: Let him go he cheated on you and now is trying to manipulate you by threatening to hurt himself. Not worth the headache he cheated on you ask him to man up.... (read in full...)
Help! Is he having an affair? Or just doesn't love me anymore?
Q. Hi, I have been married for almost 9 years, actually our anniversary is june 9, I can relate to almost all of the women on this site, I have been having major problems within my marriage for years now, besides fighting with each other (mostly ...
A. 2 June 2010: Maybe you can find some kind of activity you can do to keep your mind busy and stop thinking on if he is cheating.
He might be stress from work and have the burden of mortgage, car payment, bills, childcare, and the list could go on and on. He m... (read in full...)
Can I keep what happened with my brother in law from my husband?
Q. I am in a situation that I would have never in a million years believed that I could be in. I have never been unfaithful to anyone - ever. I think that trust and honesty are two of the most important things in a successful relationship and...
A. 2 June 2010: Arrogant
Per OP:
To be honest, I believe that John would still want to be with me, I just don't want to tell him because he'll be devastated
Per Bunny Tee
True, I am arrogant but you say that like it's a bad thing. It's not arrogance if... (read in full...)
Can I keep what happened with my brother in law from my husband?
Q. I am in a situation that I would have never in a million years believed that I could be in. I have never been unfaithful to anyone - ever. I think that trust and honesty are two of the most important things in a successful relationship and...
A. 2 June 2010: Arrogance:
a: an attitude of superiority, manifested in an over bearing manner, or in presumptuous claims or assumption
b: an exaggerated sense of one's importance that shows itself in the making of excessive or unjustified claims
Synonyms:
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I'm almost ready to end my marriage, what should I do?
Q. 3 years ago i cought my wife cheating. i forgave her and took her back. however she continues to lie to me about everyday things. and the biggest thing of all is she wont open up and behonest and share her thoughts and feelings with me. and i feel ...
A. 2 June 2010: Your wife has cheated but you forgave her and you tried to have a fresh start. If she is being secretive and you feel she is with holding information than I suggest you ask her straight out. Tell her that for the sake of you marriage you would want ... (read in full...)
Can I keep what happened with my brother in law from my husband?
Q. I am in a situation that I would have never in a million years believed that I could be in. I have never been unfaithful to anyone - ever. I think that trust and honesty are two of the most important things in a successful relationship and...
A. 2 June 2010: If my husband is banging my sister, aunt,or Cousin I would like to know than I would feel that its my decision if I decided to forgive my cheating husband or not. If they kept quiet and I eventually I found out I feel that the outcome would be ... (read in full...)
Can I keep what happened with my brother in law from my husband?
Q. I am in a situation that I would have never in a million years believed that I could be in. I have never been unfaithful to anyone - ever. I think that trust and honesty are two of the most important things in a successful relationship and...
A. 1 June 2010: Poster has said over and over again how she loves Dan and how she only stays with John because he loves her so so much and can't be with out her why not spare poor John and tell him the truth.
I think its harder when you cheat the first time, th... (read in full...)
We were both tipsy and we ended up having sex!
Q. Hi! I'm in love with this beautiful lady and she loves me too but she is scared I might hurt her. I've been pursuing her for the past 4 months but she has been playing hard to get. She invited me to a concert on the weekend with her friends...
A. 1 June 2010: You were both drinking so it is unfair to just blame you. People often blame the alcohol for what they do under the influence, but I feel the alcohol just helps you do, whatever you wouldn't do sober. In reality she wanted this and now wants an ... (read in full...)
Can I keep what happened with my brother in law from my husband?
Q. I am in a situation that I would have never in a million years believed that I could be in. I have never been unfaithful to anyone - ever. I think that trust and honesty are two of the most important things in a successful relationship and...
A. 1 June 2010: If she was truly remorseful than she would tell her husband the truth.... (read in full...)
I am jealous of his ex
Q. I know my partner loves me and he is always saying how he can't wait to marry me BUT there is something in my mind that makes me feel 2nd best to his ex. When they split we were just friends and it got nasty between them, one night he found o...
A. 1 June 2010: Worry about your relationship and let the past go. He is with you and that is all that should matter to you. Be happy and don't let the shadow of his past interferer with your future and your love for him.... (read in full...)
How far will she go?
Q. I have been with my wife for 9 years now I have always thought of her as very sexy -- at times she can wear outfits that make me crazy. But as of this last year she has started to wear outfits that show more then the norm. At first it was fun, I ...
A. 1 June 2010: Talk to her and let her know what bothers you and what you find ok. She might think you like the way she dresses since you were ok with it before. ... (read in full...)
Can I keep what happened with my brother in law from my husband?
Q. I am in a situation that I would have never in a million years believed that I could be in. I have never been unfaithful to anyone - ever. I think that trust and honesty are two of the most important things in a successful relationship and...
A. 1 June 2010: You keep on trying to paint this pretty picture of your cheating. I have to disagree with the previous post...I think if John new from the beginning that you had feelings for Dan I think at least for self respect for himself would have walked away. ... (read in full...)
Is being with 6 men sexually by the age of 30 a lot?
Q. okay so this is a very random curious question. I'm turning 30 and have been with 6 men sexually. Is this a lot for a woman of my age to have been with that many men? Sometimes i wonder and feel bad about my sexual experiences. ...
A. 31 May 2010: 6 by the age of 30 is not big number and should not be a big deal............. (read in full...)
Can I keep what happened with my brother in law from my husband?
Q. I am in a situation that I would have never in a million years believed that I could be in. I have never been unfaithful to anyone - ever. I think that trust and honesty are two of the most important things in a successful relationship and...
A. 30 May 2010: Hard Situation I just hope that your husband can get through this and move on...he does deserve to find someone that will truly loves him. I applaud you if you do decide to let him go because then he can go and find happiness with someone who will ... (read in full...)
G/f very ill and I have lost my attraction to her
Q. Ok, so here it is...my girlfriend (21) and I (24) have been dating for 4 years now, most of it a long-distance relationship until we moved in together. She suffers from severe ulcerative colitis, and she's had episodes every year we've been together...
A. 28 May 2010: You can't force yourself to be with her, and it not fair for you to stay with her because you feel sorry for her.
It is hard to be with a person who you don't find attractive, and you are not married to her, so I feel it might be better for both... (read in full...)
Did he say he was allergic to condoms just to trick me?
Q. Help... I Just had unprotected sex and i am so scared. He claims hes allergic to condoms. Can someome be allergic or did he trick me me? ...
A. 28 May 2010: You should be scare because if he don't like to use condoms he is in high risk of catching an STD please get yourself check. Next time please do not let your self get corner into having sex without protection. Protect your life don't have sex ... (read in full...)
Will he ever forgive me for this?
Q. I've know this guy 4 five years and we've been hanging out off and on. Well everything was going fine until one night i texed him and he ignored me and i smarted off. I said u don't like 4 people 2 treat u badly, so u shouldn't treat them that way, ...
A. 28 May 2010: Don't worry so much if he forgives you or not, move on with your life.
If he is angry than let him be and don't let him carry you with him, you be happy, worry free, and live your life. Misery loves company don't let him drag you down to his bitt... (read in full...)
He rejected me because I wasn't a virgin, but I don't want to live without him
Q. I was in a relationship for 2 years,but after that we broke up,and i had sex with him,he didn't cheat me but we are not perfect for each other,so we decided to broke up,then after that now i am in a relationship with another boy from last 4-5 ...
A. 28 May 2010: He is obviously not worth the tears or pain forget him and move on. It will be hard at first but you will find a real man a person who will not look at your past but will fall in love with you and he hope and dream to one day build a future with ... (read in full...)
Can I keep what happened with my brother in law from my husband?
Q. I am in a situation that I would have never in a million years believed that I could be in. I have never been unfaithful to anyone - ever. I think that trust and honesty are two of the most important things in a successful relationship and...
A. 28 May 2010: You and your brother in law decided to sleep together and cheat on John, so you both have deceived him once, now you two want to stay quiet about the whole cheating and lie to him again.
Poor John it seems he has always had the loosing end and ... (read in full...)
Why do I blame myself...?
Q. Why do i blame myself for past physical and sexual abuse that i went through even though i didnt ask for it? :( why am i sitting with all the pain and hurt?...
A. 28 May 2010: Have you tried getting some help. This abuse is never ok and its never the victims fault, you were only a victim to a crime and you should report this. I feel that you need to seek counseling, therapy will help you so much. I feel your pain and wish ... (read in full...)
Is it common for people to fight in public over a woman?
Q. This is not a relationship question but perhaps some of the aunts will spare a minute to satisfy my curiosity. Yesterday we had a long thread on DC about a violent brawl in a pub between two young men fighting over a girl. Regardless of the OP's...
A. 28 May 2010: I have seen episode of anger, jealousy, and violence. I feel that this behavior is unacceptable and sadly enough it happens very so often. I feel that this behavior only proves the insecurities of that person. I don't think real men will have to ... (read in full...)
Are we heading for a rocky end?
Q. me and my bf have been together for 3 years now. I love him to pieces no-one makes me laugh, feel safe and creates that sparkle in my eyes the way he does. I know he loves me very much 2. We have had the usual ups and downs that couples have but ...
A. 28 May 2010: I'm simply saying don't make plans on the nights he is going out with his buddies this will cut down on your arguing.
Your saying your mad he leaves you hanging I have to agree with you on that one but why put yourself in this position, if your ... (read in full...)
My husband has been cheating with his sister-in-law, and won't give her up
Q. My husband has been cheating on me for years with his brothers wife. I never could understand why she was phoning him constanly. I even tried to talk to her about it. She later started spreading rumours about me. Telling people, my husband included ...
A. 28 May 2010: Your brother in law don't care if she screws other man including your husband are you going to have the same attitude as him and not care. This women will not leave your husband if she can have both man wrap around her little finger. You have to ... (read in full...)
My mother is dying and I'm having thoughts of cheating on my husband..what is going on??
Q. Hi. I need a lot of opinions on this, may be from your own experience, but i really need to understand what's going w/me before i go and spend 200/hour on a therapist. I am in my early forties, been married for over 20 years, and my marriage is v...
A. 27 May 2010: Your going through a hard situation and it must be hard to see your moms condition deteriorate each day more and more. Find strength in yourself not to push away your husband because he is and will be your support through these harsh times. I'm am ... (read in full...)
Is he just trying to have sex with me? Or do we really connect?
Q. I met a man one night through a mutual friend. He lives a couple states away but asked for my number so that we could "keep in touch." I assumed it was just a friendly thing as I'm a very social person with friends all over the world. But when we ...
A. 27 May 2010: I think you need to stop listening to your friends since they don't know him. You two are talking and are getting to know him and in your story you didn't say he talks to you about sex, this is what your friends have told you he probably wants you ... (read in full...)
I just got married, but I feel neglected! Help!
Q. Hi all, I just got married on May 10th. I know it's supposed to be a happy, joyous occasion, however with my husband working 2 jobs, and going to school full-time, I just sit here all day in our house, with nobody to talk to. So when he gets home, I ...
A. 27 May 2010: Even if you can't work maybe you can get yourself involve in a club, some kind of craft school, attend meeting, do something with your time so that you don't sit around bored having anything to do.
Your husband works two jobs and goes to school f... (read in full...)
My girlfriend only calls when she wants something! What should I do?
Q. dear sirs, my girlfriend only calls me when she wants something ! wht shall i do?...
A. 27 May 2010: I'm not sure how to advise you I don't have much info here.
Your girlfriends only calls you when she needs you?
Do you not see your girlfriend at all unless she requires something from you?
... (read in full...)
I'm getting the feeling she's just ignoring me, but I have no idea why
Q. I've been talking to this girl for a while now and I really like her. I thought she liked me as well, so I told her how I felt and it turned out she wasn't looking for a boyfriend and she said she was sorry if she gave me the wrong impression. ...
A. 27 May 2010: I'm happy for you, you will get over her and will realize how she was not worth your time anyways....You man up and grew up Congrats!... (read in full...)
Can you heal after being cheated on?
Q. I have just found out that my fiancee cheated on me. We have been together for two years and a few months back he had heard some rumours that I was cheating on him and when I told him it was not true he did not believe me. A few nights later I saw ...
A. 27 May 2010: Your welcome Dawn 10 and Im glad I was able to help. Good Luck in the decisions you make.... (read in full...)
I'm getting the feeling she's just ignoring me, but I have no idea why
Q. I've been talking to this girl for a while now and I really like her. I thought she liked me as well, so I told her how I felt and it turned out she wasn't looking for a boyfriend and she said she was sorry if she gave me the wrong impression. ...
A. 27 May 2010: I feel she was rude to not respond back, but in reality there is not much you can do. I think you should move on with your life, you will be a good catch for someone else so just let this one go. ... (read in full...)
It seems I'm there for her more than she is for me. Am I being a selfish friend?
Q. My best friend, whom is a girl, broke up with her boyfriend a few months ago. She has found a new guy and everything. Sometimes she'll just call me to talk about her dates with him, but I don't want to talk sometimes. Lately here, I've been ...
A. 27 May 2010: She wants to share her happiness and good moments with you, her friend. She is probably trying to reconnect with you since you two were in a estrange relationship. She probably felt you two were falling apart and decided to include you in her ... (read in full...)
How to get someone to get help if you cant get them to admit they have a problem
Q. My wife is very jealous. I get accused daily of flirting with or sleeping with women at work, as part of my commute, even with my cousins. Nothin I say can change her mind, and it's all so absurd to me. I haven't been with any woman but her, we ...
A. 26 May 2010: Offer her the help and the solution but if she can't commit to her rehabilitation than you might have to let her go. Its not healthy for your child to live in that hostile environment. You can only do so much and if she is not willing to change and ... (read in full...)
The 'break' is going to be permanent. Do I tell her there's someone else?
Q. I initiated a "break" with my girlfriend about two weeks ago. Since then, I have started seeing and sleeping with a co-worker. I really like this new girl, and it seems the feeling is mutual. I am meeting with my "ex" in a few days. A chance f...
A. 26 May 2010: officially you two are not together so you did not cheat, I don't think she needs to know you are with someone else, but she does have to know that the relationship is over and there is no chance of this relationship ever blossoming again. ... (read in full...)
Can you heal after being cheated on?
Q. I have just found out that my fiancee cheated on me. We have been together for two years and a few months back he had heard some rumours that I was cheating on him and when I told him it was not true he did not believe me. A few nights later I saw ...
A. 26 May 2010: He has cheated and lied to you, and I don't know if the relationship can be saved. That depends on you, are you willing to forgive and start over. I don't believe in rumors but sometimes rumors come out with some truth in it.
I don't believe ... (read in full...)
Is my married neighbour interested in me?
Q. hi, i like one married women , she is my neighbor , that women so many time drank with me but ya she all ways with her hubby,, in last party i give her birthday gift and her hubby also give to her but she like my gift much and when i get chanc...
A. 26 May 2010: I don't think she is interested and you probably misread her signals, because if she is always with her husband I doubt that she would flirt with you infront of him, she probably thinks your are a great drinking buddy. ... (read in full...)
Are we heading for a rocky end?
Q. me and my bf have been together for 3 years now. I love him to pieces no-one makes me laugh, feel safe and creates that sparkle in my eyes the way he does. I know he loves me very much 2. We have had the usual ups and downs that couples have but ...
A. 26 May 2010: Give him his time with his buddies and don't plan a visit that night would surely avoid an argument.
I really don't believe that couples in a relationship should have to ask for permission to go anywhere married or dating I just don't allow or... (read in full...)
I recently found out that my wife cheated on me when we were engaged.
Q. I recently found out that my wife cheated on me when we were engaged. We've been married over 10 years and before me she had this boyfriend named Jim. Right after we got married we moved about 3 hours away to another part of the state for my job...
A. 26 May 2010: I have to hand it over to you Ms. female Anonymous well said...and I have to agree with you.
Poster deal with your present you went from having a fiance you believe was unable to cheat and was faithful to discover you have a wife that lied abo... (read in full...)
I recently found out that my wife cheated on me when we were engaged.
Q. I recently found out that my wife cheated on me when we were engaged. We've been married over 10 years and before me she had this boyfriend named Jim. Right after we got married we moved about 3 hours away to another part of the state for my job...
A. 26 May 2010: You should sit down and write down your pros and cons and if one out weights the other than go that direction..I got this from a movie and I think its a great way to make you think on what type of a wife you have now. You will think on all the good ... (read in full...)
"Ghosts"
Q. "OPs own title" since I was a kid I could see dead ghost or spirits and I could see the future at random as long as I can remember I m now 15 and I have seen thousands of docters and they all say nothing is wrong with me but why do I still see these ...
A. 25 May 2010: You are young and said you have been to thousands of doctors and they have not been able to help you and they tell you that you are fine..no you should insist and tell the doctor what you see. They should be able to prescribe medication because if ... (read in full...)
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