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writes:Well this is my second attempt at this question. It was rejected because there wasn't enough detail. I didn't want it to have detail. It was a simple question should I or should I not call my ex and wish her a happy birthday. Now because of this I probably won't have my advice on time. Here is my original question. Ok so I need this advice fast. I need it before let's say 7:00PM today, April 5th. Today is my ex girlfriends birthday. I'm thinking I should call her and tell her Happy Birthday. But we also broke up 9 months ago today. I really miss her and wish I could be with her, I'm not sure if she knows that or not, but I do. We still talk some in school and I know she still trusts me, she tells me about her relationships and asks me for advice. So I'm just not sure if I should call her or not. Will this help my chances of getting back together with her. Any help is appreciated.
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reader, raiders +, writes (8 April 2010):
 I am way too late to answer this but I think you should have called, you maintained a friendship with her and it would have been very nice of you to wish her a happy b-day. People will give you advice but you should use you own judgment because ultimately its your life and it affects only you.
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reader, Trans Am Man +, writes (6 April 2010):
Trans Am Man is verified as being by the original poster of the question I didn't do anything, most people on here told me not to, so i didn't
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reader, Trans Am Man +, writes (6 April 2010):
Trans Am Man is verified as being by the original poster of the questionaw man that's terrible
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reader, Trans Am Man +, writes (6 April 2010):
Trans Am Man is verified as being by the original poster of the questionq1605, it is a little late but just out of curiosity, what where you going to say.
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reader, Red Green 0289 +, writes (6 April 2010):
You need to let it go. If she wanted a relationship she'd have contacted you. This is like a scab, QUIT picking at it and let it heal... then move on.
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reader, advice angel  +, writes (6 April 2010):
 maybii get her a card too,send it for her birrthday then ring her on the night,maybe ask her if she still cares for yu,and see her answer,then maybe it could be the best birthday of her life,and you's could start going out again :)
then that wuld be perfect for you's both :)
lgoood luck :) x
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reader, Aunty BimBim  +, writes (6 April 2010):
 I wouldn't phone her but I would say happy birthday when you see her at school
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (6 April 2010):
No, leave your ex in the past.
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reader, rcn +, writes (6 April 2010):
 I think it'd be okay to wish her happy birthday. The reason for more information is to get a background. With your friendship, and trust and communication you have with her at school, a friendly happy birthday wish is appropriate.
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