What is your take on this love letter?
Q. XXX is to protect my ex's name, and mine. Please tell me of the tone of the letter, and the idea of the ballet tix. I am asking of as many people's feedback as possible. ----- Dear XXXX, I ask you to read these words with an open mind and he...
A. 14 April 2010: Great news, now go and fancy your gal! Good Luck!... (read in full...)
Cheating husband! How do make him understand what he will lose if he leaves me for her?
Q. I am currently married for 7years with 2 kids, a girl and a boy. Me and my husband were happy during our first 4 years of marriage … most of our friends admires our relationship as we are a dream couple…Until he tried to get a mistress (he got ...
A. 13 April 2010: You will not forget but will learn how to cope with it. Live each day, day to day and one day you will realize it no longer hurts. If you need counseling go to it, find support groups. Go out distract yourself and have a good time, when you least ... (read in full...)
Is it reasonable to want him to cut contact with the mother of his unborn child?
Q. my ex got another grl pregnant wile we were apart and now he wants me bck. crying to me all time trying everything to get me bck. but he still has contact with this grl every week. i feel if je really love me and have no feelings for her and dont ...
A. 12 April 2010: Sorry I can't tell you what you want to hear. Your boyfriend is going to be a daddy and if you guys like it or not for the sake of the child he needs to have contact and a good relationship with his baby momma. His role as a dad does not start once ... (read in full...)
Is it possible for a woman to fake virginity when she marries?
Q. I just want to know if it is possible for a girl to hide her premarital sexual relations form her husband (she's been having regular sexual relations with other males for 5 years before marriage). She is going to marry after 6 months ...
A. 2 April 2010: I think a female can lie about being a virgin. Not all virgins bleed the hymen is very sensitive and can be broken at any time with out any kind penetration. I think its a myth that the vagina becomes loose after time. So yes a women can lie about ... (read in full...)
The big question is... Do we have a future together?
Q. I have been seeing a married man for almost 2 years, we are very comfortable with each other and both enjoy being together, he has never promised me anything but says he does eventually want a future together. I am seperated from my husband but my ...
A. 1 April 2010: The only future I see is you continuing to be his mistress,If he really loved you he would have left his wife and stayed with you. I'm not sure how Canada marriage law is but in many countries you are still consider married until your divorce is ... (read in full...)
I want my wife to have the tatoo of her ex removed!
Q. Tattoo must go. That's my issue with my wife. My wife never dated much and was a virgin until she met this guy, and even then was while they were dating, however, her parents were a nightmare and she ended up leaving home and moving in with B...
A. 1 April 2010: ask her to cover it up with another tattoo IDK maybe a beautiful butterfly, a dragon, something that is special to both of you. If she sat down and took the pain for her tattoo she can can sit down again to get another tattoo to cover it up. ... (read in full...)
I need a miracle!!!
Q. I have a major problem right now. There's an extremely long story that I would have to tell for you, reader, to understand exactly where I stand and to be able to give me 'perfect' advice. But right now I don't have the time to write it all out. ...
A. 1 April 2010: You don't need to look for love and maybe that is what you are doing wrong. When you least expect love is going to find you. First Love is the best,love at first sight even better but there will be others you will probably have your heart broken a ... (read in full...)
Is he full of shit? Once a cheater always a cheater?
Q. I broke up with my b/f a month ago. Been together for 4 years. I finally caught him cheating. I have dealt with him dirty dancing with two other girls, sex texts to his friend(thats a girl) I have dealt with more sex texts from 3 different ...
A. 1 April 2010: People change and only time will tell I don't believe in the once a cheater always a cheater; I believe in I cheated on you and you made it easy for me to come back so I'll cheat again. I think there are times when people do regret their mistakes ... (read in full...)
The break-up that brought me to my knees
Q. I have been in a relationship for almost 3 years and just recently broke up with my girlfriend. We had been really close for almost the entire time we were together. She was 17 when we started dating and now she is in college. I loved her with all ...
A. 1 April 2010: I would ask you a question, do you think you can forgive her? I would give her time to think and make sure she wants to be with you. Make sure she is sincere in her remorse, make her work a little harder for your forgiveness so she doesn't think ... (read in full...)
If the chlamydia test comes back positive how should I tell my boyfriend?
Q. been with my man for almost a year, when i first met him we had a one night stand together (at that time i didn't know i had chlamydia) after i found out i had chlamydia and i went and got treated for it. a few months later me and him started ...
A. 1 April 2010: I would tell him be honest and take your previous medical record from when you got treated the first time, the days should match to what you tell him and I doubt he will accuse you of cheating. He has to know so he can get himself check.... (read in full...)
Would you be offended if someone put you in a situation like this?
Q. Imagine this situation: you are walking down the street with a close friend, lets call her Jane, and the two of you run into an old friend of Jane's, whom you've never met before. The two of them start catching up and end up talking for half an ...
A. 1 April 2010: Well I guess they are excited haven't seen each other in a long time so they have a lot of catch up to do. Leaving you out its rude but it happens try to join in the conversation if it not foreign, excuse your self and walk away or tell her straight ... (read in full...)
What do you think? Is there something going on?
Q. Ok, so my wife works at a bar and she has this guy that stays after hours while she cleans up. On one note I feel more comfortable knowing that someone is there with her, on another note I don't fully trust this guy. She has known him for 9 ...
A. 1 April 2010: I don't think she has given you reason to doubt her. Talk to her be honest and tell her you don't trust this dude and tell her how you feel. If you want also talk to him and tell him to respect your women but don't be paranoid she was probably tire ... (read in full...)
Sorry... wrong hole!
Q. Me and my GF were having sex last night and I slipped in to the wrong hole. Well she winced at first but didn't yell or object too strongly, so I rolled with the punches and continued in her rear. I thought it was great and she seemed to enjoy it ...
A. 1 April 2010: buy her flowers and chocolates give her a big kiss apologize to her! Next time when its something so personal ask her first so that she doesn't feel violated don't just assume. Tip to the poster the face expression should have told you to stop look ... (read in full...)
Is my relationship REALLY over???
Q. I broke up with my bf last monday.. We have been together for 7 months. The reason why I broke up, one day I asked him about his facebook and he told me that his little bro is using his account and he doesnt want to open a fake account so he can s...
A. 1 April 2010: I think that people should have their own privacy Facebook is his own profile but I do think he should have you as a friend If there is nothing to hide than why not add you, it seems to me that he is willing to add you but don't want you to ... (read in full...)
Should I confront her and let destiny run its course?
Q. I'm in-love with my wife, she is my soul mate, the love of my life! We been married for 16 yrs and 13 yrs ago I caught her cheating on me, it broke my heart. She promise me that she would end the affair and begged me to stay I forgave her and took ...
A. 31 March 2010: Sorry to hear that, I wish it would have been you the one that kicked her to the curve. Karma is your best friend right now she will get whats coming sooner or later. You should worry about yourself and your children don't look at it as something ... (read in full...)
She's getting attracted to girls again, and is bugging me to let do something with them! I think it's cheating. Help!
Q. Me and my girlfriend 'W' have been together for almost a year and a half. We met at school and liked each other straight away. I was shocked to learn recently that she used to only like girls, and has in the past had girlfriends, but she says it ...
A. 31 March 2010: You need to tell her straight out, She is bi and their are men who accept that poly behavior and are comfortable with it. I don't think you can change her because its part of her sexuality, but I do thinks she should be faithful and not cheat ... (read in full...)
Yes I cheated but will he ever put this in the past?
Q. my husband and i have been struggling in our relationship for 5 years ago we have been in a relationship for 10 and married for going on 2 well 5 years ago i got really drunk and really don;t remember the night and i cheated well for 5 years we have ...
A. 31 March 2010: People make mistakes and regret what they did, you cheated, your husband new this before he married you, yeah, but your husband did not anticipate how he would feel in the future because it's the future and no one know right,. Trust is very ... (read in full...)
Is my relationship REALLY over???
Q. I broke up with my bf last monday.. We have been together for 7 months. The reason why I broke up, one day I asked him about his facebook and he told me that his little bro is using his account and he doesnt want to open a fake account so he can s...
A. 31 March 2010: Even if he has a FB you should be one of his friends, you were his girlfriend so he should not be mad over that. Now him having a profile on this dating site sounds like he is/was looking for a little action. He is a little a immature and is ... (read in full...)
Lies or not?
Q. K. So I don't know where to start . I'm 16 and she's 15 . We were going out for almost five months it was starting to get ... Irritating. We were both just being stupid and getting angry at each other. So we decided to take A little break.oh and ...
A. 30 March 2010: She is lying to you and is getting caught in her lies what more proof do you need. You are in a break and can not expect her not to see anyone else. You are young just move on, she is probably keeping you just in case her new fling don't work out ... (read in full...)
How would you deal with your partner putting pictures of their deceased ex everywhere? Am I being insensitive?
Q. My man have his deceased ex pictures posted on everything, Am I being Insensitive? My man posts pictures of his deceased ex on his profile page. She died a year ago. The picture posted as his main photo is him and her together hugged up. At that mom...
A. 30 March 2010: I'm sorry you have to go through this but it been only a year I don't think he is ready for a relationship. He has to go through steps and accept the fact that she has passed away. I think he needs and will put those pictures away when he is ready ... (read in full...)
What is your take on this love letter?
Q. XXX is to protect my ex's name, and mine. Please tell me of the tone of the letter, and the idea of the ballet tix. I am asking of as many people's feedback as possible. ----- Dear XXXX, I ask you to read these words with an open mind and he...
A. 30 March 2010: Sounds like he misses you and wants to work things out, Don't know the reason of your breakup but if you think you can fix things up than give him a chance and go to the ballet together. If not than return his ticket don't accept anymore letters ... (read in full...)
I made a HUGE mistake last night!!!
Q. I made a HUGE mistake last night. In a moment of passion (during sexual foreplay) I asked my GF a hypothetical question of "If I wasn't in your life, and you had to be with one of our/your friends/acquaintances, who would it be? The problem is...
A. 30 March 2010: She freely did what you asked her to do role play. I would not make a big deal about it, it was a game enjoy it!... (read in full...)
How big a deal IS sex and fidelity in a marriage?
Q. Hi, I am a 24 year old married girl. I got married 2 years ago. I dont have any kids and my husband is away for the past year. I want to know how big a deal is sex. I love my husband, but i do not think that I should only have sex with him. I occa...
A. 30 March 2010: Watch it! When you married your intimacy should be with your husband and you should not be committing adultery. Good luck he might dump you for being unfaithful.... (read in full...)
I wearing my fiance's clothes and she doesn't know!!!
Q. I wearing my fiance's clothes and she doesn't know!! Ever since I can remember I've found myself really aroused by the thought of being sexually dominated by another man. Then a couple years ago I finally started watching gay porn - I immedia...
A. 30 March 2010: be careful put a hold on that engagement until you know for sure what you want. Marriage is not a game and you should not tie her down to you just to help hide your sex preference. Find out first! You might not even be gay but have a fetish, but ... (read in full...)
How did my partner manage to get into so much debt?
Q. My boyfriend and i have been together a year and a half and there is an age difference of 32 years (i'm 18 and he's 50) this is not the problem. When we first met he was out to impress me as all guys do but i thought he was different. he is the l...
A. 30 March 2010: You are sucking him dry! You expect to much from him and maybe he is/was trying to please you and that's how he got in debt. Your ex pampered and gave you everything you wanted that was him and should not try to compare your boyfriend to him. ... (read in full...)
Should I confront her and let destiny run its course?
Q. I'm in-love with my wife, she is my soul mate, the love of my life! We been married for 16 yrs and 13 yrs ago I caught her cheating on me, it broke my heart. She promise me that she would end the affair and begged me to stay I forgave her and took ...
A. 30 March 2010: You sound like a excellent person and I can tell that your wife is DUMB for not appreciating you. I don't feel it makes a difference if she cheating on you with the same guy or a different guy cheating is cheating and for her to have done if for so ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend seems a bit obsessive about his privacy
Q. basically my boyfriend acts really suspisious around his mobile phone. it's always in his pocket (along with his keys and his wallet) they never get left on the side and he makes a thing about how it's private to him etc. fair enough, i can see it ...
A. 26 March 2010: His ex-wife is his past your his reality I would try not read to much into this. You just complained about his privacy towards his cell phone and wallet not about him being out all night, disappearing and you not knowing where he is at. I would not ... (read in full...)
I feel unloved, both by my hubby and by the guy I had an affair with
Q. I am married and started seeing a married man. A little bit of history... I knew him back when I was 16 (he was 21) and we worked together. He never lead on like he liked me, of course I would catch him looking at me. I totally was crushing on ...
A. 26 March 2010: I think you should talk to your husband try to make things work with him, you speak of how distant he is with you but have you tried to re-kindle your relationship. Find out what is bothering your husband maybe its something so simple that can be ... (read in full...)
Am I out of line to be angry at this?
Q. my bf went to a friends tonight and said they were going out for dinner. I called him around 8 because i had been upset about an argument we were having and he was out so i said well do you want me to let you go? He said yeah ill call you when i get ...
A. 26 March 2010: I would not make a big deal out it. He was out and you knew
he was going to be out don't stress over your behavior can
be reg flag signal to your boyfriend that you are trying to
control him. Do discuss with him that its only fair f... (read in full...)
Is it ok to cheat?
Q. I don't know if anyone else has noticed, but nowadays it seems like it has become completely acceptable (and inevitable) that if you are in a relationship your partner is deffinately going to cheat. You see all these poor humilliated women in the m...
A. 26 March 2010: People are getting married thinking its love, or they are
just to young to know if its actual love. When a person
cheats it might be for the thrill, for the danger in
getting caught, for the excitement. The values in marriage
h... (read in full...)
Cheating husband! How do make him understand what he will lose if he leaves me for her?
Q. I am currently married for 7years with 2 kids, a girl and a boy. Me and my husband were happy during our first 4 years of marriage … most of our friends admires our relationship as we are a dream couple…Until he tried to get a mistress (he got ...
A. 24 March 2010: Sweety why do you want to continue to have a relationship with this man. You are young and should have more confidence in yourself. Go to supports groups but do not let your pride as a women be step on constantly put your foot down dear. He has ... (read in full...)
Embarrassed and confused... could I be gay?
Q. Hey I'm a 13 year old boy from Wales. I have a question about my sexuality. Sorry if this sounds dumb. Today in English, my teacher taught us about PEE. For those of you who don't know, PEE is a technique that we use in English that stands for Poin...
A. 24 March 2010: At 13 you probably had crushes on girl right? If not than you are probably gay but you shouldn't feel a shame of it. It is so acceptable now than ever before to be gay, Just don't label yourself until you are sure and believe me you will know if you ... (read in full...)
I think I might be gay.
Q. Im 15 and im kinda alone in the world. Im relly scared because.... when i was younger i was always the one who never cared about girls! ever! and when i was 12 i kinda figured out why! Its becaus im gay... I think? well, Am I? I never get sexuly ...
A. 24 March 2010: My brother is gay and he says he has known since he was young very young, he dated a girl in high school but he said that it just didn't do it for him. He started dating men and is a very happy person. When he first came out to be honest it was not ... (read in full...)
Is it reasonable to want him to cut contact with the mother of his unborn child?
Q. my ex got another grl pregnant wile we were apart and now he wants me bck. crying to me all time trying everything to get me bck. but he still has contact with this grl every week. i feel if je really love me and have no feelings for her and dont ...
A. 24 March 2010: It is selfish to even consider asking your boyfriend to neglect his child, your boyfriend made a big mistake and is now having a baby it's not the baby's fault he did not ask to be born. A real man will be a father and its his job to help protect, ... (read in full...)
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