He is TOO confusing.
Q. I am in High School and have already experienced my first love and heart break. Before my last break up I constantly flirted with this guy and I found him handsome, intriguing, smart, funny, endlessly fascinating, and just special. He always paid ...
A. 9 May 2010: good luck keep me posted......... (read in full...)
Should I really have a baby with this kind of man?
Q. am having a problem with my boyfriend,we are for ever arguing even if its a small mistake that comes up. he just got rude with me since he found out that i cheated on him. sometimes he even just want to beat me while he also cheats with other ...
A. 23 April 2010: If you loved him ask yourself this questions why did you cheat? If he loves you why does he cheat? Love does not hit,mistreats,humiliate,yell,scare,etc..... Really think before its too late,get out of this relationship there are shelters where you ... (read in full...)
I don't know if I want my wife back but I want revenge!
Q. I have posted here before and have liked the advise, I'm giving it another try since I'm still having issues with my wife. I am the original poster of "should I confront my wife or let destiny run its course" To minimize I caught my wife c...
A. 23 April 2010: You have to think on what is it you want, if you want a wife that is unfaithful and choice another man than go for it, but remember that if you forgive her it's going to be unfair to throw things in her face. I suggest you think about it and decide ... (read in full...)
Should I tell her the truth?
Q. ok, so i want to know, how to tell a four year old that a man who she thinks is her father is not. should she even be told that at her age? should the man continue to be a part of her life even though the child's mother has disrespected the man's ...
A. 22 April 2010: Unfortunately the one responsible for this mess is your boyfriend, and I think you are making the right choice in setting him aside for right now. This will help you think and you will see things more clearly. Now with the bond he has with this ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend went out with this girl, and said it wasn't a date, but it sure sounds like a date!
Q. So uhm, I had recently broken up with my bf because i was having this strange feeling that he was flirting with his crush, who, by the way, is less pretty, smart, talented and appealing than i am. So i would get really mad whenever id think about ...
A. 22 April 2010: Good for you!!!!... (read in full...)
I'm 18, she's 14 and may be pregnant. Could her dad file charges?
Q. I'm 18 and she is 14 turning 15 in less than two months she might be pregnant?Her mom has legal custody her dad doesn't,does that mean only her mom can determine whether to press charges,but her mom is okay with me and her daughter.Help me? what do ...
A. 22 April 2010: Yes he can, and he can also file charges against the mother for child endangerment/abuse because she is a minor and under state law in many states you can't have sex with someone 14 years or younger, and the father can take her to court for letting ... (read in full...)
Is there anyway we can maintain a good and healthy long distance relationship while I'm on a summer exchange program?
Q. My boyfriend and I are happily attached for about 2 months already. But now I am going for a summer exchange programme overseas for a period of 3 months. I really feel very insecure about long distance relationship and so does he. As he is not s...
A. 22 April 2010: It can worked and it has worked for many exchange students. You are only going away for three months, and if you two are really into each other than it should work. Make sure you don't loose touch at all, call constantly and email daily, send ... (read in full...)
Why is he acting kind and funny on Facebook? He's confusing me!
Q. Hey :) Okay so I was on facebook haha, when suddenly my ex said hi to me. We've been seperated for about two months now and I am always the first one to say hi (We never get to talk in person, we go to different schools). I was pretty suprised as to ...
A. 22 April 2010: Before you jump into any conclusions is there any chance he just wants reconnect since he liked you as a person and would not like to loose your friendship just because the relationship is over. He has not directly told you that he wants to start ... (read in full...)
He is TOO confusing.
Q. I am in High School and have already experienced my first love and heart break. Before my last break up I constantly flirted with this guy and I found him handsome, intriguing, smart, funny, endlessly fascinating, and just special. He always paid ...
A. 22 April 2010: It sucks when you are all into a guy and you get mixed signals from him. He likes flirting with you so he is not shy, he flirts only when you are taken, you guys make out he leads you on but than he stands out cold,,,Does he goes to your school? ... (read in full...)
Why did my shy crush stalk one of her brother's friends?
Q. For a good while now I've noticed that almost every time I go over their house she watches me while I'm watching TV with her brother. One time I could even hear her giggling. I know that her brother also has another friend that comes over ...
A. 22 April 2010: Your crush is obviously shy and giggles and stares at you, instead of trying to figure out why she looked at the other guys, why don't you ask her out. Assuming she is over age off course. ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend's past bothers me. I am suspect of being able to have a healhy relationship with him.
Q. Hi, I am a 24 year old girl having a great boyfriend.We are really commited to each other and planning on getting married next year. Before we got together,we were friends for almost one year. during that time,i knew about a girl who was madly in...
A. 22 April 2010: Well he probably did not want to tell you because he felt embarrassed and might have been a little scare of your reaction. The problem here is he was right you did react negative and maybe this is why he don't want to feed you anymore information. ... (read in full...)
I always fall in love with straight guys. Can it stop?
Q. Hi all, I am gay.. even though I have not admited openly to anyone yet (and mean it.. i did a couple of times but guys around or girls think I am kidding, even though I say it seriously), 21 years old and a virgin. Well, the fact is that i ...
A. 22 April 2010: I think you need to come out of the closet completely and have everyone in around you and in your circle know your gay. By doing this you will know for sure if a guy plays with your earlobe, hugs, or kisses you that he must be into you. If you are ... (read in full...)
Should I tell her the truth?
Q. ok, so i want to know, how to tell a four year old that a man who she thinks is her father is not. should she even be told that at her age? should the man continue to be a part of her life even though the child's mother has disrespected the man's ...
A. 22 April 2010: The whole problem in this threesome is not just the child mother; you have to see it its HIM! He is obviously playing you he has been playing both of you guys, so in reality what are you going to do about him. You need to forget about the child and ... (read in full...)
Should I really have a baby with this kind of man?
Q. am having a problem with my boyfriend,we are for ever arguing even if its a small mistake that comes up. he just got rude with me since he found out that i cheated on him. sometimes he even just want to beat me while he also cheats with other ...
A. 22 April 2010: No!!!!! I don't think you guys are ready to be in a relationship and definitely not ready to bring an innocent child to suffer in this world. Now really you want to have a baby what are you going offer, cheating parents, an abuse mother, and abuser ... (read in full...)
I see her point of view, does she see mine?!
Q. I am in love with a woman at work. She knows that and has been a very good friend. We hang out every now and then and talk to each other lots everyday. I had recently proposed to her to give our relationship a chance. She asked me to wait and give ...
A. 22 April 2010: I don't think you had a right to go through her messages. She had a right to be upset because she has no relationship with you right now, she is not your girlfriend. You like her and wish there were more but she is not committing to anything ... (read in full...)
I don't know if I want my wife back but I want revenge!
Q. I have posted here before and have liked the advise, I'm giving it another try since I'm still having issues with my wife. I am the original poster of "should I confront my wife or let destiny run its course" To minimize I caught my wife c...
A. 22 April 2010: WOW! I think you have a decision to make do you want to continue a relationship with your wife. You have to remember that she choose him over you, she destroy her marriage for this guy. The taste of revenge might be delicious but do you want to be ... (read in full...)
Am I still in with a chance getting back with her?
Q. My girlfriend of 6 months broke up with me recently for reasons unknown. I still have very strong feelings for her a month later and we still keep in touch and get on really well. So the other day I asked her to meet up with me and I asked her if we ...
A. 22 April 2010: I'm glad you got the closure that you needed to be able to move on. Good luck in future relationships!!!!... (read in full...)
I feel that in return for having a child, he should get a vasectomy! How can I make him understand?
Q. I am 33 years old, run my own business and have been independent most of my life and need to add that am also financially independant. I am 5'3, I enjoy working out and currently got engaged to my 46 years old boyfriend. I financially take care of 3 ...
A. 22 April 2010: It is selfish but it is their body. No one has the right to decide on what goes on and which procedures a person must go through or what to cut off or what to keep in someone else body, we only the have control of our body. You are also negotiating ... (read in full...)
Should I tell her the truth?
Q. ok, so i want to know, how to tell a four year old that a man who she thinks is her father is not. should she even be told that at her age? should the man continue to be a part of her life even though the child's mother has disrespected the man's ...
A. 21 April 2010: Has it been proven that this man is not the biological
father? Does the father feel he does not want to be part of this child's life? You don't have to be a biological father to be a daddy and if they have that connection who are you to inte... (read in full...)
17 and wanting to move out
Q. hey there i have a problem and im only 17 so its hard to solve this one cuz i cant legally move out yet, but ok so ALL my friends and my boyfriend live in a town 20 min away and we all go to school together...and well i stay at my bfs house al...
A. 21 April 2010: your 17 maybe you can wait a few more month till you turn 18 than you will be consider over age and your parents can't legally hold you back. Always remember your parents will always love you and is there duty as parents to provide for you this is ... (read in full...)
My partner keeps changing her story about her past, what should I believe?
Q. ive been with my partner for 6 years and at the start she told me she had 4 previous partners and liked making me jealous, and it worked and as time went on i asked her how the sex was with them, then all of a sudden she said she only slept with 3, ...
A. 21 April 2010: You should asking her how many guys she slept with since she been with you That the only number that should matter to you not how many guys she has been with in her past, that is just childish and not man like. I hope she forgives you for your ... (read in full...)
Boyfriend angry we broke up and says "Once a whore, always a whore!"
Q. I need your help. I have no one else to turn to about this. I can't talk to my family and I no longer am able to talk to my best friends. This is alittle complicated, my boyfriend and I dated in highschool for 2 years and during that time I did some ...
A. 21 April 2010: Only you can make a difference this is your life people can tell you till they turn blue that you need to get out. First you need to recognized the signs of abuse, second you need to get out of this relationship and find help. Please do this before ... (read in full...)
I'm in love with my teacher but he shows no interest in me!
Q. hi. please help me i have had hhe same Health and Physical Education teacher for the past 3 years. I am 15 turning 16 at the end of the year. I have completely fallen for him. He is 30 with a wife and two adorable children. I dream about him ...
A. 21 April 2010: Get your mind of him, date boys your own age. Having crushes is part of growing up but make sure you keep it as a crush and don't try anything he is your teacher. There are to many obstacles First of all this is illegal in two ways 1st he is a ... (read in full...)
I can't believe I was stupid enough not to think he cheated on me!
Q. I don't know what to do. I was told yesterday that my boyfriend of a year and 5 months that he slept with someone at the start of the relationship. I know the girl as he was sleeping with her before we started going out. Then I was told yesterday ...
A. 21 April 2010: Don't listen to much to hearsay but if you know for sure he has cheated and you can't trust him why would you continue in this relationship cut all cords and cut him loose. When he turned violent towards you should have been the first sign of get ... (read in full...)
I'm obsessed with my boyfriend!
Q. Hi there, I need advice...I've been dating my boyfriend for almost 11 Months now. And I am pretty much obsessed with him! It's horrible. When he does something wrong, I find myself apologizing! The most recent issue happened last night. I was wor...
A. 21 April 2010: The best solution here is for you to learn how to handle your jealousy by doing that you will see things in a different angle. I'll give you an example I'm not the jealous type I will give my man dollar bills if him and his buddies are going to ... (read in full...)
My own words have come back to bite me! how can I get him back?
Q. me and my boyfriend of 3 years tend to argue and not see each other for a week or 2. i always maintained if any girl comes between us at any time that its over. he`s recently found out through a so called friend of mine that i myself had sex with a ...
A. 21 April 2010: So you cheated and he found out and he has left you, To many people this act is unforgiving, the thought of the betrayal is just to painful, the thought of you giving yourself to another man can be overwhelming,. Are you really sorry or are you just ... (read in full...)
How do you know if she's had sex?
Q. how do you know if a girl has had sex/lost her virginity?...
A. 21 April 2010: You don't! You just can't be 100 percent sure if a female is or is not a virgin.... (read in full...)
I hurt my GFs feelings, and now shes insecure. how can I fix her?
Q. So me and mygirl have always had an oustanding relationship, the best one of my whole life. The problem with her is that we were a bit to open. we always horse play and be goofy cuz were that comfortable wit each other and sometimes wed throw little ...
A. 21 April 2010: My mommy always said don't horseplay with each other because one of you will end up getting mad/hurt---My momma is a wise women. Just be nice, continue to love her, and do not play/joke around anymore.... (read in full...)
Will any man love an ashamed ex-prostitute?
Q. I am from an abusive family and at the age of 16 I ran away from home. I am ashamed to admit this but I turned to prostitution. I did this for a few months. It is a dark depressing period in my life. I eventually moved in with a friend from ...
A. 21 April 2010: Real Man do exist. This type of man will not judge you because he loves you. Will not care about your sexual past, Will see and understand that your previous employment was temporary and only for means of survival. Will love you, respect you, and ... (read in full...)
Is there a future for me and my fiance?
Q. To give you the background, my fiance and I have been together for nearly three years (engaged for one of those). We were close friends for about a year before we started dating. We moved in together just before getting engaged but have not mad...
A. 21 April 2010: If you have the chance to continue your education than maybe you should go that route. Both of you should get financially stable, date and see if the relationship can survive. ... (read in full...)
Going in circles - which of us should back down?
Q. Okay here it is... I met a guy(we will just call him Steve) a little over 2 years ago and we have gone back and forward for the past 2 years because I don't want to stop dating people until he makes a committment to me and he doesn't want to make a ...
A. 21 April 2010: stop dating have him see that your are ready for a serious relationship. Maybe he won't commits since your always running around in dates, slow down give him time and if he still don't ask you than I think you should ask him don't be shy.... (read in full...)
Unsure where this relationship is going and afraid of getting hurt!
Q. Hi all, I've got a little dilemma on my hands. I've been seeing this guy for a little over a year now, with no title. We spend a day or two a week together for a few hours because our schedules don't mix at times. He is the only one I'm intimate ...
A. 21 April 2010: Its been 1 year and still your relationship has no title, You have the right to ask him. He is not taking the initiative so I think you should you have right to know where this relationship is leading too and if you two have a future.... (read in full...)
Can they really not have sex in the morning if they 'have to pee'?
Q. Me and my boyfriend's sex life has been declining. We used to have sex at night about 5 times a week. Now we are down to one, maybe two nights a week. He is usually too tired to do it at night, so we have been having morning sex. Well the recent ...
A. 21 April 2010: I know I can't have sex if I have to pee the pressure in my belly just won't allow me to get excited, I'm not sure I'm not a guy but I think there body must feel the same pressure if they have to pee. Send him to the rest room before you initiate ... (read in full...)
Lots of eye contact on the bus, but he doesn't ask for my number!
Q. So there's this guy who gets my bus and I see him every now and again. When I get on the bus he's already on it, and when I go to sit down I usually go sit at the back while he sits in the middle, and he just looks at me lustfully and in awe when I ...
A. 21 April 2010: Write your ph# on pink paper rub some perfume on it. Have it ready and when the trip is over and he stand glance at you and says ladies first walk by him and hand it to him. He sounds interested but might be a little shy. Good Luck--go for it!... (read in full...)
Should I tell my friend I spoke to him on her behalf?
Q. ok, my friend likes this guy and has done for aagggeeesss and shes been talkin about him loads as hes now single. i suggested she spoke to him. she wouldnt so i said i could have a word with him to see how he feels about it. she wasnt all tooo up ...
A. 21 April 2010: If your friend don't ask you "hey have you talked to this guy I like did you tell him how I feel" than don't tell her. If she ask you don't lie to her because that outcome would be worst. Play it safe play it by ear, and learn your lesson don't get ... (read in full...)
How can I forgive myself and move on?
Q. My boyfriend and I have had some misunderstandings lately. He had been very unresponsive to my efforts to contact him, and would take hours to reply to text messages, sometimes even a whole day. I knew he was having some problems at home, but ...
A. 21 April 2010: I appreciate the feedback and I just wanted you to understand that there was no reason for you to feel guilty it was a lack of communication in both ends. That if your boyfriend has forgiving you than you shouldn't look back. That you should focus ... (read in full...)
Fast approaching 30, is life passing me by?
Q. Stuck in a rut with nowhere to turn... I am 29 yrs old, turning 30 in a few weeks. I have been in 2 longterm relationships, however both have ended with not alot to show but heartache. In my first relationship i fell pregnant but had a terminat...
A. 20 April 2010: 30 is not old, cheer up lift your spirit. Don't attract negative vibes. Be positive feel good about yourself and you will send out positive signal and the right vibe might attract a possible mates. Good Luck in finding Mr. Right and when you find ... (read in full...)
How can I accept my boyfriends past when he has given me an STD?
Q. I've been having a lot of trouble in dealing with my fiance's past. He is 28, and I am 20 and he was the first man that I had ever been with sexually. However, he has had sex with almost 40 other women in his past, including 9 one night stands. I do ...
A. 20 April 2010: His past has nothing to do with you and you can't live like that and there is absolutely nothing he can do about it. If he slept with one million people before he got with you that is his past and you have no right to argue about it. You have to ... (read in full...)
Am I still in with a chance getting back with her?
Q. My girlfriend of 6 months broke up with me recently for reasons unknown. I still have very strong feelings for her a month later and we still keep in touch and get on really well. So the other day I asked her to meet up with me and I asked her if we ...
A. 20 April 2010: If you are meeting up for drinks why don't you take that opportunity and ask her back. There could only be two answers a yes of a no and only she can give it to you. The best outcome is she gives you a yes and you guys make it work, or she says no ... (read in full...)
Met a nice guy and we hit it off, but I have a few worries...
Q. I was out in town the other night and met this really nice guy in a club. We seemed to get on pretty well and exchanged numbers. Since that night we have been texting neach other everyday and he has asked me to meet up with him when I get back ...
A. 20 April 2010: Go for it!!!! You met him in a night club this means nothing since people in night clubs have feelings too. He is four years older this is not a big gap since you are over age. You will never know how genuine a person is unless you give them a try. ... (read in full...)
My parents won't accept my boyfriend because he is only 2 years younger than they are!
Q. Hi I am 24 years old, my boyfriend is 40. I have 2 boys, and their dads aren't reslly around. I'm not trying to replace their dads i just want a male figure in their lifes. I have dated guys my own age and the don't want the same ehings as me. I've ...
A. 20 April 2010: Do you love him? Its going to be a slow and unpleasant roller coaster ride if you don't. Before you think on marriage ask yourself is this what you really want. If you decide that he is who you want to spend the rest of life with than talk to your ... (read in full...)
Do I tell my brother the truth about his wife?
Q. My older brother and I went to the same college. I lived in a different dorm than him and rarely saw him in the two years we were at the same school. One night my room mate brought a girl in and had sex with her. They were both very drunk. ...
A. 20 April 2010: You kept quiet once, but you just found out she is still sleeping with your roommate. When you agreed to keep her virginity issue a secret you became her accomplice fine you did it that topic is over, but she continues to lie and cheat why play a ... (read in full...)
Is she my true love or should I move on?
Q. I have gotten back with my ex but am not sure it is the best for both of us. She and I had been together for over two and a half years. Most of that time was wonderful. She was very giving and understanding in many ways but also demanding in ...
A. 20 April 2010: The sex happened when you guys were on a break so in reality you can't hold this against her and there is nothing to forgive. If she knows she wants to be with you and you want to be with her than give it a try. Only time will tell you both if you ... (read in full...)
Am I doing the right thing or not?
Q. Am I doing the right thing or not? My boyfriend and I have been together about 15 months. He is so great in every aspect but one: we fight a lot, and when we fight he becomes someone I barely recognise. At the beginning of our relationship, it ...
A. 20 April 2010: I would suggest you don't get back together with him. His big flaw is a big one its aggression, violence, anger, tantrums, tell him to get anger management and domestic classes. You can't move forward with this type of behavior. The aggression will ... (read in full...)
How can I forgive myself and move on?
Q. My boyfriend and I have had some misunderstandings lately. He had been very unresponsive to my efforts to contact him, and would take hours to reply to text messages, sometimes even a whole day. I knew he was having some problems at home, but ...
A. 20 April 2010: If your boyfriend has forgiving you, than what else do you need. He is not throwing in it in your face is he. Let it go worry about helping and easing his problems don't add more. If he is going through tough times than help him out don't make this ... (read in full...)
I feel that in return for having a child, he should get a vasectomy! How can I make him understand?
Q. I am 33 years old, run my own business and have been independent most of my life and need to add that am also financially independant. I am 5'3, I enjoy working out and currently got engaged to my 46 years old boyfriend. I financially take care of 3 ...
A. 20 April 2010: I would recommend you and beg you not to bring a child into this world. Having a child with the man you love is the most pleasant experience, proof of love a women can give her man and most women would love you give them this gift to experience ... (read in full...)
Do I tell my brother the truth about his wife?
Q. My older brother and I went to the same college. I lived in a different dorm than him and rarely saw him in the two years we were at the same school. One night my room mate brought a girl in and had sex with her. They were both very drunk. ...
A. 20 April 2010: It's your job as a sister to open your brothers eyes. He has been lied and not only deceived by his girlfriend but by his sister too. Your loyalty is to your brother I still don't understand why you stood there and let your brother get trick into a ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend went out with this girl, and said it wasn't a date, but it sure sounds like a date!
Q. So uhm, I had recently broken up with my bf because i was having this strange feeling that he was flirting with his crush, who, by the way, is less pretty, smart, talented and appealing than i am. So i would get really mad whenever id think about ...
A. 20 April 2010: avenged what? You too are no longer a couple you left him, and maybe you thought you were irreplaceable, and is now very upset that he quickly moved on. Always remember beauty is only skin deep and some people look for more in a relationship like ... (read in full...)
Am I still in with a chance getting back with her?
Q. My girlfriend of 6 months broke up with me recently for reasons unknown. I still have very strong feelings for her a month later and we still keep in touch and get on really well. So the other day I asked her to meet up with me and I asked her if we ...
A. 20 April 2010: There is a chance that she just don't want you as a boyfriend. She might like you as a person and do not want to loose your friendship but might not be interested in starting a relationship with you. I would ask her straight out if there is a chance ... (read in full...)
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