Girlfriend doesn't want to meet my ex wife.
Q. My girlfriend of 10 months is the love of my life. Both of us are divorced with children, all of whom are the same age. I recently moved in with her and things are great: kids are happy, we're happy. The one thing that is eating me up is that she ...
A. 4 May 2010: Give her time to meet your ex it must be a weird to have to meet your boyfriends ex. I guess you can compared the anxiety she must feel on how you felt when you had to meet your girlfriends parents for the first time. It will happen just give her ... (read in full...)
I still have feelings for him... should I tell him?
Q. My boyfriend and I broke up almost a year ago. I am still close with his family. I have feelings for him, but I can't tell if he does for me. He flirts with me. Should I tell him how I feel? I don't think I will have much to lose. ...
A. 4 May 2010: Tell him let him know how you feel. Sometimes couples break up only to know it was a mistakes. Giving each other another opportunity can flourish a more beautiful relationship, so give it a try.... (read in full...)
Am I wrong to say no regarding this job?
Q. My husband wants to work for a taxi company and I won't allow him. I told him to find a different job because when he was with his first wife he worked for a taxi company he liked a female driver. He would buy her things, follow her a lot but not ...
A. 4 May 2010: You have trust issues and should control your jealousy because you might push your husband away. He cheated or try to cheat on his first wife not you but yet you are holding him to it, try to be more understanding. If he has the luxury of turning ... (read in full...)
Do I stay single or give him one more chance even though I don't really think he's cute???
Q. I'm 16 and just had my first boyfriend. I broke up with him over the weekend (we dated for a week) b.c I was unsure of what I really wanted. In the past, I've kinda hooked up with guys thinking that I had a chance with them. I've always wanted a ...
A. 4 May 2010: You are young and you will have your numbers of prince charming and ugly ducklings. Its just sounds that you might be a little self center, you can't base a relationship on just beauty. If you liked a person it should be on how they treat you and ... (read in full...)
I want to have sex with a grown man
Q. One of my adult friend's won't have sex with her husband unless he has the snip. I talk to him often and we get into conversations about sex. It is becoming increasingly obvious that there is a lot of sexual tension building up in him. We talk about ...
A. 4 May 2010: You are no friend…. Having sexual conversations is borderline activity; but the question itself tells me you have gone over the line.
Seriously – I have found my exes friends attractive – but I would never act on it…
... (read in full...)
I want out now! How do I leave my husband with no job or money?
Q. how do i leave my husband with no job or money,he is a drunk,we have 2 kids together 6 and 7,he is very mentally abusive to us,he has no job because he got fired from a rally great paying job due to his substance abuse, he does nothing around the ...
A. 4 May 2010: I'm sorry you and your kids have to go through this. Go with family they are always willing to help. There are also center for abuse women and children where you they offer counseling and some even help you find a job I will enclose the link so you ... (read in full...)
Age and love
Q. Hi i am in the university and i recently fall in love with this lady from our home area though she lives in germany' i lov her and i cant help it, my problem is that, she is 6yrs older than me n it meks mi feel a littl unsure of her lov for me, she ...
A. 4 May 2010: Victor I don't think there is a big age different and if you truly like her tell her that her age don't matter to you. She probably thinks that because you are so young you are immature and is only interested in being a player and she is probably ... (read in full...)
My husband loves me completely but I don't love him. Should I leave him?
Q. I've read other peoples' questions and answers about whether they should stay in a loveless marriage, but no one seems to be in my situation. The fact is, my husband of 25 years is a kind, affectionate, caring, loving, reliable, attentive man wh...
A. 4 May 2010: I think you have invested 25 years in this marriage and
your pushing 60 not a good idea to let him go. I feel it
would be wise you stayed put and stay with your husband.
You might feel you have no connection with your husband but
tha... (read in full...)
Should I keep chasing her or let her go?
Q. There is a girl at my job I like I asked her if she had a boyfriend she said yes I told her he was lucky cause I think she is pritty, I ask her if it was ok for me to call her she said yes then one day I ask her if could take her out to dinner and ...
A. 4 May 2010: She has a boyfriend therefore I think you should leave her alone. If for any reason her and her boyfriend break up than I suggest you make your move, but until than I think you should stay away from her. I don't suggest you stay close and become her ... (read in full...)
I have an unusual eating disorder
Q. Hi im 17 years old and for as long as i can remember ive had a problem with eating. Its not a common disorder so many people critisize me. Since a yound age i have only been able to eat the same food (basics such as potatoes.. noodles.. chicken) no ...
A. 3 May 2010: You should try going to your physicist again, because if you were coping and learning how to live with your disorder, and by moving to a new environment you will grow that anxiety again. You should try taking your dad to meet with your physicist and ... (read in full...)
Her lies are unbelievable!
Q. I'm Asian Guy Married to native Canadian girl.i never been to canada i met her on line and my father help her to get here. any way i got married here with her. i only know her for 1 year now. currently she is in canada and i;m here asia so waiting ...
A. 3 May 2010: she lies to get attention, she may suffer of Compulsive Lying Syndrome and maybe needs help I'm including this site I hope it helps
http://ezinearticles.com/?Are-you-Dealing-With-a-Compulsive-Lying--Syndrome&id=888093... (read in full...)
I want to have sex with a grown man
Q. One of my adult friend's won't have sex with her husband unless he has the snip. I talk to him often and we get into conversations about sex. It is becoming increasingly obvious that there is a lot of sexual tension building up in him. We talk about ...
A. 3 May 2010: You should still do nothing because he is a married man and what kind of a friend would you be if you did. Think on your friend not the husband, think on the pain you will provoke her and really think what kind of man this is that will get involve ... (read in full...)
I want to have sex with a grown man
Q. One of my adult friend's won't have sex with her husband unless he has the snip. I talk to him often and we get into conversations about sex. It is becoming increasingly obvious that there is a lot of sexual tension building up in him. We talk about ...
A. 3 May 2010: You should do nothing about this, and in case you two act on your instinct I recommend you buy a basket bread and water and make sure you take it to him when you go visit him in jail.... (read in full...)
He sees me in a bad light
Q. Last night my boyfriend of over a year broke up with me. Honestly, our relationship didn't start off on the best foot (he cheated on his ex girlfriend with me) I know, I know that's not good. He broke up with her right away though. All of a sudden ...
A. 3 May 2010: well I think he is being a hypocrite because he was the one in the relationship. He was the one that cheated and you had no commitments or owed her any loyalty. He should not be throwing rocks and you should point this out to him. ... (read in full...)
I still feel bonded to my ex
Q. Please help it's torturous.? I cant help it but keep thinking of a relationship that's already impossible. I cant stop thinking of my ex. It's torturous. I cant help it but i feel so much for him i feel so bonded. i am tired of having this influenc...
A. 3 May 2010: You need time, time is going to help you ease the pain, and eventually look at it as a chapter in your life. It is hard because you gave your love, your soul to a guy and when the relationship ended you stayed with emptiness in your heart. You will ... (read in full...)
I'm not sure if my husband still loves me!
Q. I'm not sure if my husband of 10 years still loves me. He was my first so I'm having all these feelings that I'm not expeienced enough for him and that he thinks I'm boring. I'm not sure if he's getting sex elsewhere or if our relationship is ...
A. 3 May 2010: You should not base you self esteem on what and how a person feels, you should feel good about yourself. If your husband does not find you desirable many others will, now if your husband don't open up with you and tries to have a conversation with ... (read in full...)
Please please help me with my 8 yr old relationship break down nightmare
Q. Please please help me with my 8 yr old relationship break down nightmare Hello my name is Jorge, I am 25 yr old male from Puerto Rico USA. I love your videos , great job you are helping on many different levels. I feel that you can shed some li...
A. 3 May 2010: I just want to point out that its not sane how you are acting and at this point its to early to even be friends. You should not obsessed over a person because this is a red flag as to get me away from this person, and you behavior right now might ... (read in full...)
Confused and hurt - why is he so different?
Q. Hey all. I have his boyfriend with whom I've been dating for 6 weeks, and have been exclusive with for 2. However, ever since we've been exclusive, he's been stressed out with school (it's his Senior year of college, I'm a Freshman), which I ...
A. 3 May 2010: questions # 3 why do you want to be with him, he does not respect you, he treats you bad. I'm really intrigue to know why do you want a relationship with someone who is not there for you. ... (read in full...)
I am 13 and a lot of other girls tell me I should have sex, but I don't want to!
Q. im 13 years old and a lot of other girls are saying that i should have sex but i havent gone through puberty yet and i heard that dry sex reeeeeely hurts and i want to lose my virgenity when im married to the man of my dreams what sould i do?!...
A. 3 May 2010: Respect your self respect your body hold on on sex. Don't follow the crowd be your own person and never give in to peer pressure. You have excellent moral and should not let other dictate to you whats right and and whats wrong. ... (read in full...)
I blame his alcohol abuse for his actions, should I leave him?
Q. Hi I met this man around 4 years ago, he told me he had had a drink problem but it was behind him now. any way it turns out not to be true he became ill once well he came to stay with me untilhe got better thats about 3 years ago. All in the gard...
A. 3 May 2010: If you think that the alcohol is the problem than recommend him to go to rehab and to stick to his AA meetings. Alcohol do change a person but if he doesn't want to change there is not much you can do. Offer him this solution and he declines your ... (read in full...)
Should I show him I'm suffering or endure the heartache alone?
Q. How do guys get over a relationship so easily? How is it anyway fair to me that I am the one that has to suffer? It's been over a week since my ex broke up with me and I am coping with it quite well but I still have my days. It's not fair that I ...
A. 3 May 2010: You have to move on. Grieve, cry, and be sad in close doors have a little pride in yourself and do not let him see how you hurt. He owes you no explanations because he is now your ex and ended the relationship because he wasn't feeling you and you ... (read in full...)
Is it normal to feel this happy?
Q. I'm 19 and I just had a general question. I have been good friends with my now current boyfriend for a few years. We have been dating for almost a month. I have never smiled so much in life, I feel like I'm glowing from the inside out and whenever I ...
A. 3 May 2010: Enjoy your happiness!... (read in full...)
I'm secretly seeing my ex and falling in love with him again
Q. i am in a relationship wih this guy and i really like him we started dating after me and my ex broke up because my ex cheated on me and had 2 kids by 2 different girls during our relationship. the only thing is i have been secrectly seeing my ex ...
A. 3 May 2010: You are cheating with a cheater. You have to stop and think how bad it hurt when you found out that your ex was cheating on you because this is exactly the pain you are going to cause your now boyfriend. Your cheating because you don't truly love ... (read in full...)
Should I bring my ex a souvenir?
Q. Me and my ex are friends. I still have feelings for him, I think he does for me though I can't tell. I'm going on vacation, should I bring him a souvenir? ...
A. 3 May 2010: Bringing him back a souvenir will be nice, bring it!... (read in full...)
I have dreams of kissing girls, so am I bi?
Q. For anyone out there who is gay/ lesbian/ bisexual, how did you first know, I think I am bi, I've crushed on and dated quite a few guys but, although I have never had a crush on a girl, I do have thoughts about kissing them, and on occasion have had ...
A. 3 May 2010: If you only dream of being with girls, but when your eyes are wide open you only look at boys and boys is what you are attractive too than most likely your not gay nor bi. Your probably curious and this is totaling normal. ... (read in full...)
We're not really dating but he interested. How do I break this off?
Q. How do you break it off with someone you're not technically with? My and this guy aren't dating but liked each other and for the past 3weeks we've been meeting it his house and making out lots and cuddled up on his bed, but when I'm with him I keep ...
A. 3 May 2010: Your technically not with him so just stop dating him. Let him know that you want to see other people and stop making out with him. ... (read in full...)
Will dating him, ruin our good friendship?
Q. I have feelings for one of my best guy mates and recently found out that he has feelings for me too. i really like him and want to go out with him but im scared that if it goes wrong it might ruin our friendship. what should I do?...
A. 3 May 2010: It is great that you two like each other because the feelings are mutual. Most times the relationship can be broken if only one person feels a certain way but in your situation you both feel the same way. Any relationship can end in bad terms but if ... (read in full...)
I'm 18 and like a 14 year old!
Q. I am 18 and I think I am starting to like a guy who is 4 years younger than me. I know it is wrong, but I don't know what to do about it. Please help me...
A. 3 May 2010: I say maybe let it be just a simple crush and don't act upon your feelings. He is very young and in a different maturity level than you. Give him time to grow and if in 4 years from now you still feel the same than go for it, as for now leave him ... (read in full...)
Met him on Facebook and fell in love!
Q. I think am falling in love with this other guy I met on facebook. i love him so much but i have a boyfriend who really loves me.am so confused and dont know what to do.i need help...
A. 3 May 2010: Be careful because most time a person is totaling different than what they post themselves to be online. If you are not all there emotionally with your boyfriend maybe it would be best to let him go. You two are not married, and if you don't feel ... (read in full...)
Should I be waiting for her?
Q. This girls been my bestfriend for the last 2 years and we know every thing about each other. A while ago she told me she loves me and i felt the same, i still do but she has a boyfriend. She always tells me that she wants to be sure before she does ...
A. 3 May 2010: Have you tried talking to her, you should tell her what you feel and ask her what are her feelings for you. She can love you as a friend but you re inlove with her so you might want to be completely honest with her and let her know extactly how you ... (read in full...)
We have a child together but she says we can't have a relationship until I'm 'saved'
Q. Hi I'm confused in my relationship and not sure were it is going. My girlfriend and I met about 18months ago, she had three children to her previous partner, and we now have a child of our own, which I'm real happy for. We love other a lot ...
A. 2 May 2010: Don't compromise you have your rights and your own beliefs and she met you with these beliefs and it really wrong of her to try to pressure you into converting to a religion by given an ultimatum. ... (read in full...)
Marriage in trouble. I can't stand my wifes weight or how she dresses
Q. *OP's own title* I am a male, 44 years old. My wife is 41. We’ve been married for 15 years and have one 10 year-old daughter. For the last several years I’ve been unhappy with my wife’s appearance. In my opinion she needs to lose about 15-20kg o...
A. 2 May 2010: We marry for better or for worst but we have to be realistic we marry a certain person and if the person makes a drastic changed and we no longer find them attractive, its going to be hard for us to move forward in a relationship. We cannot force ... (read in full...)
I got married on the rebound and now miss my true love! Help!
Q. I was married for almost 20 years. I divorced almost 6 years ago and have been a single parent. For the past 2 1/2 years I have been in a monogomous relationship and was content until the issue of marriage became the topic. In short, I ended the ...
A. 30 April 2010: I feel its going to be a long and lonely road for both of you, since you don't love him. Marriage and happiness is to be with the one you love and to have that feeling returned to you. ... (read in full...)
How do I tell him I don't like how he's changed?
Q. Hey all, i have a huge problem: I've had a boyfriend for almost a year now. When we began to go out, he was really smart, funny, kind and fun to be around. That has since changed. He's starting to hang out with the wrong people, and i'm paying f...
A. 30 April 2010: You guys are young and this is the age where he will experiment with drugs and alcohol, and it might be the perfect time for an intervention before he gets too hook.
There are church groups that offer counseling to teenagers, there boys homes th... (read in full...)
All he says is what he doesn't like.
Q. My lover only tells me what he doesn't like, not what he does like in our love life. What does that mean? ...
A. 30 April 2010: Sit him down, hand him a glass of lemonade and put a big kool aide smile in your face and and say; I already know what you don't like in bed, how about you feed me now with new info, which performance do you prefer and which ones do you enjoy the ... (read in full...)
Profile says looking for friendship. What does that mean?
Q. my girlfriend and i live apart but been together nearly 3 yrs she is on facebook and has commented on her profile she is looking for friendship what does she mean...
A. 30 April 2010: That she is not looking for a relationship interested in just being friends.... (read in full...)
I got married on the rebound and now miss my true love! Help!
Q. I was married for almost 20 years. I divorced almost 6 years ago and have been a single parent. For the past 2 1/2 years I have been in a monogomous relationship and was content until the issue of marriage became the topic. In short, I ended the ...
A. 30 April 2010: You are right its not fair for him, talk to him and let him know that you don't truly love him and that this marriage was a mistake. He will hurt but after the storm is over he will see more clearly and find someone that will really really love him. ... (read in full...)
Jealous of girlfriend dancing with other men - help!
Q. So I got married to a woman I was deeply in love with about a year and half ago, we had been dating for over 6 years before we got married and everything seemed (at least to me) good. Then I found out that less than sixth months into the marriage ...
A. 30 April 2010: Your were hurt by a different person, your salsa dancing girlfriend has nothing to do with your ex, they are completely different people. They dress different, they have different hobbies, they have different personalities, and I feel the problem ... (read in full...)
I don't know what to think! Please help me out
Q. Now I have no idea whats going on! I think my boyfriend is going to break up with me. I think this because, 1: He still eats at our lunch table but then he goes outside, that wouldn't bother me at all, but he asked another girl to go outsi...
A. 30 April 2010: Are you sure he is your boyfriend? If he is than you should know and understand he is not worth your time. You should beat him to the punch and move on. When a girl has a boyfriend she should expect him to treat her with respect and make her feel ... (read in full...)
If I have not had sex for a long time, will doing it again feel like the first time?
Q. I haven't had sex for a long time now.When I do it again,is it going to feel like the first time?...
A. 30 April 2010: It will not feel like the fist time you might experience some discomfort but not pain, unless you went from a 4 inch to a 9 inch penis than I think it might hurt a little. ... (read in full...)
What do guys consider a friend with benefits?
Q. What do guys consider a friend with benefits. I don't see a problem kissing someone, touching and possibly maybe giving a hand job or him fingering me as friend with benefits even if it happens a lot. I do think giving blow jobs, him going down...
A. 30 April 2010: If you want a relationship you need to stop giving him hand jobs and allowing him to finger you. This has to stop
I agree with CindyCares tell him you want a monogamous relationship and go from there.... (read in full...)
Marriage in trouble. I can't stand my wifes weight or how she dresses
Q. *OP's own title* I am a male, 44 years old. My wife is 41. We’ve been married for 15 years and have one 10 year-old daughter. For the last several years I’ve been unhappy with my wife’s appearance. In my opinion she needs to lose about 15-20kg o...
A. 29 April 2010: All you have to do is talk to her and let her know your feeling and how you are not attractive to her anymore. I will tell you by personal experience when I met my hubby he was a handsome and very attractive man, he use to take care of his ... (read in full...)
I'm not sure if my husband still loves me!
Q. I'm not sure if my husband of 10 years still loves me. He was my first so I'm having all these feelings that I'm not expeienced enough for him and that he thinks I'm boring. I'm not sure if he's getting sex elsewhere or if our relationship is ...
A. 28 April 2010: Sex can get very boring, always the same routine may become undesired. Make a change in the bedroom routine, try different things and spice up your marriage. I don't think your husband is cheating unless you have proof or fact about him being ... (read in full...)
We have a child together but she says we can't have a relationship until I'm 'saved'
Q. Hi I'm confused in my relationship and not sure were it is going. My girlfriend and I met about 18months ago, she had three children to her previous partner, and we now have a child of our own, which I'm real happy for. We love other a lot ...
A. 28 April 2010: I'm assuming she became a born again Christian after the birth of your child. She has cleanse her soul and has decided not to live in sin from this point on, correct. Its really tough because this is her decision and she has chosen her own religion. ... (read in full...)
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