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female
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51-59,
anonymous
writes:I've met this much older man after my divorce. I was so desperated that in my mind any man will do. We have been together a few years. I am still young and he has aged a lot and health has gone downhill. I still like him but not sexually attracted to me any more. I will be on my own if I leave this relationship. And I dont know whether I can cope being alone. Im struggling to decide to go or stay and I know he will be upset cus he loves me so. Please help.
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reader, boo22  +, writes (13 April 2010):
 Why do you feel you can't cope being on your own?
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 April 2010): Why the relationship are so fragile and only about Me, mine and myself? can this attitude truly make the relationships fruitful?
Is this culture is behind the week relationship model that we have in our country ( I am talking about all relationships Mother father, daughter son, wife husbands sister brother )
I feel you should not be so selfish. you should be honest to your conscience and you will know the answer
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 April 2010): Don't waste his time. If you are only staying with him because you will feel alone otherwise then its best to leave now.
There are other men out there, one that will be better suited to you.
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reader, raiders  +, writes (13 April 2010):
 So you used him and now that he is old and sick you are thinking on abandoning him. He was only good to you when you were the desperate one. Its seems to me you are selfish and is only thinking on yourself. Keep in mind that you too will be old one day, your not always going to be young ,and that person you swear to love might just find you undesirable and abandon you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 April 2010): You say, you got with him because you were desperate and the reason you want to say is because you, don't know if you can cope on you own. I think the man deserves better than you in his life, leave him and stand on your own two feet.
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