She had sex with another guy when we were broken up. We're back together now!
Q. Hello everybody. I was with this girl for about one year and eight months. I took her verginity in about five months of our relationship. A couple of months after she cheated on me. I'm not sure if we were together becouse we always use to...
A. 7 May 2010: You broke up with her so in reality she didn't cheat..... (read in full...)
What do I do about my ex, since he and I are talking again?
Q. I really need some advice about my ex boyfriend. We broke up around 5 months or so ago. We just recently started being in contact. For about a week texting everyday. He has had a girlfriend since we broke up. And i just recently got a new bo...
A. 7 May 2010: 1. Should i not call or text back next time he contacts me?
(a.) as long as you both are in a relationship NO....
2. he still have a girlfriend, why doesn't he break up with her?
(a.) He could have had feeling for you but is unsure to break ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend says he doesn't want marriage
Q. i was married for 4 years to a jerk and we got divorced an year back. My friend was there for me the whole time and we got really close that time. he works with me in the same office and said he loves me. i fell for him totally and he is younger to ...
A. 7 May 2010: I wish you luck and do move on it will hurt, but you will have your pride....please don't become the other women. Best of Luck.... (read in full...)
I'm having very strong urges to have an affair..would like to hear from others who have been there..done that
Q. I am a 44 year old male. Married for 15 years. I'll get right to the point: my marriage is having big problems right now and I am at a crossroads. I have never cheated before. But I have never felt the way I do now. I am visiting depths of emotio...
A. 7 May 2010: Do it cheat and have a blast lying to your wife, sneaking out to be with your lover, dude if your mind is set on it there is not much we can do.....
Just think for one second that your going to hurt, lie, and deceived your wife of 15 years, w... (read in full...)
I'm having very strong urges to have an affair..would like to hear from others who have been there..done that
Q. I am a 44 year old male. Married for 15 years. I'll get right to the point: my marriage is having big problems right now and I am at a crossroads. I have never cheated before. But I have never felt the way I do now. I am visiting depths of emotio...
A. 7 May 2010: I won't give you morals advice, I wont' preach to you,I wont judge you, I'll just say Don't do it! Don't do it! Don't do it! Please don't do it!!
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boyfriend won't marry me coz of religion and family
Q. Hi I've been qiv my bf for 5 years and we hav a son together. And his family don't know yet. My son is 2 1/2 years old . And I really love my bf. But wen the question goes on to marriage. He says he can't marry me coz of family and religion. We are ...
A. 7 May 2010: He probably sees you as a person who is willing to cheat on her husband and make her husband think that the 2 year old son is his, when in reality this kid is her lover. He don't want you he used you and you lost a good thing because of him your ... (read in full...)
Does he want just a bit of fun or me?
Q. *OP's own title* i have been married for four years to a wonderfull man but these past four months i have been having an affair with a man i see at work everyday. when it started we both agreed it was just a bit of fun, but just recently i cant get ...
A. 7 May 2010: He sees you as his for sure lay, a desperate house wife, he can have sex with you enjoy hours of fun without the responsibilities, commitment, or love. See when wifey gets mad and sends him out to the couch he can get his sexual frustration out on ... (read in full...)
Should I rekindle this relationship?
Q. I broke up with this person who was married and I still care about this person. It has been 2 years now and want to know if I should pursue to rekindle a relationship with this person or leave them alone. This person said they still care and love ...
A. 7 May 2010: He is married why would you want to rekindle a relationship with someone else husband..
Your are in a relationship why would you cheat on your boyfriend, I think you should leave your boyfriend since obviously you don't love him enough to stay fai... (read in full...)
He told me that he does not want me with anyone else!?!
Q. so my ex and i broke up like a month ago we still talk now and then (well he initiates it)he comes over and talk (no sex)and i told him that i think that we should move on that i cannot keep doing that, he told me that he does not want me with ...
A. 6 May 2010: Cut contact with your ex its to soon to be friends the break up hasn't even that long...don't answer his calls and keep your distance he might think there is still a chance and by you allowing him to hang around is giving him reason to think so.... (read in full...)
She had sex with another guy when we were broken up. We're back together now!
Q. Hello everybody. I was with this girl for about one year and eight months. I took her verginity in about five months of our relationship. A couple of months after she cheated on me. I'm not sure if we were together becouse we always use to...
A. 6 May 2010: well technically she did not cheat so she can't be accused of being unfaithful.
you guys seem to like the idea of breaking up and getting back together be careful because one these one of you will call the other's bluff. ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend has serious ego problem, please help me out!
Q. Dear Cupid, I don't know what to do anymore. I hate myself, my life and everything. I just do not feel like living anymore, especially when it comes to "Relationship". I get into fights with my boyfriend everyday. He always starts it though. ...
A. 6 May 2010: You should not let a boys actions or attitude contribute to your mood, hard to do but it can be done.
You have no control over your boyfriend tantrums, so you shouldn't worry about it when he gets over it he will call.
Don't sit around and w... (read in full...)
His ex's texts are making it hard for me to trust him
Q. Hi, I'm 18 and have been at university since September last year. I started going out with a boy I met here in October, the whole thing has been so intense from the start and now he practically lives with me. I have serious trust issues with him ...
A. 6 May 2010: I have to agree with the mess below, he should be patching things up with you but he is not, why because he likes and might desire to be with someone else. This relationship might be over you just haven't accepted it yet. keep your pride and move ... (read in full...)
What do I do about my ex, since he and I are talking again?
Q. I really need some advice about my ex boyfriend. We broke up around 5 months or so ago. We just recently started being in contact. For about a week texting everyday. He has had a girlfriend since we broke up. And i just recently got a new bo...
A. 6 May 2010: You two broke for a reason and you and him should leave your relationship in the past...Its good that he stopped himself and remembered that he has a girlfriend and if he thought he and you might cheat it was better that he made a u turn. Don't ... (read in full...)
He always makes me cry but I love him
Q. Dear Cupid, I am a 16 year old girl and i love my boyfriend very much. We have been going out for almost 11 months and i can say that he hurt me several times intensionally. But sometimes it's my fault. So i really do not know what to do because ...
A. 6 May 2010: I have to disagree:
Suspicion is a sign of immaturity, insecure, jealousy-- I don't think you should tolerate this--this mean no trust..
may point out your not his property, your not his wife, your not his daughter,,,you are his girlfriend a... (read in full...)
Married but in love with someone else who I can't ever be with!
Q. Hi guys, need sum help plz. I'm married andvhav been for 6 years. I've been cheating on my husband with this guy from work over 5 years. And I really love this guy. I got pregant, my son is 2 1-2 years old. And it's the guys baby. My husband still ...
A. 6 May 2010: You need to dust yourself off and start again, you made bad choices but whats done is done. You don't love your husband you need to leave him give him the opportunity to be happy with someone else, don't be selfish and set him free.
Your lover is... (read in full...)
Is she just manipulating me playing with my emotions
Q. Please anyone I need help. When the girl who says I think I love u tell her friends that she doesn't knw what I am 2 her, a 6oyfriend or friend. What does this mean. We hung out all the time. We have a healthy sex life. Now she tells me she doesn't ...
A. 6 May 2010: It means she like and feels comfortable being with you. She knows you won't hurt her so she has you there for support and for sex but still does not want or feels ready for a relationship. In other words she is stinging you around till she decides ... (read in full...)
He always makes me cry but I love him
Q. Dear Cupid, I am a 16 year old girl and i love my boyfriend very much. We have been going out for almost 11 months and i can say that he hurt me several times intensionally. But sometimes it's my fault. So i really do not know what to do because ...
A. 6 May 2010: We get treated bad if we allow them to treat us bad, you tolerated his behavior, you tolerated his abuse, and you tolerated his neglect, what more are you willing to tolerate? I'm a strong believer that the strong will live as long as the coward ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend says he doesn't want marriage
Q. i was married for 4 years to a jerk and we got divorced an year back. My friend was there for me the whole time and we got really close that time. he works with me in the same office and said he loves me. i fell for him totally and he is younger to ...
A. 6 May 2010: If your both Indian than you understand how strong families ties can be and if the family disapprove of you he will not disobey them. You see no future in this relationship and you should think on you and don't set yourself up to be use and hurt ... (read in full...)
I'm married, she's married!
Q. Hello, I have a female friend that ended up telling me she is attracted to me and she really likes me. She is an attractive woman and I do like her and her personality. We hang out every weekend with our neighbors. The only thing is I'm married a...
A. 6 May 2010: @ ManAfterChrist- excellent advise and your right I came strong and not because I missed read I was giving him a glimpse into the possible future but I could have chosen different words...but once he said his marriage as well wasn't rosy I felt he ... (read in full...)
Friend likes my ex, but now I'm interested in him again too. Do I tell her?
Q. I've just started to fall for my ex again. I never did really love my ex, it was mroe fo a lust. It only lasted a couple of weeks anyway. But i see him every now and then, but i met him agein the other night. One of my best friends has just gone ...
A. 6 May 2010: Do you think you only want him back because your friend wants him? Anyways you explained him as a player why would you want to be with something like that, come on. Have more love for yourself and give yourself time you will find a better boyfriend ... (read in full...)
Is the love still there?
Q. Okay, So I've been going out with this guy for just over 2 months now, The 1st month was really new and exciting, we acted like we were best friends and still had so much to share and talk about, It was really fun and amazing and we both put 100% ...
A. 5 May 2010: You two probably feel more relaxes in the relationship. Once you feel comfortable to be yourself around your boyfriend/girlfriend is a good sign. You should not consider changing you should always be yourself, and as a relationship feels more secure ... (read in full...)
Liking my teacher has turned into an unhealty obsession
Q. Okay, so I have a serious problem. I am seriously in love with one of my teachers and it has all gotten so out of hand. I am 16 and he is 35 - I know it's a huge age range but I am really in love with him. It's not just a crush, it's real love. I ...
A. 5 May 2010: You have a crush on your teacher it happens, eventually this feeling will fade away. Find yourself a boy your own age and start dating little by little the feeling you have your teacher will disappear. ... (read in full...)
Best friend wants sexual help but I am in a relationship!
Q. Hello, I am in a steady relationship and very happy with my boyfriend. I have a male friend who is very close to me as in...we are open and we used to flirt a bit before I fell in love with my boyfriend. I am still in constant touch with this fri...
A. 5 May 2010: Say no and make it clear to him that he is making you feel uncomfortable.... (read in full...)
He's thinking of leaving his g/f for me
Q. My ex from about 4 -5 years ago and i have been texting quite a bit - even though his gf doesn't allow him to have any communication with any girls that arent family, on friday we met up just to say hi. We've both realised we still have feelings for ...
A. 5 May 2010: Think on the reason you two broke up but if you can surpass that I don't see why you can't start over, I know this is not politically correct, but you do have daughters with him and if you two have a chance in working things out than I say go for ... (read in full...)
Girlfriend changed her style, and says to accept it, am I wrong?
Q. I have been with my girlfriend for a while now but recently I don't find her attractive anymore. When I met her she use to dress up nice and I was a very lucky girl to be with her, but things have changed because she started to d...
A. 5 May 2010: I don't think you can force yourself to like certain things, If you don't like pineapple we can't make you like pineapple.
As for your girlfriend maybe she has found who she is, and it would be unfair to make her change.
Maybe you two can comp... (read in full...)
I cheated! Can't get over the guilt!
Q. I cheated on my boyfriend and I regret it soo much I feel soo guilty I can't tell him he will leave me and never be with me. I just though it wasn't that bad after all, since I dnt wanna cheat when we get married. But now its killing inside I dnt ...
A. 5 May 2010: Cheating is not ok and if there is a chance that your going to get caught it will be better if you told your boyfriend yourself. Sorry love but sometimes we can't have it both ways and some learn the hard way, hopefully this will be a lesson ... (read in full...)
I don't think I love my boyfriend anymore and I'm only staying with him for his sake!
Q. i think i dont love my bf any more.but im in the relationship only for him.he really loves me.but i feel frustrating staying without any feeling.now what should i do?...
A. 5 May 2010: The best thing to do is to let him go,staying with him you will eventually hurt him so save him the heartache later and leaving him now. It will hurt him but he will get over it.... (read in full...)
How can I get over the fact that my husband lied to me about being a virgin all those years ago?
Q. When I met my husband over 30 years ago he told me that he was a virgin (as was I). However, recently, and during a difficult patch in our marriage he confessed that this was a lie. This has upset me terribly, and to make it worse he says that it ...
A. 5 May 2010: Was that lie worth 30 years of marriage, if you were happy with him than I suggest you let it go, don't get me wrong do talk it out with him, but don't allow that episode hinder your relationship. ... (read in full...)
Can it be possible to be pregnant even though I am on the pill?
Q. I am 22, I need help. I am on pills and me and my Bf make love almost everyday. My periods finished on sunday. Since then i have been sick. I can smell food at all. I throw out evrything i eat. I am scared i might be pregnant. can that be possible. ...
A. 5 May 2010: When I went to see my OBGYN and my husband walked through the doors my Doctor said to him Congratulations Mr. 1%--Yup its possible.
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I am engaged to a man I don't respect but in love with another
Q. I am engaged to a man who is very good to me, I'll call him Dan. When I say jump, he says how high and he will do it right away. Part of the reason I feel like I am growing away from him is because of a few things: 1) I will always make more money ...
A. 5 May 2010: Don't you wish you had a magic wand and was able to put these two different man all in one package,yup, but you don't have a wand or a fairy godmother so the best thing to do is leave them both and find the right one. You are going to be miserable ... (read in full...)
He said he doesn't mind if I sleep with other boys ..
Q. i need ur help guys, Im sort of seeing this guy, and we do get on really well but the problam is he says hes seeing other girls aswell as me but i dont really belive him, well untill now I picked him up from the pub the other nite and as i ...
A. 5 May 2010: No if he cared for you he would not tell you to sleep with other man and I too agree with CaringGuy I feel your friend is sooooooo wrong. If this guy cared for you believe me you would know you would feel a vibe you would feel connection. Most ... (read in full...)
What goes around, comes around. How can I get back at her?
Q. i'm a nice guy, caring and all that, i dont act like a d*ck, i have respect for people i'm modest, you get my point anyway, i recently found out that my girlfriend has kissed some other boy anyway, you know that song, "what goes around comes around" ...
A. 5 May 2010: Put the past behind you if you are planning on staying with her. If the thought of her kissing another boy is to much to handle than maybe it will be best to let her go. I suggest you tell her that you know she cheated, she will feel caught and will ... (read in full...)
How can I stop losing my temper and beating my girl up?
Q. hey man i have a girl who love me so much and am also very crazy about her but any b tyme i get mad at her i beat her up but yet still she love me canu tell me how to stop cos i love my baby girl so muchits all about my temper....
A. 5 May 2010: I personally don't see a women beater as a man I wouldn't think twice in sending you to jail but first I would have my daddy kick your butt, but not all girls are this smart. I wish she would open her eyes and leave you.
Now to address your pro... (read in full...)
I'm married, she's married!
Q. Hello, I have a female friend that ended up telling me she is attracted to me and she really likes me. She is an attractive woman and I do like her and her personality. We hang out every weekend with our neighbors. The only thing is I'm married a...
A. 5 May 2010: Poster Have you notice that when a person wants to get involve in an affair they all sing the same song, things are not ok with me and my spouse. I hate this song you should just be honest and say - I want to screw you and cheat on my wife, I will ... (read in full...)
Am I gross? OR was the guy just not nice?
Q. Hi, I recently hooked up with a guy and whilst we were in bed fooling around he took off my pants, then he stopped and was like ew, so I asked what's the problem and he told me "your vagina is gross". I've had my confidence knocked by it my...
A. 4 May 2010: This guy was just rude and I really hope you didn't have sex with him. Let go of your insecurities you will meet guys that are nice and classy who will act like a gentlemen around you, and than you will meet the average joe who is rude, nasty, and a ... (read in full...)
Why do I have feelings for this other guy but love my boyfriend?
Q. well i am a freshman and i am 14 years old going on 15 anyways i have a boyfriend and we have been together for about 7 months and i really do like him but he is a real dick like i wanted him to come out in my 15 and he said he didnt do 15's and ...
A. 4 May 2010: As your boyfriend he should want to come out in your 15 since this is a very important day for you, You two are young but if you are his girlfriend than his priority should be you and he should try to show you affection on special days like ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is selfish with sex!
Q. I'm a 23-year-old gay guy, and I've been with my partner for over three years now. The one major problem in our relationship is lack of sex. My partner never touches my penis, never gives me a handjob, never gives me a blowjob, and never let's me ...
A. 4 May 2010: As far as I know there might be two types of gay and correct me if I'm wrong but you can be a top or a bottom and normally a top does the penetration and the bottom receives it,,,,Maybe you need to find yourself a bottom or someone in between. ... (read in full...)
Good sex with unloving husband!
Q. I am in love with my boyfriend of a year. I have never felt like this about anyone else - not even close. However, i have been married for ten years and have two children. My boyfriend is married too. We knew each other for two years before we ...
A. 4 May 2010: You should introduce your husband to your boyfriends wife maybe they too can have a fling. If you two plan on leaving your spouse to be with each other maybe you should consider doing it now, unless you think your lover won't leave his wife to be ... (read in full...)
He dumped me because of his friend!
Q. There was this guy back in highschool, who I really liked. But I knew that we'd never be together because he didn't see me that way, if you know what I mean. He was really interested in a friend of mine, and even when she told him she wasn't ...
A. 4 May 2010: Guys have this special bond and believe it or not they have rules and one of them is not to be with a homies girl. You might not be with him anymore but just because were with him at some point makes you off limits. ... (read in full...)
He's always there for me but I don't love him...
Q. I have been dating my boyfriend for a little over 2 years now, He is sweet and wonderful and has been there for me through a lot during our relationship.(My brother died in a car accident, my parents divorced a and my grandpa died and he never left ...
A. 4 May 2010: If you loved your boyfriend you wouldn't have cheated I think boyfriend is your comfort pillow. ... (read in full...)
Didn't want to fall for him, but I have!
Q. Ok so I've been with my husband for 8 years but these past 4 months I have been having an affair. He has a girlfriend, but is nit happy. We agreed at the start that it was just gonna b a bit of fun. When we meet it is generly just a physical thing, ...
A. 4 May 2010: You are worried about what your lover thinks but I think you have forgotten that you are married. If you want to continue a relationship with your lover you first have to be honest with your husband and you have to tell him you have found his ... (read in full...)
Having a hard time forgiving myself
Q. I recently had a foursome with a woman and two men that I am not in a relationship with. However, I am in a relationship with another man whom I love very dearly. I am 20, and have always been happiest in relationships, as I've only been single ...
A. 4 May 2010: All you can do is give yourself time, and be very cautions on your behavior because he forgave you this time but who knows if there would be another. When you drink you have to be careful because even though I think we know what were doing when ... (read in full...)
I want to give him my virginity but there's a problem..he already has a gf!
Q. im 19 and i found a guy that i want to lose my virginity to. We have been together for a month and i feel 110% ready. The problem is that he has a girlfriend on the side....
A. 4 May 2010: You saved your virginity for a while I mean your 18 most gals loose it when they are 16. You are willing to give it to a dude that you have know for just 1 month and that has a girlfriend. You have to think things through and if you still decide to ... (read in full...)
I'm scared of throwing away someting really good, but why can't I commit?
Q. I'm scared of throwing away the best thing that has happened to me but on the other hand I'm not sure if I'm 100 percent committed to this guy. We been together a few years now (not living together), we live a couple hours away from each other. The ...
A. 4 May 2010: He is not your soul mate and you can't force yourself to feel differently. Many times we love who we should not love, and can't fall in-love to whom we should love.... (read in full...)
Girlfriend doesn't want to meet my ex wife.
Q. My girlfriend of 10 months is the love of my life. Both of us are divorced with children, all of whom are the same age. I recently moved in with her and things are great: kids are happy, we're happy. The one thing that is eating me up is that she ...
A. 4 May 2010: Give her time to meet your ex it must be a weird to have to meet your boyfriends ex. I guess you can compared the anxiety she must feel on how you felt when you had to meet your girlfriends parents for the first time. It will happen just give her ... (read in full...)
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