One of my close friends likes my boyfriend and its making things awkward between us!
Q. Hey all. I havent got a major problem, just a little one. So il try keep it as short as possible. Last year i started college, as people do all my friends mixed in with the new football boys from other schools, the basket ball boys and the gol...
A. 21 September 2010: you don't want to loose her friendship, but she has to accept the fact that he is your boyfriend, in order for your friendship not to be hinder. What you might want to do is talk to her, and let her know how much you care for your boyfriend and for ... (read in full...)
Should I stay with the love of my life and stop the relationship with the little girl?
Q. I was in a two year relationship with Jeanie, who had a 3 yr old daughter,Joan. Our relationship ended. I maintained a relationship with the little girl Joan and with her family. Later, although not together as a couple Jeanie and I had a child ...
A. 16 September 2010: nubiansouljer I hope you make the right decision and don't give up this child because a child's love is priceless, and you will be missing out. If this other women was truly a nice women she would have never treated your daughter as an intruder. Her ... (read in full...)
Why is a woman hitting on my mom (who has been married 14 years)???
Q. My mom was married to my dad for 14 years. Just less then 2 months ago there is a woman who is eyeing mom and is trying to make contact with my mom. And the other day when mom was at the beach she noticed mom and was looking at mom for long per...
A. 15 September 2010: Aconrod how old are you? As I read dirtball's post I don't see how you can interpreted what he wrote the way you did.
Are you simply bother that your mom has a lesbian friend, do you think gay and straight people can't be friends. Do you feel... (read in full...)
I can never be alone with my girlfriend!
Q. So I've been dating this girl for about 2 months and not once have I ever gotten to be alone with her! her friend is always with her! for example she will come to my house to see me and her friend is ALWAYS with her. I didn't mind at first but I'm ...
A. 15 September 2010: hehehhehehehe my mistake...thanks LaughAlot2010
Poster are you sure you two are dating? Make sure you two are on the same page.... (read in full...)
Gift ideas for my 15 year old boyfriend?
Q. hai! i am really confused about what i should gift for my boy friend who is turning 15 now. i don't know what he want's or like's. i am really helpless please help me pls.........
A. 15 September 2010: Get him a birthday card...and find out what kind of scents he likes and you can get him a cologne.
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I can never be alone with my girlfriend!
Q. So I've been dating this girl for about 2 months and not once have I ever gotten to be alone with her! her friend is always with her! for example she will come to my house to see me and her friend is ALWAYS with her. I didn't mind at first but I'm ...
A. 15 September 2010: Maybe your girlfriend is not comfortable enough to be alone with you.
She might have different ideas, beliefs, or have very very strict parents and she will not or is not allow to be in the same room with a man alone.
If your ready to call it... (read in full...)
Embarrassing! mom gives me a curfew!
Q. Wow this is embarrassing but my mom gives me a bedtime on weekdays. Its really early and I don't get to hang out with my friends. I want to tell her about it but I'm scared to. She never let's me do a lot of things. Please tell me what to do! Please ...
A. 15 September 2010: Earn her trust and with age and time you will get more freedom. Your mother is watching out for you always remember that.... (read in full...)
Should I stay with the love of my life and stop the relationship with the little girl?
Q. I was in a two year relationship with Jeanie, who had a 3 yr old daughter,Joan. Our relationship ended. I maintained a relationship with the little girl Joan and with her family. Later, although not together as a couple Jeanie and I had a child ...
A. 15 September 2010: You love this little girl as your own, so why would you let anyone dictate to you on what you should feel.
This is little girl is a child and loves you as a father are you going to be that cruel and let this women come between you and your dau... (read in full...)
Do I chose the ex fiance or the new guy?
Q. How to choose between 2 guys I am currently in a similar position me and my ex fiancé were together for 5 years we would have been getting married this November then in may of this year he cheated on me with this woman close to his work he says it ...
A. 15 September 2010: You need time and should not be with either one. Your ex is your ex and that's where he should stay in the past. Your new man has not entirely capture your heart therefore its time to move on. You don't have to settle, give yourself time you don't ... (read in full...)
Why does an ex act mean for no reason?
Q. What does it mean when an exboyfriend or exgirlfriend acts mean to you for no reason at all? ...
A. 15 September 2010: It means there should be no reason for you to linger in past memories and should leave the past in the past and move forward.... (read in full...)
How do I nicely reject a sweet guy???
Q. Alright I need some seriouse help. So homecoming is coming up and I'm really excited to go, and at lunch this guy asked me to homecoming, and he kept walking, so at first I thought he was just joking around, but then I heard him say "no don't! I ...
A. 14 September 2010: Just say sorry but you can't go to homecoming dance with him that you had already made plans for that event...No need to sugarcoat it just tell him, so he get any false hope.... (read in full...)
Son looking at pornography on the computer?
Q. I recently caught my son on the computer looking up pornography and masturbating, i sent him to his room and told him not to ever again, and that it was wrong. i think i did the right thing, but I'm not sure. he's only 11 and it seemed like he was ...
A. 14 September 2010: He got caught masturbating and will probably feel ashamed and guilty about it, I think you need to talk to him about it. He shouldn't feel guilty about masturbating but let him know he needs to do this in private, porno I agree he is to young.... (read in full...)
I hit her when I was drunk... how can I make it up to her?
Q. I've been with my wife for 4 years and we had a wonderful relationship when I was sober. But one night I got drunk and we both started arguing and out of anger I hit her. She has told all of her family and friends she is done with me. Is there ...
A. 14 September 2010: Give her time and proof to her that you have change. Hitting her was a big big very big mistake, if you have really change and have taken the steps to control your drinking and your anger than I hope she does gives you another chance. This is her ... (read in full...)
What's the difference between being honest and being negative?
Q. What is the difference between being honest and being negative? People told me many times.including family,and friends, ''you are being too negative'' And I just cant see, where am I going wrong. I feel, Im just seeing the truth.. What is wrong wi...
A. 14 September 2010: If you choose to only look at the negative aspect of life than that will trigger your mood.
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Why does my ex keep bringing up the past when we're together?
Q. okay i just dont know wat to think... my x boyfriend and i talk like if we were never going out.. last night i went over to seee him we were just chillin and talking but like at one point we didnt have too much to talk about so he brought up the ...
A. 2 September 2010: do you want to go back with him...if you do than go ahead and ask him if he still has feelings for you since he keeps reminiscing about past events. If you don't want to go back and want to be just friends than let him know that he makes you feel ... (read in full...)
If a relationship switches to friendship, will it ever switch back to being a sexual relationship?
Q. I would like to pose this as a general question, to both male and female opinion/perspectives. If a relationship switches to "friendship" on the part of the guy, is there ever hope that it will switch back to sexual? Perhaps there is some kind of ...
A. 2 September 2010: I think that a person who has a sexual relationship with a person will most likely remain the same unless the person start developing feelings. Friends to sexual buddies will fall in the same agenda as long as the person don't start harassing for a ... (read in full...)
Have I spoiled our friendship?
Q. me and my best friend have been really good friends for around three years now. We've helped each other through everything from bad breakups to illnesses and more recently through my grandmother's death. However a few weeks ago, we slept togethe...
A. 24 August 2010: Things have changed, you were his friend and now he has to decide if he wants you in his life as a girlfriend. Give him time and than give him a call, and at this point you too should give yourself a time out and think on what you want from him now. ... (read in full...)
My partner keeps doing favours for his ex wife!
Q. I have been with my partner over 2 years. He has got 2 kids already. They r lovely boys and we get on very well. It's his ex wife who I can't stand. She still works for my partner, she hardly do anything and still gets paid very good money. When she ...
A. 24 August 2010: Maybe you should advise your boyfriend to recommend her to work else where, he probably has friends that are willing to offer her a job. Its not a good idea to have the ex working there since she is taking advantage of the situatuion and can easily ... (read in full...)
Could I still have a chance of being pregnant?
Q. i had unproteced sex 10 days ago and also 2 days ago. Yes he did ejaculate inside of me. I also understand i could be pregnant, but i started bleeding randomly today but i only came of my period around 18 days ago. Could i still have a chance of ...
A. 9 August 2010: you could still be pregnant. Pregnant women could spot, this is not consider a period but you can still bleed.
Why would you be having unprotected sex, if you don't wear the party hat, or you are on the pill, chances of you getting pregnant... (read in full...)
Should I cut off all contact with my boyfriend?
Q. "OP Own Title" I have had this bf for almost 2 years and we recently broke up because he has a very bad temper and likes to verbally abuse me when we argue. I am sweet and tend to be too forgiving but I tried giving him another chance and he came ...
A. 5 August 2010: Move on sweetie, don't put up with this abuse. You finally said enough is enough, be strong on your word and don't look back. You have to be strong and think on you have love for yourself and respect your life. This man is not worth it and why would ... (read in full...)
Should I have sex with him even though he wont wear condoms and I'm not on birth control?
Q. i've been with my bf for 1year. hes my first love and im his he's two years older than me.. we are both vigins.. and homecoming night b4 his big game.. i well lets just say i wanna have sex with him.. he gave me i ring and we are getting married ...
A. 5 August 2010: Poster you have said it yourself he won't wear a condom, How do you know for sure that he is a virgin. You have to always have in your head that guys are not virgins and that at some point he has had sex without protection. Always think this to ... (read in full...)
Wife wants an open relationship so that I will stray and she can walk away
Q. My wife proposed that we have an open marriage because she refuses to meet my sexual needs and expectations. She wants me to find a "whore" who is willing to attach herself to my crotch and she can find someone who will meet her emotional needs. ...
A. 4 August 2010: She told you to find someone else you can sleep with and that she will find someone that will be there for her emotionally, in reality this is a cry for help. Either you get your act together or she will walk one way or the other. ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend says she wants a break
Q. Ok so I've been going out with my girlfriend for 3 months + and today she told me she is losing feeling for me and she wants a break. She says she doesn't want to lose me and that she still loves me. She says she needs a break because we talk every ...
A. 3 August 2010: Give her the break, if she is not sure what her feelings are for you. You do not want to be with a person who has no feelings for you, sometimes those break are necessary for you to know if that is who you want to be with.
Just know that on a bre... (read in full...)
Slowly going crazy with guilt!!!
Q. *OP Title* This is a bit of a mess. I recently married my boyfriend (now husband) of 8 years. We are so happy and I love him so much and I know he loves me too. Ever since we got engaged I have been thinking about a mistake I made in the first 3 w...
A. 3 August 2010: Honesty is sometimes the best policy but this happened such a long time ago, and it was when you didn't even know how much you were going to love your fiance. This twirl to the past might get messy and are you prepare for his reaction, you just ... (read in full...)
Very confused....been married for 10 years and my wife cheated!
Q. Hello everyone....I've been married for 10 years but dated my wife for 2 years prior to getting married...so all together have been with her 12 years. We have 2 wonderful boys 6 and 4. About 3 months ago I found out my wife had been seeing a man who ...
A. 28 July 2010: "People who cheat don't do so in a vacuum. It made sense at the time or she wouldn't have done it. We all need forgiveness."
I got these wise words from another thread and I so agree. She made a mistake she did I agree, but if your consider... (read in full...)
Very confused....been married for 10 years and my wife cheated!
Q. Hello everyone....I've been married for 10 years but dated my wife for 2 years prior to getting married...so all together have been with her 12 years. We have 2 wonderful boys 6 and 4. About 3 months ago I found out my wife had been seeing a man who ...
A. 28 July 2010: I don't believe that once a cheater always a cheater, people do change and people do make mistakes.
Poster this is your decision, listen to you heart, listen to your brain, and try to stay positive don't act out rage.
Ask your wife for ti... (read in full...)
Very confused....been married for 10 years and my wife cheated!
Q. Hello everyone....I've been married for 10 years but dated my wife for 2 years prior to getting married...so all together have been with her 12 years. We have 2 wonderful boys 6 and 4. About 3 months ago I found out my wife had been seeing a man who ...
A. 27 July 2010: Poster this is your life, and I want to ask you can you see yourself living with your wife and getting past this infidelity. Many people make mistakes and can look past this and work on there marriage and can actually live happy lives. She killed ... (read in full...)
I don't want to hurt my boyfriend or put a strain on our relationship, but I just wish he would understand that my grandmother does need me too
Q. My grandfather recently died, and now my handicapped, 88 year old grandmother is home by herself. She is of sound mind, and can take care of herself, but she does have a number of health problems that are managed by medicine. Both my grandp...
A. 26 July 2010: I have a friend whose mom recently died. Her husband had a hard time accepting my friend wanting to take care of her mother she had ovarian cancer. Through all the arguments my friend decided to have her mother move in and the husband in raged moved ... (read in full...)
Very confused....been married for 10 years and my wife cheated!
Q. Hello everyone....I've been married for 10 years but dated my wife for 2 years prior to getting married...so all together have been with her 12 years. We have 2 wonderful boys 6 and 4. About 3 months ago I found out my wife had been seeing a man who ...
A. 23 July 2010: Your wife should have been faithful, but I would like to think on this particular case since this teacher has a history of cheating and manipulating women that he told her what she wanted to hear and got her at her weak point.
Even if you want... (read in full...)
Will she ever end her unhealthy relationship to be with me?
Q. Here goes. I'm in love with this 19 year old girl for 2 and the half years already. She is in a relationship for 5 years with her bf and her relationship is unhealthy because she broke up and patched back many times and always fights with her bf and ...
A. 23 July 2010: You don't know if she will or will not, you can only handle you, you only have control over your life. Maybe you should move on, try putting your eyes else where. ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend wants me to wear makeup and dress up like a woman
Q. Hi, i'm 28 yrs old. During our intimate sessions me try to be innovative to make it fun. Last week my girlfriend made me wear her clothes. We had fun so tried it once again. Now she wants me to wear her lingerie next time and also dress up as a ...
A. 21 July 2010: If you don't mind doing it to please her than I don't see the problem in it. Don't let yourself get bully into doing something you don't really want, but if your ok with the idea no harm it that. ... (read in full...)
My wife cheated on me before we got married.should I divorce her?
Q. hello there. I have a big problem that i need help to, amy wife cheated on me before we where married. We have being married 5 years, we never had sex before we got married, she was my first and i though i was hers. We have a 2yr old boy.i found out ...
A. 21 July 2010: If you can't let it go than you should go for it. An affair is a deal breaker in many marriage. Only you know if you can or cannot forgive her.... (read in full...)
My lazy husband! I feel like a single mom but I'm married!
Q. My husband is lazy! I work 40hrs a week, take care of our 13 month old daughter, cook, clean, heck I even do yard work, and all he does is work, which I understand he might be tired, but he doesnt help with anything. I feel like I am a single mom, ...
A. 21 July 2010: Call him on his bluff, he is taken you for granted and maybe he was raised this way. His mother probably chop his food up and fed him till he was 18 and grew up thinking very highly of himself and believe he should be pampered and be treated like ... (read in full...)
Are married women basically all disloyal, cheaters at heart, ready to do whatever it takes for male attention?
Q. Why do so many married women cheat? I don't know if this is just a function of where I live (Southern California), but it seems like the majority of women I know well have cheated at some point on their husbands. These range from a few women who ...
A. 21 July 2010: A women who cheats is considered a whore, slut, and is judge very harshly by her friends, family and others, we do leave in a sexist society therefore it will always look worst for a women to cheat than a man.
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I thought I was his girlfriend? Why did he do this?
Q. I have been talking to this guy for 5 months now. We used to text every day, he used to be really nice and romantic with me. we started having sex, and he is the best i ever had. he started calling me his gf for a while but as a joke. after a ...
A. 20 July 2010: He was your FWB and he probably misses the sex he had with you. He is bad news wanting to cheat on his girlfriend, stay away from him and maybe even changing your phone number. He probably always saw you as his for sure thing, and he probably is ... (read in full...)
Help! I feel as if my husband doesn't love me enough...
Q. I feel as if my husband doesn't love me enough. It has been a while since we have been intimate and cuddly. He never starts kissing me unless I do. He never embrace me unless I ask for it or I open my arms. I know he loves me but I don't thi...
A. 20 July 2010: It could be your hormones and have the need for that extra attention. I had a friend that did not want her husband next to her when she was pregnant, his smell made her want to throw up. Eventually she had the baby and things were back to normal, ... (read in full...)
Are married women basically all disloyal, cheaters at heart, ready to do whatever it takes for male attention?
Q. Why do so many married women cheat? I don't know if this is just a function of where I live (Southern California), but it seems like the majority of women I know well have cheated at some point on their husbands. These range from a few women who ...
A. 20 July 2010: "It almost seems as though it is a given at some point that your wife will cheat on you, or come very close"
If a PERSON is going to cheat, its going to be because they like the attention, they are looking for a thrill, they feel lonely, they fee... (read in full...)
Are married women basically all disloyal, cheaters at heart, ready to do whatever it takes for male attention?
Q. Why do so many married women cheat? I don't know if this is just a function of where I live (Southern California), but it seems like the majority of women I know well have cheated at some point on their husbands. These range from a few women who ...
A. 20 July 2010: To generalize that all married women cheat is just an absurd argument. I simply can not believe that you only heard about the female cheaters and not about the cheating men. The fact is that a lot of married men cheat, now I'm I going to generalize ... (read in full...)
Married, but found my soulmate
Q. i'm a 40yo man...married for 11 years with 3 beautiful children. My wife and I seem to be so far apart on so many levels and I am very unhappy. She is also an alcoholic and I'm extremely worried about the affect this will have on our kids. Now to...
A. 20 July 2010: If your wife has a drinking problem try to help her out even if it is for the sake of your children. Focus in trying to help the women you promise to love into getting some kind of help, the last thing in your mind should be hooking up with some ... (read in full...)
How do I keep track of my period?
Q. I had my last period on June.24 or 25 .. Ended in about a week .. Anyways when will I get my next period .. I don't keep track so I'm going to starts doing that now :)...
A. 19 July 2010: mark your calendar every time you get your period this will give you an idea on when to expect your next period.... (read in full...)
Do I text? Or don't I?
Q. This is sort of a weird question but i dont really know what i should do.. A really nice guy I met a while ago ran into my friend on the weekend and gave her his number to give to me. I have a boyfriend though so i am not going to persue this guy ...
A. 19 July 2010: You don't have a relationship with him so it should not matter to you if its awkward or not. Imagine how awkward your boyfriend will feel if he was to find out you were texting some guy. To avoid future problems the best thing to do is ignore this ... (read in full...)
Do I text? Or don't I?
Q. This is sort of a weird question but i dont really know what i should do.. A really nice guy I met a while ago ran into my friend on the weekend and gave her his number to give to me. I have a boyfriend though so i am not going to persue this guy ...
A. 19 July 2010: No don't text nor call him, you are not going to start a relationship with him since you are already in one. Don't create an awkward situation, just keep it like it is, this way you won't be tempted or accused of cheating. ... (read in full...)
Married, but found my soulmate
Q. i'm a 40yo man...married for 11 years with 3 beautiful children. My wife and I seem to be so far apart on so many levels and I am very unhappy. She is also an alcoholic and I'm extremely worried about the affect this will have on our kids. Now to...
A. 19 July 2010: You should leave these feelings behind and think about your family. The only thing that should matter to you are your children and have a little of consideration for the women that invested 11 years of her life, to give you a family and a home. ... (read in full...)
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