Do all boys just want sex?
Q. soo i really want to know do boys really all just want sex? becouse when i even get close to a boy they ask for sex and so this horrible pick up lines and they say stuff like "but your just soo hot i recken you would be amazing in bed" and its like...
A. 22 March 2010: No. Not all men are just looking for sex. At 15, it will seem like it, but it's not the case. As a guy that's been in a few serious relationships, even an engagement, without giving up his virginity, I stand as proof of that.
Just stay strong, ... (read in full...)
What do American men think of Irish women?
Q. What do the American men think of the irish women? Do they like Irish women? Are we different from the American women? Are we more conservative and quiet, as irish women themselves...
A. 22 March 2010: I dated an Irish girl for a few years and she was anything but conservative and quiet. She was one of the most outgoing, silly, hyperactive, and indeed liberal people I've known. I'm fairly sure that Irish, American, British, German, Chinese, ... (read in full...)
Can men with high sex drives remain faithful?
Q. Is it possible for an alpha male man with a super high testosterone amd charged up high sex drive to be in a committed loyal relationship for a long time? Or are they not capable of being faithful? ...
A. 15 March 2010: As a man who was recently in a three year long relationship with a woman that couldn't stand to be sexual with me more than about once or twice a month, I can say that there was more than a little tension / frustration about sex, but I never once ... (read in full...)
Why do guys look at other girls?
Q. why do boys when going out with girls look at other girls? does this mean that they do not truly love their girlfriend?...
A. 15 March 2010: Men look at other women because men have eyes. If a woman walks by wearing something designed to get attention (like a tight or low-cut shirt), or a woman walks by that is simply highly attractive, it will automatically catch a man's attention ... (read in full...)
I want to stay a virgin until marriage but what's the use!
Q. I would really like to stay a virgin until I'm married but it doesn't seem like there are any virgin girls left so whats the point? The whole chastity thing really doesn't work unless both people are in on it. It's all just really irritating 22 ...
A. 13 March 2010: I'm a 26 year old virgin thinking the same thing, but actually, when I think about it, I realize that I know several girls in my area that are virgins. And where there are some, there are bound to be more.
You might not see them, but that's b... (read in full...)
Is it ok that I have protected sex with people when I am not in a relationship?
Q. im currently single so im just having fun, but do u think its ok that i have protected sex with people? the only reason i ask is because my friends say im dirty but i dont have one night stands after a night out, i know the people i have sex with....
A. 27 February 2010: Actually, I have one more thought... These are you friends you're sleeping with, right? Be aware this will make it awkward when you have a boyfriend then still want to hang out with these guys that have had sex with you. Most guys (at least here in ... (read in full...)
My wife bet a BJ to another man and he's won the bet... what should we do?!
Q. My wife made a bet that I don't want her to keep and now she has to pay up, or default on her word. What to do? A couple of weeks ago, my wife, some friends of ours and myself were drinking at my house. The conversation got heated regarding...
A. 27 February 2010: It's on her honor? Well, that ship has sailed. As you say, it's slut or liar. Which is worse... to renege on a bet over a sports game, or to cheat on her husband. I agree with you, she should NOT be touching another man like that for any reason, and ... (read in full...)
Is it ok that I have protected sex with people when I am not in a relationship?
Q. im currently single so im just having fun, but do u think its ok that i have protected sex with people? the only reason i ask is because my friends say im dirty but i dont have one night stands after a night out, i know the people i have sex with....
A. 26 February 2010: Whooosh, that's a loaded question.
Some guys in the future would love the skills you pick up by practicing like this. But some guys will be put off by your sexual history. You're being safe so it should be unlikely that you get pregnant or sick.... (read in full...)
Is it possible to lose 15 pounds in 5 weeks?
Q. I really want to loose at least 15 pounds before spring break. How can I loose it that fast? It's in 5 weeks, is it even possible? I just want to be bikini ready!...
A. 26 February 2010: The best I've managed has been 2 lbs per week, and that was when I started off obese, and even then my doctor was concerned with the rapid weight loss. While it might be POSSIBLE to lose faster than that, it's not healthy to do to.... (read in full...)
Will my breasts grow anymore?
Q. i'm 16 and have small boobs. i dont mind the fact that they are not big but i hope that there is a chance they will grow. its the main thing im self concious about. i just hate being self concious about them. my friends have amazing bodies it makes ...
A. 26 February 2010: First... they MAY still grow a little more. 16 may not the be full size yet.
But secondly, there is NOTHING wrong with smaller breasts. NOTHING. They're a blessing! If you're lucky enough to stop growing before they get much larger, you'll h... (read in full...)
Will my boobs ever grow?
Q. Hey ppl, i'm 14 years old and i'm still a 32A. It's so depressing and i keep crying about it. Do you think it will EVER grow?? What age does a girl stop developing?? and If there's ANYTHING to help it to grow quicker?? Thankyou for your reply ...
A. 25 February 2010: First, you're not done growing yet, most likely. You're young yet and may get larger before they stop growing.
But secondly, there is NOTHING wrong with smaller breasts. NOTHING. They're a blessing! If you're lucky enough to stop growing before t... (read in full...)
The man I had an affair with has called me 8 months after it ended, should I call him back?
Q. I need help! the guy i was having an affair wtih for the pass 3 years called me last night. We haven't spoken in almost 8 months. I don't know if I should call him back! What to do what to do!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!...
A. 23 February 2010: If you're still married to the man you cheated on, do not respond. If you still want to be married to your husband, do not respond. If you don't want to fall back into that adulterous cycle, do not respond. You spent YEARS cheating with this man, ... (read in full...)
Is this what younger girls are like these days??
Q. Can some of you please explain the mind set of today's young women in their early 20's? I am in my mid-30's and have recently entered the dating scene. Although I am 35, I am in great physical condition and most people say I look 25. I married my...
A. 18 February 2010: I know not every girl is like that. I've been in two serious relationships, one even getting as far as engagement, and I've yet to receive oral sex. I'm only 26.
Meanwhile, I've talked to a few of my female friends and they won't do that either. ... (read in full...)
What if she spreads a disease to someone and I date them?
Q. So, this girl that im not really too good of friends with but talk to her, she keeps having sex with all these guys in my school. i honestly dont doubt she will get some type of disease from doing it so many times with so many diff. guys! i tell her...
A. 18 February 2010: She's not the girl you have to worry about. Sure, she could spread something to a guy you'd date later, but any number of other girls could also be spreading diseases. No matter what guy you date, no matter if he's even met this girl or not, ... (read in full...)
How can I be hot with small boobs?
Q. How can I be hot with small boobs? I have small boobs, wide hips and a small waist. I think it's a very feminine looking body. But guys still drool more over busty women! I don't get it, boobs are only fat. I've seen guys drooling over women with ...
A. 18 February 2010: You won't have back pain like the DD girls. You won't sag nearly as much as the DD girls. You won't be totally objectified by every guy you pass like the larger girls. You can actually make eye contact with a man, unlike the top-heavy girls. Sure, ... (read in full...)
I don't get why I have these weird fantasy's of being submissive to someone. Am I normal??
Q. Do I have a problem? Ever since I was a little girl I innocently (no sexual just like little kid imagining) fantasized being submissive. And I still do, I've never told anyone this. It's not because I am ashamed but because It's really personal...
A. 18 February 2010: Nope, you're not sick in the slightest. You know what you like. You're willing to experiment with other things, but you know what works for you. You're a strong person, but you like to feel a little submissive. That's perfectly fine and healthy. ... (read in full...)
Do any other girls out there withold sex from their partners when they have done something wrong?
Q. Please Help .... I have a problem . When my boyfriend does something wrong , like out late with his mates , or comes home intoxicated , I without Sex for a period of time . I tell him the set penalty time and he signs a form ..eg : 1 week , 1 ...
A. 17 February 2010: Alright, here's my serious, no joking answer. No insult intended, just what it sounds like to me.
Look up the term Orgasm Control. You're not only denying sex, you're telling him that he can't even climax in privacy at all, like you own his body... (read in full...)
Now my husband has lost weight I cant help but be turned off by him!
Q. okay, my husband starting working out again but only after I got some diet pills to loose weight. It really bugs me that he has lost more weight than me and built more muscle. He has always been on the thicker side since we got married and I loved ...
A. 17 February 2010: Funny how that always happens, huh? People who marry thin spouses lose interest when weight gains with age turn that sexy twenty something into a doughy fifty year old. For you, it's exactly the opposite, but still the same effect.
You're not alon... (read in full...)
Is there something wrong with the shape of my penis?
Q. hey everyone Im 15 and i have a... Different penis Its not like a banana like other guys and its not straight it almost looks like someones twisted it around It doesent stick out forward but kind of points to my left ear :s is there something wr...
A. 17 February 2010: That's pretty normal. My curves back and to the left a little too.... (read in full...)
Why should I put up with my man looking at porn?
Q. Ok, why do I just "have to accept" porn in my life? My boyfriend jacks off to porn. Sure, our sex life is great, and believe me I don't mind quickies or gettigng him off without anything in return. But why does he have to look at other naked women? ...
A. 16 February 2010: To the fem anon: men will sometimes fantasize about things they don't want. I dream about being president, but I wouldn't actually want to be president. I think about being a millionaire, but I know it would cause a whole new set of problems. And ... (read in full...)
My sex drive has really increased but it seems like we are having less sex than before!
Q. My boyfriend is always really swamped with work, and usually I am too. However, he's always had a huge sex drive, and I a medium one. I'd try really hard to get in the mood, even when I naturally wasn't, and he seemed to be supportive when I ...
A. 16 February 2010: So if I'm reading this right, he used to have a higher libido, but was understanding when you couldn't finish and left him hanging. Now you have a higher libido but are upset that he's not living up to your desires?
Hon, he's busy, tired, and stre... (read in full...)
Please give me a reason why I should stay a virgin!
Q. Please give me a reason to stay a virgin. I always wanted to have sex the first time with another virgin, but there are non! All the girl today just shack up with the first guy they're with for more then two weeks. I don't blame them though, I ...
A. 16 February 2010: Because you'll regret it if you give it up at this point just for the sake of losing it. How will you feel when you do meet her, that perfect girl that makes you suddenly realize why it never worked with anyone else. That virgin (or at least girl ... (read in full...)
What sort of weight do guys like for a girl?
Q. Okay, i just want to know what weight guys like. im 5'2 and around 109lb.. is that fat to you guys? i mean i have curves and crap and i feel fat around my friends cause the havnt hit puberty yet and their like 75-95lb.. does it make me fat? i mean i ...
A. 16 February 2010: You're FAR from overweight. My last girlfriend was 5'1" and ranged from 115 to 130 during out time together, and she was beautiful. You're taller and thinner. You're FINE.
That said, weight is by no means the measure of a person. If you love you... (read in full...)
I tried so hard but I could not ejaculate whilst having sex, what is wrong with me?
Q. i am in love with my girlfriend for 3yrs now...we both live in different places.... whenever we meet we used to have kind of sex.. which is not purely sex...she has a problem in loosing her virginity....in one of her birthdays i forced her to have ...
A. 15 February 2010: For HER birthday, you pushed her into having sex that YOU wanted and she was trying to save? Maybe you couldn't climax because you were feeling guilty about doing that? A little subconscious regret can stop you from finishing, and forcing your ... (read in full...)
Why aren't we "Official"?
Q. I've been "seeing" this guy for a few months. There is a slight age gap -I am 20, he is 25- but we get along very well. We hung out very often before it reached this point. From what I've seen, he's kind of shy; I made the first move on him, and it ...
A. 15 February 2010: It sounds like he had a long relationship that failed, and now he's afraid. He's only 25 and he's had a relationship that lasted that long only to die, combined with his own low self esteem, and now you are getting very close to him? He's probably ... (read in full...)
We have sex once a week and he thinks I am a sex addict?!!
Q. Hi My husband thinks I am a sex addict and it is making me feel paranoid. We have been married for a year and have sex about once every week and a half to two weeks. He says he is attracted me, but we barely have it. The only time we do is when I ...
A. 15 February 2010: You're no more of a sex addict than I was when I wanted it at least weekly with an ex that didn't feel the same. It's just mismatched libido. But if you're in your 40s (when a woman's hormones have just recently peaked) and if he's a similar age ... (read in full...)
Asked to be a God mother, what do I do!?
Q. My friend has just asked me to be god mother to her 2 children. I'm really flattered but I don't know what to say! Do you have to be a Christian to be a god parent? What will my role be? ...
A. 12 February 2010: I may be mistaken, but I believe this also means that in the event that she and her husband are in an accident, she's like you to care for her children. It's an honor, and a responsibility.... (read in full...)
I don't understand religion and why we should be forced to put up with it.
Q. hi, im 14 and an atheist but i respect religious people who are open to another persons point of view, but the other side of that coin is that ignorance and single mindedness makes me really really angry. i just dont understand religion, i mean no ...
A. 12 February 2010: Stupid people will be stupid people with or without a reason. You don't need to be religious in order to be screwed up any more than you need video games to bring guns to school. There are christians, buddhists, agnostics, atheists, and everything ... (read in full...)
He told me he prefers larger breasts, when I only have small ones! How do I get over this?
Q. Lame question... but I have small breasts, and my boyfriend prefers big ones. I know this because his celebrity crushes have big breasts and because I asked him and he straight out told me. During sex I'm not self conscious about them, although when ...
A. 12 February 2010: There are a million little things we PREFER, but they don't make or break a relationship. Some women prefer a man's equipment be a certain size, some men simply prefer blondes, some women want musicians, some men always liked Asians, some women are ... (read in full...)
She has denied me sex until I pay for it!
Q. Have been in a relationship for four years now with a lady i do love soo much and ready to marry, she is 32 am 27, But she is so controlling, she doe's not like to be forced on doing things she has become miss independent, i lost my job recently and ...
A. 12 February 2010: She's denying sex based on how much money you can contribute shortly after losing your job? She's paying you sex in exchange for you paying for her daughter's school and her bills. That's not a romantic relationship, it's a business deal. You may ... (read in full...)
Why does monogamy exist? What's the use?
Q. Why does monogamy exist? I don't get it. A lot of people - men and women - cheat. I've not been cheated on, but I see it happen often. It's often been said humans are not monogamous by nature, and I guess it's true. I get that people need love and ...
A. 12 February 2010: Monogamy exists for two reasons: to make sure children have two dedicated parents instead of a game of hot potato with no one even knowing who the father is, and because if relationships are fluid, there's a good chance you'll be alone when you get ... (read in full...)
Ideas for Valentine's Day if you're single?
Q. What does a single guy do for valentine's day weekend? This is a light hearted thread for actual ideas - if you want to rant about the lameness and/or commercialisation of the day, and how it's totally rubbed in your face that your single - th...
A. 12 February 2010: While I have no plans for Valentines Day proper, I'm spending the 13th on a short road trip with two lovely ladies (that are sadly both taken). Most likely, I'll end up spending the 14th grabbing dinner and hanging out with my other single friends.... (read in full...)
I feel it is not fair that my wife wont give me anal sex when my ex-partners enjoyed it so much!
Q. do girls like anal sex, Ive been after my wife for 7 years and she just won't give it too me. I feel like thats not fair, Ive had other relationships where my partner enjoyed it sooooooooo much. how do i get my wife to try something new, we've ...
A. 11 February 2010: Most women DON'T like anal sex. In fact, from every study I've ever seen, the majority experience pain during anal sex. You've dated some women that liked it, but it's very hurtful to suggest that there's something wrong with your wife for not being ... (read in full...)
Can I kiss him after I blow him?
Q. I'm planning on giving my boyfriend a blowjob. Can I kiss him immediately after or do I need to wash out my mouth first?...
A. 11 February 2010: Depends on the guy. Some guys are revolted by the idea of tasting themselves, while others simply wouldn't care. (Just like some girls want men to wash up after cunnilingus before kissing.) Just ask him what the expectation is.... (read in full...)
Is it ok to have friendly phone sex with a classmate when I have a boyfriend?
Q. well...im in a committed relationship...its been 7.5months..me and my bf really love each other..i want to ask that is it ok to have friendly phone sex with my classmate?(we actually don't mean it,its just 4 fun)i mean is it ok or whether i will be ...
A. 11 February 2010: As a rule, if what you're doing can in any way be described with the word "sex", whether it's oral sex, or phone sex, or sexting, or cybersex, or even passing sexy notes, it's considered inappropriate to do with someone other than your boyfriend. ... (read in full...)
Why do men like fake boobs so much?
Q. Why do men like fake boobs so much? In my country, guys seem to prefer fake boobs. These are some famous models in my country, which all men drool over (no nudity, just bikini clad, but probably NSFW): http://i48.tin...
A. 11 February 2010: You have a "modest B cup"? That's larger than either of my serious girlfriends (both were A cups), and I loved their breasts! I have no interest in large breasts (D's are simply unappealing to me) and love the FEEL of breasts (which surgery ... (read in full...)
Wild look!!!
Q. I recently spent a weekend at the beach with my BF. I didn't wear any makeup and didn't do my hair either. When we returned home I got back into my 'beauty' routine and he then told me he likes me the best with no make up and wild hair. I ...
A. 11 February 2010: There's a certain wild, natural, confident beauty from a woman who's showing off her real skin. Honestly, I agree that many women look best natural. My ex was at her most REAL for those few moments after waking up, her hair a mess, her face without ... (read in full...)
How often do men become platonic friends with their ex girlfriends?
Q. How common is it for guys to want to be long term friends with their ex girlfriends? does this happen with alot of people, or do i mostly date guys who want to be platonic bff (best friends forever) after a breakup? not a complaint really, just a ...
A. 11 February 2010: I've had two serious relationships, neither ended on good terms, neither are friends now. I have also casually dated one other girl, we ended on good terms and are still friends now, but we never got as far as kissing pre-breakup.... (read in full...)
I admitted my past to him, now he wants to date other girls as well as me
Q. bout six years ago, I had a really, really close male friend who I was head over heels for. We were friends with benefits for a while. I thought - as a typical, inexperienced 15 year old girl - that this would make him fall for me. It didn't, ...
A. 11 February 2010: You're 100% right. You have not cheated on your boyfriend, are not even close with the man you previously had some limited experience with, and have been utterly loyal and he is being unreasonable. Now, I can understand that he's young and hung up ... (read in full...)
Sexual partners are shocked over how wet I got. Is this normal?
Q. I'm 18 and recently tried to have a threesome with some friends (that drunk night) They both were shocked at how wet I was; even when not arroused and how smoothe my lips were. Just wondering...is it normal to be that wet or smoothe?...
A. 10 February 2010: Yes, that's perfectly normal. Some girls hardly get wet, some get extraordinarily wet. You're lucky that lubrication isn't a challenge for you. Enjoy your gift of smooth skin, soft lips, and great moisture.... (read in full...)
I am not sexually compatible with my husband. How can I get him to stop being such a prude?
Q. (Mod Note - OP's own title) I can't say how glad I am to have found this site. I am a 28yo mother of three boys. I have always been very sexual. I can remember masturbating as early as 5 or 6. My first sexual incounter was with the little girl...
A. 10 February 2010: I'm with Emilysanswers here. There's going to have to be some moderator involved in this and some compromise. He wants it once a fortnight and you want it every day, so it's going to never be as much as you want if he's going to be having it more ... (read in full...)
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