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writes:i am in love with my girlfriend for 3yrs now...we both live in different places.... whenever we meet we used to have kind of sex.. which is not purely sex...she has a problem in loosing her virginity....in one of her birthdays i forced her to have sex and she finally agreed.... i inserted my penis in her vagina and continued the action for 10 mins..the real problem was i did not ejaculate i tried hard but could not ....whats the problem with me.... pls help
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reader, msday  +, writes (16 February 2010):
Yea it was pretty much forced, pressured and not loving at all which makes the situation un-enjoyable for lack of better words. When she and u r ready to take on this responsibility which should be under loving care then I'm sure there won't be a problem.
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reader, baddogbj  +, writes (15 February 2010):
 I hope that you didn't really "force" her and what you meant is that you had a long discussion and she finally agreed. If you did force her then you have a big problem and you should go and bang yourself on the head with something heavy - seriously mate its just not on to pressure girls in to sex that they don't want.
Putting that to one side:
- 10 minutes just ain't that long
- unless you are a pornstar it is darn difficult to cum on cue and the more you try the less likely it is to happen
- if your girlfriend was not particularly enjoying herself then the whole situation becomes mechanical (the way that you describe it IS pretty mechanical) and un-sexy and it is hard to cum.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 February 2010): I can only echo what the other people here have said. You forced her to have sex. You effectively raped her. Does she mean so little to you? You obviously have no respect for her and only want to get yourself off regardless of how she feels. The fact that you couldn't ejaculate is not the problem at all. You're the problem. The best thing you could do for this relationship is to end it to save her any more pain and seriously consider getting some help before you abuse someone again.
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reader, Illithid +, writes (15 February 2010):
 For HER birthday, you pushed her into having sex that YOU wanted and she was trying to save? Maybe you couldn't climax because you were feeling guilty about doing that? A little subconscious regret can stop you from finishing, and forcing your girlfriend to betray her principles would likely make you feel bad enough.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 February 2010): You may not realise it but I think your main problem is that you forced your gf to have sex. Forced her? That is awful. I would have dumped you if I was your gf and you behaved like that. Sex is meant to be pleasurable for both of you, not just you. Try and think about what your gf is feeling before forcing her to do something she doesn't want to.
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reader, adamantine  +, writes (15 February 2010):
 The problem here is that you forced your girlfriend to have sex with you.
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