I've never cum when I've had sex with my boyfriend... help!
Q. i've been with my boyfriend for almost two months now and i genuinly trust him and enjoy our sex life however i don't think ive ever come. i can feel the build up during sex and really enjoy it but then suddenly it just seems to stop or i feel a ...
A. 12 November 2009: Hmmm, that's no fun then. Without getting too explicit, I know that my ex liked it the best when I used both oral and manual on her at the same time to satisfy her both inside and outside all at once.
But I have to ask: Have you been able to clima... (read in full...)
I've never cum when I've had sex with my boyfriend... help!
Q. i've been with my boyfriend for almost two months now and i genuinly trust him and enjoy our sex life however i don't think ive ever come. i can feel the build up during sex and really enjoy it but then suddenly it just seems to stop or i feel a ...
A. 12 November 2009: Foreplay. Seriously. Whether you've climaxed with other men before him and just can't with this guy, or whether you have never came from vaginal sex, it's all about the oral. Ask him to try giving you oral sex and see if that works better. The ... (read in full...)
Does it mean anything if the man doesn't wear his wedding ring?
Q. For all the married men out there... Does it mean anything if a man doesn't wear his wedding ring? ...
A. 12 November 2009: It depends on the man. Some don't like jewelry at all, or are just forgetful and leave it off absentmindedly, or are hypersensitive about being branded, or just think it looks odd on a man. But then some men leave it off to try to get other women.
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Is it normal for a girl to watch porn videos online?
Q. Is it normal for a girl to watch porn videos online? My friends commented that it is disgusting for girls to do so but I have to confess that I always watch them and masturbate after that. Is it normal or am i a weirdo?...
A. 12 November 2009: Perfectly normal. A friend of mine actually buys PlayBoys periodically and thinks it's funny that she gets weird looks for it.
Women have all the same interests in sex that men do, masturbate too, lust too, and can enjoy porn just the same. As... (read in full...)
Do I have too much libido?
Q. I wanted to see if i was over sexed so i kept a journal. In 1 yr i had sex with my wife 187 times and masterbated 263 times. And the sad thing is i want more and i dont think i do it enough. There is times even after i please my wife i am still horn...
A. 12 November 2009: Nah, that's not excessive. You're lucky that your wife had sex with you 3-4 times a week where many wives don't give their husbands access more than once a week, or less even, but you are not overly horny. Healthy, but not excessive.... (read in full...)
High Maintenance...
Q. i need some advice mainly from men.. but women please can you give your opinions too.. are men really put off with high maintenance girls? and whenever they classify a girl as high maintenance what exactly do they mean? Personally i always like my...
A. 12 November 2009: High Maintenance has always meant, from what I've seen, a woman that a man has to work unduely hard to keep happy. If he has to take her to expensive dinner frequently, buy her all sorts of gifts, constantly compliment her, reassure her every time ... (read in full...)
I'm waiting till I find the one
Q. Some of my friends have already have sex- some have boyfriends, others are married. I'm waiting until I find "the one." I don't necessarily have to be married, I just want it to be special. I don't know if it's the way I was raised or what, but it ...
A. 12 November 2009: As a 25 year old male that's kept his virginity thus far, even after having been engaged to a woman for over a year before it ended, I can say that you're absolutely not alone in saving yourself and that I entirely respect that. (My new girlfriend, ... (read in full...)
We send each other saucy pictures and flirt... Are we having an affair?
Q. Over the past 2 years I have become friendly with 1 of the guys i work with-we are based in different parts of the country but sometimes he comes over for meetings where im based. He is married with a child and im getting married next year. I want t...
A. 12 November 2009: My fiancée dumped me for someone she never touched, much less slept with, but she had been chatting with and flirting with. Just because there's no emotional contact doesn't mean there's no emotional connection, and you are forming that connection ... (read in full...)
How do I make my penis smaller?
Q. I don't like the size of my penis. It actually gets in the way. How can I make it smaller?...
A. 12 November 2009: Actually, are you referring to just when it's erect? Because if the issue is just that you get erections at inconvenient times and to an embarrassing size, a chastity belt can keep you from getting hard, forcing you to stay small while worn. ... (read in full...)
What unusual name to do you have for your privates... and how did you get it?
Q. Mine is petercheese. My girlfriend years ago gave me it. The first time she gave me head she said it squrted out like a can of ez cheese. So she called it peter cheese. ...
A. 12 November 2009: My ex called mine Socrates, because he was a "Philosopher" (as in "Fill Lots of Her", say both aloud). This of course led to horrible innuendo puns such as "Care to try the Socratic Method?"... (read in full...)
Does a man NEED sex to be healthy?
Q. Want to know if a man can do without sex and be healthy?...
A. 11 November 2009: Physically? Sure thing.
Emotionally? That depends.
There are many men that are quite content to go years, or even an entire lifetime, without sex of any sort. But inside of a committed relationship, there are several studies that say men tha... (read in full...)
How to solve size incompatibility?
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for more than 2 years and our sex has never been too great if we compare to our past relations. The problem is that my vagina is "too large" and his penis is "too small". I tried to do Kegel exercises but after 6 months...
A. 10 November 2009: What comes to my mind is that vaginal sex isn't all there is. If you really love him and just his size is causing problems, are the two of you open to some other methods?
Oral sex (either taking turns or doing 69 for simultaneous pleasure... (read in full...)
Do men want a woman to take charge in the bedroom?
Q. do men like a girl to take control in the bedroom department? i mean what do guys like a girl to act like a sergent major screaming at them to do certain things or do men like girls who let them take over? i like the man to take control most of ...
A. 10 November 2009: Personal view (and let me repeat that, this is my PERSONAL needs in the bedroom, so don't think it covers all men):
I like being able to pursue her, push a little, take some control and even keep her trembling past her limit and bring her to happy... (read in full...)
My ex and I are still friends and have sex, he is not sure he wants to get back together, what should I do
Q. my exs and i broke up..we are still friends and he tells me that he misses me alot and thinks about us and we still have sex. but hes not sure if he wants to get back with me. what should i do? ...
A. 10 November 2009: There is the saying: "Why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free?"
He still gets to be your friend. He still gets to hang out with you. He still gets to have sex with you. What benefit would he get from being your boyfriend that he doesn... (read in full...)
My boyfriend says I am the only girl he has experiened an orgasm with, is this unusal?
Q. My bf says I am the first girl to ever make him cum. He says no girl has ever been able to do that for him before and hes always had trouble keeping it up, but with me he hasnt had either of those problems. I am wondering why this is? Im not even ...
A. 10 November 2009: That last paragraph there could be it. One night stands are utterly without emotion (other than excitement). Maybe he's more sentimental than you realize and sex isn't just wild fun for him. Maybe he can't enjoy it fully unless he cares about the ... (read in full...)
Why a "secret" relationship?
Q. hey everyone, im having a problem. if you get into a relationship and he/she doesnt wanna tell certain people, does that mean he/she is ashamed of being with you infront of other people or does he/she think those people wouldn't understand?...
A. 9 November 2009: Note: I don't know HER reason, but the last time I was dating a girl that wanted to keep it secret, she was keeping it quiet only so people wouldn't realize she was cheating.
In your case, I don't know, but maybe you should just be open anyway? ... (read in full...)
He asked to see naked pictures of another woman!
Q. Well, i just want to ask you lady's out there what you would do if you caught your boyfriend out, that he had been asking your BROTHER to see NAKED pictures of my brother's girlfriend. My boyfriend says that its just natural for a lad, and i would ...
A. 9 November 2009: You're right. That was ROTTEN of him to do and NO, guys aren't all like that!
Guy Code actually prevents us from looking at a friend's girlfriend like that, so he's violating not only common decency, but also social rules for men.
I'm glad you ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend hasn't touched me for a month. Is there someone else?
Q. Looking for honest answers here: My boyfriend of 4 years and I have not had sex in more than a month. He was away for 3 and 1/2 week on business, but he's now been back for an entire week. We live together, but the first 2 nights he was back, he ...
A. 8 November 2009: If he's depressed, or sick, or tired, or worried... that could DEFINITELY kill his libido for a while. While I'm not saying it's impossible that he cheated, and while it's possible he is only depressed because he's guilty of something, that's FAR ... (read in full...)
We want to be have a more physical relationship but not sure how to go about it
Q. Allo... My girlfriend and I have been together for two years and love eachother very much...we're both 18... Surprisingly enough, we're not really physical people, lol physical meaning the full on making out and such, as we don't really ...
A. 8 November 2009: I've been summoned?
It sounds like you're just not terribly experienced, either of you, even in previous relationships.
You guys trust each other, right? And you're in love and loyal to each other, right? Then my best advice is much like my ex ... (read in full...)
Is there a risk of prostate cancer if you don't masturbate or have sex?
Q. Hi Cupid,I asked this question here last time about the word masturbation. this question confused me sometimes, i want to be sure of it. my question is, a person that still a virgin whether a boy or a girl. like a boy that still a virgin. if the ...
A. 7 November 2009: From what I have heard, masturbating or having sex (anything that leads to ejaculation) three times a week will reduce prostate cancer, yes. I cannot confirm if this is true, but it's what I heard. But you're not going to get cancer just because you ... (read in full...)
She cheated with me when she was in a relationship with my best mate... I worry that she might do it to me now
Q. This is a very long and complicated issue, but its kind of bothering me and wanted peoples advice. well im currently seeing this gurl and things are all great but the problem i have is a trust issue. the thing is she used to date a friend of mine ...
A. 7 November 2009: Hmm... she was attracted to you and has been unable to get over you for years even while in other relationships. There's something about you that IS different to her. But the saying does go that "if she cheated with you, she'll cheat on you." That ... (read in full...)
Am I a normal girlfriend?
Q. please dont be rude or get me wrong yeah but this is what i think. when some girls have a bf, they would always wanna be with him, text him and call him non stop.. always want to know, where he is who hes with and what hes doing. And they alw...
A. 7 November 2009: You are normal. Girls come in more than one variety and I've had both girlfriends that called me every day (even getting worried if I was so much as fifteen minutes late getting in touch with her) and recently a girl that isn't interested in meeting ... (read in full...)
Caught my daughter masturbating, what should I do?
Q. I have 2 childern ages 13 and 10, both gilrs. One in Jr. high the other in grammar school. I left work early one day and got the shock of my life. I come in and hear "noises" in the family room. So when I walk down there I see my 13 year daughter in ...
A. 7 November 2009: My opinion? Talk to her about sex in general. Talk to her calmly and slowly about how important it is to wait, how easy it is to catch STDs or get pregnant, how easy it is to lose her reputation or friends or even self respect if she has sex early ... (read in full...)
Are all guys selfish and hateful?
Q. [Moderator note: profanity deleted] my spouce(common law) is very selfish. i have been sick since wednesday. it is now friday, im suposta stay in bed for a couple days, and i didnt. i wake up cook me some breakfast n him, pack his lunch for work and...
A. 7 November 2009: No, men are not all like that. I paid for almost everything for my most recent ex, but would never admit that I did because she cooked for me and bought what little she could, and that was enough. I was more supportive of her emotional needs, and ... (read in full...)
How can I tell if a girl is as horny as me?
Q. hi, im 13 and i love masterbating. but see everyone at school knows i do it and i cant get a girlfriend and i want to have sex really bad. know one at my school is sexually interested as me can yall help me any tips on my subject matter just ...
A. 7 November 2009: Oooh trust me, I've been there. But I will admire you if you're mature and wise enough to wait. So many younger teens make the impulsive jump into a sexual relationship as soon as they're physically able, thinking that just because you're a smart ... (read in full...)
My b/f makes me feel complexed about my body, I used to be happy about it!
Q. When I'm watching movies with my boyfriend he is always pointing out which girls have better breasts or stomachs than me. If there is a topless scene he will immediately turn to me and tell me things like, "her's are much bigger than yours, they're ...
A. 7 November 2009: I dated a girl with A cups and LOVED those perky, beautiful breasts. Not every guy will judge you based on your bra size.
But it HAS to be fair. If he's watching porn, you can. If he doesn't want you to, then he has to stop. That whole line tha... (read in full...)
At 24 am I too old to be happy again?
Q. i'm 24 and at the moment i'm not in such a good place in my life. 4 months ago my ex broke up with me - i adored him and it left me reeling. I'm getting over it now - and i feel ready to move on, but my confidence is pretty low. I feel like no ...
A. 7 November 2009: I know how you feel. At 25, I was looking forward to my upcoming wedding, but then my 21 year old fiancee dumped me for a 35 year old in New Jersey (600 miles away) and couldn't even tell me why she left me. I'm single again, lonely, sad, and then ... (read in full...)
Shaving rash - how do I prevent it and is it a turn off?
Q. this is a question for the ladies.. its a simple, common thing but its really annoying! SHAVING RASH. how do i get it smoother down there without the rash? thanks girls :) and guys.. do you care about when hair grows back a bit? i mean its h...
A. 6 November 2009: My ex shaved about once a week. I just got used to stubble and a little bit of a rash of my own from the rough surface, but that never stopped me from spending every moment I could eating her.
Men are pretty understanding. We're just glad to have ... (read in full...)
Cheating GF wants to work on our relationship but won't give up her friendship with her affair partner.... What do I do?
Q. Hey all. My girlfriend of 3.5 yrs cheated on me. We have a beautiful son together. I have forgiven her and done everything I can to try and work out our relationship. The one thing I have asked of her is for her to not have any form of ...
A. 6 November 2009: 500 miles does not make it safe. She already cheated with him once, and there's no guarantee they won't be close enough to cheat again some day.
Trust me as an expert here. Two months ago, my fiancée (who I had been dating for just over three ye... (read in full...)
My girlfriend is not ready to give me oral sex and I don't want to push her. Aside from hand jobs, what else can we do?
Q. So me and my girlfriend have made it to hand jobs. She is not sure about a blowjob and wants to take it another step without going to blowjob. What else can we do?...
A. 5 November 2009: Besides handjobs, there's mutual masturbation (you could finger her as she gives you a HJ, makes it a little more fun) or she could do a little show for you as you masturbate (stripping or even just talking dirty for you) or she and you could even ... (read in full...)
What are the "three bases" people refer to with making out or sex?
Q. ok so i feel really dumb for not already knowing this but what are the 3 bases? i mean i feel that i rally should know but for some reason i dont and i think its just cause when i was younger i just kept telling myself i will know later and now i ...
A. 5 November 2009: These days, the three bases are usually refered to as:
1st: Kissing
2nd: Fondling (touching breasts, butt, etc)
3rd: Oral sex
Home: Full sex (vaginal or anal)
But more traditionally, oral sex was still considered Home, so there's some flexibil... (read in full...)
I'm a Catholic. What are the pros and cons of waiting til my wedding night?
Q. I am a Catholic and I know that as one I should not have sex before marriage but as most, if not all, Catholics do today they do. I just assumed that I would sometime in my late teens. Now I am nearly 16 and I'm beginning to change my mind. I real...
A. 5 November 2009: Pros: You can't get pregnant early if you're abstinent. You can't get STDs if you're not sleeping with people that sleep around. Also, if you're the only person your husband ever slept with, you can be sure he's not thinking about how one ex was ... (read in full...)
How do I tell him it's okay to unhook my bra?
Q. Hi, I'm 15 and so is my boyfriend. We makeout at second base all the time. Everytime he puts his hands under my shirt he tries to unhook my bra, but then he how can I tell him it's ok to unhook my bra and play with my boobs? ...
A. 5 November 2009: What my ex did was to let me fumble with it a minute, then when I either didn't get it quickly or I gave up, she'd reach back with one hand and unhook it for me. She then offered to let me sit behind her and look at what I was doing to try again.
... (read in full...)
Does using a G-spot stimulator mean you're not a virgin?
Q. As said virginity is not having sexual intercoarse...but if you have a g spot stimulator are you still a virgin?...
A. 5 November 2009: If it wasn't another person that was stimulating you, then you're a virgin. You can use any toys you like and still stay one.... (read in full...)
Why do I feel insecure about my size?
Q. I am eighteen years of age, and when I put the ruler next to my penis it shows me that I am 8 inches and a girth of 4.6. The only thing is, although it says i am 8 inches, i just dont feel like i am that big. I heard that if you look at a different ...
A. 4 November 2009: 8 inches is the upper limit of how long a penis can be and still have much use. Anything that even hits 4 inches is long enough to do the job. Be happy you aren't longer, or you'd never be able to go fully into a girl. And at 8 inches, you'd be at ... (read in full...)
Why is porn regarded as such a bad thing in couples?
Q. i just have to ask peoples opinions on this, why is porn such a no-no when it comes to couples? my partner and i enjoy naughty weekends where we explore our kinkier side and watch and make our own porn (to be viewed by only us i stress!!) but i hea...
A. 3 November 2009: Here are problems as I can come up with off the top of my head, though naturally some or all of these might not apply to any particular couple.
1) A man who spends his time staring at thin asians, or DD cup breasts, or even just smooth and firm... (read in full...)
27 and never had a blow job!
Q. I'm really embarrassed about this but I've never had a blow job or been masturbated by a girl before. I'm 27 and cannot get a girlfriend no matter what I try. But all my friends, even girls, have indulged in this. I'm really ashamed by it. I am a ...
A. 2 November 2009: I'm 25 and have had two "sexual" relationships, but neither was willing to suck me or give me a hand job, even though I provided oral to both. I have never had full sex, only just happily serving these two girls without return.
But I have two frie... (read in full...)
Do girls cum after orgasm?
Q. Do girls cum after orgasm?? ...
A. 1 November 2009: If by "cum" you mean shooting out a liquid, then yes some women can "squirt" while having an orgasm, but it's not entirely common. Nothing unusual about it, just the minority.
If by "cum" you mean just having another orgasm, then yes women ca... (read in full...)
One for the guys... what kinds of things can a woman say to you or do to get your attention and keep it?
Q. I've lived around guys all my life; my dad and my two brothers, and I still don't have them figured out. So now I'm asking you, the random internet males, what kinds of things can a woman say to you or do to get your attention and keep it?...
A. 1 November 2009: I'm going to say this because while I am not EVERY man, I have to believe that I am not unique either.
I am oblivious.
Seriously. My last girlfriend had to tell me after we started dating that she had been flirting with me on multiple occasio... (read in full...)
Can you have love without sexual attraction?
Q. Do you thinks it's possible to be in love with someone but not sexually attracted to that person?...
A. 1 November 2009: My ex was in love with me, fanatically and genuinely in love with me for three years without being sexually attracted to me. We got engaged and were half done planning the wedding before she left me, but she only left to be with another man that's ... (read in full...)
I love my boyfriend spanking me... but as a feminist it makes me feel degraded!
Q. I've recently discovered a real turn on for me but the feminist inside me weeps.. I've discovered I really love my boyfriend spanking me. Hard. Just thinking about it makes me want him to do it again. Hes only done it twice but I feel as though I ...
A. 1 November 2009: I'm a man, so you can take or leave my opinion on this as you wish, but I say do what you like. Being a feminist does NOT mean ditching unfair man-favoring rules just to pick up other arbitrary rules that aren't in your best interest. Feminism just ... (read in full...)
Is the odor thing normal?
Q. Hi, this is rather embarrassing. I get sexually aroused VERY easily, it happened the other night! i spoke to a guy whom i really like which made me 'wet' as i am very attracted to him. So a few minutes later i sit down with a few friends, then mo...
A. 31 October 2009: Men are visible when excited, and women sometimes have a faint odor. Trust me, you're a LOT less noticeable when you're aroused that I am.
But yes, the odor is normal, and many guys rather like the scent. So if it happens around a guy you're d... (read in full...)
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