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Everything was great, then suddenly he became distant. What should I do?

Q.   I was talking to this guy and things got pretty hot and heavy for a while. Everything was great, then suddenly he became distant. Said he'll call and take 4 days to call me back. I took it as a hint he wasn't interested so I moved on. Then he calls ...

A.   5 September 2008: Since I'm a girl, I don't understand how a guy's mind works. I have been treated similarly to this before, and it's not fun. Maybe some guys can shed some light on this for us both. I think that he is afraid of his emotions. That's good beca... (read in full...)

Romantic gestures towards women - some brainstorming!

Q.   Hi. For a little project I'm working on, please, would as many women as possible kindly list three gestures which they would deem to be 'romantic' towards them. Many thanks!...

A.   27 August 2008: Star gazing with the guy not gazing at anything but me; a neck rub just to make me feel better; flowers for no reason... (read in full...)

How can I find senior women and make them attracted to me?

Q.   I'm 19 I am attracted almost exclusively to older women. And by older, I mean at least 55 and up. But I'm scared to talk to them cause why would they want to date someone younger? How can I find senior women and make them attracted to me?...

A.   27 August 2008: I think a beauty shope like someone else mentioned is a good place. You may also try the library. Being 40 myself and not looking forward to getting any older, as the offers are few and far between, I would LOVE for a 19 year old to enter my ... (read in full...)

Why does everyone condemn FWB? We are just doing something we both enjoy...

Q.   I have had sex with this guy a couple of times now. It is not very serious, but whenever we have had it has been great. Well he is really a f**k buddy. I have never ever had one before. I know most people think it is wrong to have a f**k buddy bu...

A.   27 August 2008: I don't have an answer to your question, but I just wanted to say that I don't condemn it and more power to you. Have as much fun as you can for as long as you can.... (read in full...)

Please can someone help me get him out of my life?!

Q.   Please please can someone help me. I am married and have been having an affair for 3 years with a man who is in a relationship. Both he and his partner tell me that it is sexless. The physical side of our relationship has always been very very good...

A.   6 August 2008: First off I am so very sorry that you are going through this awful trauma. As you've already pointed out, it's going to be hard since you see so much of him. Although it doesn't seem like it because you do want to see him, one of the best things ... (read in full...)

I have fallen in love with a married man, he calls me five times a day sometimes, I would like to know how do you fall out of love, I need to get out of this impossible situation, please help?

Q.   Well I need some advice. This is a difficult situation. I work for this guy who we have been flirting for over a year now...nothing physical has happened but it seems like we are close to the edge. Oh yes he is married with 2 kids, I know the ...

A.   5 August 2008: It looks like not many people are answering your true question, which is how do you get over this guy and stay away from him. I am in a similar situation, and it is very difficult to stay away from someone you are attracted to. A few things I ... (read in full...)

Who do I choose-my lover or my wife of 31 years?? Advice needed badly!

Q.   hi there. my story is long and complicated. but to give you an idea of what i am going through. here goes. i am married for 31 years with 2 grown up kids. the relationship i have with my wife is good at this time but hasn't always been this way. she ...

A.   24 June 2008: Other than the situation making you depressed, I would say to continue on the same path. My husband and I don't have sex very often anymore, either, and I really miss it. There's a guy that I've met a few times who is also married, and we always ... (read in full...)

Do many people wear contact lenses? Any tips about them?

Q.   heyaa guyss... this isnt anything to do with relationhips, guys, sex, anything else ive given up with boys tbh lol! but i need a bit of advice about contact lenses you see i have an appointment with my optician in a few weeks for contacts, ive be...

A.   3 April 2008: I got contacts when I was 17 and am now 40. I loved them when I got them, and I still love them. I would prefer to be able to see well on my own, of course. My mom wore contacts, so I didn't have a fear of them. If you don't have a problem ... (read in full...)

I feel trapped by holding on to what could have been / might be in my troubled marriage, should I let go of it or give my hubby a fresh start?

Q.   I am 35 and have been married nearly 15 years. I realise now that I married too young as my relationship was immature and I had not had time to develop my own interests and friends. Our marriage didn't start well (sexually) and was often awkward. ...

A.   31 March 2008: You poor, poor dear. I am in a very similar situtation, minus the physical abuse. My husband is very controlling and just plain mean sometimes. I, too, have lost myself and just go around in a dazy haze most of the time. If it is possible for ... (read in full...)

I'm eighteen and my breasts are really small! What can I do?

Q.   i am an 18 year old female, with small breasts, im still wearing a 32 a. It is really embarasing when i c other women or girls even younger than me with bigger breast than i. I really need help will my breasts ever grow? i am even self consious when ...

A.   20 March 2008: I am 40 and the same breast size as you. It has always bothered me and still does. I almost had surgery when I was 23, but chickened out. Now I wish I had done it. I'm not talking about humongous, just maybe to a C cup. The man I'm married to ... (read in full...)

Mid-Life crisis or could having this affair really lead to something?

Q.   Married 25 yrs, no glaring problems, 2 teenagers. My wife would say she loves me..I would say that I like her..love, not so sure about anymore. I have had a female friend for many years-we socialize together. Her (2nd) marriage ended 3 years ag...

A.   19 March 2008: Even though you have known this other woman for several years, it sounds like the compatibility and current excitement are what's turning you on. You sound like a very nice guy, and I feel for you on this one. I am in a similar situation, except ... (read in full...)

Married, and I fancy this other guy, I moved away but cant shake that feeling,help!

Q.   I have a problem...a couple really. Firstly, I am married to this really lovely, steady guy. He loves me, we have kids. We get along well, and he is truly my best friend. We have a lousy sex life, but that's not really anyone's fault - more that ...

A.   12 March 2008: I am in a very similar situation. There is a mutual attraction, though. I think about him all the time, just like you. I can't control it. We used to communicate, mostly via texting, but all of a sudden he has started avoiding me. Of course, ... (read in full...)

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