Boyfriend going to move out because my mom asked for $100.00 a month
Q. I'm 20 years old. I live with my mother and father. I've been with my boyfriend for 2 years, and yesterday my mom asked if he would start giving her 100 dollars every 2 weeks to help pay for food and bills. He automatically said he wouldn't and that ...
A. 31 December 2010: I pay $300 to my OWN parents! That's chump change they're asking for him to live with them. Call his bluff. If he thinks he can live cheaper elsewhere, he's either lying or a fool.... (read in full...)
Betrayed by two people I love
Q. Im 48 and have been with my husband for 23 years..we'v always had a loving relastionship and our sex life is excellent..iv never had any reason not to trust him and love him deeply..after a night out with my best friend of 30 years we went back to ...
A. 30 December 2010: You say talk is cheap and doesn't matter, what matters is action. But the truth is that there WAS no action, right? She touched you, but you don't say that either of them ever had any contact at all. All they did was bring up an idea with you to see ... (read in full...)
Can fake glasses make you need real glasses?
Q. hii ^_^ thought i would ask a silly question, heh.. lots of people wear fake glasses, dont ask why, apparently its fashion... weird.. i know that if you wear real glasses when you dont need them, u end up needing them because u are alteri...
A. 30 December 2010: Unless you're wearing glasses that alter what you see (blurring your vision), then no. Fake glasses just to make you look cool (seriously? glasses are cool now? lucky me then!) aren't any worse than regular sunglasses. Actually, if they block UV, ... (read in full...)
Is it ever possible to stop loving someone?
Q. I'm out at school and everyones completely cool with it , by there is a girl I have liked for like two years now it's heartbreaking seeing her with guys that just continuously screw her over and break her heart, I know I would never do that , but I ...
A. 28 December 2010: It's absolutely possible to stop loving someone, but usually that requires time apart. If you keep seeing her, talking to her, being around her, that keeps your thoughts on her. You may need to be away from her for a while if you can't just force ... (read in full...)
A short girl with a tall guy?
Q. i'm asian.. therefore, generally short. i'm somewhat concious of my height, even though i'm 5'3". i'm not exactly super short like some other girls, and not all that tall. I used to weigh 110 but after track and such, i'm around 115..making me more ...
A. 28 December 2010: If you're uncomfortable, then he might not be the type for you, but I'm 6'2" and dated a 5'1" girl for quite a while. Either I would bend down to kiss or we'd kiss while seated or yes, sometimes I picked her up (and she was 130+ so she was heavier ... (read in full...)
Are chivalry and fidelity things of the past?
Q. After getting my heart broken about a year and a half ago. Am I naïve to still believe in chivalry and fidelity? ...
A. 28 December 2010: It's no so much that chivalry and fidelity are dead as just that many people have a lot of trouble figuring out what they want. Mature people will be stable and immature people will be fickle. This has always been the case and there are still plenty ... (read in full...)
Can't stop looking at porn and masturbating. Is this healthy for a 14-year-old girl?
Q. I'm a 14 year old girl. I recently looked up porn and started to masturbate. I know I'm young but since the first time I can't stop. I feel bad or dirty after. I do but i can't stop... Is this healthy?? Does it mean I'm a sex addict?? Even if...
A. 28 December 2010: It's absolutely normal and healthy. In fact, it is beneficial to get to know your body and learn what works best for you so that later on in life you'll know what you like and how to feel good when you're with a man. Just remember that porn is not ... (read in full...)
Am I giving a good enough blow job?
Q. Could i be giving my bf too much stimulation to the head of his penis? Is that possible? I'll lick it suck on it and stuff alot and twirl my tongue around it. Would that be too much for you guys or would you like it?...
A. 27 December 2010: You need to ask HIM. The only opinion that matters is his and while men are pretty similar, not ever man has the same favorite way to be touched. But if I had to venture a guess, you sound like you're not only willing to give him blowjobs, but ... (read in full...)
I don't want to be cast aside!
Q. I've been dating this guy for six years until on our anniversary I get taken to my favorite restaurant (I picked the place when I clearly said I didn't want to) so the big question pops up! And I say yes because I love him unconditionally. Now he's ...
A. 27 December 2010: Proposing is a big deal. I'm going to agree with Odds here that he's probably taking some time to get situated emotionally. If he's still distant in a month or two, worry. But if he needs a couple weeks to get his bearings and be comfortable with ... (read in full...)
Did I hurt him?
Q. its really a long story but im gonna make it short so i have a crush on a guy 4 almost a year and we re both in college well i started to like him when i knew that he likes me but im just too shy to talk to him so... he tried so many times to ta...
A. 27 December 2010: If he's shy, then he probably reads ENTIRELY TOO MUCH into everything. He likes you and has been trying to talk to you, trying to approach you, but you haven't really reached back enough for him to be sure he's got a chance. Then he sat next to you ... (read in full...)
Are there any guys that don't mind girls who just trim?
Q. Are there any guys that actually don't mind girls just trimming their pubes nowadays? I've stopped getting rid of mine now cos of the itchiness and ingrown hairs, but all my guy friends say they find pubes extremely unattractive. Is this true for ...
A. 27 December 2010: Guys who spent too much time looking at porn are probably used to clean shaven girls. And from my own experiences, the girls I've been with have been clean shaven, so that's just what I'm used to seeing. But generally, a guy is just happy to have ... (read in full...)
If he's single why does his relationship status clearly say "in a relationship"?
Q. I really want my ex boyfriend back and he wants me back too. So, he keeps saying that he's going to ask me back out. But...on his Facebook page, it says that he's in a relationship with this other girl. So I asked him about it and he said that ...
A. 27 December 2010: Hard to say. Facebook is notoriously unreliable for relationships. I have a female friend that is "married" to a female friend of hers just because they thought it was funny. I have another friend who has spent quite a while "in a relationship" just ... (read in full...)
It's a woman's right to change her mind, but what should I do?
Q. My friend (who is a boy), recently asked me out, I said no, because at the time I didn't like him. I now really like him, problem is he asked out another girl two days after asking me. He's still really nice to me, tries to help me and all that, but ...
A. 27 December 2010: It's a woman's right to change her mind, but even if you change your answer, it doesn't negate your past answers. Sometimes, we lose opportunities that we later wish we had taken advantage of.
But I'm a little concerned about the timing here. Yo... (read in full...)
What are the signs of bad character versus good in a man?
Q. I recently got out of an almost 7 year relationship, where my ex fiance cheated, was emotionally abusive, and I felt trapped. I am finally over it and have met a new guy who I have been seeing for about a month. So, far it's going great, but I am ...
A. 27 December 2010: I've always believed the best relationships are based on a couple things (beside the usual "good communication" and "trust" obvious points). This is just my own thought, so take it for what you will:
1. I want to be in relationships where my girlf... (read in full...)
I'm married but I want my mistress back in my life.
Q. My girlfriend/mistress just(september)ended our 4 year relationship because I'm married. I'm 20 years older than my mistress. She has known this all along . We both admit the past 4 years were fabulous in every way for both of us. Danc...
A. 27 December 2010: Sounds like you have a choice to make then. Do you love this girlfriend enough to leave your wife for her, make an honest woman out of her, commit to her and give her the respect and dignity to actually prove your love with more than words? Or do ... (read in full...)
Am I crazy for wanting intimacy NOT leading to sex?
Q. I've been seeing this guy for seven months now and although we live 70 odd miles apart we see each other very frequently. He is 14 years my senior. He is a decent guy, we go out, he helps me with things, he cooks for me (if he's not taking me out). ...
A. 25 December 2010: Wait... so he WILL NOT cuddle you or be tender unless he's going for sex, and he "doesn't take very well" to going without sex? You're not exactly making him sound terribly good.
He helps you out, cooks for you, takes you out, etc. Is he romantic... (read in full...)
My bf gave me a black eye. My Dad wants to meet him
Q. ok so my boyfriend hit me and gave me a black eye and i dont know whether to leave him or not because i'm kind of scared of him. My dad keep asking me to tell him where he lives because he wants to go round there but i dont really want to tell him ...
A. 25 December 2010: Not only are you forgiving your boyfriend for hitting you, you're even protecting him from your own family? What are you going to do next time he hits you? (And believe me, he WILL hit you again if this is how he acts when he's angry.)
Leave... (read in full...)
Why is it wrong for the woman to make a decision about marriage?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been dating about 2.5 years. We have a house together that we bought about a year ago. I have been ready for marriage since about our 2 year mark. I started discussing this with him a couple months ago. I know many people s...
A. 24 December 2010: I dated a girl who talked with me openly and we discussed it evenly. It was never my responsibility. WE talked about OUR future. The only reason the I was the one to officially propose was for tradition sake (though she helped soften up her father ... (read in full...)
Is the invitation really to watch a movie, or is it something else?
Q. I went on a blind date recently. It was great. There was a second date, a couple of days later. At the end of the date he finally kissed me for the first time. The guy seems to be very respectful and gentleman like. For our third date , he invited ...
A. 24 December 2010: Sometimes a guy invites a girl to his place to watch a movie without it meaning sex. He could just want to be a little more casual, le down his guard some and let you see him in his element. If he's being a gentleman so far,trust him some. Just let ... (read in full...)
Sparks and excitement but unreliable guy VS boring but stable and committed guy.
Q. If you had a choice, what would you pick? A relationship where you feel a lot of sparks, there is a lot of physical attraction, and there is a lot of passion and excitement. BUT where the partner is unreliable and has so much baggage that you...
A. 24 December 2010: If you date the sparks/danger guy, it won't last ans one of you will dump the other after a wld, but short, relationship and whatever love you feel now would turn to hate later. If you date the stable/boring guy, you have a very HIGH chance of ... (read in full...)
No girl has shown interest in me since the break up
Q. So broke up with my girl friend about a month ago and no other girl has shown any interest in me at all and I'm starting to think that no other girls in my area have any interest in me and it's really bummin me out. What do? ...
A. 24 December 2010: One month is nothing. Give it time and don't worry too much about some time single.... (read in full...)
Is it bad to masturbate several times a day?
Q. Is it bad to hump (or masturbate) multiple times daily?...
A. 24 December 2010: Nope, not at all. You're young and healhty and just getting to know your body and enjoying being sexual in the only way that will never cause pregnacy or an STD. Enjoy it!... (read in full...)
Why doesn't he get me an engagement ring?
Q. What does an engagement ring symbolise/ mean? My bf and i r engaged bt he don't want to buy a ring, says it's a waste of money coz he'l hav to buy a wedding ring soon. Hw do i keep tellin people i'm engaged when der's no ring infact nothing to ...
A. 24 December 2010: Normally, the engagement ring is the expensive one while the wedding ring is much simpler. It sounds like he's extremely cheap! If he doesn't want to spend the cash for the engagement ring, he's going to be penny pinching everything from here on ... (read in full...)
I feel really bad, I got my boyfriend aroused but went no further. Did I do something wrong?
Q. I'm 13 and don't really know what love is and know that I wont find my true love for a long time. so I don't really want to be involved sexually but at the same time I do. And I'm allowed to. My mom will get birth control pills and everything. ...
A. 24 December 2010: You did NOTHING wrong. When a man gets all riled up and excited then is left hanging, the very worst he will suffer is a little frustration. Jonas is right that sometimes men don't know when to stop and might push you further than you want to go, ... (read in full...)
Is it possible to love someone but not be IN love with them?
Q. Is it possible to love someone but not be IN love with them? As in, like I care for you enough to the point where I love you but I'm not in love with you. I don't know if that made any sense. sorry! haha...
A. 24 December 2010: Absolutely! There are many forms and degrees of love. You can love your sister, or love your pet, or love shopping, or love friends, or love your husband. And you ABSOLUTELY can love someone dearly without being "in love" with them!... (read in full...)
How do I earn his trust back after I kissed his best friend after we had broken up?
Q. ok. me and my boyfriend broke up like 3 weeks ago. but i started liking one of his bestfriends. we kissed in the hallway at school and my ex was mad at me. see the thing is we dated for over a year and we love each other. how do i tell him im sorry ...
A. 23 December 2010: You and he broke up, though. You're not dating! You kissed a guy you like, and your ex is mad at you? I'm sorry, but he doesn't have any right to expect you to remain single forever. If he wanted your lips to be his alone, he'd still be dating you. ... (read in full...)
He beat me, should I stay with him?
Q. im 14 and me and my bf have been dating for about 4 weeks now and i have a problem write ino im young but me and my bf have sex quite alot (this will make sense later) but he asked me if i wanted to come round after school on our last day but i ...
A. 23 December 2010: If a man is angry, his choices are to talk about it, or sulk, or dump his girlfriend. He may NEVER, EVER hit his girl. EVER! PERIOD. I don't know how to stress this enough. NO MAN MAY EVER STRIKE A WOMAN!
He beat you so badly that his family h... (read in full...)
Jealous girlfriend , my fault I hit her ?
Q. My girlfriend is bi polar and jealous. She caught me with porn and got really mad about it she wol't let me have female friend and I don't care about that because I don't want her to have male friends so we made a deal no friends of oppisite sexes. ...
A. 23 December 2010: Whoa whoa whoa. You think it's her fault that you "beat the shit out of her"?! Do you realize that you're not only wrong, but CRIMINALLY wrong?
If she pisses you off, you can disagree, you can argue, and you can even dump her. But under NO circu... (read in full...)
Disappointed my boyfriend bought me t-shirts instead of a promise ring for Christmas!
Q. Its coming up to xmas and for a month my bf of 4 months has been asking me what I want for xmas. He suggested a budget of £50 and I agreed. I hinted I wanted him to get me a promise ring, he soon seemed to forget within a week and would say ahh ...
A. 23 December 2010: It's not Christmas yet. Sounds like he's trying to convince you that he got you something else so you'll be surprised when he DOES get you one. You won't know for sure until after Christmas has come and gone.... (read in full...)
For the last 2 years she hasn't showed me any love or affection
Q. Been with girlfriend 4 years, she is 25. She says she loves me but for last 2 years she wont show me affection, or show her feelings for me, wont hold hands in public, wont kiss,denies we are dating if anyone asks and, makes me feel so bad that I ...
A. 23 December 2010: The lowered affection, lack of sex, kisses being history, etc are all red flags, but what hits me the hardest is that she denies you're dating in public because she doesn't want anyone to know. Officially, you're not dating. OFFICIALLY, you're not ... (read in full...)
Does "love at first sight" really exist?
Q. Is there really such a thing as "love at first sight" or should it be "attraction at first sight" - I think the first has happened to me. ...
A. 22 December 2010: I've always believed in attraction at first sight and actual love coming later, but a friend was proposed to after a first date, and now they've been married 20 years! So while it hasn't happened to me, it seems that it can happen.... (read in full...)
My fantasy for another man turns him off
Q. I am in my 30's and my husband thinks that I am the ice queen. He has told me numerous times that he thinks I need to be bolder in my sexuality. I finally told him that what really turns me on is fantasising about sleeping with another man (spe...
A. 22 December 2010: So basically he feels you're an ice queen and aren't sexually outgoing enough, so you countered by telling him that what gets you hottest is the thought of sex with some other man you know? You can see how that sounds like you'd rather sleep with ... (read in full...)
I just got married but am thinking about her sister!
Q. I just got married to my girlfriend who I have been dating for 10 years. But, I think I am attracted to her sister now. My wife is great, but from time to time I think about being with her siter. I don't know whats wrong with me. Help!...
A. 21 December 2010: Just because you're married doesn't mean your eyesquit working. You will always notice other girls, and your wife's sister is no doubt similar enough that what attracted you to your wife is attracting you to the sister too. But you made a vow to ... (read in full...)
I want that inch back! Does weight affect penis size?
Q. I know this is kinda of weird question. Well like a year ago i had 9 inch penis but i was 6.5 tall and had only 160 pounds. So i started to work out and gain weight well i am 210 punds now and my body is in a pretty good shape ,but my penis seem to ...
A. 21 December 2010: When your grass is longer, your mailbox looks shorter. Extra fat at your hips will hide the base of your penis. That inch is still there,just covered up by flesh.... (read in full...)
One of my breasts is bigger than the other, will this affect my relationships?
Q. dear cupids, This question has been botherin me for a long time now. I have unequal breasts. One is half the size of the other. Will it affect my relationship in any way?? Do men give too much attention only to your outer appearence? Bcoz of this ...
A. 21 December 2010: No woman has totally even breasts. And even if hers are close, she has other things she would like to change. Nobody is perfect and you can be loved just the same! It's fine!... (read in full...)
Do men like lingerie or women naked?
Q. So I got some realllly cute Lingerie at Victoria Secret to wear for my boyfriend the other day and I guess the thought never ran through my head but do guy's really enjoy lingerie or are most men just all for the full blown nakedness?...
A. 21 December 2010: I'm going to agree but for a different reason. If my girl is naked, that can mean she wants me or it could just mean she'd rather have sex than argue about it or cause hurt feelings. But if she takes the expense to buy lingerie and the time and ... (read in full...)
I want true love! Am I asking too much?
Q. I'm hurting bad over an ex betrayal. I loved her so much, and I can't seem to get past it. I want to give all this love I'm holding in my heart to a good woman who deserves it. God I just want to be appreciated and respected. It's killing me to have ...
A. 21 December 2010: I haven't got any advice for you, but I'm in the same boat. After my fiancee left me for another man (and lied about it), and given she wasn't the first girl to cheat on me, and given that my rebound went nowhere, I've taken a break fro dating. It's ... (read in full...)
My Guy Will Be Mad If I Get Him A Christmas Gift.!
Q. what should i get my guy for Christmas when he says he dont want anything from me? hes the type of guy that like to be the provider in the relationship! but hes reining my Christmas spirit because im so use to giving gifts on christmas! should i get ...
A. 21 December 2010: Simple idea then. Rather than buying something for him, DO something for him. Maybe make some pictures of yourself for him, or make a pile of christmas cookies for him, or arrange for an uncommonly perfect evening with him. ... (read in full...)
Is it normal to be in a relationship and not use tongues?
Q. This isn't anything serious - I saw a question yesterday and it got me thinking. I hate snogging (as in kissing with tongues.)I've been with my boyfriend for a while now (just over a year) and when we first started dating that's how we used to kiss ...
A. 20 December 2010: I was engaged to a girl that loved to kiss, but hated tongue. I spent three years with her, deeply and mutually in love, but didn't french kiss. I still knew she loved me and didn't really mind that she was uncomfortable with that.... (read in full...)
Is it healthy/normal for a man to have so many female friends?
Q. Is it weird for a guy to have a lot of friends that are girls, and whose closest friends are girls? Is there ever a time when this is perfectly healthy and NOT a red flag?? The last two guys I've dated have had mostly female friends. At the...
A. 20 December 2010: I'm a 26 year old guy who has many friends of either gender. I spend time with female friends just the same as I do with males. But I never do more than quickly hug the girls (and only while saying goodbye), I never spend the night with them, never ... (read in full...)
Are there clues to find guys who prefer small boobs?
Q. How can I find guys who prefer small boobs over big boobs? I have small boobs, and I'm tired of always finding guys who prefer and like big boobs better, but who "don't mind" small ones. Yeah, I know I'm insecure, but I can't help it, and I always ...
A. 20 December 2010: Well, the large ones are eye catching, but not what I like, personally. I'm a man who likes smaller ones. I've never dated a girl above an A cup. Smaller ones are such a nice handful, are so perky and cute, and won't even sag much later in life! ... (read in full...)
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