Are there clues to find guys who prefer small boobs?
Q. How can I find guys who prefer small boobs over big boobs? I have small boobs, and I'm tired of always finding guys who prefer and like big boobs better, but who "don't mind" small ones. Yeah, I know I'm insecure, but I can't help it, and I always ...
A. 20 December 2010: Well, the large ones are eye catching, but not what I like, personally. I'm a man who likes smaller ones. I've never dated a girl above an A cup. Smaller ones are such a nice handful, are so perky and cute, and won't even sag much later in life! ... (read in full...)
What happened to my period?
Q. Ok. I'm 17 and sexually active with a long term bf. I used to be on the pill but kept on forgetting to take it and messing it up so i decided i should come of it, wait for my next period to come along so my system could sort itself out and then maby ...
A. 20 December 2010: What pill were you taking? My ex used to be on OTC (Ortho Tri-Cyclen Lo) and didn't use it correctly (missing pills) and quit abruptly. It took her several months to even out again, having extremely irregular periods both in duration and frequency. ... (read in full...)
Keeps pictures of his ex on his computer.
Q. why does my boyfriend keep pictures of his ex on his computer and a picture of both of them together as his desktop screensaver? Why does he say that he has a lot of love for her but he loves me.He has been with me for almost a year now. Any advice...
A. 20 December 2010: Some pictures squirreled away are understandable. Annoying, certainly, but many men are just pack rats. I'm sure I still have pictures of my ex's somewhere too. My ex-fiancee's family even still had a framed picture of her with a previous boyfriend ... (read in full...)
Help, I can't be without him
Q. I broke an ultimatum with my boyfriend and he broke up with me. I want to just die! I promised I wouldn't do shots anymore, and that night I did one. But at the time I really didn't think it was a huge deal. I was leaving, and someone bought the ...
A. 20 December 2010: It doesn't sound like this one shot is the problem, it's just the straw that broke the camel's back and is only the latest in a long sting of arguments, am I right? And it sounds like this is more a matter of trust. You broke your word to him. No, ... (read in full...)
Why does she reject me when her mind is clearly saying "yes"?
Q. theres this girl i love that i cant get out of my head. she says she just wants to be friends but her actions dont say so. on the bus to school she plays with my hair and flirts with me. thats not the only reason i love her. shes just so amasing her ...
A. 20 December 2010: Sounds like she's just flirting playfully, but isn't actually interested in a relationship. You want her so badly that you're looking for signs that aren't there and reading more into things than actually exists. She's flirty, but not enamored. Many ... (read in full...)
Should I meet him half way?
Q. I'm new to online dating, but I met a guy, we started talking, and decided to meet in person for coffee. He suggested a place, I agreed to it. I looked up the directions, it's about a 50 minute drive for me and 5 minutes for him lol. It's by his ...
A. 20 December 2010: Negotiating over a place isn't rude at all and going somewhere in the middle would be more fair, certainly, but if he was suggesting places, he'd naturally want to pick somewhere he knows and has been before, which would mean somewhere near him. If ... (read in full...)
Shouldn't sex last??
Q. So me and this guy always have sex well kinda we did like 3 times and when we do it's only for like 30 or 40 min .. And idk if he cummed or not or if he had an orgasim or not .. But shouldn't sex last for like an hour or 2 ??? ...
A. 20 December 2010: I think this is a problem of definitions. "Sex" meaning actual intercourse isn't going to last as long as you're thinking. 10-45 minutes is a fine run. Hell 45 minutes would be a marathon. When people talk about "sex" lasting hours, they mean ALL of ... (read in full...)
Don't all guys like anal?
Q. Don't all guys like anal? My boyfriend of 2 years begged me to try but now won't even come close to that region...i feel embarrassed cause i thought all guys liked anal. help? :( ...
A. 20 December 2010: Heck no all guys don't like anal! Guys are all over the board on sexual preferences! Most men would like to at least try anal once, but that doesn't mean all men would LIKE it (after all, the "front door" was BUILT for sex. The back? not so much.) ... (read in full...)
What do I do when guys whistle at me?
Q. writing this to me sounds stupid but i really need some advice momentarily. So.., im 16 years old and im really shy . This is something that hasnt happened to me only that one time. About a week ago i was visiting friends in Atlanta and we were ...
A. 19 December 2010: You can either smile at him and wink, acting like you know you're hot (whether or not you believe you are) and laugh a little, knowing that he's not going to get anything from you, or you can roll your eyes and huff a little, acting like he's ... (read in full...)
Does the Oedipus complex work both ways?
Q. I know children supposedly are attracted to their opposite sex parent, but can mothers, for instance, be obsessed with their sons? My boyfriend's mom doesn't like me. I can see it every time I walk in the house. Her glance drops and she sizes me...
A. 19 December 2010: The Westermarck Effect usually prevents parents from being romantically or physically attracted to their kids, but parents do tend to be VERY protective of opposite sex childen (thus Daddy's Girls and Momma's Boys). And sometimes. a mother is just a ... (read in full...)
Why text? Can't guys communicate bad news better than that?
Q. I know there is this general perception that guys don't like talking on the phone (or generally in fact), but why do so many of them think texting as the sole method of communication is acceptable? I'd like a relationship with a man who wants to ...
A. 19 December 2010: I absolutely never would break up via text, but I wouldn't break up over the phone either. I'm the sort of person that thinks if a person's been your significant other for months or years, they're worth at least facing when you break up. But I STILL ... (read in full...)
I enjoy watching my boyfriend masturbate!
Q. I really enjoy watching my bf masturbate himself off. Is this weird?? ...
A. 17 December 2010: Nope! I loved watching my ex-gf do the same. Totally normal.... (read in full...)
He's in an open relationship, does this mean he can date me too?
Q. there is this boy i realy like and i told him but he said he has a girlfriend but now on facebook his relationship status says in an open relationship does that mean he could stay with his girlfriend and go out with me?...
A. 16 December 2010: Well, if he truly is in an open relationship and allowed to date other girls while with his girlfriend, then yes he COULD, but don't you want more than that? You say that you really like him. Doesn't that mean you want to DATE him, not just be a ... (read in full...)
Why do guys do this...
Q. this is not a relationship related question...actually they are several questions. 1. why do guys find butts so attractive? 2. why do guys grow their nails long...that's just gross 3. why do guys seem incapable of thinking about anything but sex? ...
A. 16 December 2010: 1. Some men like breasts most, some favor long legs, some are into butts. Women are attractive, head to toe, and everyone has some favorite part of the female body. I actually know some women that find men's butts attractive too!
2. I don't kn... (read in full...)
He got really demanding when I was giving him oral, has he been watching too much porn?
Q. when my bf and i had sex the other day he asked me for a bj and i accepted but he got really demanding. i think he watches too much porn he says he doesn't but i have seen him download it before. What should i do?...
A. 16 December 2010: Surely you've felt something similar. When you're receiving stimulation (manual, oral, or from intercourse) and it's hitting all the right spots, and you're nearing orgasm, all you can think is that you want more, NEED more. Everything's going right ... (read in full...)
While dancing with another woman, my boyfriend got an erection. Is this normal?
Q. My boyfriend needed to attend a formal dinner/dance event. Though I was the partner of choice, I could not get out of work on time to make it to the benefit. Instead, My boyfriend invited a friend to be his partner. Later that night, he told me that ...
A. 16 December 2010: Men cannot control that reaction. It's embarrassing, frustrating, and it totally has a mind of it's own. It's normal to get one when you don't want one, even if you're around a woman you aren't attracted to, even when you aren't around a woman at ... (read in full...)
Friends of the opposite sex when you are in a relationship.....
Q. Hello... My fiancee and I were talking in regards to having friends of the opposite sex. He was close to his classmates back in highschool about 25 years ago. Most of them were females. He also had a next door neighbor family with whom his family w...
A. 16 December 2010: It depends on how he acts. A person is entitled to have friends, even opposite sex friends, and this is true even if he's married. But his wife is still entitled to suspicions. If he has a history of flirting heavily or sleeping around, you're ... (read in full...)
I'm absolutely sure that he likes me, but is just to afraid to ask me out!
Q. Well, there's this guy that I really like, and everyone says that they know he likes me, but he's really shy and I don't think he'll ever get the courage to ask me out. I'm getting pretty sure that he likes me because we text all the time, stay ...
A. 16 December 2010: Why can't you ask him? Even if you don't want to come right out and ask him to be your boyfriend, what's wrong with suggesting getting together to see some movie that you've both been looking forward to, or ask him to go to a party with you, or even ... (read in full...)
Too shy to ask my husband for sex!
Q. I want to have sex with my husband, but I am too shy to ask, what can I do?...
A. 15 December 2010: I understand, really I do, but the less you approach a man for sex, the more often he has to start things because his woman can't or won't, the more he starts to think she doesn't even WANT sex and he's bothering her by starting things. If he's a ... (read in full...)
My gay best male friend wants to get drunk and have sex with me
Q. dear cupid, i've been in love my bestfriend for about 6 months and he has no idea but hes gay so that gives it no chance but these past couple weeks hes been talking about how he wants to have sex with a female and saying all these things he would ...
A. 15 December 2010: It's possible he's not as gay as you think. He could be bisexual, mostly gay but still interested in women to the extent that he'd like to see how he feels about them a little more. You two are already so open about men and sexuality, so comfortable ... (read in full...)
B/f said he thought anal was gross and only did it because I liked it
Q. My boyfriend of 1.5 years and I decided to try anal a few months back. It hurt in the beginning but once I saw through the pain, it became very enjoyable to him. We were talking the other day and he accidentally said that he thinks anal is "kinda ...
A. 15 December 2010: Sex, just like relationships in general, involves a lot of compromise. Maybe he doesn't really like anal as much as vaginal sex, but he knows you like it so he's happy to do this for you. Don't you do anything for him that he enjoys more than you ... (read in full...)
Do teenage boys like Asian girls?
Q. I am a freshman in highschool and have been told that i am very pretty...Keep in mind that I am asian. I was wondering if teenage boys find pretty asian girls attractive and want to maybe even date them. Have you ever liked an asian girl if so ...
A. 15 December 2010: I think more to the point: Teenage boys like GIRLS, without qualification. Asian or Caucasian, tall or short, older or younger, they just like cute girls regardless of any details. (Yes, boys are shameless.)... (read in full...)
We cuddled and kissed after sex. Now he's calling me clingy!
Q. I desperattley need help !!!! Basicly Iv really liked this boy and we only just decided to get together properly a few days ago.... He stayed over the night and I had amazing sex ... I wasnt nurvous I was happy I acully smiled when I woke up t...
A. 14 December 2010: This guy doesn't sound right. Cuddles are not cling, especially first thing in the morning, waking up after having just had sex the night before! That's affectionate, sure. Even cute. But not clingy.
You're a cuddly person and he sounds like the... (read in full...)
Can't get over her bigger ex!
Q. I can't seem to get past the fact that my girlfriend had the best sex with the guy before me, and it was largely because he was more well endowed than me. She used to say all kinds of things, like "there is such a thing as too big" and how ...
A. 14 December 2010: Ok, so you're not the biggest she's had. Maybe you're not even the best she's had (as you are now). Then take this as a chance to branch out and try new ways to excite her. Practice your oral skills. Do more with your hands and fingers. Experiment ... (read in full...)
Is there a double meaning to this conversation? Should I be worried?
Q. Hi, is my new girlfriend a masochist, or is it just sexy talk? The other day we wer talking on social networking and she said that she likes to "play", so i said that could mean a lot of things, so she said”i like to play with fire” so i said, when ...
A. 14 December 2010: I'm not sure if you're familiar with the expression, so please pardon if I'm explaining something you already know, but "playing with fire" is a saying that just means taking risks, living dangerously. It doesn't usually mean actually playing with ... (read in full...)
Does he love that I'm sexy, or does he actually love me?
Q. my boyfriend has told me he loves me a couple of times. but last time he told me he said i love sexy you so so much your my everything does that mean he loves that im sexy or that he loves me?...
A. 14 December 2010: It means that not only does he love you, but thinks you're gorgeous too! ... (read in full...)
Will men find me a whore for initiating anal sex?
Q. I am a bit concerned with the fact i am constantly thinking about anal sex... it turns me on so much... my boyfriend likes it, but he prefers vaginal sex... i was wondering if men will find me a ''whore'' for iniciating the anal sex activity... i ...
A. 13 December 2010: Stereotypically, men want more sex and kinkier sex than women will give them. Usually men will ask for anal and be denied. There are countless videos and guides to help me convince their girlfriends to even try it, even just once. And here you ... (read in full...)
Boys are asking me to change! Should I?
Q. Hello. here's my question. i have so many guy friends and since we are now teenagers we are now talking about teenage stuff. some of my guy friends ask me to change and be a little more girly becuase they think i am too tomboyish. should i change?...
A. 13 December 2010: NOOOOOOOOOOOOO! Don't change! The world needs MORE tomboys, not fewer! Girls in an inch thick layer of makeup, wearing thongs and heavy earrings, walking around in heels and miniskirts are EVERYWHERE! What we NEED are more women that feel ... (read in full...)
Girlfriend chose concert over me!
Q. Alright so there was this concert last night. Now my girlfriend had been looking forward to this concert for a while. It wasn't really a huge show....just a couple low key rappers. One of her friends bailed on her and I told her that I would go to ...
A. 13 December 2010: Supply and demand. There aren't concerts every day, but you're always available. She already had a ticket to the concert and if she missed it, she couldn't just go see on the next day, but you are always around. Besides, you technically bailed on ... (read in full...)
How do I get out of this horrible situation with my husband's depression?
Q. How to get rid of depressed husband? I got married 2 and half years back. After one month in a conversation i told my husband about my all Exs. I felt he will not mind and was bold enough. Then he started asking in detail and at that time i was ...
A. 13 December 2010: Whoa whoa whoa... you had a promiscuous past and your husband is hurt because you hid your past from him until you were married and you can only insult him. When talking to your family, you lied about everything and made him look like a fool, but ... (read in full...)
I never get hit on!
Q. I am a 19 year old woman. I'm five foot four 115 pounds in very good shape. Have green eyes long blonde hair and I'm a model and a nurse. I'm friendly and I smile but men still NEVER approach me. I don't feel like I'm unattractive and I make eye ...
A. 12 December 2010: You are young, attractive, thin, and even make eye contact, but it's entirely possible that men think you're not interested. Many men will simply never approach a girl who's out of their league unless she approaches them first. Maybe you give off an ... (read in full...)
Is there really such a thing as trust?
Q. Is there such a thing as trust? I had some things happen growing up that made me cautious of everyone in life. I wouldn't necessarily say I'm a suspicious person now, but all the same, I never really fully 'trust' someone. And now, i'm wonderi...
A. 12 December 2010: I think maybe I'm naive, but even though most of my girlfriends have cheated on me, I'm still enough of a hopeless romantic that I trust women until they give me a reason not to. I have occasional worries, passing concerns when they talk to other ... (read in full...)
Did I do the right thing?
Q. Brief History: I.. 1) Recently graduated from college with a Bachelor's degree 2) Have my own car 3) Have a decent paying job 4)No kid. My boyfriend 1) Does not have a degree, but DOES have a High school diploma 2) Does NOT have a car 3) Has an OK ...
A. 12 December 2010: I'm going to agree with PinkTopaz. If he finds out you're lying, then however much easier it is NOW, it will mean hell to pay later. I would have told him that YOU'RE not ready to move in yet. If he's too upset that you're not making everything work ... (read in full...)
I don't understand why men need to look at porn when they have the real thing right in front of them.
Q. My boyfriend looks at porn all the time when he is not with me. I know because he has google chrome and it shows the most visited web pages when you go to open a new tab. It's sickening. I don't understand why men need to look at porn when they ...
A. 12 December 2010: Do you ever watch romantic movies and swoon about the male lead as he makes huge romantic gestures for the woman he loves? Are you going to leave your boyfriend for that actor? Do you even WANT to replace your boyfriend with this fantasy character? ... (read in full...)
He doesn't seem as keen as he was at the beginning...
Q. I have been with this guy for about 2 months now and I think I love him, and I know he loves me. In the first month and a half or so he put lots of effort in.. telling me I was beautiful, telling me he loves me etc.. Now he doesn't put as much ...
A. 12 December 2010: This is particularly true at your age, but really is constant at any age: novelty wears off. Even if he marries you, raises children with you, grows old and retires with you and is madly, passionately in love every day of his life, he will STILL ... (read in full...)
Women who have a Facebook account turn me off. Am I alone on this?
Q. Am I the only guy in the world that won't give a girl who has a facebook acct my time of day no matter what? I can't stomach the site. It's foolish, ridiculous, petty and childish sorta like immature teenage mentality. I can understand teenagers ...
A. 12 December 2010: I used to feel much the same about the site (though I wouldn't turn a girl down just because she uses Facebook, or MySpace, or excessive text messaging... I mean, we ALL have something stupid and immature that we do, right?) But really man, FB isn't ... (read in full...)
Finding a virgin to date at my age is a rarity!
Q. At school last week I was in my favorite class wich was history. I thought that it was going to be a regular fun-filled day because usually thats the class that all of my friends are in. In my group of friends there is one boy (besides me} and two ...
A. 12 December 2010: Were you only their friend so you could try to date them later, or were you actually friends. If you were friends, then act like one and keep being friends and just accept them for who they are. Some girls are virgins and will be so their entire ... (read in full...)
How is a girl supposed to act when recieving oral sex?
Q. my boyfriend wants to lick me out and i know this'll sound a bit stupid but where would i look while he's going down on me? And i'm the type of person who'd be embarrassed if it felt good enough to make me moan or something, how could i get over...
A. 12 December 2010: You can close your eyes if that makes you feel more relaxed. Or you can stare him in the eyes, which makes it so much more powerful. Or if your man is anything like me, go ahead and work your fingers into his hair and make it more intimate and ... (read in full...)
Sex with an older guy!
Q. I want to have sex, but it'd be illegal? I'm 16 and I don't know how much longer I can hold out. These hormones can't be tamed for much longer, I can feel it. Except, I don't want to have sex with some young guy my age. I don't find them attractive ...
A. 12 December 2010: The age of consent varies in the USA, sometimes as low as 16, yes. But whenever a minor has sex with a man in his 40's, it's VERY EASY for that man to find himself in jail for a long, long time, even if YOU pursued HIM.
Besides, do you REALLY j... (read in full...)
She's playing hard to get!!!
Q. I'm in the friend-zone with "Veronica", who lives with her sister, "Betty". "Veronica" sets me up on a blind date with "Betty". I call, I drive, I pay, I entertain, I think of things for us to talk about. "Betty" doesn't lift her precious pinky ...
A. 12 December 2010: You're over 40 and the woman you're trying to date is still following the immature high school rules of "hard to get" that boil down to "act like a princess and expect to be served"? Dude, you can do better than that. You want a RELATIONSHIP, not a ... (read in full...)
How do you handle when your partner, who promises you the world and to never leave, breaks their promise?
Q. How do you handle when your boyfriend/girlfriend who promises you the world and to never leave, breaks their promise? Its hard for me to accept that someone who loves you would walk out on you like that. How do you cope? Moving on or staying and ...
A. 11 December 2010: My fiancée, a woman I had loved with all my heart and soul for over three years, who I had been talking about marriage, home, kids, future with that whole time, who showed my such devotion and remarkably strong love for so long, upped and left me ... (read in full...)
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