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I'm a mother of 7...and I'm a full time EMT. That means I give emergency medical care and drive an ambulance. I am an adrenalin junkie and I love helping people. :)
Don't compromise yourself. You are all you've got.--Janis Joplin
Don't listen to those who say, "It's not done that way." Maybe it's not, but maybe you will. Don't listen to those who say, "You're taking too big a chance." Michelangelo would have painted the Sistine floor, and it would surely be rubbed out by today. Most importantly, don't listen when the little voice of fear inside of you rears its ugly head and says, "They're all smarter than you out there. They're more talented, they're taller, blonder, prettier, luckier and have connections…" I firmly believe that if you follow a path that interests you, not to the exclusion of love, sensitivity, and cooperation with others, but with the strength of conviction that you can move others by your own efforts, and do not make success or failure the criteria by which you live, the chances are you'll be a person worthy of your own respect.--Neil Simon |
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Facebook hints please
Q. facebook hints if a married woman's page on facebook ( i got to know the page by chance) didnt show her full name or a particular picture of her and the most important didnt show her martial status meanwhile in the interest she mentioned t...
A. 25 September 2010: Usually the answer is friendship...then maybe men or women. If it only says men or women, I would suspect she is open to more than friendship. Not a definite indicator, but it is suspect.... (read in full...)
I am dating a man 37 yrs older than me
Q. i am dating a guy that is 37 yrs older than me. i love him like i never loved anyone else and he loves me the same way or even more. my question is: Is it okay that i am dating a guy 37 yrs older than me? we have plans on moving in together but idk ...
A. 25 September 2010: The reality is "the rest of your life" he will not be there. If you are 20, he is 57. But when you are 40, he will be 87... I appreciate the fact that you love him, but you two will never be on the same page. He is not "old ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend cries all the time
Q. My girlfriend likes to cry... a lot. When I first met her, she wasn't overly emotional at all, I mean, she still showed emotion, but she never really cried. But when we started going out and became more serious, she just became more and more em...
A. 25 September 2010: Did she start taking birth control pills about the time her emotions went crazy? They can cause the tears. I think she needs to see a doctor. As hard as it would be, you have to talk to her about this. Face to face. It ... (read in full...)
Are you still a virgin if you've been fingered?
Q. Are you still a virgin if you got fingered?...
A. 25 September 2010: yes, technically you are a virgin until a penis penetrates your vagina. ... (read in full...)
What does the expression "you can't have your cake and eat too" mean?
Q. what does the expression "you can't have your cake and eat too" mean? My boyfriend said this too me and I was very confused as to what that expression means So please enlighten me!...
A. 25 September 2010: It simply means you can't have everything you want. Life is a lot of give and take. It's a lot of trade-offs and sacrifices. You can't always have your way, and get what you want. Hope that clears it up for you. :)... (read in full...)
Should I try and help a friend?
Q. I have made a conclusion about a friend of mine, and I see that he has some problems, stemmed from a trauma earlier in his life. 20 years earlier.. I can just see its ruining his life and happiness. Just all the things he talks about past and p...
A. 25 September 2010: There is nothing you can do to fix him...he is trying in his own way to find answers for his problems. Just be there and if he wants to talk, just be willing to listen. Other than that, you will only get your own emotions and feelings so tangled up ... (read in full...)
Why isn't my husband flushing the toilet anymore?
Q. Most of the time I get on really great with my husband who's a great bloke - kind, funny, supportive etc. Just lately though he's started forgetting to flush the loo after he's taken a cr*p. This really bothers me and it's sometimes 2 or 3 times a ...
A. 25 September 2010: Since this is something new for him, I really would be worried. He doesnt seem to recall? Are there other things that he is doing that seem "off" or different than his "normal" self? You need to watch and see if he is forgetting other things.
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I found hidden in the closet sex video with wife and her boyfriends...
Q. Please help! So my wife told me I needed to do more around the house. Help her clean mostly. I had never really done it and I felt I should help...wish I never had. I started cleaning out our bedroom. Under the bed, behind dressers, etc......
A. 24 September 2010: I completely agree with dirtball. In addition there are things that are associative in life. I think that the sexual acts you wish she would enjow with you, carry associative feelings. They take her back to that time and she clearly doesnt want to ... (read in full...)
No sex...no job
Q. Hi, iam a convicted felon that was released from prison december,2008. i jus recently landed a job about 3weeks ago. she gave me sex when i first got out for about a week then she started putin me on pussy probation becuz i didnt have a job. now ...
A. 23 September 2010: She isnt your girlfriend, she's your mother. Save up your money and skedaddle out of there.... (read in full...)
He's suddenly ignoring my texts! What should I do?
Q. hi to everyone here..i had a problem..well,thereis a guy n i m having a trong crush over him.in starting,for 2-3months we jus met at work daily for 4-5mins,he use to talk to me,i thought he was interested in me.then,later,i also got ...
A. 23 September 2010: Stop texting him luv. If he doesnt text you within 5-7 days, its over. You are smothering him. Give him breathing room. If he is interested he will contact you, and if he doesnt, you will know. ... (read in full...)
Reconsidering getting married...
Q. Hey guys! Im about to be married in less than a month but having doubts... I love my fiance and his family with all my heart but there is only one thing holding me back...he's really bad about feeding into the attention other women give him. At the ...
A. 22 September 2010: Marriage is hard when everything is going good. If this is a serious problem, and to me it would be, then I would at least postpone the date.
There will always be times that we are thrown into situations with people of the opposite gender. In e... (read in full...)
Girlfriend's selfish traits are starting to show and it concerns me
Q. Dear cupids, I need a bit of re-assurance with regards to my gf, for a while now she has been bugging me to move out, i feel that i am now ready properly ready, not just forced, but it seems to have shocked her after she got her hopes up a coupl...
A. 7 September 2010: It sounds like a classic case of "whats mine is mine and whats yours is ours.
Its a huge red flag to me.... (read in full...)
Am I pushing too hard?
Q. Ok, here it is. I have my sights set on a legitimately busy man. He is a general contractor working on my brothers home. I asked him out, he said yes, asked me to pick a time and day. The day of, he had to cancel for confirmed business related ...
A. 7 September 2010: Let him make the next move. You have initiated twice, its his turn. If he really wants to see you he will make the time. If he doesnt contact you before the work date, leave it alone. See how it goes in 3 weeks, but I say the next move is up to him. ... (read in full...)
I did everything he wanted, and find out he's seeing another girl
Q. My ex boyfriend sent me a text sayin that he misses me and that he loves me so i went to see him he told me he wanted to get back together so i ended up staying with him for the night and we had sex now i really wish we hadnt because the next ...
A. 7 September 2010: Thats why you should never give them "everything they want." Once you do, there is no reason to keep you around.:(... (read in full...)
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