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If he doesn't want a relationship then why is he jealous?

Q.   I have this guy friend we are exclusive but not together we took a break for a week with non contact but when we came back into contact he says that i was becoming to jealous and didnt trust him thats why he took a break but when i told him that i ...

A.   7 April 2011: No, he told me he didn't want a relationship. I was head over heels for him, but he didn't want that. When we came off the break he was acting all uppity like I was not interesting and he said he does not like me as much as he did, but when I ... (read in full...)

Men what is the right number of times to call?

Q.   Men how often would you like for a woman, or your partner, to call you in a day or a week where you would not get aggravated when you two don't live in the same house. Thanks...

A.   6 April 2011: Thanks to you all and fatherly love and annonymous reader she didnt call wtf you are both a trip lol i glad we all helped eachother on this post thank you all... (read in full...)

Why won't he send me my pictures back?

Q.   My friend broke up with me thursday because he says that i dont trust him and he not answering my calls i asked him to send me my pictures that i sent to his phone of me and my kids he dont want to send my pictures he said that he would so i can ...

A.   30 March 2011: Thanks dirtball. So do you think he stills like me? ... (read in full...)

Why won't he send me my pictures back?

Q.   My friend broke up with me thursday because he says that i dont trust him and he not answering my calls i asked him to send me my pictures that i sent to his phone of me and my kids he dont want to send my pictures he said that he would so i can ...

A.   30 March 2011: Yes cause i was downloading something to my phone and i did not have any memory so i sent them all to his phone then deleted them out my phone after but we ended up getting into an arguement wednesday night and he been ignoring me ever since i ... (read in full...)

Why won't he send me my pictures back?

Q.   My friend broke up with me thursday because he says that i dont trust him and he not answering my calls i asked him to send me my pictures that i sent to his phone of me and my kids he dont want to send my pictures he said that he would so i can ...

A.   30 March 2011: Ok i don't get it the pictures are not in my phone and those pics are important i don't care if he still has a copy i just want to have them in my phone as well we don't have kids together im comnfuse lol... (read in full...)

What does 'lets take a break' mean?

Q.   MEN what is a man really trying to tell us women when he says lets take a break?...

A.   30 March 2011: Thanks very much all great advice i have been getting the same responses from my friends :)... (read in full...)

Suspicious behaviors? Is he cheating?

Q.   My boyfriend of 1year and 2months only takes me sround his mom and dad i have yet to meet his friends and other relatives and when he talks or text his friends he either speak in codes or walk outside and then gets upset if i follow him .one night ...

A.   4 October 2010: I always ask him about it and he tells me i want to know too much.but everytime i talk to someone he grabs the phone! :) thanks for the answers.... (read in full...)

Question about cheating in a marriage..all answers welcome!

Q.   What is the main reason a man would cheat o his wife or girlfriend? Especially married men! :) and What would be the main reason for a woman to cheat on her husband or boyfriend? Especially married woman! :)...

A.   3 October 2010: Thanks,great answers!:)... (read in full...)

Why are women attracted to guys with fancy cars?

Q.   Why are women more attracted to men with fancy cars than men with raggedy cars? Does it really matter and why?...

A.   2 October 2010: I am a smart one good answer's everyone thanks for the opions! :)... (read in full...)

What was your most embarrassing moment while on a date?

Q.   What was the your most embarassing moment wile on a date? :)...

A.   2 October 2010: lol i had laugh everyone enjoyed all your stories.... (read in full...)

Whats wrong?

Q.   my husband n I have been together for 13years married 8 an I feel he don't care for me any more. We don't talk, we have sex maybe 3xs a month, an I caught him looking up a girl on the internet that we work with that he was accused of sleepn with. He ...

A.   30 September 2010: its not u its him and i doubt if the women at work has any relations with him because if she did he would not be stalking her on facebook.she would just send him pics. You need to go out with your friends and keep yourself busy he'll come after you! ... (read in full...)

What would you do if someone you met for the first time smells funny?

Q.   Lets just say you are going to meet someone for the first time (woman/man) and as soon as she/he gets in the car she/he smells like onions better yet bummy.what would be your first reaction? And how would you approach her/him? Lol :)...

A.   30 September 2010: THank you all im on this phone and it won't let me rate your answers dont know why but i like them all :)... (read in full...)

What do men hate?

Q.   What is the main thing that makes a man hate or dislike a woman? Men only please!...

A.   30 September 2010: oh yes and liers and cheaters and bad hygiene thank you all. :) ... (read in full...)

What do men hate?

Q.   What is the main thing that makes a man hate or dislike a woman? Men only please!...

A.   29 September 2010: lol that was great and funny thank u all and no i dont have any male problems.the two things that men dislike are women who talks to much and jealousy. :)... (read in full...)

What do women really hate about men?

Q.   What do women really hate about men? This is a copy of another posters question aimed at men - I liked it so much, I copied it, but in reverse!...

A.   29 September 2010: lol that was my question and i was just about to reverse it also thanks alot :) ... (read in full...)

Svelt fast weight loss pill

Q.   Does anyone knows about a weight loss pill called Svelt fast? :)...

A.   29 September 2010: ok thanks ..the box says that it is organic and 100% natural and does not elimate natural body fluids but that it does eliminate toxins and hydrolytes lipids.... (read in full...)

I don't know if he wants to sort things out or just wants me to shut up?

Q.   hey im stuck and dont understand guys behaviour. I have previously wrote up if any of you remember that my friend was barely speaking to me, he would never make any effort with me to make converstaion but he was fine with everyone else. It got ...

A.   26 September 2010: Dont contact him for three days if he calls then you will know but as of now he has his guard up !:)... (read in full...)

Are they right??? Should we look for someone else?

Q.   I am a guy of 23 years of age in a relationship with a girl of 23 as well but she is 3 days older than me. We both have been pressurized by friends, relatives and people generally that the relationship can't work, they say it will be better if I ...

A.   26 September 2010: i agree,everyone wants to be happy in life and if she makes you happy stay you cant live life on other peoples thoughts only yours maybe they just dont like her but u love her and love over powers everything stay together!:)... (read in full...)

Should we go our seperate ways or will this pass??

Q.   Me and my boyfriend have been together for almost 2 years. About a month ago I broke up with him because I was curious about other guys and just wasnt sure if he was "the one". Well that didnt work out too well and I missed him a lot and came back ...

A.   26 September 2010: ask yourself this question if you would have met someone who reaches your exspectations would you have still wanted to go back to your boyfriend? If the decison is yes then stay but if not you need to move on you cant keep running back to him ... (read in full...)

Help!!! Is it wrong for me to want her to need me?

Q.   Just today my girlfriend received a text message, that told her someone she used to be friends with commited suicide, I want to be there for her, help her through this, but for some reason she won't let me. She wants to do it alone. I feel kind of ...

A.   26 September 2010: no its not at all you are showing her that you care but she probably feels she has to deal with it in her own way.:)... (read in full...)

How can I get our friendship back on track after I told him I didn't really like his sex?

Q.   I told someone that i didnt enjoy his sex now hes ignoring me but he's really sweet and i miss him we were friends before anything..how can i get our friendship back on track? ...please help! :(...

A.   26 September 2010: ok thank you both .i think that will be best. :)... (read in full...)

How can I get our friendship back on track after I told him I didn't really like his sex?

Q.   I told someone that i didnt enjoy his sex now hes ignoring me but he's really sweet and i miss him we were friends before anything..how can i get our friendship back on track? ...please help! :(...

A.   26 September 2010: i have been texting him for a week now and calling i get no reply. :(... (read in full...)

How can I get our friendship back on track after I told him I didn't really like his sex?

Q.   I told someone that i didnt enjoy his sex now hes ignoring me but he's really sweet and i miss him we were friends before anything..how can i get our friendship back on track? ...please help! :(...

A.   26 September 2010: i hope so thanks:)... (read in full...)

How should I ask him to homecoming?

Q.   Okay, so im in Highschool and we have the homecoming dance comming up soon. There is this guy that I like, and want to go with. Should I ask him if hes going and kind of bring up the fact that I want to go with him? ...

A.   25 September 2010: yes,just say whats up im going to home comming do you want to go with me its thats simple stop being shy..lol :) good luck or ask him over the phone.... (read in full...)

I was good to him, so why did he feel the need to do this?

Q.   So I have dated this guy for about a month and hade to break up with him because it was just not going to work out. But he has left me feeling realy bad about myself. See the first weeks I started to get to know him he realy seemed nice and ...

A.   25 September 2010: he probably wanted to get you out of the way to go out with someone else .or maybe hes been having flash backs of his parents and was so angered by them not being here on earth with him he probably was just a bad time. :)... (read in full...)

Are my feelings for my ex unfair to my current boyfriend?

Q.   I have been with my current partner now for 2 years. I love him dearly and couldn't imagine life without him. But I can't help but wonder if (and please don't think this the wrong way) he isn't "The One" that everyone says he should be. The reason b...

A.   13 August 2010: Stop contacting your ex and if you cant you need to spare your boyfriend feelings before it gets any furthur and tell him that you still feel for your past.i say this because my boyfriend and his ex still talk and they wont leave eachother alone she ... (read in full...)

Help! Vaginal smell is too strong!

Q.   Okay, here's my problem. Since I met my current partner sex has always been extremely... smelly. When she gets wet, it often, but not always, is accompanied by a strong sour or bad smell. Often it's not too bad (but still definitely worse...

A.   13 August 2010: use a condom until she decides to get checked out she probably already know what the prom is chlymedia,gohnerria causes orders to be careful.... (read in full...)

He thinks it is unhealthy that we are physically obsessed with each other??

Q.   I'm newly back on the dating scene and am very confused. Met a guy I really like and though it has only been a month it has got intense very quickly. He pushed it more than me and we have seen a lot of each other, spending every weekend together...

A.   13 August 2010: He doesnt want a relationships hes been hurt so hes all about getting back at the enemy(women)sex is all he want from women now its only been a month dont feel down date more than one person and dont sleep with them so soon just browse look sround ... (read in full...)

Please help me validate my anxiety!

Q.   Ok, please help me put my mind at rest, or validate my anxiety! My boyfriend and I are not having sex but we do give each other handjobs. I've heard that it is possible to get pregnant from this if he has cum on his hands etc and I am very neurotic ...

A.   13 August 2010: The pill does that but you should still take a ptest when i was on the pill i missed my period for 3months and i was not pregnant but i do have kids use a condom and stop giving hand jobs after a while the relationship will get boring..ps..goodluck!... (read in full...)

Could my mates be right? Does he have feelings for me?

Q.   Hi, my friends reckon this guy friend of ours likes me but im unsure. I always thought of him through noticing the past that if he likes someone he will always talk to them try to be around them, although hes never actually asked them out or liked ...

A.   13 August 2010: Maybe you are not the same as other girls you probably do make him shy talk to him first ask him what does he have planned for this weekend he see how his reaction is to you he will open up talk to him..ps.good luck!... (read in full...)

My life now revolves around him and the kids. I don't really have one.

Q.   Hi everyone. I have posted on here before and appreciated your replies. I moved in with my partner a year ago almost, we lived a few hours apart. we met on the internet. he was in the army. He has 2 kids from a previous marraige that ended badly. he ...

A.   13 August 2010: hes taking what she did on you she still wants to be in control i say this because you two have the kids most of the time and she just do as she pleases thats not right!tell him its eith he shows you the attention you need or you can move back home ... (read in full...)

Help! He's moving out of state... what do I do???

Q.   So I have this friend who has this brother who I just recently became interested in. he's kind and not bad to look at not to mention smart. He went away to college and moved back home recently. He comes into my work sometime and I love talking to ...

A.   13 August 2010: how long has it been you gave him your number give it another week if he doesnt call ask your friend to tell him to call you when you talk to him let him know how you feel you two are not in a relationship so u cant expect to much but atleast you ... (read in full...)

I've not to tell anyone about the fact we're on a break but I'm hurting too!!!

Q.   I dont understand my girlfriend at the moment, we have been in a strong loving relationship for 18 months. theres always been issues with her ex, and she is going through quite a messy divorce, and several court appearances. we are always there ...

A.   13 August 2010: She not over her ex most likly when people are going threw a divorce they tend to reconnect for the kids or theire financial situation its a head ache you are an adult if you need to talk to someone to deal with the situation then do so see shes not ... (read in full...)

What do I do when she comes back with feelings for another guy?

Q.   My gf went back home for summer. Her cousin was the only one that takes her out. He started holding her hand and hugging her and kissing her on the neck after a hug and on her checks. And she used to kiss him too on hes neck and hes checks. And ...

A.   13 August 2010: Ask him even if he denys it watch his body langusge and hers and if he even laughs or smile while hes answering hes lying dont put your all into this relationship she admitted to having feeling start hanging out with friends.... (read in full...)

What should I do to make her happy and help her get back on track?

Q.   i have been with my girlfriend for almost two years and things seem a little too confusing for me at this moment. when we met she was living with her ex-boyfriend and she claimed it was only because they had bought a house together and her name was ...

A.   13 August 2010: See some stuff i just dont get we women always ask for a good man but when we find one we have walls up shes not over him she just needed someone(you) to talk to and to get away from him shes not a little girl she know what shes doing stop ... (read in full...)

I cant just put my life on hold, do I move on?

Q.   hey my girlfriend and i have been together for 1yr and 4 months and about a month ago now she asked for space it killed me that she wanted it i thought everything was good. within the one month she only spoke to me a couple of times but now she ...

A.   12 August 2010: She met someone new it obvious it was to easy for her to break up with you shes telling you what you want to hear so that she can put u on hold in case her new fling doesnt work out give it another month if she doesnt step up to the plate move try ... (read in full...)

Both guys have good and bad points. Do I pick one of them?

Q.   Me and my boyfriend broke up just over a month ago because we continually argued, he always flirted with other girls and to the point where I had enough and ended it. I think the saying 'You never know what you've got until its gone' hit him. I ...

A.   12 August 2010: Ask your self this question is bob that way to you cause he wants to be or hes jealous of your relationship i? Remember this break up with someone cause you want to not because u met someone new some times you will regret it and want the exes back ... (read in full...)

Sick from finding out ex cheated on me

Q.   I hope someone can offer some advice. After a very difficult off and on summer, my girlfriend of 2 years recently broke up with me completely, telling me she had no feelings for me. She moved on to another guy almost immediately, and that was hard ...

A.   12 August 2010: She has no feelings for you cause her intrest were somewhere else trust me you was not the problem she just love sex ..start dating multiple women dont get serious with them or lead them on just go out from time to time try not to talk about her so ... (read in full...)

How to know if he's the "one"

Q.   I have an important question.. How do you know when you've found the right guy? How do you know that you've found the person you can spend the rest of your life living happily with? I have been with my boyfriend for nearly 8 years now. We'...

A.   12 August 2010: Every woman dreams of getting married but i dont feel you should ask him he didnt ask you because hes not ready or nervous think really hard about that cause marriage can become difficult .what u said about him in the begiining sounds like a great ... (read in full...)

How can I get over the obsession with his past?

Q.   I have been with the same guy for over a year, and we now live together. I am extremely sad and jealous over his previous relationship. He had wanted to marry this girl whom he lived with for over two years, but she rejected him and crushed him. He ...

A.   12 August 2010: Be happy with him he moved on its been 5 years if he wanted her they would have been together but their not he is your man and dont worry about her ..better yet stop talking about her so much that will only keep in you two relatonship ..sit him down ... (read in full...)

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