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writes:I have made a conclusion about a friend of mine, and I see that he has some problems, stemmed from a trauma earlier in his life. 20 years earlier.. I can just see its ruining his life and happiness.Just all the things he talks about past and present, and experiences and up and down depressed times. I've known him for a few years now..I'm not sure if its my place to say to him, or speak to him about it, i don't want to offend him. He may even realise it himself. He has even taken up studying psychology as a hobby outside of work.Is it best to just let him be and figure it out? Or would i be helping if I spoke to him?What do you think?
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reader, DenimandLace44  +, writes (25 September 2010):
 There is nothing you can do to fix him...he is trying in his own way to find answers for his problems. Just be there and if he wants to talk, just be willing to listen. Other than that, you will only get your own emotions and feelings so tangled up trying to help, that you will be a burden to him instead of a help.
If the door ever opens, encourage him to seek professional help.
He is fortunate to have you as a friend.
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reader, Mature Lady +, writes (25 September 2010):
I would continue to be a good friend,and no I would not bring up the subject,your friend seems to be getting on with his life and if he want's to study phycology that is fine believe me it is not an esy subject to study,I would continue to be there for him if he want's to talk about this subject he will just be there to listen.
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