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writes: I really fancy this girl in my class. I know her and we're friends but she has a boyfriend and he's my mate. How do i tell her?
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reader, bonym  +, writes (25 August 2006):
 Dont tell her, she has a boyfriend who is your mate, dont betray your friend like that, please. Your frienship should mean more to you right now. xXx
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reader, Helen1986 +, writes (25 August 2006):
 I think that you should leave it hun. There is a strict rule that you never like your mates boyfriend/girlfriend. Friendship is far more valuable than any relationship! If they break up, don't rush in there and tell her, wait a few months for things to blow over and then tell her. I know it will be difficult for you but you have got to understand your friend is with her and you wouldn't like it if your friend did it to you.
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reader, layla +, writes (25 August 2006):
 well i think if shes going out with your best friend then you are going to have to wait a while to go out with her.
Me and my friends had this problem and we werent talkin to each other for about a month. I say that you shouldnt let any one come between you and your friends. but you should ask your friend first what ever you do. i hope this can help you. good luck xx
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reader, b3x +, writes (25 August 2006):
 Put it this way, if your really willing to lose a mate of yours over a girl....I don't think you should say anything.These things can turn a bit nasty, what if you tell her and she goes and tells your mate? What would you say to him then? Best bit of advice anyone could give you is move on there are plenty of girlies out there, don't risk your friendship for one!
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reader, hugs2muchgal  +, writes (25 August 2006):
 im sorry to tell you this since you probabaly dont want to hear it.
you dont.
if you are really her friend you will respect her feelings for your mate and not say anything, at least until they are broken up. even though then it is still dangerous territory to go after her since ex's of friends are often no-no's.
try to find other things to occupy your mind other than this girl, maybe a new girl perhaps?
good luck and if you do have to tell her please try to not hurt anyone, including yourself.
*hugs*
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reader, MadameRazz +, writes (25 August 2006):
 I wouldnt tell her!
Wait to see if their relationship lasts, if they break up, wait a while then tell both her and your friend how you liked her even when they were going out.
You wouldnt want to break up your friend's relationship would you?
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