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Yearning for her attention

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Question - (23 August 2006) 2 Answers - (Newest, 24 August 2006)
A male , *banks writes:

i really like a girl she is a year older than me we were really good friends then my friends told her i had a crush on her and then they asked her out for me she said no and now when she is alone she acts kind with me but if she is with a friend she is always mean and saying get away how can i make her more attracted to me?

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A male reader, guardian87 United States +, writes (24 August 2006):

guardian87 agony auntThis is exactly what happened with me and my girlfriend...but a year and a half earlier (yes, ive had a crush on my friend for over a year).

Whenever we were alone, we would act like best friends and see what was going on in our lives. But when she was with her friends, we would be at it with playful insults or even her chasing me to hit me.

As for grabbing her attention, try to be with her alone more and once you think you two are a little more connected with each other, ask her about what ur friends told her and tell her that that was how u really felt.

Good Luck!

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A female reader, bonym United Kingdom +, writes (23 August 2006):

bonym agony auntMy friend you cant make someone be more attracted to you, it just doesnt work like that I am afraid if not I would make so many men fall for me just like that. Her behaviour is a bit odd, but you did say that your friend told her you liked her and asked her out for you so perhaps she just thinks your mates are a load of trouble makers. Why dont you tell her how you feel and ask if she wants to be more than friends but if not say to her that you dont want to jeopardise the relationship you do have. I hope that can help you. xXx

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