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writes:I don't how to put this so I'll be frank. I've wanted to try anal really badly for ages. He isn't very enthusiastic but has agreed to try it. What lube should I used etc? And his penis is quite large (10") could this be a problem?
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reader, TasteofIndia  +, writes (15 April 2007):
 KY is great lube... make sure you use quite a bit. TEN INCHES?? My my! Make sure you really eeeaaasseeee into things. That's an awfully big adjustment your body is going to have to make! I'd make sure he never goes to deep! That could do... something... bad... I'm not sure what, but it wouldn't be good.
Good LUCK, sweetheart.
xxIndia
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reader, aphexinfinite +, writes (15 April 2007):
 best lubercant would be ky jelly , cult , glide all differrent types of lubes, for him being large you want to take it slower and more precaution as you do not want to tear youre passage, use plenty of luberacant and take it easy.. hope this helps A xx
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reader, chachacha +, writes (15 April 2007):
I highly recommend that you read this book first: http://www.amazon.co.uk/Ultimate-Guide-Anal-Women-Guides/dp/1573442216/ref=sr_1_1/203-7136226-8614343?ie=UTF8&s=books&qid=1176627667&sr=8-1
People usually don't just have anal intercourse, but work up to it. Now is not the time to worry about his penis size. Start with a finger and so on.
Regarding your specific question: KY is fine, or just order an anal lube from the internet. You need stronger condoms than usual.
However, if he doesn't want to do it, perhaps you might want to think about why you want to do it - sex isn't about getting everything you want, but it's about sharing things that you both want to do.
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