He seems to be hiding something.........
Q. My boyfriend and I have been dating for 4 years now and for about the last year hes been very secretive about his phone. He never used to care if I messed around with his phone but now all of a sudden he does. I have questioned him about it a few ...
A. 30 June 2011: i know its horrible breaking up with someone but just think of the positive side - you have lost someone who you cannot trust and believe and who prevents you from having peace of mind. you are now free and available to meet someone better. oh and ... (read in full...)
When kissing someone can you tell who the bad kisser is?
Q. A few weeks ago, i kissed this guy friend of mine. We were both pretty drunk, but the kiss was sooooooo bad!! I don't know if that was because he's a bad kisser or i was? He was tall so it was harder for me to kiss him but when we were, it was just ...
A. 11 May 2011: it doesn't mean you are a bad kisser, it does not mean he is one either, i think it just means that you just didn't like kissing each other. with some people it just works and with others it doesn't! get more practice at kissing other guys and ... (read in full...)
He seems to be hiding something.........
Q. My boyfriend and I have been dating for 4 years now and for about the last year hes been very secretive about his phone. He never used to care if I messed around with his phone but now all of a sudden he does. I have questioned him about it a few ...
A. 9 May 2011: ok, has he ALWAYS used the vibrate setting or this part of his secretive behaviour? i don't wish to panic you but to be honest, this doesn't look good. think you should tell him his behaviour is looking seriously dodgy and you would like him to ... (read in full...)
What should I do about my friend?
Q. I need some advice, as this issue is really getting me down. I have been friends with a girl for the past two years, am in first year of uni (almost done) and I met this girl in upper sixth at school. I will refer to this girl as "lucy". Even though ...
A. 9 May 2011: maybe she doesn't realise how hurt she is making you feel. have a talk to her. if she is understanding about it that's great but she may just get defensive and say she doesn't understand what the problem is. make sure you spend your time with ... (read in full...)
He seems to be hiding something.........
Q. My boyfriend and I have been dating for 4 years now and for about the last year hes been very secretive about his phone. He never used to care if I messed around with his phone but now all of a sudden he does. I have questioned him about it a few ...
A. 9 May 2011: definitely hiding something. taking the phone into the bathroom is a definite red flag i think, also look out for these: keeping it in his pocket, taking it with him whenever he leaves the room, using a silent ring/text tone, keeping text inbox and ... (read in full...)
Which of these 2 scenarios is worse?
Q. I'm Doing a bit of introspection and have a very strange hypothetical question to ask: Which is worse; A) A guy who's a great provider, not very affectionate or caring, never helps out around the house, spends hardly any time with his kids bu...
A. 9 May 2011: cheaters often get caught out in the end but its a good thing that you have learned from it and its given you the wake up call you needed to fix your self. good luck with the therapy. hopefully you will come out of this at the end as neither A or B ... (read in full...)
He had an emotional affair, but he wont accept he cheated! How can I make him understand?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together 8 months and we get on like a house on fire, I've never felt like this with anyone before, everything just worked. Before christmas he was having a tough time and I supported him best I could not giving him any ...
A. 9 May 2011: this lad is selfish. you were there when he needed you, when you needed him he was too childish to deal with it and help you or at least be there for you. kissing someone who you have previously been intimate with as well as being emotional or ... (read in full...)
Will this horrible sickening anxiety and paranoia ever go away?
Q. I suffer from depression. This past 2 months, I have woken up daily with a terrible sickening gut wrenching feeling. It's awful and it never goes away. I've become increasingly paranoid, over sensitive, clingy and exceedingly untrusting. In my head, ...
A. 9 May 2011: how horrible. the girl you live sounds like a school bully. apart from her, can you try and get back in contact with the people that you called your group of friends? maybe that bitch has elaborated on what you told her, exaggerated it and made you ... (read in full...)
Will this horrible sickening anxiety and paranoia ever go away?
Q. I suffer from depression. This past 2 months, I have woken up daily with a terrible sickening gut wrenching feeling. It's awful and it never goes away. I've become increasingly paranoid, over sensitive, clingy and exceedingly untrusting. In my head, ...
A. 9 May 2011: you say you know it is because of stress. is this stress something you can change? what is the cause of it? i think the first thing you should do is to speak to whoever is involved in your stressful situation (work/family/relationship/other) and ... (read in full...)
Deep down, I'm overwhelmed by anger. I need help.
Q. What would cause someone to have constant feelings of anger? I'm angry all the time, and not sure as to whether I should talk to anyone about it. I worry that my friends would think I'm a horrible person and that my parents would worry about me, ...
A. 8 May 2011: hi
you definitely need help. yes we can all get annoyed when we feel that life isn't fair to us, but your thoughts and feelings seem like a really over the top response.
have you thought about what it might be in your own self, your life, m... (read in full...)
I'm lonely. My husband's a serial cheater. Would he really care if I had an affair?
Q. I have been married to the same man for almost 23 years. I divorced him once because he cheated on me...then we remarried. For the past ten years,he has cheated on me. Last year I found out he was involved in a four year affair. He swore he love me....
A. 8 May 2011: good question: WHY do you stay with him?? coz it sounds like this marriage is completely loveless - from his side at least. are you sticking with him for financial reasons or you are afraid to be alone? (it sounds like you are pretty much alone ... (read in full...)
My husband want to take a break from our rocky marriage by having sex with other women! And he says people do this all the time!!
Q. hey. im 25 years old and married. ive known my husband for 10 years, dating for 5, married for 3. we are going through a rocky patch. my husband has suggested we split for a week or two and have sex with someone else. i am worried though that he ...
A. 8 May 2011: no, people don't do this all the time! if you think you are having a rocky time right now, just wait to see how rocky it can get after he does this thing that he wants to do.
work on the marriage TOGETHER or don't. bringing other women into the... (read in full...)
Is it ok if I change my mind about having a threeway?
Q. OK so early i agreed to do a three way with my bf cuz he wants to but we havent yet but they cant touch each other at all. Than my bf says thats not fair if you do stuff with her if i cant but then i said i cant fall inlove with girls and stuff and ...
A. 7 May 2011: threesomes are very often a bad idea. in your case it will be a terrible idea coz you are already showing that you are jealous and insecure about it in that you are forbidding him from touching her. definitely tell him you have changed your mind ... (read in full...)
Should I contact his ex to see if he was violent towards her too?
Q. Hi. I have been in a very volitile relationship for 2 years. We have been living together. When we fight it gets really bad. The rest of the time we are not abusive, though sometimes we both feel like we have to walk on eggshells. He did things ...
A. 7 May 2011: you need to sort out your issues and he needs to sort out his. i do not see the point of asking his ex to confirm that he was violent with her too, he has already told you what he has done. it is also pointless trying to figure out which one of ... (read in full...)
I don't get turned on when we have sex
Q. I am 18 years old I lost my virginity when i was 16 (big mistake). I am now in a serious relationship, I really like the guy I am with in fact I love him. When we have sex i find that i do not get turned on. My boyfriend gets turned on but i ...
A. 7 May 2011:
couple of things you need to have a think about - you state that losing your virginity at 16 was a big mistake. why do you say that and are you on some level afraid that in the future you will regret sex with your current partner? and do you find... (read in full...)
Why am I so upset by this guy?
Q. A guy I used to be sort of "friends with benefits" with, and who I still like a lot, wants to sleep with me even though he now has a girlfriend. He's been with her for nearly 2 years but he's been coming on to me for about a year and a half. We he ...
A. 7 May 2011: you shouldn't feel obliged to give him any response. stop being nice. he just wants to use you. you might be better avoiding him as it seems that he is able to agitate you. he has got a girlfriend and he sounds like an arrogant prick anyway. if ... (read in full...)
I keep having dreams about dating this guy but in reality I don't like him?
Q. Recently I've been having really strange dreams and I'm not sure what they mean. Over the last two weeks I've had about 3 or 4 similar dreams all about this guy I know. In all if them im on a date with this guy, nothing physical ever happens an it ...
A. 6 May 2011: hi
it doesn't mean anything. in the dreams you do not even do anything physical, its just like what happens in real life, you feel at ease and are able to get on with each other. of course after the first dream you had about him you have puzz... (read in full...)
Why is my friend behaving like this?
Q. Hi, this is not really a relationship problem its more about friends. So i have a feeling one of my closest friends is going to hve a problem with me being friends with other people, we havnt really been good friends that long about 6 month, a...
A. 6 May 2011: hi
tell her you won't accept her behaviour. this toxic friend sounds like she won't be happy until she has isolated you away from all the others. definitely not a good sign. sounds like she's got issues and no respect for you. might be a good... (read in full...)
Why am I so upset by this guy?
Q. A guy I used to be sort of "friends with benefits" with, and who I still like a lot, wants to sleep with me even though he now has a girlfriend. He's been with her for nearly 2 years but he's been coming on to me for about a year and a half. We he ...
A. 6 May 2011: hi
obviously he is a bit bored with the girlfriend or at least with their sex life now so he wants to use you to spice his life up a bit. you weren't girlfriend material last time and you won't be this time. avoid him. he is not worth your time... (read in full...)
I need a solution. I'm having an affair with my sister-in-law and don't know how to stop.
Q. So here it goes. I am a married man and have a beautiful loving and caring wife and six months old son too. She loves me a lot and usually we talk over phone for hours in the night before going to bed (Since from last three months I am out of town). ...
A. 6 May 2011: hi
as this sounds like it is only about sex, just stay away from her and then it won't happen. seems too simplistic? avoid her don't contact her, don't respond to her if she continues to contact you and bit by bit your feelings for each other will... (read in full...)
This guy is complicated! Do I spend the weekend with him and have sex, with no strings attached?
Q. This guy is complicated! Do I spend the weekend with him and have sex with no emotions or strings attached? Here's the short story.... We met a couple months ago, went out a few times, he works out of town and we text everyday. I was...
A. 6 May 2011: hi
listen to your own wisdom, common sense, inner voice, whatever you want to call it rather than what he is saying. if you don't want sex with him or even to see him again don't do it. i agree with the poster who says he is playing the symp... (read in full...)
Is one of your exes better than your current partner?
Q. Ok guys please be truthful. I want brutal honesty! Are your exes better than your current gf? I realise that your exes are exes for a reason but all that aside, in terms of being a person, being attractive, being more fun/sexier/funni...
A. 4 May 2011: hi
you need to sort out your own self confidence i think. what does your boyfriend have to say about all this? does he talk about how amazing she is or is this just an idea you have created?? she cheated on him. there is really nothing she can ... (read in full...)
I still can't figure out why he decided to cheat on me. My friends say dump him, but they don't understand him like I do!
Q. Okay, so I have a BF that had lied to me about being a virgin, I found out that he wasn't a virgin by a friend of mines who knew him longer than I have. I asked him multiple times, yet he denied it.. afterwards we was in a good mood.. and I asked ...
A. 4 May 2011: hi
he has shown you in 2 very big ways already how honest he is. why are you happy to settle for someone like this when there are so many other guys in the world ?
lying about being a virgin when he has been with 2 other girls (that he is ... (read in full...)
Is it wrong of me changing my mind about marrying my girlfriend?
Q. I've been with my girlfriend for 3 years, in this time she's had severe drug problems and has cheated on me three times, I love her. but now she wants a commitment and wants us to get married, I said Yes initially after we got back together but I ...
A. 4 May 2011: hi
she is the one (from what you have told us) that has done all the damage in this relationship, so why is she the one who gets to call the shots now regarding who you can and can't be friends with?
it is quite obvious that she does not wan... (read in full...)
Fiance wants an occasional threesome and I can't handle it!
Q. i need help. my fiance and i just planned to get married. everything goes so well, i mean we went through many obstacles all the way here. but then he mentioned he would want threesome with me and another girl occasionally. i can't handle it. but he ...
A. 4 May 2011: hi
3somes are rarely a good idea. they are NEVER a good idea when one person doesn't want it. the fact that you have told him you are not up for it and he is still trying to persuade you to change your mind speaks absolute volumes about him!... (read in full...)
Do you regret having sex before getting married?
Q. So, my boyfriend and I have been dating for 2 years now and he's 19 and I'm 17 and we've been talking about having sex for a couple of months now and my question is do any of you regret having sex before marriage or just having it at all when you ...
A. 4 May 2011: hi
i personally would not marry anyone before having sex with them! to me it would be like buying a car without test driving it first. that's just me though.
you have been together for 2 years already, is this a proper relationship... (read in full...)
What are natural ways to grow a larger penis?
Q. Ok, this is my question. I am 15 years old and I have a 7 inch penis. Is that normal? Is that small or anything, cause I'm kinda worried it'll stop growing. What are some natural ways to grow a bigger penis? Anything useful will help!!! :) Thanx...
A. 4 May 2011: hi
your size is fine so stop worrying! men carry on growing (and i mean in all ways - height and weight) until they are a few years older than you so maybe penis size might increase too while you are still growing. but even if not, just don'... (read in full...)
Which of these 2 scenarios is worse?
Q. I'm Doing a bit of introspection and have a very strange hypothetical question to ask: Which is worse; A) A guy who's a great provider, not very affectionate or caring, never helps out around the house, spends hardly any time with his kids bu...
A. 4 May 2011: hi
both are bad coz they both make the woman feel unloved. A makes her feel this way over a long time, like a long drawn-out torture but B makes her feel loved but then suddenly subjects her to the cruelty of his infidelity. both men are equa... (read in full...)
If a guy has sex with a girl, does that mean he loves her?
Q. If a guy has sex with a girl does that usually means he loves her? Also If he didn't love her how can guys have sex with a girl without having deep feelings for them? Thank you just curious....
A. 4 May 2011: no he can do it with anyone, and so can women. some men will lie that they love a girl just so that she will agree to sex with them. a girl that believes sex means love is this sort of man's perfect date. don't be fooled. 'i love you' is VERY easy ... (read in full...)
Why does he date me but yet still go to online dating all the time?
Q. Dear All, I need your advice here, as I really can't work this guy out. I met a lovely guy online 6months ago, (he's 45, I'm 41yrs, we are both single, he never been married, me divorced, was married a long time ago)we chatted for about a mont...
A. 11 April 2011: hi
i think that, as he said he wants to take it slow, then 3 days is not a long time for him to wait before calling you again. as you seem to really like him, then yes, wait for that call, don't wait too long though and if you happen to meet some... (read in full...)
B/f wants to have sex without a condom
Q. im 15 and my 15 yr. bf finaly got me 2 give him a b.j after 2 mounths of dating and now after 3 mounths he is trying 2 get me 2 give him my vergenity and he said we should not use a condom cuz it feels better w/out 1 then he said he wnts r 1st time ...
A. 7 April 2011: well, he doesn't sound like a great boyfriend but what you need to do is learn to say NO to things that you don't want to do or that are bad ideas, and that same rule applies to whether you stay with him or get with someone else
xx... (read in full...)
Why is it so hard to get out of a bad relationship and move on?
Q. Have any of you been in a relationship where your SO brought out the worst in you? Turned you into someone who you never thought you could be? Made you feel like you were once something so special, but now you're worthless in their eyes? This is how ...
A. 7 April 2011: what a lovely follow up, i hope you will one day get away from him. i have a feeling that you will
xx... (read in full...)
Crazy dream of being pregnant! What does this mean?
Q. I had this really in-depth dream last night that I was pregnant. Everything felt soo real it was scary and I cant stop thinking about it. A few times throughout the dream I remember putting my hands on my belly and feeling the movement of the baby ...
A. 6 April 2011: hi this does not really mean anything, i do not know ANY woman who has not dreamed this at some point. we are women and as such, thoughts of pregnancy often will cross our mind, whether it is a wishful thought or a dread of pregnancy. it is obvio... (read in full...)
My boyfriends wants to have sex with another girl!!!
Q. My boyfriend, well hes a good guy over all but he has said and done some stupid s***, first of all he does say Im pretty and he loves me and he takes me out but then... he has this friend that he told me with these exact words "I want to f*** her, ...
A. 6 April 2011: hi is this the best man you really think you can get?? even though you know you're beautiful and have a lot going for you? if you think it is bad now, just wait and see what its like a few years down the line when you are older and have had kids... (read in full...)
Am I slutty?
Q. I want to know if I'm a drunk slut i'm 19 and In my sophomore year of college last year I lost my virginity to my boyfriend of 4 months but since we broke up... ive had 2 one night stands (full intercourse) given two blow jobs, and let one othe...
A. 6 April 2011: hi so you are worried about your behaviour then if you are here asking a question like this? it is not about the number of men you have been with or the things you have done with them, it is more about your reasons for doing these things that you... (read in full...)
I want her... but NOT her kids!
Q. hi, im 21 years old and i am having an affair. the woman is 32, married with two kids. over the last 6 months we have been having wild sex in hotel rooms and at my place and going out for meals miles out of town. she keeps telling me that she will ...
A. 5 April 2011: hi your first step should be to make sure you tell her you don't want her kids and then take it from there. i don't agree with what you are doing by the way, just thought i would mention that! but it is unfair to let her think that there is a fut... (read in full...)
How important are looks really?
Q. How important are looks really? I'm not a toad, just saying. I would say I'm average. Everytime I meet someone new, they remark on how pretty I am. So theres this guy. (of course there is) and we met like once, in person. We exchanged num...
A. 5 April 2011: hi your post does not seem like it has been written by someone who is low on confidence! it is good that you can recognise your good qualities and attractiveness, so just keep remembering these things and you will be fine with him xx... (read in full...)
Awkward silences and lulls..are they ok?
Q. dear cupid, soo, i've been talking to this guy for a little over a week now, and we've been getting REALLY well. we've already hung out several times, and every time has been absolutely AWESOME. we text every day as often as we can, and that's ...
A. 5 April 2011: hi don't worry about this, or you will make it feel like a bigger problem. maybe if you texted a bit less, you might have more things to talk about when you get together. its ok to have quiet moments together, just give him a kiss or hug if you d... (read in full...)
My boyfriend said to his friend he is not attracted to me and I have a fat ass!
Q. Found conversations between my bf and a friend of his. He was telling her how he really likes me and that i am one of the nicest people out. But he hates my ass. He thinks it is fat and is not attracted to it. He is horny as fuck but doesnt even ...
A. 5 April 2011: hi dump him before he dumps you, it sounds like its only a matter of time. you deserve to be treated so much better than this. he is horrible! xx... (read in full...)
Can you help me decide which girl is right for me?
Q. I have two girlfriends, "J" and "G" but i want to choose one for marriage. J is a liar but her rest of behaviours are fine with me She is of a class, she is beautiful and hard working. If I marry J, i will battle it up with her to let her settle i...
A. 5 April 2011: hi sounds like neither of them is right for you so why not get someone else instead? you don't have the right feelings for G and J doesn't have the right feelings for you. drop them both and look elsewhere instead of trying to change people t... (read in full...)
Why is it so hard to get out of a bad relationship and move on?
Q. Have any of you been in a relationship where your SO brought out the worst in you? Turned you into someone who you never thought you could be? Made you feel like you were once something so special, but now you're worthless in their eyes? This is how ...
A. 5 April 2011: hi this guy has reduced you to being someone who thinks they cannot get anyone better i think. you know all the bad things he is doing and it is good that you are not making excuses for him. the longer you stick with him the more he will reduce y... (read in full...)
How Can I Make Something Positive Again
Q. In the past year or so I have come out of a period of severe depression and health issues. I moved to a city where I know few people, and due to the nature of my work (odd hours, and working alone) I get few opportunities to meet anyone at all. I'm ...
A. 5 April 2011: hi
well done for coming out of the worst period of your life and getting back into dating. you are similar to me, although nobody knows it! i used to have very little confidence, still have my moments even now! i just 'act' more confident than... (read in full...)
B/f wants to have sex without a condom
Q. im 15 and my 15 yr. bf finaly got me 2 give him a b.j after 2 mounths of dating and now after 3 mounths he is trying 2 get me 2 give him my vergenity and he said we should not use a condom cuz it feels better w/out 1 then he said he wnts r 1st time ...
A. 5 April 2011: hi only do it without a condom if you want to get accidentally pregnant. your boyfriend sounds like an idiot, i'm sorry to say. this is a very dangerous game he wants to play and there is no way a 15 year old boy is experienced enough to do this ... (read in full...)
Why does he date me but yet still go to online dating all the time?
Q. Dear All, I need your advice here, as I really can't work this guy out. I met a lovely guy online 6months ago, (he's 45, I'm 41yrs, we are both single, he never been married, me divorced, was married a long time ago)we chatted for about a mont...
A. 8 March 2011: hi
he obviously hasn't fell for you but is he ever likely to while he has got the rest of sweet shop to pick from? maybe this is the reason he has never been married by the age of 45. what do you know about his dating history, really?
he ... (read in full...)
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