He has two kids by two different women
Q. Do you think it's bad if a man has two kids by two women ?. I have just met this man, and he has a 12 year old son with one woman, and a one year old daughter with another woman. He is single at the moment though. I don't have any children. I'm not ...
A. 3 June 2011: as you have only known him for a week maybe you should get out of the situation before you get more involved, as there are big issues here that will cause problems - maybe you would be more suited to a guy who does not have kids already so you won't ... (read in full...)
Is sleeping around normal for models and actresses?
Q. so i was at a party my friend invited me too (he's in the music industry, i'm not) and there was this girl i liked. it was a lot of people there from the entertainment industry. this girl was smoking hot, around 26 y.o. i was gonna go over and talk ...
A. 3 June 2011: well since you believe that she is slutty you are right to avoid her as i don't think you would trust her and feel secure with her if you two ever did start a relationship together. its nice to hear that you have actually got a standard, lots of ... (read in full...)
He has two kids by two different women
Q. Do you think it's bad if a man has two kids by two women ?. I have just met this man, and he has a 12 year old son with one woman, and a one year old daughter with another woman. He is single at the moment though. I don't have any children. I'm not ...
A. 2 June 2011: it does not necessarily make him a bad person. look at other aspects of his personality too. does he financially support his children? does he see them? is he a good father? is he respectful to them and their mothers? (one day you may end up having ... (read in full...)
Is it virtual love?
Q. I've been talking to a guy that I met on the internet a little over a month ago. He had posted a personal ad where he specified that he was looking for someone to talk to about anything and everything, and so I responded and now we communicate ...
A. 2 June 2011: keep chatting if you enjoy it, just keep your feet on the ground coz you really don't know the real him. it is very easy for a person to play a part and make themselves appear to be everything you want them to be, especially online.
make sure you... (read in full...)
Should I be happy that she thought my messages were nice?
Q. ive liked this girl for a few weeks now and we live about 30 mins away so we speak mostly over facebook. since we have been talking we have been flirting and that and all of the signs have pointed to her liking me and people have told me that it ...
A. 2 June 2011: she must know that you fancy her because of the attention you are giving her and the things you say. now if she was not interested in you in that way she would not be giving you too much attention back and putting xxx at the end of messages coz that ... (read in full...)
I don't see the purpose in being with him and I am not even excited about getting married.
Q. Falling Out of Love...lack of intimacy but he and his family want marriage-what should I do? This is Long but detailed so that I can get the best response. I thank you in advance for reading my post/question. :-) I have been seeing a man ...
A. 2 June 2011: stop letting your families drive this. you have only been with him for a year. i have always thought that 2 years is the minimum time to spend on a relationship before deciding if you want to marry someone or not and that is when the relationship ... (read in full...)
Is sleeping around normal for models and actresses?
Q. so i was at a party my friend invited me too (he's in the music industry, i'm not) and there was this girl i liked. it was a lot of people there from the entertainment industry. this girl was smoking hot, around 26 y.o. i was gonna go over and talk ...
A. 2 June 2011: you don't know what happened between her and the 50year old that she left the party with really. how well does your friend know her? if what he says is true then yes this girl seems shallow and ambitious enough to do whatever it takes to get ahead ... (read in full...)
Girl I am seeing is very moody and never makes an attempt to control her moods!
Q. The girl I am seeing and I got into big fight the other day. She is very moody and when she is in a bad mood she makes no attempt to cover it up. So if she is sad or excited or angry or impatient...she lets it all out! Needless to say it makes ...
A. 31 May 2011: your girlfriend may have some kind of personality disorder or the problem may be caused by PMT (premenstrual tension) do you notice any pattern to her moods on a monthly basis? if so supplements can help - vitamin B,
or do the bad moods come aft... (read in full...)
Only the creepy ones seem attracted to me?
Q. I had my first boyfriend when I was 16. I am 17 now. He turned out to be a creep 'cause he was wayyyy more interested in my body than me as an actual person. I am no longer looking for a relationship, and rarely give anybody any hints that I wan...
A. 30 May 2011: probably the ones attracted to you are not creeps per se, but because you are not desperate for a relationship and you are not over affectionate or interested in them and you are kind of wrapped up in your studies, this all makes you seem all the ... (read in full...)
Wife in Girl's weekend . Do they have to call their husbands?
Q. My wife spent the weekend with her friends, she just called me on Saturday night for one minute saying that your cellphone was working in the area and she was using her regular cell phone.Sunday she didn't call me at all( she could find a to place ...
A. 30 May 2011: no they are not obliged to call their husbands, it is personal choice and if she does not want to call you then you can't MAKE her want to.
seems there is a cultural difference between you and your wife which you should really have discusse... (read in full...)
Can an abusive person change their ways?
Q. I have been with my husband for 7 years and we have 2 young children. He is an abusive person - physically, mentally, emotionally. I must have known this for years but have chosen to ignore it but today, I am accepting that I am an abused wife. I ...
A. 30 May 2011: he has been like this for the 7 years you have known him? he has not bothered to change even though you have now had kids together? google 'safe relationships magazine' download the ebook 'women who love psychopaths' (will cost you about 14 quid ... (read in full...)
Girl I am seeing is very moody and never makes an attempt to control her moods!
Q. The girl I am seeing and I got into big fight the other day. She is very moody and when she is in a bad mood she makes no attempt to cover it up. So if she is sad or excited or angry or impatient...she lets it all out! Needless to say it makes ...
A. 30 May 2011: she needs to take other peoples feelings into consideration and have some empathy. is she similar in age to you? if so i am afraid that it is a bit late in her life to now expect her to grow up. speak to her about it and tell her you will not ... (read in full...)
Any good health tips, anyone?
Q. Hi. I am 14 and this summer my goal is to be fit. It's not so much as losing weight as it is about becoming healthy. I want to have nice skin and a nice, healthy body. I've been doing research about vitamins I can take such as fish oil, vitamin E, ...
A. 30 May 2011: no sorry, tanning is a definite no-no. get a spray tan or fake tan lotion. it is the number one cause of skin ageing, so although you will look nice and brown when you are young your skin will definitely pay the price when you are older - as well as ... (read in full...)
What does it mean when someone says 'I need to work on myself first'??
Q. What does it mean when someone says 'I need to work on myself first'? I can't think of what this means at all and how they do that..........
A. 30 May 2011: whether they genuinely mean this or not, the outcome is the same. they are not available for a relationship with you. i know it is hard and you want them to change their mind but seriously you need to back off from them and get on with your life. ... (read in full...)
Do men find skinny girls sexier than curvy girls?
Q. I want you opinions men and women! I want to know do men find skinny girls sexier than curvy girls? i used to be rake thin and prided my self on that but now im older i have got bigger and im worried men wont fancy me as me! Given a choice what sort ...
A. 30 May 2011: i have been skinny, slim, overweight and back again in my lifetime. the times i get more attention from men is when i am slim, i am always the same person with the same face, but maybe i appear more confident when i am slim and that makes me more ... (read in full...)
Any good health tips, anyone?
Q. Hi. I am 14 and this summer my goal is to be fit. It's not so much as losing weight as it is about becoming healthy. I want to have nice skin and a nice, healthy body. I've been doing research about vitamins I can take such as fish oil, vitamin E, ...
A. 30 May 2011: you can do lots of reasearch on the internet for good ingredients to put into smoothies and good foods to eat. eat raw fruit and veg whereever possible as the cooking process dimininishes some of their vitamins. take a multivitamin capsule every day ... (read in full...)
Should I forgive my mother?
Q. I want some advice, my mother and i have always had a strained relationship, she made me live with my grandparents as a child and then would up and move me every time she found a new boyfreind, then as i got older she would help me get a car etc and ...
A. 30 May 2011: of course we only have your side of the story but from what you say it seems that your mum has never had much respect for you. there is only so much forgiveness available and i think that when someone repeatedly abuses that then you should not be ... (read in full...)
How to break up with the woman I'm cheating with?
Q. I've felt been cheating on my wife for a few days now and I've just realized it is so wrong. I haven't done anything with the other girl yet. I just took her out for movie and coffee like 2 times. The thing is this girl is really into me, I'm scared ...
A. 29 May 2011: do it kindly, honestly and above all else DO IT SOON, the less painful you make this for your fling (can i call her that?) the better coz then she won't feel hurt and bitter and wanting to get revenge on you by telling your wife. whatever you do, be ... (read in full...)
I don't like the engagement ring he gave me
Q. My fiance recently surprised me with an engagement ring. He knew I preferred white gold, but got me a yellow gold one. I do love my ring, but it matches nothing I wear and with me being OCD I'm now having to get all new jewellery and accessories to ...
A. 29 May 2011: it depends on his personality as to whether he gets offended at this or not and you know him better than any of us! you hopefully will be wearing that ring every day for the rest of your life so you want to have one that you love and i am sure your ... (read in full...)
If a guy replies to your texts straight away, the first time you contact him, does that mean he likes you ?
Q. This might seem like a funny question but if a guy replies to your texts straight away, the first time you contact him, does that mean he likes you ?. This guy gave me his number a few days ago, and i got intouch with him, and he replied to my ...
A. 29 May 2011: it sounds good but do not put too much importance on texting and how quickly he replies, look at the bigger picture. some of the worst men I have been out with have also been the best texters. just saying. i hope your new guy is the real deal, but ... (read in full...)
Is it asking too much to want to be loved?
Q. Hi. I think I need some help. I'm a lonely 24 year old guy. I have a few close friends but thats about it. I want someone to love me though. I was with someone 8 years ago, but after that ended i haven't been with anyone. I have fema...
A. 29 May 2011: you are still young, and you have got close friends so be thankful for these things. your female friends obviously see you as just a friend, very often people prefer not to upgrade a good friend to partner coz they don't want to ruin the ... (read in full...)
I am ashamed of my looks so I used photos of a model instead of myself online!
Q. I feel so sad and ashamed! I am very insecure about myself even though some ppl have told me I'm pretty I just don't see it or see mysef like that. Then I did a Horrible thing I'm terribly ashamed of. I pretended to be this other girl online. ...
A. 29 May 2011: lots of people prefer to use an avatar rather than their true self online. has he commented on how pretty he thinks the photo is? and if so did you keep up with the lie? (if you did, THAT looks bad)
let him see a photo of you as soon as possible... (read in full...)
Getting the place I deserve?
Q. my boyfriend and i have very busy lives so we dont have time to see eachother a lot he used to be in an open relationship and he also dosent seem to put me in his priority list or at least not as high as i should be; how can i make him give me the ...
A. 29 May 2011: you can't make anyone do what they don't really want to do. talk to him about what you want, then just be the best girlfriend you can possibly be, if he still does not put more effort in - its time for you to leave. set yourself a time limit coz ... (read in full...)
I have a bad smile. What can I do?
Q. I am a pretty good-looking 20something male, with the exception that I have bad teeth. I don't mean just slightly crooked. They are not rotten, but really bad. They are stained, crooked, ground down, and overall I just feel awful about them. It...
A. 29 May 2011: how about veneers? (they are permanently attached to cover your own teeth) you are not being silly to feel bad about this, a smile is an important thing and is a necessity when interacting with other people - if you feel unwilling to smile this may ... (read in full...)
Now that we've met he doesn't initiate contact like before?
Q. Hi all. I would appreciate some opinions on this matter. Thanks! I met a guy on a dating website. It is the first time I have ever used a site like that. We got to know each other and eventually met. I think it went well, and I really like him....
A. 29 May 2011: ok, before you met in person did he initiate contact more then? when you met how did he behave? was he respectful or did he try to get sex? did he seem interested in conversation with you? it is true i think that if he really liked you he would want ... (read in full...)
Boyfriend always makes me initiate sex!
Q. when me + my boyriend got together we were both virgins . we have been together for 8 months + have been having safe sex for just 1 month. i enjoy having sex with him, but it always seems to be the same. he will innitiate it, + then lie back + e...
A. 29 May 2011: tell him you want him to go on top, tell him you love it when he does that, give him lots of praise etc when he does this for you, that will give him more confidence. he may be a bit unsure of his ability
x... (read in full...)
What do boys like for birthdays?
Q. What exactly do boys like for birthdays? Well, I have this really cool boy friend, as in a friend who is a boy,are there any presents I can get him without him getting the wrong idea. Alright, I once had this friend(whos a boy), I actually gave him ...
A. 29 May 2011: well if he is your friend you must know what he is interested in, if you do not want to give him the wrong idea, make sure you don't spend too much money on his gift, just make it something thoughtful that will make him smile
x... (read in full...)
I tortured him because he loved me. I'm a idiot.
Q. There was this guy that love me so much that it made me kinda hate him so used to do a lot of hateful things to him so he would suffer because I knew he would keep coming back for more no matter what. He finally left me and I can't forgive myself ...
A. 29 May 2011: leave him alone, he has got wise to you and is no longer blinded by love and thinking he can change / help you. i know you are sad now (maybe this is because you cannot have what you want, rather than genuine regret for the way you treated him) so ... (read in full...)
How can I overcome being so very shy with my boyfriend?
Q. my boyfriend loves me going on top,infact he more than loves it, but i get shy sometimes and at times i feel like i'm not doing anything good enough, has anyone got tips on how i can overcome being shy and how i can do anything special whilst on ...
A. 29 May 2011: if he 'more than loves it' you must be doing it right so just carry on, the more experienced you get the more confident you will feel about your abilities and then less worried you will feel about your performance. talk to your boyfriend about what ... (read in full...)
What am I supposed to do? Trust my ex or this creepy guy friend of hers?
Q. Everyone has heard the phrase love is not enough. Me personally I find it hard to believe that if someone says they love you and continue to do what they want that is not love. I recently broke up with my girlfriend. Maybe I was a little over zea...
A. 29 May 2011: she says that love is not enough because her standard of love is NOT enough, she says the same things to you as she does to him, she is yo-yoing between you 2 guys, she cheated on you with him while you dating. maybe she is too insecure / messed up ... (read in full...)
My insecurities leave me feeling so alone inside
Q. I have a question I'm very self conscious and vunreable and I dont know how to snap out of it. A little backround on me I;m 24 yrs old. skinny, many ppl say i should model big breasts, I have a graduate degree, and currently employed. I just got...
A. 29 May 2011: make improvements to yourself in ways that really matter to YOU not to make yourself look better on the outside. be a friend, be a helpful to your family, make it so that other people realise how good you are on the inside, do something for charity ... (read in full...)
My bf breaks up with twice a month--and I am always the one crawling back to him to come back! How should I handle this??
Q. Does my boyfriend not love me or does he just like having control of the relationship? Ok so my boyfriend breaks up with me once a month sometimes twice . His reason are that I don't listen to him over little things that I don't think matter. ...
A. 29 May 2011: well it seems that you are doing your best by him then by he is treating you like it is never good enough. when he breaks up with you and you beg him to come back you are giving him exactly what he wants that makes him feel good about himself (he ... (read in full...)
My bf breaks up with twice a month--and I am always the one crawling back to him to come back! How should I handle this??
Q. Does my boyfriend not love me or does he just like having control of the relationship? Ok so my boyfriend breaks up with me once a month sometimes twice . His reason are that I don't listen to him over little things that I don't think matter. ...
A. 28 May 2011: sorry but you cannot put all the blame just onto him. if you admit that you don't listen to things that he feels are important but that you don't and you admit that you are sometimes bad to him - but you don't want to break up, then maybe it is ... (read in full...)
My colleague offered me a low price for some kitchen items& isn't talking to me now!
Q. Hello! A girl I work with is moving in to a new house with her boyfriend and she sent an email round with a list of things she needed ie microwave, toaster, kettle, furniture etc....as they don't have much money. She said if anyone had these...
A. 28 May 2011: i'm sure this will blow over in time, she tried it on by offering you such a poor amount and you did not cave in, so good for you! yeah she's bitter with you but you have gained more respect than if you would've just given her exactly what she ... (read in full...)
Give me tips on how I will know if she likes me!
Q. there is this girl, i just started talking to. She show signs of liking me, but i am not sure she does. So can u pls give tips that i will use and know she likes me....
A. 27 May 2011: talking online or in person? what are the signs that she is showing you? if she shows you plenty of attention is a good sign that she likes you, if she looks at you a lot, if she says things that are a bit more flirty or sweet than just friendly, ... (read in full...)
Wife is angry because I'm not interested in sex anymore
Q. I don't know what is wrong with me . I totally lost my sexual self. I don't know ,if it is because I'm no longer attracted to my wife,or is this something else. She is very mad at me, because I can't keep an erection,and I rarely ever desire s...
A. 27 May 2011: have you had blood tests? diabetes test, testosterone level blood test or thyroid test? studies have been conducted..
Among HYPOTHYROID men...
Low sex drive, delayed ejaculation and erectile dysfunction was a complaint in 64.3% of men
Prematur... (read in full...)
Should I stop stretching and bending my fingers?
Q. Hi Cupid. This isn't about love but it's a small question. When im in class or just bored I start messing with my hands. I gently yank my fingers and then I bend them one at a time to each side. I was just wondering if this helps in any way to ge...
A. 26 May 2011: i don't think this is necessary to help your flexibility at all. why do you do it? is it when you feel a bit stressed? you should try to stop
x ... (read in full...)
Am I just a thing for him?
Q. hello aunts... me and my boyfriend , though we were never ever in a relation but always behaved so speaking on hours on phone or texting each other or chatting online but after an year i asked him out but he said he was already in a relation and w...
A. 26 May 2011: i know you won't wanna hear this but i think you are just someone who keeps him company between relationships. he 'behaved' like he was your boyfriend but then when you asked him out properly he admitted to being in a Rship already?? and now that's ... (read in full...)
I want a relationship with a celeb but the past won't allow me to be positive and have trust!
Q. I'm seeing this local celebrity. At first he said that he does not want a relationship because he is too busy but he visits when he has time. With my experience in the past I can never keep a relationship going for long,too many guys has taken me ...
A. 26 May 2011: its fine to ask him if he is seeing anyone else. you have a right to know. some tips how to handle him or any relationship - don't sleep with him too soon so that he knows you don't go around having sex with every guy you meet. be fair to him. give ... (read in full...)
I feel I should have someone to love. Are these feelings normal?
Q. I'm always thinking about girls and want a girlfriend. I never had a girlfriend before. I starting to get the feeling that having someone to love is the best thing that I can have. I know school and having money is important to have, but I feel...
A. 26 May 2011: yes i think your feelings are normal, as long as you see a relationship as only PART of your life and you still take an interest in your friends, family, studies, hobbies, work, etc.
don't be so desperate for a relationship that it makes you make... (read in full...)
I need advice for staying in the friend zone.
Q. Dear agony aunts, This year, I've starting hanging out with a new group of people, and they're really fun to be with. We're four girls and a guy. Now my question is about the guy. I've only ever seen with him when the other girls were around...
A. 26 May 2011: does he ask the other girls to see him alone? are you sure he wants more than friendship with you? give him a chance if you like him but if he tries to make you into more than friends, just be honest with him and tell him that you like him but ONLY ... (read in full...)
He's is acting crazy after he went though a breakup! How can I help him?
Q. So I have this friend..I dated him about 2 years ago..he just recently went through a bad bad break up and is being really rude and just crazy.. It's scaring me..I like him a lot..and I wanna help him but he's going crazy..like calling his ex a ...
A. 26 May 2011: well he has to grieve the loss of the relationship but his behaviour could land him in trouble. be a friend to him, plan activities that he will look forward to and give him another focus in his life. how long ago was their break up? speak to his ... (read in full...)
I don't know if we can fix this relationship, she's very stubborn!
Q. hi. Im dating this 1 girl for 5 months now and the first couple of months, she was amazing and loving towards me but i guess after some time she has changed so much, i really dont know what to do. She has been the girl of my dreams. When ev...
A. 26 May 2011: it does sound like she has no respect for you and is keeping you on a piece of string, nasty to you when you call, arguments, then always sorry and reels you back in. it you carry on tolerating this behaviour she will never respect you, coz she ... (read in full...)
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