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writes:I am 18 years old I lost my virginity when i was 16 (big mistake). I am now in a serious relationship, I really like the guy I am with in fact I love him. When we have sex i find that i do not get turned on. My boyfriend gets turned on but i don't. I feel like there is something wrong with me because i like getting close to him but I just don't get pleasure from it.
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reader, belize +, writes (8 May 2011):
 Take your time Its not a race! your are not experience enough to exactly what turns you on. It will come, trust me...
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reader, person12345  +, writes (8 May 2011):
 Most women can't orgasm from intercourse, and if sex isn't somehow stimulation your clitoris, it could be downright boring feeling. We unfortunately don't have many nerve endings in our vaginas (fortunate for giving birth, not go great for sex).First off, you need to make sure you have PLENTY of foreplay. You might even want to get yourself close to orgasm before even trying intercourse. I feel like foreplay is a bit of weird phrase for it, since for most (around 75%) women "foreplay" is the main event. Try using fingers during sex, his and yours, to make sure you're properly stimulated. Try switching positions, such as you on top, so you can control the speed and such and there's plenty of room for you to use your fingers.
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reader, angelDlite +, writes (7 May 2011):
couple of things you need to have a think about - you state that losing your virginity at 16 was a big mistake. why do you say that and are you on some level afraid that in the future you will regret sex with your current partner? and do you find your partner attractive or do you love him just for his personality etc but not physically?
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