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He says he cares about me but keeps doing strange things.

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7 November 2008 (F age 36-40 - i have been talking to this guys for about a year, we do not have an official title because he is scared of commitment, but whenever i decide to talk or just hang out with someone else he does not necessarily confront me, but then he act strange with me for a while. i decided ... (148 words

He said when he ws single he'd date me... now he's single and staying that way!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5639 days ago

7 November 2008 (F age 26-29 - I really like this guy but he had a girlfriend and they broke up. well when they were together he said that if they ever broke up he would date me . they broke up and now he says he dosent think of me like that he just wants to be friends but i want to be more than friends.what ... (63 words

Stuck in a sticky situation

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7 November 2008 (F age 30-35 - Ok, well of course there is a guy i like, whose girlfriend is leaving him. Now he doesn't want to say it but he'll be crushed. And he's been flirting with me ever sense he heard she was leaving. And i REEEEEALLY like him. But my best friend has known i've liked him since the ... (111 words

How does anal feel to a man?

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7 November 2008 (M age 30-35 - Me and my girlfriend are so in love. Lately she has wanted to try new things. She wants to DO Me with a strap on. How does anal feel to a man? ... (32 words

Ex boyfriend has turned up again but I'm with someone else!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5639 days ago

7 November 2008 (F age 51-59 - My ex boyfriend with whom I was with for eight months, decided one day he would leave me without telling me and go back to his ex-wife. Since he left me I have met a really nice guy, the problem now is that my ex boyfriend has come back into the area and wants to crawl back in ... (165 words

Sex... or no sex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5622 days ago

7 November 2008 (F age 36-40 - My girlfriend is trying to get me to have sex with her she said she is already frustrated with me and because we're together we should be doing that. What should I do? I already told her I wanted to take things slow and not rush into thing but it seems like it's pushing her ... (58 words

Why does he not want me anymore?

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7 November 2008 (F age 36-40 - I know this is stupid. I want to know how can I talk to my boyfriend after we got into a fight. I felt that we were serious enough to let him have my cell phone until we got our house phone back on. everything went fine that day-- and we even talked when we got home. (I spent ... (203 words

She's going to a new school so we won't be able to see each other as much...

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7 November 2008 (M age 26-29 - My girlfriend and I have been going out for at least a year now and she is going to a new school. We can still see each other but not as much, we can really only go to the rec. Center in Fircrest. I Still like her and she still likes me that I know of so I hope she still likes ... (138 words

Is my friend considered a slut?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5444 days ago

7 November 2008 (F age 30-35 - My friend just turned 18, had a party and made out with 3 people that night. Yes she was a little drunk but she was fully aware of what she was doing. She's still a virgin but isn't that slutty?... (40 words

Why would she want to see me 3 days in a row having only just seen me again in 8 years??

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7 November 2008 (M age 36-40 - Hey guys I have a small question... well more that I need your opinion on something really. Back when I was in school 8 years ago me and this girl had a bit of a thing together, it wasn't that we went out but we flirted a lot and I found out that she did like me but we ... (426 words

Whatever happened to tradition or old fashioned dating?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3484 days ago

7 November 2008 (F age 30-35 - I can't help but realize that everyone around me seems to have a significant other. I can't help but realize that I want a relationship more than I should... the more I want it the more it seems impossible. Why is it all the women nowadays have to do all the work? Whatever ... (170 words

I'm still waiting on him to text me...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5640 days ago

7 November 2008 (F age 36-40 - Hi, I was supposed to meet up with this guy last week but it didn't happen as it was supposed to. I did see him but there was a friend present and we didn't actually go to where we had planned. I saw him again at the beginning of this week and he asked me out again saying let... (183 words

Do you think there's a chance for me and this muslim girl?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5640 days ago

7 November 2008 (F age 30-35 - Helppppp I really fancy this girl in my office. She's muslim and I'm not, I'm 16 and she's 20. She is so hot and her personality is amazing. She doesn't know I'm bi and I daren't tell her in case she thinks it's disgusting or sumthing. She asks me odd questions like i... (98 words

I know he's stringing me along but I'm in love with him...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5640 days ago

7 November 2008 (F age 51-59 - How do I get over him?? I am in love with a man who I know is just stringing me along! - We are not together as he already has a girlfriend - but he rings me from time to time(usually when he needs something - obviously to keep me keen)and I always melt when I hear from him!... (139 words

My first true love after 5 years wants me back... but what to do, I'm soooo confused.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5640 days ago

7 November 2008 (F age 36-40 - Ok im 21 i've wrote to this a couple of times for a couple different reasons you might reconize my name.....anyways i have a new delima..the first girl i was ever with in high school when i was 15 the one i experimented on...i haven't spoke to in 5 years give or take well she ... (454 words

On our amazing 3rd date he introduced me to his friends... then he backed off.

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7 November 2008 (F age 41-50 - I met this guy and we had 2 amazing dates full of chemistry and things in common. Something I haven't experienced ever before. For the 3rd date we met at a bar where 3 of his friends were. I think maybe it was a test to see what they would think. I was a bit tipsy (didn't ... (177 words

I really don't like begging him any more!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5640 days ago

7 November 2008 (F age 30-35 - I'm 19 and I've been with my boyfriend who's 17 for slightly over 3 months. I kissed and made out with him while I was still with my ex about 5 months ago. When we first made out, I was tipsy and told him that I wasn't a virgin (I did it a few times with the same ex, and got ... (1175 words

I don't understand my boyfriend, please I need help

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5640 days ago

7 November 2008 (F age 41-50 - hello I have a dilemma, my boyfriend is a very good guy, but very introverted and very close person. We have been together for almost 9 months. When we are together everything is perfect, he does everything to please me, he normally prefer to go to the places I want just to see ... (511 words

Can a person 20 or 30 years older fancy someone who is 16-20 years old?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5637 days ago

7 November 2008 (F age 30-35 - Hey guys, I have one question for you. Do you think it's possible that somebody who is much older than you (20 or 30 years) fancys a girl who is 16-20 years old? Especially if that somebody is in position of power (like for example boss, teacher, older family friend, mentor)?... (113 words

He thought I was ignoring him and called me ignorant... but I wasn't!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5564 days ago

7 November 2008 (F - I left laptop on all night and this morning and I didn't change status or put brb on my pm or anything.. and at half 3 a boy who I like lets call him tom spoke and said hi... and I didn't get back till 10 past 4 cos of english after school thing and as soon as I was typing to ... (349 words

My boyfriend is addicted to World Of War Craft

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5568 days ago

7 November 2008 (F age 30-35 - I have a problem It all started when my boyfriend's friend died. After he died my boyfriend has been trying to hack his world of war craft account to sell it because he owed him money (harsh I know) but whatever, he hasn't succeeded (almost though) so after a few m... (239 words

Am I right to want to spend more time with her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5640 days ago

7 November 2008 (M age 41-50 - I have been engaged for one month now and my fiancee is already becoming distant. Her sex drive is very low and we seem to fight about it often. She has been diagnosed with vulvar vestibulitus wich makes sex very painful but everthing else has stopped too, we don't kiss and if ... (205 words

Is it possible he's hiding something from me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5640 days ago

7 November 2008 (F age 41-50 - I am with a man that is 17 years older. We've been together four a 4 years and I still have not met his kids. His kids are grown now and they have a brother and sister that they have not met yet. He don't even talk to his kids as far as I know. He stays to his self he don't ... (91 words

Does withdrawal, along with the pill, improve my odds of not getting pregnant compared to the pill on it's own?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5640 days ago

7 November 2008 (F age 30-35 - Odd birth control question here. Does withdrawal, along with the pill, improve my odds of not getting pregnant compared to the pill on it's own? I went on the pill so we wouldn't have to use condoms anymore, which I absolutely hate. The problem is, I'm paranoid about him ... (88 words

My girlfriend doesn't know I used to be gay. I want to tell her but honestly have no idea of how.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5639 days ago

7 November 2008 (M age 36-40 - Me and my girlfriend have been together for the best part of two years. We love each other to bits and we're going skiing in Canada over Christmas, just the two of us. But the thing is that before i met her i used to be openly gay. Not camp or nothing like that, i acted normal ... (216 words

How old is TOO old?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5637 days ago

7 November 2008 (F age 30-35 - Hey, I have just turned 17 and the guy is 32 and has a gf. background I have started to fancy this guy that drinks in the pub that I work at. It all started when we were talking one night and he asked for my number, I gave it to him thinking that we were mates (I have kn... (216 words

My boyfriend just told me that he was gay before he knew me...

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7 November 2008 (F age 30-35 - Hii there. My boyfriend and I have been together for about 3 and a half years. We love each other to pieces. But the other day he sat me down and said that he wanted to get something off his chest. He told me that before he knew me he was openly gay. Not camp or anything, but ... (119 words

I agreed just to be friends like he wanted... now he's not talking to me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5640 days ago

7 November 2008 (F age 41-50 - I used to have my boy friend for a few months. We got along well but he limited our relationship and finally after 3 months being being togther, he asked me politely to stop being a bf and girl friend. I can guess some logical cultural reasons but not sure of the exact reason. ... (430 words

My girlfreind of 2 yrs doesn't like have sex anymore. I ask her why and she replies" because I'm tired of it !

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7 November 2008 (M age 41-50 - my girlfreind of 2 yrs doesn't like have sex anymore. I ask her why and she replies" because im tired of it and its not my first priority". Ive asked her if she was cheating on me she always tell me no that she loves me but just doesn't want to have sex. To me its like she like ... (236 words

Is it always wise to come clean about an affair?

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7 November 2008 (F age 41-50 - Is it always wise to come clean about an affair? I've been married for 10 years. The affair happened 3 years ago and lasted for several months. At the time, my husband wasn't giving me much love or attention. The sex was amazing and I found it very difficult to let the affair ... (211 words

Why would I wear a ring from a boy who promised me forever then left for college and lost feelings?

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7 November 2008 (F age 30-35 - my boyfriend and i started dating our sophomore year in high school. everything was going great. our senior year, we experienced more problems as we both were leaving to attend different colleges come this fall. we were aware it was going to be a challenge, what long distance ... (388 words

Wife works Part-time...Full time problem...Help

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5638 days ago

7 November 2008 (M age 41-50 - Wife works Part-time...Full time problem My wife only works ~25 hours a week and I work 10 hour days all week. Whenever we get into an argument I can't help but bring this up. I pay for basically everything including Health Insurance, Food and Rent, car insurance, gas for... (216 words

He has told me that I am boring twice, I'm confused!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5640 days ago

7 November 2008 (F age 41-50 - how should one react if a guy tells you that you are boring? should one stop seeing the guy? this guy acts like he is into me but has said this to me twice. Confused... (41 words

He's scared of having sex with me because he loves me but is used to treat women like objects!

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7 November 2008 (F age 41-50 - Hi there my name is Jane and I have a boyfriend called Tom. I've been with him 7 months, just moved in with him but before was always in his house and him mine. He's my best friend and he makes me laugh my head off most of the time. But.. Tom's first girlfriend 6 yea... (340 words

I'm 14 and feel I am ready for sex. Advice ?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5628 days ago

7 November 2008 (F age 30-35 - Hello, I am a 14 year old girl. You need to know that because my question is about being ready for sex. Its a long question even though it answers will probably be short. Well, I have been with my boyfriend for just over nine months. We are really close and spend nearly e... (322 words

Is she testing me? I receive mixed signals.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5629 days ago

7 November 2008 (M age 41-50 - Hi Everyone, I have been dating this girl (# 1) (28 years old) for 8 months. Months ago she basically said only friend status. Days later from that she went on vacation and I met another women. I dated her (lets call her # 2) for a couple months and she moved away. #1 knew al... (324 words

I'm in love with my mother's first cousin - and her pantyhose. Will I ever stop loving her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5637 days ago

7 November 2008 (M age 41-50 - I am 28 years old currently living in Greece.As of now I'm in a wonderful relationship with this girl that is the same age of me and we are planning on getting married.....but to get to the point I'm also in love with my mother's first cousin(making her technically my a... (877 words

Should I tolerate his abusive behaviour?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5639 days ago

7 November 2008 (F age 41-50 - I have been with my boyfriend for 5 months and we live together. For the first few months, everything was so perfect, and we still have a very close, intimate relationship, which is everything I have ever wanted. Very early on, my boyfriend told me that he loved me. I love him ... (268 words

He loves someone else so why did he say he lost a good thing referring to me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5640 days ago

7 November 2008 (F age 36-40 - When he said to me the other day ive lost 2 goods things 1 including you do you think he ment it? he said it after are split and part of me thinks he ment it after he realised how good i was to him, He also said to me go on and look georgous like you always do? This has bee... (110 words

My mate still thinks there is something there between my ex and I. What do you think?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5503 days ago

7 November 2008 (F age 41-50 - Hi all at cupid, I'm mega confused at the moment, My ex broke up with me to get back with his ex gf the mother of his child, but he keeps talking to me on the phone, when I see him he flirts with me like we are still in a relationship, one of my girl mates said to me the other ... (205 words

How can I get my abusive ex out of my head?

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7 November 2008 (M age 41-50 - I'm a 26 year old male and I came out of a violent relationship just over two years ago. I was with my ex for a little under three years. She would drink bottles of wine every day and get violent towards me. I lost count of the times that she punched me and made me bleed. She ... (645 words

Who can get me the right solution and enable me to get confidence and and happiness

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7 November 2008 (M age 41-50 - The main reason I am using this site is to get out of the trouble I am in and have a happy life with my wife. As I have explained in my question I have very short and thin penis - 4inches long when erect and stay very short on bed-less than a minute. Who can get me the right... (85 words

What's going on I feel like he's playing with my head.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5640 days ago

7 November 2008 (F age 36-40 - Last nite i went to the pub with my mate, my recently ex bf was there, he says we will never get back but everyone tells me different yesterday, when he came over he would poke me in the ribs jokingley like he used to, gave me a kind of massage on my neck for a few seconds, my ... (181 words

He confessed he had sex with a prostitute while on a business trip!

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7 November 2008 (F age 41-50 - We have been married for last 6 years and I would like to say happily until last week when my husband confessed that he had sex with a prostitute recently on an official trip. I have sort of forgiven him and have been trying to come to terms with it. He says he is guilty and ... (192 words

A love affair, a fairytale that ended badly.

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5628 days ago

7 November 2008 (M age 41-50 - ok, this is a long story so thanks in advance for reading. about a year ago i bumped into an old friend who i hadn't seen in years, through common friends. Soon after we all started hanging out and at some point she admitted having problems with her long term bf (6 years), ... (945 words

Trying to understand if he's bi.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5563 days ago

7 November 2008 (M age 51-59 - Hello all, I have a friend , whos been married and been in relationships with other women. being gay myself i think i have a hard time knowing exactly how a str8 acts with another guy friend. as i probably see into things that a str8 wouldn`t. We`ve been friends for many mo... (409 words

Why does my fiance hide things from me?

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7 November 2008 (F age 41-50 - Why is he hiding things from me? My fiancee and I are getting married in two weeks and I don't think I trust him anymore. We have been dating for three years and during that time, I have caught him intentionally hiding stuff from me. (sometimes small stuff, but still why does ... (363 words

I like a girl 4 years younger than myself. How to gain trust.

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7 November 2008 (M age 30-35 - I am an 18 Year old dude, I like this girl who is 14. ***Before I go any further I know that it is LEGAL for me to date a girl of any age and if I engage in Sexual Activities with a minor I can go to Jail for statutory rape.*** Are age gap is about 3 1/2 years. I like thi... (267 words

Never had an orgasm, is there something wrong?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5640 days ago

7 November 2008 (F age 36-40 - I'm 21 going on 22 and I've never had an orgasm. I was sexually abused when I was young, but I do feel that I'm "over it". I enjoy sex, i just can't seem to have one. And I think it's starting to get in the way of my relationship. Is there something wrong with me? I really do ... (68 words

He was still involved with his ex when he started dating me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5641 days ago

7 November 2008 (F age 30-35 - hi there..iv been involved with my boyfriend for over 3 months.ever since we started dating,i was confronted with rumours that he's also still involved with his supposingly ex(of 3 years). recently,his ex girlfriend called me and asked what's going on between me and him - i to... (113 words

Should I stay and possibly make him lose custody or should I walk out?

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7 November 2008 (F age 30-35 - so its a long story and this may be a long question but here it goes.... i got married to a man who is 33 years old. im 17 mind you. and our marriage is great. we get along very well and are very in love so please dont comment on the age gap and how it may affect our relat... (1086 words

I love him... But who and what does he want....????

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5620 days ago

7 November 2008 (F age 41-50 - Ok...So where do I start... I ended things with my ex, about a year and a half ago, he wasn't happy, but he left me no choice, it broke my heart and I never wanted to do it, but I had to. He asked me not to, tried to stop it etc, but it happened. After that,we decided to ... (804 words

We never bicker but we always flirt! And he's straight?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5639 days ago

7 November 2008 (M age 26-29 - What's up everyone!!!! its me lotmoney13!!!!! well lately my feelings for the str8 guy have been getting stronger!!!!!we've been talking and we've gotten to know eachother really well. we hang-out, we talk, we laugh, we have fun. the story is that today, we were having fu... (259 words

I'm really worried! What exactly is making my erection disappear?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5640 days ago

7 November 2008 (M age 30-35 - ok, im 17 and i have a girlfriend who is 16 and we've been together for a year now, we've had lots of foreplay but whenever we've tried to have sex, whenever i've tried to put on a condom on, my erection disappears. i've definately been putting the condom on correctly, ive ... (111 words

Did his sister spill my secret?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5641 days ago

7 November 2008 (F age 26-29 - ok i have this guy friend and we have been friends 4 three years. one night i get a text from his sister asking if i would ever go out with him and i trusted her not to tell him. i dont know if she did so i missed school that day but when i got back to school everybody told me ... (137 words

How can I let him know where I stand without scaring him off?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5640 days ago

7 November 2008 (F age 36-40 - Please advise me on what to do - I met this guy a couple of weeks ago who told me that he really liked me. I completely believed him and like him too so one night while drunk I slept with him way quicker than I normally would. Since then this has happened a couple more time... (300 words

I know that my cheating husband is in love with his secretary...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4019 days ago

7 November 2008 (? age - My husband of 37 years started having and affair with his 37 year old secretary a year or more ago. I had no idea. I thought we were comfortable in our marriage and could trust him. Wrong. he started acting wierd, going in to work really early, staying late, not coming home ... (607 words

How can I make my man juice taste better?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5613 days ago

7 November 2008 (M age 30-35 - My gf loves it when I *** on her boobs but lately she has wanted Me to lick it off of her. I tried it and it was nasty. How can I make my *** taste better?... (37 words

Do I go after girls my own age or girls the same age as I look?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5624 days ago

7 November 2008 (M age 41-50 - I'm 24 years old but I look like I'm 15. Never had a serious relationship. My question is, who am I supposed to be targeting as a potential partner here? Girls my own age aren't interested because I look like a kid. Girls who are my age but who look young aren't interested... (164 words

How can I hide my inconvenient erection during school?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5638 days ago

7 November 2008 (M age 30-35 - I usually get hard during school and I wear boxers so it's kinda just out there and the girls don't mind, but what do I do to not let it show in front of the teachers or boys? It's quite embarrassing hugging a girl and she says what is that. ... (52 words

Do you think he wants to be friends so we have a chance at getting back together ?

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7 November 2008 (F age 36-40 - My ex recently dumped me after an off and on relationship of 3 years. We had been arguing about small things and it was making us both unhappy, but I didn't want him to end things. Anyway, he dumped me about a month ago, and after the breakup he wanted to remain friends. I ... (418 words

How can I repair my beyond broken family?

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7 November 2008 (F age 26-29 - hi everyone. My family is falling apart. My grandparents that are alive don't talk to each other (they divorced), my mom and aunt don't like each other, my eldest brother lives in Pennsylvania (we live in Maryland), my dad and other aunt don't talk to each other, most of my ... (99 words

I asked her out a week ago and she hasn't answered yet!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5503 days ago

7 November 2008 (M age 30-35 - I broke up with my g/f 2 years ago and we both moved on. But recently I have started to want her again and whenever I hang out with her she acts like she likes me too. The only problem is that when I asked her out a week ago she didn't answer and hasn't answered yet. Anyone ... (68 words

I really want to be with her, but I don't know what else to say or do!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5639 days ago

7 November 2008 (M age 36-40 - Hey everyone, Well, I've been in a very confusing relationship for a year and half now. Basically, I'm in love with a girl that's in love with someone else. This other person lives in a country country and they only see each other for once every couple of years but have o... (345 words

Why do I want to have sex with someone more experienced than him?

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7 November 2008 (F age 30-35 - I have been with my boy friend for almost 2 years, we both never had sex and when we do all the other stuff he just doesn't turn me on anymore and the only thing that can help me get turned on is think about doing it with other guys. Is that normal? and Y do i always wanna do ... (67 words

He's on a one year trip around the world and I worry he's forgetting me.

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7 November 2008 (F - Hi, Am feeling very sad. I got together with a guy had known from my group of friends in May. Suddenly just realised we really liked each other. Got together and it really has been the most amazing relationship I have ever had and he said too it has been a great relationsh... (391 words

How do you know you are ready to take your relationship to the next step?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5621 days ago

7 November 2008 (F age 30-35 - How do you know you are ready to take your relationship to the next step?... (15 words

I just can't decide whether or not to have kids.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5625 days ago

7 November 2008 (F age 41-50 - I am flip-flopping about kids and I am already 33. My husband is 40. He has a wonderful 18-year-old son from a previous marriage, but I have no natural children of my own. He is not unopposed to have another child but is nervous about being an older father. And I don't want to ... (236 words

He seems to just want companionship and not a sexual relationship at all!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5604 days ago

7 November 2008 (M age 41-50 - Am I being unfair or do I have unrealistic expecations? My boyfriend and I have been together for a year now- we are both in our late 20's (we're gay). You would think two guys in their 20's would be going at it all the time- wrong! We're both in shape and have good bodies... (363 words

How can I test my boyfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5641 days ago

7 November 2008 (F age 30-35 - Hey guys just want some help... I dont really trust my boyfriend and I just want some reassuarnce that he isn't cheating... I want to see what he is like when I'm not around and when he is with other girls... I know this is slightly an extreme way but I just need 2 see for ... (98 words

Do you think I deserve an answer from him?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5638 days ago

7 November 2008 (F age 30-35 - My boyfriend of a year broke up with me. He said I did nothing wrong, but that we just needed time apart. I didn't get to talk to him for a week. Then he called me and said that he could never stop loving me. He always told me that I was the best thing to happen to him since ... (144 words

Anal Sex without lube

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 5100 days ago

7 November 2008 (F age 30-35 - Hi. My boyfriend really wants to have anal sex without lube. I'm fine with this (I'm aware that it will hurt badly, and I'm ok with that), but we need to know if it is possible without seriously damaging me. I've never had anal sex before, let alone without lubrication, but I'd ... (58 words

I just don't know the right thing to do to make her feel secure.

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7 November 2008 (M age 36-40 - I am new here and I really need some advice. My gf and I had a break up a while back where I acted very mean and hurt her so badly. I kind of went crazy. She was in terrible pain and I refused to talk to her and just blew her off for over a week. I felt depressed and like I ... (294 words

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