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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

 

My friend...

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21 November 2008 (F age 36-40 - Ok... This is a long one, so I have had this friend since spring and we were best friends until like the past two months since school started. I am a sophmore and last year i met her as freshman in the spring we were best friends...just to clarify...ok so my friend is self ... (404 words

I've never been abroad before and I'm terrified to go for lots of reasons!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5616 days ago

21 November 2008 (F age 30-35 - This isnt relationship troubles, BUT i really dont know what to do! Its bothering me so much, i cant think of anything else, its constantly on my mind! and ive still got like 7 months to wait before it even happens! me and my friend became very close for like a year! we were ... (499 words

Would a married man say he loves his family and still flirt or sweet talk to a girl?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5623 days ago

21 November 2008 (F age 41-50 - There's this guy who I met a year back in a meeting. He was all sweet and flirty with me, I almost fall for him until I saw he was married. So, I took it cool. Turned out we had to communicate via email for the same meeting business, until we became friends. He has always me... (223 words

I'm not myself at all since me and my boyfriend split up.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5623 days ago

21 November 2008 (F age 30-35 - Hey guys, I have a major problem.. Ever since me and my boyfriend of a couple months broke up [about 2 months ago] i havent been myself at all.. I still love him very much but right after we broke up, he got together with this slut. We used to be best friends and now he said ... (213 words

Went too far?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5623 days ago

21 November 2008 (F age 36-40 - I started seeing a guy that is friends with my ex boyfriend. But the other issue is he dates my ex's sister. They all know about us. It's been going on for 8 months now. What do I do? Initially I wanted revenge with my Ex. I want to break it off but I love him now.... (57 words

Need help choosing between two women

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5623 days ago

21 November 2008 (M age 30-35 - There are these two girls I met recently that I like at the moment and I'd like your opinions on what I should do. The first girl is a kind hearted girl next door kind of girl that your mom would LOVE you to date, but has been cheated on in all her relationships so... (219 words

One lass, two lads and a friend.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5623 days ago

21 November 2008 (F age 30-35 - Well, I am a 14 year old girl, and emm I was going with this lad he was really sweet and kind but then his friends started saying I was going behind his back seeing another lad, but I wasn't and he sacked me for it and I was so depressed but I got over it very qickly, I got ... (172 words

True Love still true after 30 years?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5623 days ago

21 November 2008 (F age 51-59 - I'm 43, I've lived in the USA for 20 years. I moved from Germany, I've only been back once in all those years. My sister signed me up on this web site where you can find old friends and family. Well, I've found my first true love, after all these years! Now we've been ... (145 words

He's cooled down towards me since I've been pregnant. Is he going off me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5621 days ago

21 November 2008 (F age 30-35 - Hi, I'm 19 and I have been with my boyfriend for 7 months, at first everything was amazing he told me how pretty and amazing I was but a couple of weeks ago I found out I was pregnant. We was both happy with this and decied to keep it but ever since he hasn't been the same, he ... (100 words

Did he like her more or was she an object like other girls in his past?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5623 days ago

21 November 2008 (F age 30-35 - I need an opinion on this shady guy. A guy I was seeing at one point seems to really like attention from girls. We had spread apart by the summer but by then he started off liking one girl at work who he texted constantly, wrote love letters to, hung around her and went to ... (261 words

Vegetarianism anyone?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5622 days ago

21 November 2008 (F age 30-35 - I need help becoming a lacto-ovo vegetarian... any suggestions/tips? I'm a really picky eater as well... don't like spices, or herbs =P.... I want to really cut all meat from my diet, except for fish occasionally, but how do I do this without damaging my body?... (46 words

How can I nudge him to want to get out of his parent's house?

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21 November 2008 (F age 30-35 - I started dating a friend of mine about 6 months ago, and he has mentioned moving in with me. Now that we are getting even closer he stopped mentioning it and avoids the topic of us getting a place together. A dear friend of ours is pregnant and wants us all to get a house ... (99 words

Men have turned me into a Superbitch!! How can I stop being like this?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5621 days ago

21 November 2008 (F - Ever since the boy I was in love with finished with me for someone else I have turned into some nasty, evil girl who's out to hurt other people at no expense.This has been going on for a few months and today Ive only JUST realised what Ive been doing. I sent his new gf nasty ... (217 words

Lads, if you had a baby with someone else, would you want to be apart of the baby's life?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5622 days ago

21 November 2008 (F age 36-40 - Lads, if a girl you had a short term relationship with, had your baby, but you were with someone else, would you be a man and step up to the plate and actually want to know your child? ... (40 words

Why is he so huggy to my friends all the time?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5623 days ago

21 November 2008 (F age 30-35 - I have a boyfirnd and he has a lot of friends that are girls. When I am standing talking to him and one of them comes up he stops listening and talking to me to give them a hug. But if I come up when he is talking to one of them I have to wait. He has a lot of inside jokes and ... (84 words

He wants me to talk to my mum and dad before we have sex.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5623 days ago

21 November 2008 (F age 30-35 - This guy I am with now, who I have been with for like 2 years has asked me if I am ready for sex. I said yes and he told me to talk to my mum and dad about it first because he don't want to be on the bad side of my parents. He is really close to my family. He buys my mum and ... (107 words

What to do if you're stuck in a relationship?

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21 November 2008 (F age 30-35 - So I'm 17 years old and recently moved in with a guy who is 20. When I moved in with him I also ended up dropping out of school. Prior to doing that I was a really good student with a 4.0 GPA. I only knew this guy for about 2 weeks before I moved in with him. I've been living ... (175 words

He has been a cheater all his life, do you think he will ever change and finally become a faithful loving husband?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5621 days ago

21 November 2008 (F age 41-50 - I have a friend who has been a cheater for most of his life. He played a game with two women for about 6 years. The one women he had for about 8 years (she was married), after 2 years he picked up another women, he could keep them separate due to the fact one was married. ... (294 words

My husband had a child with another woman, is there any hope for us?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5621 days ago

21 November 2008 (F age 51-59 - I have recently caught my husband having an affair, we have been married 14 years and have 3 children. I told my husband I still love him and want him to stay, he said he would stay only to be with our children who he loves more than anything and said he does not love me and ... (198 words

Help me reprogram my wife!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3972 days ago

21 November 2008 (M - My patience is wearing thin, so I figured I’d ask the readers here for some advice. First, let me start out with some facts: I’m 32 and married. My wife is 26 and pretty awesome. I have few complaints about her. She’s warm, kind, and genuinely loves me. But, I wouldn’t be he... (1164 words

I ended it with the guy I'm seeing because he has a gf. Now he won't leave me alone, what shall I do??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5623 days ago

21 November 2008 (F age 41-50 - i've been seeing a guy who has a gf for about 4months now and i just don't feel too good about it. i decided to break it off with him (this is my 2nd attempt only difference i tried to be more forceful) by telling him that i really care about him as a person but my concious ... (385 words

I was insecure and pushed him away! Now I feel devastated, how can I explain to him I'm sorry?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5623 days ago

21 November 2008 (? age 30-35 - Me ex boyfriend broke up with me a week ago. I was insecure during the last few months of our relationship. I accused him of being with this other female a bunch. (which in fact he never was). The most recent time I accused him he blew up on me completely, and told me it was ... (209 words

Is there still a chance for us?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5623 days ago

21 November 2008 (F age 26-29 - is their anychance of me getting back together with my boyfriend???... he said he loves me and doesnt want to hurt me so he broke up with me because he 'thinks' he loves someone else but that someone else already has a boyfriend and isnt going to break up with him... (105 words

Is this just friendship or are we dating?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5623 days ago

21 November 2008 (F age 41-50 - Ok, so I just broke up with my boyfriend about two weeks ago. I'm going out with this new guy..a male friend of mine who I've kept in touch with for months. He knows a lil about my ex. We're going out to watch a game this weekend..is this considered our first date or ju... (174 words

I went away to university and with the distance I start feeling confused about my feelings for my boyfriend since 5 years, what should I do?

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21 November 2008 (F age 30-35 - Dear Reader, I have been with my boyfriend for nearly five years now. But im 19 and just started university and things have suddenly taken a turn for the worse. I feel like I live a seperate life here and I really like the indepedence and freedom (he is 23 so is still back hom... (131 words

The lad I like broke up with his gf! What's a reasonable amount of time to wait to make a move on him? And how do I do it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5623 days ago

21 November 2008 (F age 30-35 - Well i started talking to a lad bonfire night, and we really hit it off, and we spoke alot via text and computer, full well knowing he had a girlfriend buh we just spoke as friends ! Then he asked me too go to his football, so i went watched him but i didnt catch him to talk to ... (108 words

Lmfao at my girlfriend who's upset because I don't want to talk to her 24/7

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5623 days ago

21 November 2008 (M age 30-35 - haha well this is pretty funny but i need help lolz ok my gf of 6 months calls me like every hour evry day 24/7 even when im in school i receive calls andi text her saying i cant answer im in class so shes like ok and next hour she calls again lmfao! and today i was applying... (240 words

Pregnant and considering an abortion - but I need to ask him about it first and don't know how!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5612 days ago

21 November 2008 (F age 41-50 - I have a daughter and her father passed away a few years ago so I have been raising her on my own. I just found out I'm 5 weeks pregnant with a guy I have been seeing for a few months. I am so confused on what to do. Part of me feels I need to tell him and let us make the ... (158 words

Do I attract women on the rebound because I am seen as the nice guy?

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21 November 2008 (M age 36-40 - Do I attract women who are on the rebound because I am seen as the nice guy and they don't think they'll get hurt with me? Would this explain why I only have short-term relationships? I invest a lot in such a short time and it really hurts when after only a couple of months ... (169 words

Is it ok to wear 2 bras?

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21 November 2008 (F age 30-35 - Heyy Everyone I'm 15 years old and I kinda have small boobs... I want them to be bigger but I don't wanna get plastic surgery or anything when I get older cuz I just don't want to but I wear two bras so they look more round and fuller... is that bad to do? ... (62 words

Are some guys REALLY afraid of commitment?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5623 days ago

21 November 2008 (F age 30-35 - There is this guy who Im seeing. We're not official yet because he says he will feel pressured in the relationship and he just got out a 3 year serious relationship. I know for sure that I wont sleep with him until I have a commitment but I feel like maybe I should give him ... (125 words

Does she want to be only friends?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5622 days ago

21 November 2008 (M age 41-50 - So I have been hanging out with this girl for the better part of five months. Originally we were just friends but over the last month or so we became much more frequent in our meetings and conversations. Let me clarify that I am 29 and the girl in question is 22 so she is quite ... (224 words

Just been dumped - how can I get him back?

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21 November 2008 (F age 30-35 - My boyfriend just dumped me about an hour ago. Wed been together nearly a month, he told me he loved me, got me to meet his mum, and his friends. We were fine 4 days ago, weve never argued, ever. Were both 17. He sent me this message: ok, this is unfair, i need to get this... (195 words

Could he love me but still have feelings for her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5623 days ago

21 November 2008 (F age 30-35 - My boyfriend of two years said he loved me and how much I meant to him, yet he had been seeing his ex on a regularly basis behind my back and when probed, admitted that he still had feelings for her, though no line in terms of physical intimacy had been crossed. I blew up and ... (120 words

Can anyone help me figure out my ovulation?

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21 November 2008 (F age 41-50 - ok i am trying to have a baby and i not sure what day i go by on the ovulation calender i stated a little bit of spotted on novemeber 5th but stated a heavey period on the nov 6th what day i should put on the calender when i am fertile casue it said the first day you started ... (65 words

An anyone tell me what it means when a guy has "blue balls"?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5623 days ago

21 November 2008 (F age 30-35 - Dear Cupid - I'm in this wonderful relationship with my boyfriend (I'm a virgin, he's not, but it's not a problem for either of us). Although we're not having sex yet we often do things like dry humping, fingering me etc. And I just heard about this 'blue balls' thing!? ... (94 words

How do you tell your partner about physical qualities that bother you and are sometimes a big turn-off?

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21 November 2008 (F age 51-59 - How do you tell your partner about physical qualities that bother you and are sometimes a big turn-off? I have a very good friend, that is single for at least the last 12 years. He is 50, in excellent shape, very handsome man, takes really good care of himself. Won't e... (321 words

I'm 20 but look much younger and it's causing me problems....

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21 November 2008 (F age 30-35 - Hi everyone I'm 20 years old but look so much younger and I really hate it. I always get ID'd and once I wasn't allowed into an 18+ gig because the bouncer didn't believe me! I wondered if anyone had any tips to help me look older? The only thing I can think of is heels, a... (71 words

Do I have any chance of rekindling my relationship?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5618 days ago

21 November 2008 (M age 41-50 - Do I have any chance of rekindling my relationship? My ex girlfriend of 10 years found another girl's earrings at my place. She had moved out two weeks prior after I told her I needed a temporary break. She came over to do some laundry and found the earrings. When question... (110 words

She's thinking about cheating on him with me

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5621 days ago

21 November 2008 (M age 36-40 - She thinks about cheating on her boyfriend with me. We haven't done anything, yet. But the more we hang out, the higher the chances of something happening. I want to have an exclusive relationship with her. What do I do? ... (42 words

I bought eye concealer instead of foundation, can I still use it as a foundation?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5623 days ago

21 November 2008 (F age 41-50 - Hi all, This is a beauty question. I have just spent a fortune on a max factor concealer and went home and put some on my face only to realise it's eye concealer!!! Does it matter if I use it on my face i.e chin, jaw line area as I'm unable to take it back? Thanks x... (67 words

What does her reaction mean? Was I out of order?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5623 days ago

21 November 2008 (M - Hi, I've known this girl for a bit now and we hit it off as good friends straight away. We both really enjoyed each others company and often spent most of our nights out dancing, drinking and enjoying ourselves. She has a long term boyfriend but I've always felt strongly fo... (349 words

How can I ever trust him again that he would lie to me about his divorce?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5623 days ago

21 November 2008 (F age 41-50 - I met my husband Dec 2007. He told me that he had been previously married and had been divorced 4 years. We were married July 2008. Before us getting married I felt that he was hiding something from me and had asked him if he was numerous times and he denied each time. I ... (125 words

We have feelings for each other...

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21 November 2008 (M age 30-35 - So I've had feelings for this girl for quite a while. Recently, she's told me that she has strong feelings for me as well, but doesn't know what they are. After she told how she felt, I told her the way I felt about her. I talked a couple of times afterward, but now she says... (82 words

I think I've screwed up our sex life!!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5622 days ago

21 November 2008 (M age 36-40 - Me and my girlfriend's sex life has gotten strange lately. We used to have sex like twice a day for the past few weeks and then accidentally while we were having sexing my finger rubbed past her anus while I was grabbing her butt, and she freaked out and said that it's a majo... (104 words

What is chemistry?

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21 November 2008 (M age 36-40 - What is chemistry? Examples? Can it be developed or is it a first instant gut feeling? Is chemistry mutual or can one person feel it stronger than the other? Would you break up with someone if you had immediate, intense chemistry with someone else (assuming you know they fe... (56 words

I know you will give me the best suggestion.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5619 days ago

21 November 2008 (M age 41-50 - Helloooooo dear Auntyzeeeeeeeeee Hope you are in best of your health and wealth, so that to answer my question. Naaw the story begainzzz like this. I was having an relationship with a married women for 4 years. We have seen many ups and downs together in this time into our re... (161 words

What is to be expected on a first date?

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21 November 2008 (F age 36-40 - I need some help, I am in the early 20s and have never had a boyfriend. This guy I work with has asked me out and I want to say yes because I like him, but I am scared because I have never been on a date, and as I am older than most I would like some tips, everyone says ju... (88 words

I feel that me and my daughter are in the way.

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21 November 2008 (F age 36-40 - I am a 22 year old mother of a two year old, who just got a divorce with my daughter's father after a three year marriage. For the past five months I started a new relationship with a man who is ten years older than me but has been treating my daughter and myself like gold. He ... (343 words

Do first relationships ever work first time for good?

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21 November 2008 (M age 30-35 - Hi! I'm 17 and my girlfriend is 17 and nearly 18, lol, so I'm ten months older then her, though taller, and many have said considerably more mature :p lol I'm her 3rd boyfriend however she is my first. Her first one broke up with because she wouldnt have sex with him...she w... (277 words

Is there any chance for us in the future?

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21 November 2008 (F age 30-35 - I am a girl of 17 and I have a brother in law who is 8 years elder to me, he really likes me and I too like him, is the age difference between us too big. By the time he finishes medicine and settles down as a doctor he would be around 30 and I around 22. Can you please advise ... (75 words

Just broke up with my Boyfriend of 6 years and I'm depressed

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5622 days ago

21 November 2008 (F age 36-40 - hi i just broke up with my long term boyfriend of 6 years as we drifted apart he treated me great and he is still calling me and texting as he doesnt want to loose me im 23 and hes 30 i broke up with him because we drifted apart and i dont know if my feelings are 100percent for ... (168 words

My boyfriend always brings up his ex-wife in conversations, I don't know how to react to this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5621 days ago

21 November 2008 (F age 51-59 - my boyfriend is recently divorced. I know he loves me and I know he was unhappy and lonely in his marriage which is why he left. I also understand whether a person had been happily married or not, it still becomes habit/rountine to be with that other person. What seems to ... (122 words

I want to start dating her, how should I let her know?

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21 November 2008 (M age 30-35 - There is a girl that is my friend, actually she's my best friend, but the thing is, I like her a lot as a friend, but I want it to go to the next level. I want to be in a relationship with her, but I don't know just how to do it, without risking our friendship. I think she's pr... (166 words

How do I get her to come to my place?

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21 November 2008 (M age 41-50 - i took a girl i like on a date. i want her to come to my place. what must i do to achieve this feat.help me.... (26 words

My parents pulled me out of my school and now they want to kick me out of the home! Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5624 days ago

21 November 2008 (M age 30-35 - I need some good advice. My parents took me out of my school, away from my friends and are now threatning to kick me out of home. I haven't spoken to my best friend for 2 months, I feel really depressed. I really miss my best friend and yes even my old school. I was studying to ... (84 words

We are doing well but now my husband decided we would move to another city and "make it big". How can I convince him that we should stay where we are now?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5623 days ago

21 November 2008 (F age 41-50 - I'm 25 and my husband's 26. I've got a 5-year-old son from a previous relationship. I'm in a job which I enjoy, I've only been doing it for 5 weeks now. My husband's in a well-paid job too, which pays him a very good wage. He's been doing it for 2 years now. Last nig... (228 words

I want to leave my husband but have nowhere to go. I'm falling deeper into depression and is gaining more and more weight, how can I deal with this all?

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21 November 2008 (F age 41-50 - My husband and I have been together for almost 14 years now (married for almost 13) and have 3 beautiful children (ages 12, 4 and 2). My problem is that I'm not sure that I'm in love with him anymore. When we were dating and when we lived together before we were married ... (1608 words

How can I get my 4 year younger girlfriend's parents to trust me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5624 days ago

21 November 2008 (M age 30-35 - ok, my question is: How can I get my girlfriends parents to trust me? I am 19 and my girlfriend is 15, the age difference is a problem to them and I understand that. I really care about this girl and I want her parents to knw that I truly care about her too. In my small to... (188 words

My sexual appetite is much lower than my husband's, what shall I do?

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21 November 2008 (F age 41-50 - I am married for 3 years and have a 7 months old baby,our was a love marriage and dont have any mental distance and i am non working,my problem is i suffer from a low sexual appetite,i feel like having sex only once a week where as my husband wants to have it almost everyday... (130 words

How to stay strong after a break up?

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21 November 2008 (F age 36-40 - I finally realize after 2 years my boyfriend won't have sex with me because of his insecurities of pregnancy so I need advice of how to deal with this breakup! He was everything that I wanted but won't make me happy since he is insecure and unhappy. I did everything to comfort ... (75 words

Does the guy I love love me or my best friend?

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21 November 2008 (F age 30-35 - I like a guy very much but I don't know whether he likes me or not?? My friends say that he likes me. He always talks with me. If I couldn't understand anything he helps me. He always sees me and he always listens what I talk to my friend.... his concentration is always on ... (96 words

Why does he sign on to his messenger showing he is online to me? Is this a game to see if I will contact him first?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5623 days ago

21 November 2008 (F age 51-59 - Hi everyone, please help me! I was with my guy for 2 1/2 years, and I love him dearly. But he was to go to Russia or Virginia the first of December, and I asked for a committment before I either waited years for him or traveled across America with him. He stated, "I was... (490 words

I feel so unwanted by him...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5624 days ago

21 November 2008 (F age 36-40 - So I've been seeing this guy for almost a year we broke it off like once or twice. He told me he loves me and cares about me and the way he's been acting lately doesn't seem like he wants me to be around at all. It seems like he doesn't want this to work as bad as I do. He ... (189 words

Ejaculating too quickly. Help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5535 days ago

21 November 2008 (M age 51-59 - We have been married for 4 months. Somehow my wife does not feel satisfied. She told me after I enquired several times, that I may be ejaculating prematurely, that is, our sex is for very short period. How can I solve this problem. Please advise.... (45 words

His mom is so strict about us when I'm at his house.

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21 November 2008 (F age 30-35 - My boyfriend (who is 18) and I (turning 19 in a just a couple months) have been together for two years and lately, things have sort of... slowed down for us, sex-wise. It also kind of has to do with his mom wanting to interrupt us all the damn time (make sure we're not behaving ... (164 words

I have all this love, but I feel like no one wants it. What is wrong with me?

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21 November 2008 (F age 30-35 - I have had a few new guys in my life, and I tried to start a serious relationship with both of them only to crash and burn! I can't help but feel like something is wrong with me. My friends always tell me I'm pretty, I'm a dancer so I stay fit etc. I have all this love, but I ... (71 words

Could he have moved on that fast?

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21 November 2008 (F age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend just broke up and yeah he was my first everything basically, but I found out he cheated on me... again. Yeah he cheated on my before but I believe in second chances so yeah but like he says he still loves me and if I ever need him I can call whenever right ... (192 words

Every time I try to leave him he always makes me feel sorry for him.

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21 November 2008 (F age 41-50 - I've been with my boyfriend for 6 years and we broke up about 4 times and it's always the same reason because he drinks too much, I have lost a lot of feelings for him, I really can't stand him any more!!!! Every time I leave him he comes crying back and says he is going to... (156 words

When I leave the house my parents want it to be when I get married!

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21 November 2008 (M age 41-50 - I am 29 years old, single and I am going out with a seperated girl. She is 33 years old and has a kid but it doesen't live with her. I love her with all my heart and I want to go and live with her but my parents want me to go out from the house by getting married. They are ... (70 words

Paranoia setting in big time?

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21 November 2008 (F age 30-35 - I'm really scared.. I made a big mistake. I'm 15. Me and my bf had unprotected sex.. I know I'm stupid for letting it happen.. but shit happens ya know? Anyways I can't remember when I last got my period or when we had sex. I know I had my period around the 20th of October and ... (196 words

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21 November 2008 (F age 36-40 - There's this guy that used to like me a lot and he was really serious about me but I wasn't ready for him. I just got out from a relationship and I was trying to move on. I wasn't ready but he convinced me to give him a chance. So after a month, I broke it off because I fe... (318 words

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21 November 2008 (F age 36-40 - What would be the best movie to watch with a guy you love and hope it sets to mood to see if he has similar feelings? And, in watching a movie, which would make him more comfortable: watching a movie in a theater or at his house? He's a very shy person but I think, deep down, ... (63 words

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21 November 2008 (F age 41-50 - Hi! My husband doesn't have a big sex drive to start. I will catch him sneaking around, watching nasty porn while I am at work and he is babysitting our daughter(she could be sleeping)=( I call it sneaking, because he will erase the history and hide the sock!! It is a big ... (173 words

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Do I text him back again and tell him it was a mistake... again?

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21 November 2008 (F age 30-35 - I really liked this friend of mine, so I asked him to a girls choice dance. Everything went perfectly! He even kissed me goodnight. I figured after that night I should tell him how I feel, so I did. Apparently that was a big mistake! He was flattered, but didn't know if he felt ... (191 words

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21 November 2008 (F age 41-50 - I have been dating Mr. Wonderful for approximately 8 months, and I am just wondering what to get him for Christmas! We are both pretty shorthanded, cash-wise, so I am desperate for inexpensive, yet clever or romantic ideas for gifts! Help please! Thanks so much!... (45 words

Was I played a fool or is there still hope to fix this?

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21 November 2008 (F age 36-40 - Hello all, I have some problems that are really wearing on me concerning my ex boyfriend. I'd like some input on what his feelings might be because I'm completely lost. We've been broken up for three months since he cheated on me and broke it off, which should have made... (732 words

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21 November 2008 (F age 30-35 - I'm not very good at this... but there's this guy I don't know anything about him other than that he's in one of my classes, lives in the same dorm as me, and I pass him Monday, Wednesday, and Friday on my way to class. It seems like he's interested in me, but I just can't ... (445 words

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