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How Can I Change So He Doesn't Take It Out On Me?

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1 November 2008 (F age 41-50 - ok how do i change myself and not make my fiancee mad to where he takes his anger out on me and how do i change myself to be a better person so we dont break... (36 words

I really like her, but could I share her with her boyfriend?

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1 November 2008 (F age 26-29 - Hey, I'm 14 bi and in love with a 15 yr old. She's in 10th grade and I'm in 9th. She's also bi,but has a boyfreind. She dates girls and boys at the same time, normally I wouldn't date anyone even if neither them or there bf/gf has a problem, but I fell for her hard. Is it wrong ... (82 words

Please Explain How to Find Out If I'm Pregnant?

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1 November 2008 (F age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been doing stuff for a while now, and I think that after being late over a week now (i was due for my period to start on the 24th of october) I might be pregnant. we didnt use any protection for one of the times, i know that was dumb, but im not sure ... (111 words

Husband cheated on me while we were dating.

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1 November 2008 (F age 36-40 - My husband and I have been married for two years. We dated for three years before we got married. Anyways he use to live with another couple and I never use to suspect something happened between them. But I felt it in my gut there was something that happened except when I ... (222 words

Long Distance and an Age Gap - Could it work?

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1 November 2008 (M age 30-35 - i have a relationship question there this girl i really like and she lives in a different city then me. we met at work but never talked there but weve been talkin on msn for a year and a month now. weve both met each other only once and it was fun meating her. i know that... (150 words

Ex vs. Long Distance Boyfriend.

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1 November 2008 (F age 36-40 - Hello to all! I'll try to make a long story short. I have been in a long distance relationship for 2 years. Our relationship has been very difficult and there has been a lot of bad as much as there has been good. Lately we just havent been the same. We barely even talk as ... (217 words

I'm an idiot. How can I get her trust back?

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1 November 2008 (M age 51-59 - Ok here we go. I have been with the most wonderfull woman for the past year. I got on tagged and myyearbook and started to flirt wit some of the women. There were some sexual messages sent . well my gf got on my computer and found out what i had been up to. Well to say the ... (125 words

Poll Question: How was your first school relationship?

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1 November 2008 (F age 30-35 - Just a short Poll question: When was your first high school relationship, how long did it last? Just want to know because i'm 16, and i've always been single, haven't experienced ANYTHING with a guy, no kissing, nothing! The furthest i've gone is a hug! One guy ... (137 words

What happened? Why did we break up?

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1 November 2008 (F age 30-35 - Hiya, erm, well I was with this amazing lad for over 10 months and about a month ago everything started to go wrong, he wouldn't kiss me or hold my hand orrr say he loved me or anything he just wasn't himself at all. He started college in sept and I've just finished it (i'm ... (277 words

Do I Have Qualities Guys Like?

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1 November 2008 (F age 26-29 - I'm a 13 year old girl who has her eye on some guys in her class. I'm around 4'9, I'm a 30A, and I'm decent looking. My sense of humor is like a guy's, I don't freak out when I see a bug, I like dirty jokes, I'm girly enough, but not very girly. I wear dresses and skirts, but I ... (191 words

My dad says that anything bigger than a five year age difference is too big and illegal until I turn 18. Opinions please.

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1 November 2008 (F age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend have just started seeing each other. He is 22 and and I am 16. My dad says that anything bigger than a five year age difference is too big and illegal until I turn 18. I was wondering if anyone had any advice for me, or was more clued up on the laws ... (77 words

Is this love or just pure lust? please I need help!!

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1 November 2008 (F age 41-50 - hello I am a little bit confused with the kind of feelings my boyfriend and I are having for each other, we have been together for 9 months, the first 6 we was living 2 hours away, so we would only be able to see eachother once a week. The last 3 months, I moved closer, (not ... (458 words

I've loved her from the first time I saw her... but she has a boyfriend.

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1 November 2008 (M age 30-35 - I kind of loved her from the first time I saw her but I knew lately that she has a boyfriend and she is so in love with him, I tried to forget her but I couldn't cause I see her every day.... I don't know what to do, my life has became hell.... can any one tell me what to do ... (63 words

Am I falling in love?

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1 November 2008 (M age 30-35 - There is a girl I have been close to for a year now. There have been times I have felt attracted to her, times where I haven't. The first time I stopped was when she started going out with her idiot ex - this was before we were as close as we are. Then a few months later these ... (289 words

My man wants to do my backdoor/butt? Any advice?

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1 November 2008 (F age 51-59 - The guy that I am seeing has been asking me for anal lately and I have never ever done it. I heard it really hurts, but it is ok if you use lots of lube. I am kind of interested in trying it as he is always poking around back there with his cock and sometimes it feels nice. ... (83 words

Does a burning sensation all over the body mean you could have an STD?

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1 November 2008 (F age 30-35 - I hear that when a person is burning all over the body that it is most likely an std. Is this true because some people say that when you are burning on your body like on the palms and arms that that is a sign of an std. Do you think that is true? Also is those certain std's ... (66 words

I am in a long distance and age difference relationship. (Continued)

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1 November 2008 (F age 51-59 - i just asked a question about 15 minutes ago about my long distance relationship and wanted to add that i have been reading on many therapist websites that 1 out of 10 straight men have sex with other men... (39 words

Love or friendship

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1 November 2008 (F age 30-35 - Well I have a big problem my very good friend is dating A guy I really like. I know it won't last because they have gone out many times before and he dumped her because she won't touch or speak to him in school. He has asked me out before but I never said yes because he has had ... (192 words

I'm in love with my boy best friend, were both 17 I wanted to tell him how I feel, but hes going out with some other girl.

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1 November 2008 (F age 30-35 - Im in love with my boy best friend, were both 17. Weve been friends for about 4 months and i recentley started liking him so much. and ive always knew he thought i was pretty. But i wanted to make sure i did have feelings for him and i finally deicded i needed to tell him how ... (263 words

Could this be oral herpes?

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1 November 2008 (F age 30-35 - is this oral herpes? lips burning everyday but no bumps or sores or anything.but there is painful burning on the lips and if i wash my lips it starts to burn around my mouth area and there are also bumps on my tongue that have been here for a while and there are bumps in my ... (81 words

I am in a long distance and age difference relationship. I found out he is cheating ...

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1 November 2008 (F age 51-59 - I am in a long distance and age difference relationship. My boyfriend is from italy he is 27 and had to return because he overstayed his visa. he left in Febuary and i was able to visit for 2 weeks in august so now we are waiting for his new passport which should be ready ... (244 words

Question for the guys - Do you like a girl to make the first move?

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1 November 2008 (F age 36-40 - Around 6 months ago I was dating someone, however due to work commitments I spend the past 6 months out of the country. Now I have arrived home I have seen the man in question on a night out with mutual friends. Nothing happened, but I would like something to. I guess ... (169 words

Does sperm cause problems by swallowing?

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1 November 2008 (M age 30-35 - right quite a wierd question, can you get an upset stomach from swallowing the sperm?... (21 words

Could he have passed this STD to me?

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1 November 2008 (F age 51-59 - My regular partner has informed me he thinks he may have an STD - if he has will it definately have been passed on to me when we last had unprotected sex?... (32 words

What is her problem?

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1 November 2008 (F age 41-50 - Hi, my best friend finally admitted that she has a weight problem (she was in denial for years). So now she is on a diet and she's giving me a lot of heat just because I'm being supportive!! She said I'm being optimistic and she hates me for that? Then what does she expect me ... (269 words

Can our relationship work if he cares but doesn't love me?

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1 November 2008 (F age 36-40 - i have been with my boyfriend for nearly two years and asked him about his views on marriage and children, he gave me answers but also told me that since a situation in his past he has never been able to love anyone since and although he cares for me as much as he can he cant ... (83 words

Why do women rationalise their cheating?

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1 November 2008 (M age 41-50 - Why do women Rationalise their cheating? Men cheat a lot more than women but at the very least they know what they're doing is wrong. When a man is generally caught cheating, whether he cares or not, he's not going to argue about what he's done, but when a woman is caught she ... (226 words

Why did he act that way when I told him I wanted him back here?

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1 November 2008 (F age 41-50 - My crush and I are long distance. He's a military guy in Seattle and I'm living in Fla. We met in a duty he made 2 years ago. We keep in touch by email. I recalled calling him 4 months ago before he went on TDY again. Among many things we said, I told him in a kinda funn... (146 words

My fiance chooses his friends over me

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1 November 2008 (F age 36-40 - Hi, I am 21 years old and a junior in college. I have been with my boyfriend for 3 years. We got engaged after a yr of dating, he is 19 and we both attend the same college. This summer he was gone for 3 months for construction work. He works with his father's company. This year ... (240 words

My 5 year old daughter kept giving our dog chocolate. Our dog end up being put to sleep, and my wife is blaming the 5-year-old.

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1 November 2008 (? age 41-50 - My 5 year old daughter "Lauren" (not her real name) (she was 14 in dog years) chocolate. I told her not to but she didn't listen. Then my other daughter (who's 13) came to me saying something was wrong with the dog. Long story short our dog end up being put to sleep my wife... (87 words

I wonder if he prefers shaved pubic area...

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1 November 2008 (F age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend have been going steady for three months, i think we're ready to take the next step. We've touched each other through our cloths, but never actually 'touched' each other. I'm slightly worried though, would he prefer me to be hairless down below? I don't shave ... (74 words

It's red and itchy around my testicles, what to do?

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1 November 2008 (M age 26-29 - It's red and itchy' around my testicles? I don't want to tell my parents.... (15 words

What's up with my boyfriend's obvious double-standard?

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1 November 2008 (F age 30-35 - What's up with my boyfriend's obvious double-standard? It seriously makes me angry! Yesterday I went over to my boyfriend's. I had to take a cab. I arrived late, and he was upset... but he got downright angry when he looked at my chest. I was wearing cleavage. I d... (436 words

Why is it so difficult to talk to this person? I can't sleep!

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1 November 2008 (F age 30-35 - What do I do when I lose contact with someone? I'm going crazy because lately, things have been a little insane. A few of my friends are getting divorces or breaking up, and I feel like I'm losing contact with people and I can't sleep. One friend in particular wont ... (158 words

To women who have cheated: Are these behaviour patterns true? Can she be excited to go out with me again?

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1 November 2008 (M age - Hello, I'm a 47 year old probably boring husband who is faithful and yet I think my wife is having an affair. I'm trying to get my hands around what's going on in her psyche so I can figure out what to do if anything. I've read some articles on cheating and some of the item... (829 words

This guy always sends me mixed signals! Do I need to make the first move ?

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1 November 2008 (F age 30-35 - This guy always sends me mixed signals! We have known each other about a year now, and we do flirt with each other! He has showed me many times that he like me! Trust me, the signs were there..and we are friends...but we just never seem to go beyond that. We have that, we make ... (535 words

I couldn't move my hands after sex! What happened?

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1 November 2008 (F - Hi, I was having sex with my boyfriend today and it was great, but just before I got to climax we stopped for no particular reason and I found that I couldn't move my hands. They sort of clammed up and the muscles wouldn't move at all for at least 5 minutes and my hands were ... (98 words

How can I change my appearance without spending a fortune?

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1 November 2008 (F age 30-35 - Hi, I'm 18 years old (turning 19 in just under four months) and I've been with my boyfriend for almost two years. My general appearance is that of a punkish, hippie(ish) Luna Lovegood. My boyfriend's into Kat Von D's and Liz Vicious types. I want to know how I can change my ... (200 words

His friend told him I like him but it seems he only likes me as a friend!

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1 November 2008 (F age 30-35 - Okay, so I'm liking this boy, but he only likes me as a friend. The bad thing is I don't really know him. So I have no reason to like him. I just think he is adorable. Anyway I told his friend that I thought I could trust, but he told the boy I "like" and told me that he only ... (92 words

Wrong feelings for an older man?

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1 November 2008 (F age 30-35 - Hey im 16 and im having feelings for a guy that is 27. The thing is he used to work at my school as a hallmonitor. i miss seeing him there and always ask his other hallmontior friend how is he doing and if he could get in contact with me. I just want to tell him my feel... (146 words

His cheating may have resulted in a child, I am also pregnant and he's asking me for an extra chance, any advice?

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1 November 2008 (F age 51-59 - Hi, I have been with my bf for 7yrs and I am now 14wks pregnant...this is suppose to be a joyous time in ourlives but it is not because he has done the unthinkable by cheating and possibly is a father to a wk old child...he claims he could be his but is set to do a dna..the ... (235 words

I'm getting mixed signals from this boy, should I wait around for him to decide?

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1 November 2008 (F age 30-35 - soo im in school with this guy i realli like we arnt in the same year but we sometimes see each other on nights out and stuff . and one night he triend to like get with me but i said no and now i regret it, a while ago i txt him and told him i liked him but he said he was with ... (125 words

For a few months now my penis doesn't get fully erect, is this due to excessive porn watching?

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1 November 2008 (M age 30-35 - Hello, I have a dilemma. I'm 15 and for a few months now, I have noticed that my penis will not get fully erected at all. I have been masturbating to porn for a while now and was wondering if it had anything to do with that. I have noticed that it does erect very slightly... (88 words

Is it lust or love?

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1 November 2008 (F age 30-35 - There is this guy at my ice rink who always keeps on looking at me, he would always skate in front of me, always look behind him whenever i was behind and always when im sitting down he would look at me. Even when he is with his girlfriend like hugging and kissing him, he would ... (173 words

If a person cuts class is it consider as a felony, crime, academic misconduct, or behavior misconduct?

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1 November 2008 (F age 30-35 - If a person cuts class is it consider as a felony, crime, academic misconduct, or behavior misconduct? Could a cut be cleared and erased? Will this go on my permanent record? I really don't want this on my permanent record. I cutted class only once which was teacher's aid like ... (106 words

Hero!

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1 November 2008 (M age 26-29 - hey you guys it's me lotmoney 13 and i have another situation. well about three days ago we had a temporary schedule at school. so he , the straight guy, was really late to class. he was running down the stairs at schoool and felll down and slammed into the ground hard. i g... (196 words

I'm not LIVING my life, I'm just putting up with it.

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1 November 2008 (F age 41-50 - I am at this site because I am truly at the end of my rope. This has gone on for so long that something has got to give, or I am literally going to go crazy. I badly need someone who will try to help me with advice and not judge me. My problem is that I'm not LIVING my li... (1291 words

He doesn't show his love to me...

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1 November 2008 (F age 30-35 - Hi, I'm in love with someone that doesn't show his love... that means he never calls unless I do.. ans these stuff.. everyone is telling me to dump him but I can't... What shall I do and we've been together for 4 years... (43 words

I'm a virgin, but how can I get my more experienced guy to take it to the next level?

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1 November 2008 (F age 30-35 - Hi, I am a 19 year old female, college sophmore, and a virgin. However, I don't want to be one anymore! I have been going out with this guy for some time, and I want him to be my first. But I am so nervous! I am pretty self-concious about my body, and I am not sure that he ... (158 words

Since my holiday I feel so alone. Please help!

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1 November 2008 (F age 30-35 - Sorry if this is long, I just need to tell how i feel to some one and them not judge me straight away or tell me what to do as it would be better for them. 3 weeks ago i went on holiday with two of my mum and dads friends familys, when we went i had been with my boyfriend for... (432 words

Ladies, what does my ex gf mean in all, she says to me?

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1 November 2008 (M age 30-35 - Firstly i know this is rather long but i would very much apperciate it if you took 2 mins to read it! thanks in advance! me and my ex broke up about 5 months ago, we didnt speak for about 2 months then she got back in touch with me. We met up a few times, we kissed probably ... (675 words

Are we just too different to make this work?

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1 November 2008 (M age 41-50 - I'm hoping someone can shed some light on some feelings I'm having lately as well as what my girlfriend might be thinking and/or feeling. I fear this will be a long read but hopefully I can keep it reasonable. I've been living with my girlfriend and her two children for the... (896 words

He says all he has is me! How do I tell him I don't want to date him anymore?

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1 November 2008 (F age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend have been going out for the past year and its been great but recently i feel i really resent him, i don't want to talk to him, text him, see him or anything. I feel as if i want to see other people and have fun. I don't know if its because i'm at university ... (109 words

First time sex jitters! How do I get past this?

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1 November 2008 (F age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I have been dating over a year now. I really want him to be my first sexual partner (he is not a virgin). He never pressures me to do anything; he always ask. When we attempts of having sex, I always get nervousness. How can I get over this fear of being my ... (58 words

I am desperate for sex!

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1 November 2008 (M age 41-50 - I am 27 year old, I desperately want sex - for fun. However my socioeconomic status is not good enough to get married and have 'legal sex'. On the other hand i do not want to 'buy' sex as it is inhuman, i think. what should I do for my desire? ... (51 words

Torn between my husband whose dirty sexual fantasies disgust me and another man with whom I am emotionally involved!

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1 November 2008 (F age 51-59 - Im in a real, emotional mess at the moment and i could do with some good advice. Im 40 and married with 3 children,now while i care about my husband i dont like his sexual needs because they are very bizarre and i find them totally disgusting. We haven't had sex for 5 months ... (175 words

He asked I wait 4 years, to meet him, until he's done college.

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1 November 2008 (F age 30-35 - my bf and i never had a date since we know each other. we fall in love thru handphone. messaging and calling. but i know him before. We were studying in a same college for a year. At the moment, we haven't been a couple yet. not even friend. AQfter that, we furthered our st... (167 words

Why do these guys think I'm easy?

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1 November 2008 (F age 30-35 - okay.. here we go. for a few months now, guys i barely know have been coming up to me asking if i wanna make out, or worse! one even asked if i wanted to be f*** buddies! im 14 and im still a virgin, and plan to be for a while. the worst thing ive done with a guy is made ... (141 words

Jealousy is ruining what I have with the perfect guy! Help!

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1 November 2008 (F age 30-35 - hii x ive just started goin out with a guy who is jst perfect for me =) my problem is that i get jealous of the smallest of things. lyk if he doesnt text bak, i think he's with another girl or doesnt like me anymore. in the past ive been cheated on so that probably has som... (91 words

Is there a good way to divorce so she doesn’t try to crush me? I’d like a nice smooth glide path out of this mess.

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1 November 2008 (M age - I’m a confused man age 47 and in the military. I’ve been married 21 years and dated my wife for six years before our marriage. I was scared of marriage when I dated her, but when she became pregnant I knew it was time. Our marriage started off great. We were broke, but she ... (650 words

How do I apply for a visitor's visa for my Turkish boyfriend?

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1 November 2008 (F age 51-59 - I have a turkish boyfriend we have known each other for seven years. in this time i have always gone to turkey to see him. this year i have spent the last three months with him and i have now returned back home. my boyfriend would now like to come and visit england how do i ... (122 words

Ex bf wanted me to stay over last night... What does this mean? He said he wanted to be single

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1 November 2008 (F age 36-40 - Hi all at dear cupid, Im really stressing out at the moment, im still really in love with my ex bf,we split about 3 weeks ago now, and i use to ring him every other day when we split, but this week, we've spoken every single day this week, and i also ended up sleeping with him... (282 words

Had sex with ex bf. My fiancee is now excited to be a dad but I don't even know whether I'm pregnant!

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1 November 2008 (F age 30-35 - I have a question - Me and my ex-boyfriend were having sex and it was 2 days after my period and he might have precumed inside of me. Is there any way that i might become preg.? I dont know i have been feelin weird after we had sex.We never used a condom and I doubt if i was ... (109 words

Every guy wants her... could she like a fat guy?

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1 November 2008 (M age 30-35 - Is it possible for a pretty girl to like a fat guy when nearly every guy wants her and can pretty much get any guy she wants? ... (27 words

I don't want to go out with her and realise I don't like her!

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1 November 2008 (M age 30-35 - Hello Ive recently started to like this girl and i have only started to realise this when we were apart on half term from school. Ive missed her and havent been able to go to sleep because ive been thinking about her. Now as quickly as that feeling came it went. Now i w... (172 words

My boyfriend, his colleague and I had a threesome, now I'm hyperworried about the time he spends at work!...

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1 November 2008 (F age 51-59 - hi,went on a business trip with my boyfriend of 2 years,he always talked about the young girl at work and it bothered me,this was the second time i met her ,her and i became drunk and began kissing which later ended up in bed,we did nothing more than touching,my boyfriend left ... (139 words

She's so CLINGY I can't stand it! Should I break up or tell her I need some space?

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1 November 2008 (M age 30-35 - alright well iv been dating this girl for like only 2 weeks now...and we both live in a residence at our college. Well pretty much since the first day we met she is soooo clingy..we always have to be holding hands, hugging, rubbing or whatever the hell she has to do..and we ... (168 words

Does he actually like me and what should I do?

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1 November 2008 (F age 30-35 - I like my best friend a lot. He knows how I feel and nothing had been done. I am afraid that he doesn't like me like that. But we have shared a kiss. He said he thought he was kissing his ex-wife thats why he kissed me. During that kiss we cuddled. I dont see how he thou... (311 words

Alternatives to sex to fulfill our sexual desires, any suggestions?

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1 November 2008 (F age 30-35 - hi. i'm 18 and my bf is also 18.. well, we dont want to lose virginity before marriage...we are gonna marry after 6 years,but right now we wanna try new stuff out..so what are the things apart from kissing that we can do so as to not cross the limit and still fulfill our sexual ... (74 words

I think my friends have stolen the sex tape I recorded with my girlfriend, I'm freaked out!

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1 November 2008 (? age 30-35 - My girlfriend and me made a sex tape (we mainly just make out in it with our clothes off) for my birthday. Well my friends came over randomly when I was watching. They (I didn't let them watch it with me cause I promise her it would between us) ask for a copy I say no. When ... (99 words

I don't want just sex !!

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1 November 2008 (M age 36-40 - Okay maybe someone can help me with my dillema, I'm 21 and gay, open about it. Now whenever it comes to relationships I always hit a wall. Most guys approach me and compliment me on my good looks and appearance and then immediately ask me for a "hook up" I always decline ... (136 words

When he is sober he is fine and he loves me. He gets drunk(alot) then he hates me. I can't stand this anymore !

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1 November 2008 (F age 41-50 - Ok, I am not happy in my relationship. My husband is a drunk. Binge drinker to be exact. He may go 4-5 days sober, and that's if im extremely lucky. Then a week or more streight drinking. He's been drunk by noon at times. Sometimes 4, sometimes later. But the point is he's ... (282 words

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1 November 2008 (F age 36-40 - So, I have developed a serious crush on my co-worker, but am not sure if he likes me back or even what I should do about it. We make eye contact a lot, he writes on my facebook wall, we've joked around some at work and he makes me laugh a lot. But i really don't know if he's ... (128 words

HIM

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1 November 2008 (M age 26-29 - HEY!!!!! HAPPY HALLOWEEN!!!!!!! well uhm that guy, he told me yesterday that he had a surprise for me. and today we had a rally and he performed for the LSU club. he got really close to his partner, and after he asked me if i liked my surprise.......uhm.... did he do this to me ... (130 words

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1 November 2008 (F age 30-35 - me and the guy i sit next to in my english class were arguing about this today... and i just wanted some opinions as to who was right. i was wondering if guys consider it awkward when girls ask them out, instead of the guy asking the girl out. ive always felt like if i... (165 words

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1 November 2008 (F age 30-35 - ive been dating this guy for about a month and a half now. and the other night while fooling around we started talking about our first night together.. i told him i was ready but i just wasnt sure. so the next day we both we knew we were gonna be alone again so i had been ... (166 words

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1 November 2008 (? age 30-35 - i really like this guy from my school named dillon. i've liked him for a while. he's the big man on campus even though he's only a sophmore. he's very good looking and nice. i'm only a freshman and am not the greatest looking girl in school. I talk to him sometimes and i alwa... (97 words

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I'm disgusted with this problem I have, please help.

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1 November 2008 (F age - Okay..my boyfriend of about a year has always used porn as an outlet. He's upfront and honest about it, how he spends hours browsing and downloading it. He's even shared some of it with me, etc. I DO enjoy some of it. Although deep down I feel he may be comparing me to the ... (362 words

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1 November 2008 (F age 30-35 - I keep calling my ex just to hear my ex's voice, but everytime i talk to him, my sister finds out and she gets mad. I know that she likes him but i dont think she should do that to me, should i let it go and let them go out or what?... (53 words

Does he really have to spend so much time with his kids and exwife ?

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Is 14 too young to be going out with a 17 year old?

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1 November 2008 (F age - im 14 years old and i met a guy at my families halloween party who is 17. he is the son of a family friend, and he gave me his email. do you think i am too young to go out with him? i really like him and he isnt some sort of player or something lol.... (57 words

My ex broke my heart and I still love him

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I may have an opportunity to get back in a relationship with an ex/best friend. My friends say I should move on. Should I pursue her?

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