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I always go for guys that are 5 to 10 years older than me!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5625 days ago

15 November 2008 (F age 30-35 - I'm a teenager, and it seems like the only males i'm attracted to, is one that are either 5-10 years older than me, or men that are married. Of course i wont risk acting on my feelings, but i can't seem to be attracted to guys my age. They are so immature sometimes, and i feel ... (154 words

I want to move in together and get engaged. What's he waiting for?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5629 days ago

15 November 2008 (F age 41-50 - I've been with my boyfriend for over a year now and he's a sweet guy. We get along really good and talk about being together forever and getting married. Our connection is deep and we call ourselves soulmates. A few months ago we talked about our future together and made it ... (390 words

My Mom says he looks at me. Does this mean he likes me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5628 days ago

15 November 2008 (? age 30-35 - okay. my problem is that i really like this one guy named Brian, who is eighteen. well, the thing is that i myself am only fifteen. my mom says whenever we are at the store, me and her will be in the video department and she will be looking for a movie. well, brian will usually ... (135 words

Confused and need some advice...please !

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5629 days ago

15 November 2008 (F age 41-50 - i like this guy i dont know if he like me, i have told him that i like him but when we are alone he is different to when we are with others, think he is playing me but not sure, what do i do?... (49 words

My brother is mad at me because I slept with his wife. How can I make up it to my bro ?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5247 days ago

15 November 2008 (? age 41-50 - My brother is mad at me because I slept with his wife, I lived with them cause my girlfriend kick me up for cheating on her. My bro beat the sh!t out of me (he gave me a black eye) and throw me out. I think he's divorcing her now, He hasn't talked to me since. Im staying with ... (85 words

How do I make a good impression on them?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5629 days ago

15 November 2008 (F age 36-40 - I am Lauren and I'm 20 years old, my sister and I went to Miami for vacation and to party with our friends, one night I decided to stay and eat in the hotel restaurant which is very elegant and nice, I was eating alone, when this very handsome older man approached me and asked ... (321 words

Why is there blood INSIDE the condom after sex and what should we do??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5629 days ago

15 November 2008 (F age 41-50 - I was having sex with my partner of 3 months and when we finished we found there was a fair bit of blood inside the condom. The resivour teat on the end was filled with it. My partner said he felt a little bit of pain during sex (we were only slightly rough) but ignored it. ... (116 words

How can I control my jealousy? He keeps talking about other girls!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5629 days ago

15 November 2008 (F age 30-35 - I've been with my boyfriend for two years now and I was never a jealous girl until we started dating. I guess it's when you realize you've got love, you don't want to share your man with anyone else. But he does talk about other girls a lot and flirts with them. I try not to ... (102 words

How can I get pregnant if he can't cum from sex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5629 days ago

15 November 2008 (F age 51-59 - hi people,my husband cant cum during sex,he has 1 testicle what are the chances of us getting pregnant using a syringe? A x... (23 words

After all his cheating and her stalking us, I don't know if I even love him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5628 days ago

15 November 2008 (F age 41-50 - Hi (Sorry this is so long) I had been with my boyfriend for 18 months and living together when he had an affair. I found a mobile hidden with texts on from another woman in mid September. When it all came out he’d met her at a college reunion and shared a kiss. They’d onl... (519 words

I'm so alone now my boyfriend is in prison.

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4034 days ago

15 November 2008 (F age 30-35 - Im 18 but am madly inlove with someone ive been with for 2 years. hes got the kindest heart but he lost his way a lil while back and was sent to prison. hes been in there for almost 6 months now and has a couple more months left. im not sure how im supposed to cope anymore?... (88 words

Is he too young? He's 13 and I'm 15.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5628 days ago

15 November 2008 (F age 30-35 - I'm 15 and the guy that I like is only 13. He is quite mature for his age and all his friends are my age. Were really close friends and I really like him and I know he likes me. I'm afraid that if I say that I like him or start dating him that people will call me names and be ... (73 words

How can I prove my faithfulness to her?

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15 November 2008 (M age - Please help me! My girlfriend freaked out on me and thinks I am cheating on her. How can I prove my faithfulness to her and prove that she is the only love in my life and I am not interested in other women? Here is what happened... I was with her while she was driving i... (484 words

Have I broken my hymen by wearing a tampon?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5629 days ago

15 November 2008 (F age 26-29 - Hey This is probably a question for mainly girls however its just something i have been wondering about. When i was on holiday this year i had to wear tampons, for the first time. So by wearing them does this mean i have broken my hymen ???... (52 words

Any pranks to play on my brother? Please help me

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4501 days ago

15 November 2008 (F age 30-35 - I hate my brother. Hes younger than me, but bigger. Fatter. He cant move fast but he throws a mean punch. Mainly at me. For years I have been putting up with it, I have to, my parents dont believe me. Infact recently my dad forgot my 16th birthday a few weeks after buying my ... (152 words

I would like to take the relationship onto a physical level but all I ever get is a goodnight kiss.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5629 days ago

15 November 2008 (F age - Hi, I have been seeing a lovely guy for bout 2 months now but not had many dates cos of his work pattern - he works day and nite shifts. He is really lovely and we always end up having a good laugh and seem to like a lot of the same things. We met online so have no history in ... (152 words

I kissed and fumbled her breast and I KNOW my friend is in love with her...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5629 days ago

15 November 2008 (M age 41-50 - I saw this girl at my friend's place, and he introduced as a friend. Later my friend told be he's been asking her out which she has refused for about a year now. Not known to me, the girl was interested in me and copied my number from my friend's cellphone. We started chatt... (152 words

Can't stop these feelings... falling in love with my best friend!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5614 days ago

15 November 2008 (F age 36-40 - Hi, I really need some advice as I am going out of my mind... I have been with my fiance for 4 years now, we have a beautiful little boy together and a home but as much as I know I am lucky to have such a wonderful life, I am not happy, I don't feel attracted to my partner any ... (720 words

What does it mean when he puts his fingers in my mouth? Why didn't he try to kiss me despite all the touching?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2416 days ago

15 November 2008 (F age 36-40 - Hi, I am 22 and a virgin. I'm not very experienced with guys - I've never been kissed or even had a boyfriend. A guy who I have been friends with for the past few years has started to be quite flirty with me whenever we meet up and when we are with a group of friends this ... (284 words

How do I put some spice into my kissing?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5629 days ago

15 November 2008 (F age 30-35 - Hello everyone! I want your help on this. Tomorrow I'm gonna meet my bf. I haven't seen him for 2 weeks becuase of me going to uni. We're gonna be alone so I'm sure we're going to kiss and I wanna make it something special. I was wondering if you could give me some ideas to ... (151 words

How do I do fellatio without gagging because of the smell and taste? How do I suggest that they wash before it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5629 days ago

15 November 2008 (F age 36-40 - Hi I've had 6 different boyfriends in my life and I've given all of them blowjobs but my problem is that I don't like the smell or taste of them down there. It actually makes me gag which makes it very hard to enjoy myself, sometimes the smell is so overpowering I have refused ... (248 words

Should I come clean with my boyfriend? And should I tell this other guy how I feel about him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5629 days ago

15 November 2008 (F age 41-50 - ok, so I am studying abroad in Spain for a year, leaving my boyfriend of 2 years back home. I miss him terribly and still love him however... A mutual male friend of ours came over to visit me in Spain, and we ended up getting very drunk and sleeping together. Talking about it ... (230 words

Blood after sex, can this sometimes happen? Should I go to the doctor?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5003 days ago

15 November 2008 (F age 30-35 - Hello again, just one more question! My boyfriend and I had been intimate and right after intercourse, he had blood on him. I'm not on my period I finnished a week ago. At the same time I feel no pain, but there is blood... can this sometimes happen, or do you think I should go ... (78 words

Do you think "disappearing" would help me to move on and get my life back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5629 days ago

15 November 2008 (F age - Hello, everyone - I really need some help with moving on so here goes. I like this guy a lot and have for about one year. I think he likes me cause he flirts with me a lot but he has a girlfriend and she's giving him sex so I don't stand a chance. It's getting to the point ... (208 words

It looked like the condom split, and now I'm panicking!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5629 days ago

15 November 2008 (F age 30-35 - Hi Everyone! Right, i'm just looking for peace of mind really.... me and my BF of 4 years had sex this morning, with a condom... but when he pulled out it really looked as if it had split as there was a lot of excess liquid on it.. ordinarily this wouldnt be a problem as i h... (188 words

We both deserve to be happy but don't know if we can be happy with eachother for much longer.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5629 days ago

15 November 2008 (F age 36-40 - So, I met my husband when I was 17 and we were engaged when I was 19, married when I was 20 (I am now 23). I am a full time college student and work full time. He has been through about 6 jobs in the 5 years we have been together. I have ambition, he lives day to day. It ... (397 words

I have been so down this week and its all to do with him and what he is capable of...

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5628 days ago

15 November 2008 (F age - Right I haven't done this for a while, it's actually weird being on the other end so to speak... I'm going through a hard time at the moment, My ex husband (please no one say just get over it its not that simple I wish it was) yes my ex husband well he was a very violent and ... (619 words

I got drunk and I accused him unfairly and quite vulgarly of talking with other women...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5629 days ago

15 November 2008 (? age - I am writing this anonymously, because I feel like a fool. I got very drunk last night (alone) I was on this site for a couple of hours, after spending 2 hrs on the phone with my man (long distance relationship) we had a terrific conversation and all was perfect! But as I ... (275 words

He fancies Heidi Klum, but I look nothing like her. How can he like me?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5628 days ago

15 November 2008 (F age 41-50 - Hi there, me and my boyfriend have been together just over a year and the other evening we went out with some mutual friends and the conversation turned to which celebrity we fancy most and my boyfriend said Heidi Klum. I totally agree she is stunning - tall, blonde, skinny b... (134 words

He says I'm spying on him and that I should trust him, but it's hard...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5629 days ago

15 November 2008 (F - I had been in a LD for 4 years. I had never been able to trust my bf 'cause I always caught him a lie. First, it was his ex-gf, he would not stop calling her, then I found emails from dating websites, and now he is exchanging txt. messages with a girl who has sent him pictures ... (225 words

Me and my best friend's housemate had a drunken fumble and now...?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5629 days ago

15 November 2008 (M age 36-40 - I went to my friend's house party and we all ended up taking copious amounts of drugs and alcohol. The usual cliché story, I ended up in bed with the housemate of my friend. And one thing led to another and we fumbled about and kissed and heavy petted each other till the early ... (219 words

I think I've fallen in love with someone I shouldn't have!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5629 days ago

15 November 2008 (F age 30-35 - Hi, I think I've fallen in love with someone I shouldn't have. There's this guy in my school, and to be completely honest... he's perfect, well, for me. But there's a problem, he's a year younger than me and already has a girlfriend. I met him through this competition I di... (402 words

For the ladies: a few questions on the subject of attraction...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5629 days ago

15 November 2008 (M age 41-50 - Just a quick question or two from little old me. Which notion is 'sexier': a relationship which has evolved over the years from friendship or one which has evolved through, shall we say, 'traditional attraction' e.g. eyes meeting across a crowded room? Also, would a woman ... (82 words

He's hurt me more than anyone so why cant I just hate him??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5629 days ago

15 November 2008 (F - I hope someone can help me as Im driving myself insane. Basically, 5 years ago I met Jay. I went out with him for 6 months, started to really like him but he didnt feel the same and he left me for someone else. I never got over him really even tho he hurt me I still wanted him ... (340 words

He's a liar and cheater and I want to warn his pregnant girlfriend.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5626 days ago

15 November 2008 (F age 30-35 - I was with this guy for 8 months and have still been seeing him on and off from when we split up 5 months ago until recently when I decided I definitely wanted nothing more to do with him because he constantly lied and cheated on me. I've just found out that he's been with a... (199 words

Why did he do what he did, and why do I miss him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5629 days ago

15 November 2008 (M age 30-35 - ok well , im just confused . in the past i was bullied then like i thought there was this person that cared - it seemed everyone else was out to upset me, friends would only use me and get me into trouble at skool . well there was this other guy my age and i so wanted to be ... (182 words

Where did we go wrong in our marriage?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5568 days ago

15 November 2008 (F age 41-50 - Just wanted some advice or comments on what you think of the situation this is my story its really long if you need to know more let me know. I'm confused. I'm not sure if I should stay married. I love him with all my heart he is my world but for a long time the passion ... (1236 words

I lent him money and haven't seen him since, do you think he'll get back in touch?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5629 days ago

15 November 2008 (F age 51-59 - Myself and this guy (who was currently out of work but temporarily living with his girlfriend) got on well but I was so in love with him and afraid of losing touch with him that I offered him money to help him out financially!! Well, needless to say he stayed in touch ... (149 words

Can I trust my boyfriend after I found his phone bill?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5629 days ago

15 November 2008 (F age 41-50 - ive been with my boyfriend for about 10months now,and has been going so well, until i found his phone bill. there was one number that kept on popping up,he was ringing and texting this person everyday and at one point he had texted 50 times in one day. i asked him about it and... (126 words

If you are male and you finger yourself, are you gay?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4853 days ago

15 November 2008 (M age 36-40 - i wat to know if you are male and you finger yourself are you gay ? because only males and masterbate there penis but can u finger ur *** ? i wanted to kno are you gay if a male fingers himself ? ... (49 words

When should the condom go on?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5629 days ago

15 November 2008 (F age 30-35 - hey i recently had sex with my boyfriend and we used a condom just after he said that hes ready.... anyway he did wear it but now im over a week late for my period... im soooo scard what do i do Additionally, from the same question asker: this maybe a stupid question b... (82 words

Should I wait until house prices bottom out before I buy ot my partner?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5629 days ago

15 November 2008 (M age - I am considering buying my partner out but dont want to yet until the house prices hit rock bottom in a year maybe. she is not paying her half of the mortgage and cannot or will not pay. Do you think i should wait or buy her out now thx Zac... (54 words

Why won't my girlfriend spend time with me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4977 days ago

15 November 2008 (M age 30-35 - my gf won't spend time with me, were schoolmates and its just in school that we are together mainly lunch time but its only for a short time and we can't be sweet to each other cause she doesn't want it and its not allowed, we've been together for 3 months, and every time i ask ... (144 words

My boyfriend is starting to get annoying and scary...

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5610 days ago

15 November 2008 (F age 26-29 - My boyfriend is starting to get annoying and scary. he follows me around everywhere and he keeps on saying hes possessed or something like that and that he belongs to the devil and stuff and he is being serious. I tried to break up with him the he started to go crazy and so i ... (143 words

AG and SM are always sarcastic towards me and AG because I'm going out with OB. What should I do about them?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5629 days ago

15 November 2008 (F age 30-35 - Hey, My supposed Best Friend, AG, has started being really mean to me. She is absolutely livid at me, for going out with her ex, OB, even though they split up over two years ago, their relationship lasted all of three days and she is constantly asking me when I'm gonna dump him... (267 words

How can I convince her that I won't hurt her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5627 days ago

15 November 2008 (M age 30-35 - My girlfriend and I have known each other for about a year and have been going out for nearly 6 months. Last night she texted me saying "prove that you love me". I know that would seem like a shallow thing to ask but she has her reasons. Life has thrown a lot of shit at her. ... (304 words

My period lasted only one day! What is wrong?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5629 days ago

15 November 2008 (F age 41-50 - Ok my boyfriend and I have broken up for two weeks now.I came on my period friday morning but i woke up this morning and its gone. No symtoms of pregnancy what could this mean? Has this ever happened to any one? I am on the pill.I hope Im not pregnant.... (51 words

My girlfriend is getting married to someone else due to work permit! What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5629 days ago

15 November 2008 (M age 41-50 - Dear Cupid, I need help! I was going out with this girl for 5years. For the 5year we've been apart, me Africa and she USA. Recently her parents called me to visit them which i did in the evening, they told me their daughter is getting married in 3weeks because of stay permit... (96 words

Anyone know about any home remedy for breast enlargement?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5611 days ago

15 November 2008 (F age 36-40 - best home remedy for breast enlargement.i m 19 years old.i really feel shy in wearing tops.... (17 words

We seemed to have a really strong connection, but have I scared her off?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5624 days ago

15 November 2008 (F age 41-50 - hi, i've been chatting to this woman online for about a month, and we hit it off immediately. we exchanged photos and then she asked me out for a drink. however, she is quite busy so we haven't yet set a date yet although we were planning to meet up next month. over the past ... (328 words

Everytime I feel like I'm over him he does something to make me like him again! Why does he act this way?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5629 days ago

15 November 2008 (F age 30-35 - One of my friends, who is also my ex confuses me so much. For months (since about June last year) we flirted continuously except there was a catch. He started to like one of my other friends too and 2 of my other friends liked him. I know this looks ridiculous but whe... (414 words

My husband is so busy with his job that he doesn't have time for me anymore. Please help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5629 days ago

15 November 2008 (F age 41-50 - Hello everybody, My problem today is that my husband is very busy with his job since 3 weeks and he comes back home very tired and doesn't talk to me like before. He just eats his dinner, has a look at the TV for one hour and then goes to sleep. So we don't have sex together... (102 words

My friends were looking out for me and now this guy I like is mad with me for not sticking up for him, what shall I do??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5623 days ago

15 November 2008 (F - I was in a really aquad position. Me and a boy like eachother at school. My two friends have just argued with this boy saying he spends too much time with another girl who fancies him. He was saying he hasn't spoke to her in ages and one of my friends was saying he has. Also a ... (253 words

Please help, I really don't understand boys sometimes!!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5628 days ago

15 November 2008 (F age 30-35 - I have recently split up with my boyfriend and have been left heartbroken, I just don't know what to do. I want to text him and sort things out, but I don't know whether that would be the right thing to do, because he might get even more annoyed. Any ideas? He told me he want... (97 words

Should I forget I ever met this girl and never speak to her again? Please help.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5627 days ago

15 November 2008 (M age 36-40 - Hi I have some major problems going on at the moment that i need opinions on. I've been going out with a girl for 2 years, its been quite a serious relationship and i do love her. At the moment she is out of the country and has been for 15 days, and cannot get in contact with... (371 words

How can I ask him out without scaring him??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4903 days ago

15 November 2008 (F age 26-29 - I'm tired of having my crush ignore me a lot of the time. So, instead, I am considering asking him out, but considering I'm only 13 and never had a boyfriend before, I'm really unsure as to the best way to ask him without scaring him. Any advice? x... (52 words

Should I just forget about this guy? Or should I try and maintain contact?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5629 days ago

15 November 2008 (F age 30-35 - Hey...I feel so down at the moment, and it is all down to this one guy. He is in my class, and so far we've been getting along very nicely. I really do think that he likes me. However, he is dropping the subject because: 1. He hates it (everyone in my class does!) 2. He isnt doi... (195 words

Why did he ask for a kiss if he's interested in someone else?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5629 days ago

15 November 2008 (F age 36-40 - What's going on in my life at the moment is really confusing. Me and my ex have been split for around four weeks now, we still are friends and have everyday contact over the phone. Anyway last nite - like most Fridays, I saw him down the pub, hardly spoke to him, when i left... (203 words

Do men ever change their minds in matters of the heart?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5542 days ago

15 November 2008 (F age 41-50 - I've been in love with a man for five years. This year he moved about 40miles away. We didnt speak because of a fight we had for about 8 months. Then one night he called, the next week i went to the hospital very sick. We began talking and i've been working on being really hone... (121 words

I'm really scared that I'm going to somehow mess things up with her, or that she'll cheat.

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15 November 2008 (M age 30-35 - Hi, Forgive me if this sounds a little silly, but if you could help me put my mind to rest I'd appreciate it. I have been seeing a girl at my course at university for the past 3 weeks or so. 3 weeks is a very short time, but I feel like my feelings for her aren't growing ... (219 words

Do you think I still have a chance with him? Or have I messed up big time?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5628 days ago

15 November 2008 (M age 30-35 - dear, whoever wishes to help me im a 18 year old guy and i have been speaking to a 22 year old guy for 3 weeks now, we get on really well. we arranged to meet up yesterday and we did, he was really great a bit shy but great. we watched tele at his for a while the ge... (397 words

What's up with the whole situation? I need some advice...quick!!!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5624 days ago

15 November 2008 (F age 51-59 - I have worked closely with a guy at work for about 2 years and have been attracted to him for about 1 and a 1/2 years. he is very flirtatious on the telepone, eluding to having a relationship, however, on several occasions, when i have asked him to go out, he always "has other ... (223 words

How long does it take for a guy to forget his ex? I don't want to be his rebound!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5630 days ago

15 November 2008 (F age 36-40 - How long does it take for a guy to forget his ex? they had been going out for about three years but they ended it about 5 months ago but i still see his ex's photos in his facebook (one which he put up recently). I kind of like this guy but i don't want to be his rebound. what ... (64 words

Why would he even want to mess around with me if he already had a girlfriend? How can I show him I'm better than her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5629 days ago

15 November 2008 (F age 36-40 - My brother is friends with this guy who happens to be black. When I saw him around I would ways try to make conversation with him but he never talked too much. A few months ago he got a job at my work and started flirting with me. We started talking a lot and hanging out. ... (327 words

I want answers. I'm so confused but desperately need to know.

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15 November 2008 (F age 36-40 - Here's my problem. I had a conversation with a friend the other day about how Japanese men cheat all the time. This conversation raised loads of questions in my mind about my relationship with my ex-boyfriend because he's Japanese. Now, I'm going through torture because I have... (387 words

I feel pain down there since I lost my virginity days ago, what does this mean?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5629 days ago

15 November 2008 (F age 30-35 - i think i lost my virginity but i'm not really sure because i still kind of feel my hymen just slightly down there when i move around my vagina hole.also there has been pain down there since it happened.does that mean it's still there because it happened about four days ago. al... (79 words

We've been texting each other and he seemed keen, then suddenly lost interest, what could it be?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5627 days ago

15 November 2008 (F age 30-35 - it's this guy that i'm into.we have been talking for a while.we are considering starting a relationship i think.he seemed like he was so into me just like maybe a week ago.but then my phone had gotten turned off i hadn't talked to him in five days.i texted him from another ... (116 words

My husband says I should take his last name but I don't want to, how can we resolve this issue?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5629 days ago

15 November 2008 (F age 41-50 - I've been married for around 2 months now; my husband wants me to add his last name to my last name (i.e. Smith Jones). I had always intended to keep my last name as it is (i.e. just Smith) and I had assumed he wouldn't have any issues with it - obviously if we have kids, they ... (320 words

Can you become pregnant while on birth control?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5629 days ago

15 November 2008 (F age 30-35 - Q. So, is it possible to be pregnant while taking birthcontrol? (Story) My boyfriend and I had sex back in mid-Oct. I'm taking birthcontrol, so we didn't think it was nec. to use a condom. I've missed my period, which is unusual. I've been sick vomitting for the past 3 days,... (62 words

I'm getting married and yet thinking about my ex a lot!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5629 days ago

15 November 2008 (F age 30-35 - im 18, and im getting married. dont get me wrong im totally ready for the comitment and i really do love this guy, but recently my ex(first love) came back into my life and now im doing the whole "what if" thing. i know that i want to marry my fiance but he won't let me be frie... (99 words

My ex wants me back, but I doubt his true intentions! Is it because he can't find someone else?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5627 days ago

15 November 2008 (F age 30-35 - So i dated this guy i really liked for a month then he broke up with me,because he liked this girl he worked with and thought he had a chance with her. thought i found this out after, he actually lied about the reason he was breaking up with me. (needing time for himself ect.) ... (210 words

Do bolder colours in bras make breasts seem bigger and why?

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15 November 2008 (? age 26-29 - Heey, im a 32A cup...and with softer coloured bras my breasts look smaller then what they are. when i have bolder colours on, some reason they look bigger. Why is that?... (31 words

She cheated on me, and yet I still think about her, why?

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15 November 2008 (M age 36-40 - I went out with this girl for a year and a half. I really loved her, and I thought, from the way she acted and talked, that she loved me too. About 2 months go we broke up, and afterwords I found out that she had been cheating on me with somone from her work for about 3 months ... (325 words

I'm in love with my best friend, I think I'm gay, help!

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15 November 2008 (F age 26-29 - I think I'm in love with my best friend, I've known her for a couple of years, but we've been through a lot. I have some medical problems, that she helped me through them. I'm not the um well I don't know a lot about sexual stuff, I'm told many times that I'm naive for a ... (284 words

Am I silly to help a guy that is playing games with my heart?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5613 days ago

15 November 2008 (F age 41-50 - I really like a guy in my class. One day, he sent me a text message saying that " BAby.. I miss you." And when i asked him about that, he said he sent me a wrong message; he sent it to his gf. And he told me he didn't know what he did text to me. It sounds really weird be... (234 words

Attracted to him, but don't want another long distance relationship, should I go with the flow?

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15 November 2008 (F age 36-40 - Hi everyone.Im looking for some honest opinions on my situation.I recently started talking to this great guy by chance on a popular gaming website.Just in a matter of a couple days we have really hit it off..it was an immediate spark i guess you could say.By choice,i would ... (240 words

I like this girl who is mean to me, does she really like me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5618 days ago

15 November 2008 (M age 41-50 - there is a girl i like. who i think think doesn't like me back. she talks bad stuff about me. and tells me to shut up, when i was nothing but nice to her. i think it might of evolved into this when i told her i liked her or something. now she hates me? what do u think?... (59 words

Should I express myself to my teacher, I want to know if he likes me, as I think he does?

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15 November 2008 (F age 30-35 - I'm 16, and i have a crush on my teacher. But it feels like so much more than that. It started last april, when we went on a school trip. We were all in one area in the hotel, and he was sitting down. I was standing not too far from him and i just happened to look over at him ... (510 words

I may be his first girlfriend, what do I do here?

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15 November 2008 (F age 30-35 - i have a boyfriend and weve been going out for 2 weeks but i think im his first gf. we havent kissed yet and that sort of bothers me. becuase i really like him. a week ago he told me he didnt even know if he liked me or not and i finally got him to admit that he likes me. wtf. ... (83 words

My boyfriend won't talk to me because I refuse to have sex, what should I do?

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15 November 2008 (? age 30-35 - My boyfriend wants to have sex and I dont because hes not willing to wear a condom. If we're alone he'll pull me close, kiss me we usually start to make out and take off our (just a shirt or something) clothes and he'll try to remove my bra (Im extremely self-conscious about my ... (84 words

Did I lose my virginity?

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15 November 2008 (F age 30-35 - if i am a virgin and someone fingers me and i bleed afterwards did i lose my virginity if i feel it in my heart?like it makes me emotionl.does that mean it's gone?most people say that when you lose it you will remember it for the rest of your life therefore it will be in your ... (67 words

Abuse caused our separation, not interested in a reconcilation, how do I tell him strongly?

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15 November 2008 (F age 41-50 - My husband of 2 years and I seperated in September. He is now begging me to reconcile with him, says he's been going to counseling and feels he is a better person. I really feel I have no interest in being with him again. He was very abusive verbally, emotionally and a little ... (180 words

Any ideas on giving my guy a blast, with great oral sex?

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15 November 2008 (F age 51-59 - My partner says he has never came from getting head. What can I do to make this happen? Any ideas to send him over the top?... (26 words

I broke up with my boyfriend, he has moved on, I love and want him back, what do I do?

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15 November 2008 (F age 36-40 - About a year ago, I broke up with my bf of 5 yrs. I was going through a really hard time, we just had a baby, and i was very confused about if i wanted to be with him. A couple of months after the break up, I started dating this guy. He was great!!! But I started missing my ex ... (184 words

Neither I or my boyfriend can drive, I want to see him, what can we do?

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15 November 2008 (F age 41-50 - I've been with my sweetie for almost 11 months!! I'm extrememly happy!!! So is he! Neither of us can drive. I can't drive because of my vision impairmant (Retinopathy of Prematurity). He can't because his parents don't want him to yet (they don't think he's mature enough ... (148 words

Should I help him anyway?

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15 November 2008 (? age 30-35 - So I have a guy friend who's need failing some classes. Well I think it's because he's not really doing the work and he's freaking out because he might have to be held back (my grades better then his). He asked me if I could help him, I told hm all he just need to do is ... (86 words

I don't want him to think that I'm too " available" for him

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15 November 2008 (F age 36-40 - I have a crush on a guy in my class. He told me he has a girlfriend already and said I should find someone better than him. I want to forget him,but I just can't get him out of my head. Nevertheless, I don't wanna forget him, keep hoping one day he'll like me back. I want to ... (174 words

Can someone tell me if he feels the same way I do?

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15 November 2008 (F age 36-40 - Hi. I am in my mid-20s and I think I'm falling for my old college professor (I'm guessing he's around 50). I had him for several classes. We have kept in touch quite a bit since I've graduated. We saw each other a lot last summer since I was helping him with something in his ... (271 words

Does denial reach the point where she avoids me and tells me to shut up??

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15 November 2008 (M age 41-50 - There is a girl I like but she acts in a way like she is flirting. She is also only mean to me. Every time I walk by she avoids and says shut up. Most of her friends tease her about me and many friends think she is in denial but does denial reach the point where she avoids me ... (89 words

Can you tell me what's going through her mind?

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15 November 2008 (M age 51-59 - I need advice about a situation I'm in. There's a woman I work with that is very out-going, whom I'm very attracted to. I few days ago I invited her out for a drink after work. We had a wonderful time. The conversation came easy, there was a lot of teasing, and all night we ... (394 words

Stuck in Purgatory

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15 November 2008 (F age 41-50 - I think I am the biggest idiot ever born. I think I really fell for a man I met online. I have been talking to him on and off for well over a year, we have lost touch for a couple weeks and lastly for a few months but when we talked again a few weeks ago he told me how much me ... (240 words

How will my reputation be at school if I were to sleep with him?

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15 November 2008 (F age 26-29 - Dear cupid; I'm a 14 year old girl who is being sought by a 17 year old senior at my high shcool. He is unsure whether I like him or not, I think becuause his friends are feeding him the wrong info, so I don't know how to make him know I really like him too! but if we do start... (142 words

My Mom has a fever and I don't know what to do!

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15 November 2008 (F age 26-29 - help me i'm freaking out! my mom has a fever and i don't know what to do i'm really worried we're the only two in the house and i'm only 13 years old what should i do?... (37 words

Would 7 inches be too painful for the girl if we had sex?

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15 November 2008 (M age 30-35 - I'm 16. When erect, my penis is just over 7 inches (1 inch over average). I was watching a program tonight about the worlds biggest penis and it said that women can be hurt from deep penetration if the penis is too big. Would 7 inches be too painful for the girl? And what siz... (70 words

Do I make him jealous to get even?

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15 November 2008 (F - I'm really confused on what to do here. If I should change the way I'm acting with him orr? There's a boy in my school who I really like a lot and he says he feels the same about me. We find it hard talking in person, but on msn and text it's fine and all good =] We talk ... (224 words

Could I be reading too much into it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5630 days ago

15 November 2008 (F - I am hoping some of the great agony aunts on this site can help me. There is a guy that I work with who I have noticed and who has noticed me. I see him looking at me when I he thinks no one can see. When we are with a group of colleagues he will turn in a stance to include me. ... (174 words

I'm sick and I need help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5619 days ago

15 November 2008 (F age 30-35 - okay, I REALLY need an answer, so here lately for the past week and a half or so I've been really sick, nauseas, shaking, feeling sick sometimes when the car starts moving, etc, what could this be? I had a fever last night but I think its gone now. I have no idea whats going on ... (74 words

Love at first headbutt gone terribly wrong... help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5630 days ago

15 November 2008 (F age 30-35 - Ok well lets start at the beginning. Its time for outside sources to give me a fresh outlook on this. A year ago i met this man at a heavy metal club (as it happens we only got to talking because he accidently head butted me while headbanging). Nonetheless, i was smitten from ... (282 words

Any tips on how to ask her out? Face to face? Text? MSN?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5628 days ago

15 November 2008 (M age 36-40 - A quick and shortish question really. I like this girl and we have got together and kissed on two separate occasions now, i think it can go further and could lead somewhere, but there is one thing, i dont know how to ask her out? Any one got any tips for this? Text? MSN? Fac... (78 words

I still feel uncomfortable accepting myself as gay!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5627 days ago

15 November 2008 (M age 30-35 - Hey there guys and guyesses! Well I am openly and surely gay, I have a boyfriend who i think the world of, but the thing is i still feel really uncomfortable with accepting myself as being gay. I mean when you get some friends who you haven't seen for a while and they ask you ... (191 words

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