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11 July 2010: Nothing! Several situations can be mistaken to mean something more, when they truly don't carry much significance. For example: The friend you've been crushing on for the last six months accepts your third attempt at a friend request, and...
What to do when the person you're attracted to is already taken.
This question has 7 answers by readers of DearCupid.ORG.
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7 July 2010: Run the hell away. I've seen several questions of this nature on the site. It seems like a simple problem, although in reality it's not. It's complicated and messy, and almost always leaves one person's emotions in ruins while the other enjoys hav...
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Need to get my rocks off before settling down... but it may be too late
Q. Ok, so my fiance has pretty much made me feel as though I'm Satan himself for even considering asking questions like this, but here it goes. We got engaged in February and I really love this girl, I want to marry her (hence the engagement... duh). ...
A. 25 August 2009: It's typical of men that are mentally immature to take the route of playing the victim when they're not getting what they want. You're basically telling your fiancee she's not good enough. You obviously shouldn't be getting married to anyone if ... (read in full...)
I can't trust him... I really need help to control this obsessive behaviour!
Q. Please Help! Hi, I am having major problems trusting my boyfriend after he cheated and lied for the first year. We got together very soon after he broke up from a long term relationship...I think I should have been his rebound but we fell in love,...
A. 25 August 2009: There is such a thing as an emotional affair, yes. But if he's made it clear he regrets not being honest with you and that it will never go any further with his ex, the only thing you should be worrying about is moving past it. Keeping your ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend rarely shows me affection. Help!
Q. So i've been with my girlfriend for almost 2 years now and she finds it hard to show me affection. We have pet names for each other (Muffin/Puffin) And I call her Muffin all the time and she rarely calls me Puffin. Point being is that she finds it ...
A. 25 August 2009: Not everyone is the same. Some are even uncomfortable with showing affection or being on the receiving end of it, regardless of how deep their feelings for someone might be. The best thing you could do is back off a bit. The worst case scenario ... (read in full...)
I'm not a monogamous guy - will there ever be another woman like her?
Q. My ex-girlfriend and I broke up just over ten years ago after a seven year relationship. I'll admit, I wasn't the nicest guy in the world. I did cheat on her and left her for other women several times throughout our relationship. Well, now I'm 42 ...
A. 25 August 2009: Are you serious? You clearly need to grow up, and learn to respect women enough to stop indulging in your immaturity and selfish attitude. The worst part is you sound completely unapologetic, and seem to think treating another human being that way ... (read in full...)
My heart cannot survive this hurt!
Q. I have been with my boyfriend off and on for 16yrs... in this time i found out i cannot carry a child. he left me 8 yrs ago...got a girl pregnant and i took him back i felt i could not give this to him so i accepted his child as my own. well low a...
A. 25 August 2009: No one deserves to be treated in such a way. He doesn't deserve to be with someone kind enough to take in his child as her own, regardless of the circumstances.
Leave him and find someone that will respect you enough to be honest with you. You... (read in full...)
He's paying for everything for his ex -- is he playing me for a fool?
Q. my boyfriend and I have been together for 5 years. at first he was paying everthing for his and his ex wife house because he has a 16 year old daughter. She is now almost 20 years old and living with her boyfriend. My boyfriend is still paying ...
A. 25 August 2009: You're wasting your time with him, honestly. It seems as though he's incapable of standing up for himself and being assertive towards his ex, and from what you've said it sounds like he's never going to change, no matter what you do or say. People ... (read in full...)
I don't want to seem like a hermit but I really hate partying. Any ideas?
Q. I am about to start uni and I have a problem. I hate partying, clubbing, and drinking. When friends invite me to things in the past I usually try to come up with an excuse not to go. I force myself to go to really important occasions like ...
A. 25 August 2009: I've been in a very similar situation. All my friends ever wanted to do was drink, go clubbing, and hook up with men. I never understood why people would think drinking themselves into a coma was a fun way to pass time, and felt like such an ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend wants to break uo with me. How can I stop her?
Q. My girlfriend of 7 months wants to break-up, because I love her, but she doesn't love me. She says she, "wants to stop hurting me". What can I do!?...
A. 25 August 2009: There's nothing you can do, and it would be selfish to make her stay in a relationship she doesn't want to be a part of.... (read in full...)
Threesome with her virgin friend?
Q. i have have been dating this girl for about a year that i care strongly for and she cares for me the same but i was wondering if it would be okay if we had a threesome with her friend? there is only one thing her friend is a virgin what should i do? ...
A. 25 August 2009: Considering your girlfriend's friend is a virgin, chances are she's not going to be ready for something as emotionally complicated as a threesome.... (read in full...)
When I tell guys I'm dating that sex is important to me, they laugh! Is what I'm saying weird?
Q. Hello So, i have been single for around six or seven months and it does not bother me (right now), i get alot of attention from guys and go on many dates, the problem is if im not sleeping with the guy on the third/fourth date or time i see t...
A. 24 August 2009: I imagine these men laugh because the situation you're presenting seems confusing, and they're not sure how to react. There's nothing wrong with wanting to be in a serious relationship before sleeping with someone, but most people aren't ready for... (read in full...)
I want to see a gynecologist but what to tell my mother so she doesn't know I'm sexually active?
Q. Hello everyone, I want to see an obgyn for a general check-up. but I don't want my mom to know I'm sexually active(we don't have the best relationship where we can share everything). if I ask to see an obgyn she is gonna think im sexually activ...
A. 24 August 2009: At your age, your mother has every right to know if you're physically involved with someone. Hiding it won't be easy if something unexpected comes up like an STD or even pregnancy, and she'll likely react worse after finding out you weren't honest ... (read in full...)
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